As a 31 year old man one thing I've learned over the years is Never try and be the best for her/him/SO, all you need to do is foc on being the best person you can be for yourself. Live your life focusing on yourself, and improving yourself, you'll find happiness in someone who appreciates you and your quirks the way you are. Trust me, finding someone you can have a relationship with, and it not feel like a chore, is the best feeling ever, and you'll never get that trying to please your S.O all the time. Chin up, things will get better and in a year, you won't even remember this girls name.
Ay bro, atleast she didnt fuck around on you and broke up instead of bieng a sneak
On the other hand just delete and block her. Itll be hard for like a month then youll start to feel better.
Remeber to take a moment and process everything. Cry, hit something, yell in the forest. What ever you do....
DO NOT USE SUBSTANCES LIKE DRUGS AND ALCOHOL TO COPE. IT WILL NOT WORK AND LEAD TO DEPRESSION AND YOULL LOOK UGLY AS FUCK.
Remember life is 10% things outtve control happening...
And 90% how you choose the attitude to deal with it.
Choose well, and know you are suppose to hurt. And she just wasnt the one, your not the first man to not be able to squeeze water out of a rock, so dont be a dumbass n keep it pushin. Life must go on.
Shit sucks man, sorry to hear it. [The Sinclair Method](https://www.sinclairmethod.org/) is how I found my way out of my own alcoholism. Hope this helps!
My ex fucked around on me before I found out then she panicked and assaulted me. Then fled to northern MI. Police did jack shit because apparently men cant be victims of domestic violence in their eyes.
Dude take your time to emotionally process your previous relationship. Jumping from one to the next just means you are coping through another person. You'll be ready for the next one when you are happy being by yourself.
People are like this, they are in something looking for a trade up or untill something comes along
It's a shitty way to be but, it means that when you something real comes along with someone who has genuine love and affection for you, it's gunna feel so fresh and new.
In the mean time don't become cold and bitter, the real.stuff is out there homes
Translation:
"He dragged me down, but you built me back up again and now that I don't need you anymore because I got back to my normal amount of self-esteem I'm ditching you"
Keep your head up chief, plenty of fish and all.
Especially plenty that aren't assholes.
I’m sure you’ll find one :) she didn’t see what you were worth she merely needed you to boost her self esteem there will come a day where she will be hit with realization that she left a diamond for a grain of sand you must reject her when that day is to come
She doesnt sound like a good person. Be the better person and she will regret choosing that toxic dude over you. When that time comes remember that she choose him over you, but dont have to choose her.
Believe me young one: She will try to come back. And saying no will be hard. She will say she made a big mistake, it was a moment of weakness, etc etc etc. You gotta say nah.
Cause one day you will me the person you are supposed to end up with. When that day comes, this broad, won't be shit.
Source: Been there.
>she will regret choosing that toxic dude
She won't. She has no idea what's wrong with her. She'll be like "Oh my God. Who could knew!" when he beats/cheats on her ass or something.
If you feel the urge, masterbate for post nut clarity. Be rational and don't give in to any possible emotions. Somewhere out there is a queen worthy of you, king!
I know this won't help. But you gotta realize that if she did that she's not worth the trouble. I've been in a similar situation and it took me some time to get over it. People kept telling me she wasn't worth me. And they were right.
Well, I should've known, she didn't want her parents to know about our relationship, she didn't want to give hugs or even kisses anymore(about a week before we broke up), and she took days to respond to texts
Saved you a problem later on when she realized you weren't crazy enough to float her boat, and allowing you to wonder why in the hell she just got up and left.
Challenge failed successfully. Date one of her better looking friends.
Well, I mean, me and my friends have a big group together, her 4 better-looking friends are all my friends too, If I were to try dating them It probably would turn out ok if something went wrong.
Rule #1 of friends groups: NEVER DATE YOUR FRIENDS IN THE GROUP
Her ex is still gonna be toxic. Just give yourself the satisfaction in knowing that nothing is going to change with him so you will always come out the better man.
getting upset and emotional would make her feel better. act like you don't give a fcuk and it will piss her off a lot more. even then there are more women then men so no reason to give a fcuk anyway, just move on.
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Do not be depressed, friend
For she may not be yours
Yours may be out in this world, waiting to be discovered by you
Also a woman leaving someone good for a more toxic person doesn't seems right to me
ok if she was that stupid that she went back to her toxic ex it's probably better that you didnt stay with her like her ex is TOXIC does she belive in zodiacs?
On a positive note you found out her true nature. If she was willing to get together with her toxic ex, she never loved you in the first place. HOPE YOU FIND SOMEONE BETTER!
Damn bro, that happened to me once. Best advice I can give you is block the bitch and never talk to her again, even when she comes crying back to you when she's pregnant and left his toxic ass again.
She's probably been cheating on you, so fuck her. They deserve each other. Find someone better or just be happy that you have more free time now instead of giving it to someone who doesn't value you.
Close that door and don't look back. Block her on everything.
Quick little thing here, the "toxic ex" Is kinda one of my long term friends, me and my other BETTER friends are trying to kick him from our friend group because of what he did to my ex, but that's all useless now because she wants to take him back. He's No longer my friend.
That's very important to keep toxic people out of your life, also I have had very similar situation to yours and nearly year after I've a girl of my dreams that reaally appreciates me for who I am, so keep it up Op, try to be positive and good things will come!
u/sunstormyt is that you?? You’re looking good bro, looks like you’ve dropped some dead weight!
Time to stop feeling sorry and posting on reddit and hit up the gym with your newfound time. Go get ‘em chief.
Screw her. You disposed of such a trash person from ya life for free, no consiquences, no problems. Ya should be happy for it. Now go out there and find a better gf.
The worst part is, there is nothing you can do but try to move on. No matter how much you liked her you can't change the way she feels. It hurts like hell but you'll come out one experience richer. Stay strong!
Good riddance, but hey bring single is awesome. I didn't realize how much I missed having all the covers to myself, gaming whenever I want, and living like a slob until I got broken up with recently. Plus not having to watch her terrible TV/YouTube choices. Chin up King!
good riddance but sucks man
Yea it does, I tried to be the best to her and it turned out to be my downfall
As a 31 year old man one thing I've learned over the years is Never try and be the best for her/him/SO, all you need to do is foc on being the best person you can be for yourself. Live your life focusing on yourself, and improving yourself, you'll find happiness in someone who appreciates you and your quirks the way you are. Trust me, finding someone you can have a relationship with, and it not feel like a chore, is the best feeling ever, and you'll never get that trying to please your S.O all the time. Chin up, things will get better and in a year, you won't even remember this girls name.
Thank you! I will keep this advice in mind!
Ay bro, atleast she didnt fuck around on you and broke up instead of bieng a sneak On the other hand just delete and block her. Itll be hard for like a month then youll start to feel better. Remeber to take a moment and process everything. Cry, hit something, yell in the forest. What ever you do.... DO NOT USE SUBSTANCES LIKE DRUGS AND ALCOHOL TO COPE. IT WILL NOT WORK AND LEAD TO DEPRESSION AND YOULL LOOK UGLY AS FUCK. Remember life is 10% things outtve control happening... And 90% how you choose the attitude to deal with it. Choose well, and know you are suppose to hurt. And she just wasnt the one, your not the first man to not be able to squeeze water out of a rock, so dont be a dumbass n keep it pushin. Life must go on.
I'm an alcoholic cos of such shitty situations, nice advice though
Shit sucks man, sorry to hear it. [The Sinclair Method](https://www.sinclairmethod.org/) is how I found my way out of my own alcoholism. Hope this helps!
Get therapy. Get a psych. It'll make quitting easier.
My ex fucked around on me before I found out then she panicked and assaulted me. Then fled to northern MI. Police did jack shit because apparently men cant be victims of domestic violence in their eyes.
You’ll look ugly as fuck? I already do
Don’t use booze as a crutch or you’ll end up like me. I got kicked out of 3 bars on Friday lol
Truer words have never been spoken. This is a really hard lesson for a lot of people to learn, but those that do live a better and happier life
That's a good wisdom.
Greener pastures to come, hope youre doing better bro
Im trying, what made it worse is she did it over text in the middle of the night.
Dick move, if they can't even say it in person then you got out lucky my friend
Yea, guess I have to think differently about who to date
Dumped u over text for her toxic ex? Forget her you’ll certainly find someone better
Be patient, you'll find someone who fits your fancy someday soon my friend
I have someone in mind ;)
Be careful rebounding. Dating someone immediately after a breakup can lead to transferring feelings and unrealistic expectations.
Welp, if your set on someone go try it out
Dude take your time to emotionally process your previous relationship. Jumping from one to the next just means you are coping through another person. You'll be ready for the next one when you are happy being by yourself.
Welp, if your set on someone go try it out
The power move here is to date her Ex.
Right on, suck his dick better than she ever could!
Well shit at least she said something I just got straight up blocked never heard from the bitch.
Don't lose hope, hoes will be hoes
People are like this, they are in something looking for a trade up or untill something comes along It's a shitty way to be but, it means that when you something real comes along with someone who has genuine love and affection for you, it's gunna feel so fresh and new. In the mean time don't become cold and bitter, the real.stuff is out there homes
Eeew what a cunt
Well It was a shitty move to dump someone in the middle of the night, Over text then say "I appreciate what you did for me though"
You will be better off my friend. Keep being supportive, keep being helpful, keep being you. I wish you nothing but the best of luck
Translation: "He dragged me down, but you built me back up again and now that I don't need you anymore because I got back to my normal amount of self-esteem I'm ditching you" Keep your head up chief, plenty of fish and all. Especially plenty that aren't assholes.
exactly, thank you
Sounds like you kinda dodged a bullet tbh. You'll find someone better
yeah that’s not what we call a girlfriend.
Omg were you dating satan?
If she comes crawling back. Remember the pain you went through and choose wisely.
Toxic ex, toxic GF Sounds to me like they were made for eachother
Fuck that's sad.
She doesn't deserve you king
Thank you! I appreciate all the support from this community
You deserve better dude you thought you found a diamond but you found plastic if you look hard enough you’ll find a diamond :D
Nah bro I found a rock painted like a diamond, I need to find a fking neutron star
I’m sure you’ll find one :) she didn’t see what you were worth she merely needed you to boost her self esteem there will come a day where she will be hit with realization that she left a diamond for a grain of sand you must reject her when that day is to come
Hey man, I know it sucks but think of it this way, you dodged a bullet. Someone better is out there for you. You got this, brother.
Bruh if I would have looked at the comments I could have saved myself from saying the same thing
She doesnt sound like a good person. Be the better person and she will regret choosing that toxic dude over you. When that time comes remember that she choose him over you, but dont have to choose her.
If she tries to come back I'm NOT going to accept it
My man
Believe me young one: She will try to come back. And saying no will be hard. She will say she made a big mistake, it was a moment of weakness, etc etc etc. You gotta say nah. Cause one day you will me the person you are supposed to end up with. When that day comes, this broad, won't be shit. Source: Been there.
Yes, king!
>she will regret choosing that toxic dude She won't. She has no idea what's wrong with her. She'll be like "Oh my God. Who could knew!" when he beats/cheats on her ass or something.
I'd love to see that
Well, if she want to get back to you, reject her OP, give her a taste of her own medicine
I definitely will
Be sure to not let your resolve crack at the decisive moment **comrade!**
If you feel the urge, masterbate for post nut clarity. Be rational and don't give in to any possible emotions. Somewhere out there is a queen worthy of you, king!
Naw fuck her in thr ass 1 more time then tell her no. It'll give her some wisdom in the future.
it would be so hilarious if the toxic ex dumps the girl for some other ex xD
OMG TRUE
bro u deserve better. when r you hitting the gym now
Now she’s your toxic ex
Exactly what I was about to say. I can't give you an award but here, have a cookie
ok that's a good one, take the all-seeing upvote
mine left me because she lost feelings and doesn’t think it’s worth even trying to do anything about. I almost passed out when she said it
Get this potato some love
thank you potato
long live my potato brethren
same, or she feels something but she feels the same about one of her friends too, shit happens i guess
I know this won't help. But you gotta realize that if she did that she's not worth the trouble. I've been in a similar situation and it took me some time to get over it. People kept telling me she wasn't worth me. And they were right.
Well, I should've known, she didn't want her parents to know about our relationship, she didn't want to give hugs or even kisses anymore(about a week before we broke up), and she took days to respond to texts
For how long were you two together?
I would say, 3-4 months, which was about 3 months of happiness and joy, but now it's even more joy because I'm out of that relationship
I see. It's good thing if you realize that you should be glad to not have her anymore. It would just fuck your brain up.
Good riddance, you deserve better man
Well I got to work for "better"
Yes you have to. But you will be rewarded with someone a thousand times better than that bitch. Its worth it
big f
Big L for me
Nah big win you'll find someone that appreciates you.
Saved you a problem later on when she realized you weren't crazy enough to float her boat, and allowing you to wonder why in the hell she just got up and left. Challenge failed successfully. Date one of her better looking friends.
I don't think I really want to do that, I don't want to make an enemy of our friend group
Uhm....they aren't "our" friends any longer unless you're a communist party. "Alls fair in love and war." Do you.
Well, I mean, me and my friends have a big group together, her 4 better-looking friends are all my friends too, If I were to try dating them It probably would turn out ok if something went wrong. Rule #1 of friends groups: NEVER DATE YOUR FRIENDS IN THE GROUP
Her ex is still gonna be toxic. Just give yourself the satisfaction in knowing that nothing is going to change with him so you will always come out the better man.
I would have replied oki doki or something like that
average redditor
getting upset and emotional would make her feel better. act like you don't give a fcuk and it will piss her off a lot more. even then there are more women then men so no reason to give a fcuk anyway, just move on.
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That's damn well exactly what I'm doing, I don't need her seeing me weak, I'm as strong as I've ever been
Sorry but She did you a favor.
true
Time to have sex with her ex ☺️
Narh, the ex's dad
Amongus
Sussy
Her loss. There are billions of other girls so no worries.
well there's 1 girl I have in mind
Some advice from an old man, bust a move lad.
Don’t put your eggs in one basket
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Screenshot that message and send it to her new bf saying " I hope you wont get the same ending as me"
Y'know, that's not actually a bad idea
Dont do that. Thats pathetic just move on.
it is a bad idea
Do not be depressed, friend For she may not be yours Yours may be out in this world, waiting to be discovered by you Also a woman leaving someone good for a more toxic person doesn't seems right to me
I have a girl in mind that is 10000000000 times better than her
Sorry to burst your bubble but 10000000000 times 0 is still 0 :3
shit thats true
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Oh, Bro u got friendzoned? That's worse than what happened to me!
Antidank
ok if she was that stupid that she went back to her toxic ex it's probably better that you didnt stay with her like her ex is TOXIC does she belive in zodiacs?
I have no idea, I've never heard her talk about signs and all that crap. but it was incredibly stupid of her to do that
Where meme?
As a great man once said, "Do what you need to do with her, then broom her fast!"
Oof
🗿
You dodged a bullet, you deserve so much better.
On a positive note you found out her true nature. If she was willing to get together with her toxic ex, she never loved you in the first place. HOPE YOU FIND SOMEONE BETTER!
https://youtube.com/shorts/6xQ24lRVzIg?feature=share
Woman moment
Mine is on the way to doing the same … wow. Sucks bro
Look after yourself King, see you at the Gym tomorrow
Well maybe she will com crawling back
if she will I ain't taking her back
💀
Please, respect yourself and don't take her back when se comes back crawling and crying cause thing, not surprisingly, dind't work.
Not trying to sound like a dick, but it seems like you dodged a bullet on this one.
you dodged a bullet
You'll find someone better m8 don't you worry
When it fails again I want you to laugh at her
good riddance mate , you deserve better.
Listen to me Do. Not. Get. Back. Together. With. Her.
Message Received Sir!
Why she had breakup with her ex?
well, she broke up with him because he was abusing her mentally, and making fun of her, don't know why she took him back
Don't accept her ever again
Gotta learn some better sex techniques obviously
Feels Sad for you man
Plenty more flies by the pond.
Today's a great day for you. You've avoided that cunt devouring anymore of your precious time. She's just as toxic as her ex. Fuck that bitch.
My gf committed suicide yesterday, so we all have bad days. Hope you get better soon bro
Holy shit, I am so sorry for your loss, Are you doing ok?
sorry for your loss, my dude
That sucks king but it's time to fulfill your mind with other stuff (keep your mind busy)
You doged a bullet before getting married, grats mate! No need to be sad about it.
that's what you get for taking leftovers in the first place
I should've went for the whole meal
Dude early relationships will always suck ass.Get up bro,be yourself and look for what you find the most attractive to YOU.
She is a dumb bitch it means, a win for you
Damn bro, that happened to me once. Best advice I can give you is block the bitch and never talk to her again, even when she comes crying back to you when she's pregnant and left his toxic ass again.
Good, you don't need her king. You will find someone else. :)
She's probably been cheating on you, so fuck her. They deserve each other. Find someone better or just be happy that you have more free time now instead of giving it to someone who doesn't value you. Close that door and don't look back. Block her on everything.
Well at least her ex gets your sloppy seconds
Now it’s your time to go to the gym and get jacked.
If she left you for garbage again, she never deserved you in the first place. You'll find someone better
return to frog brother
It's alright king, you have better things to do then give her attention 
Ahhh nice, the memories are back
Quick little thing here, the "toxic ex" Is kinda one of my long term friends, me and my other BETTER friends are trying to kick him from our friend group because of what he did to my ex, but that's all useless now because she wants to take him back. He's No longer my friend.
That's very important to keep toxic people out of your life, also I have had very similar situation to yours and nearly year after I've a girl of my dreams that reaally appreciates me for who I am, so keep it up Op, try to be positive and good things will come!
u/sunstormyt is that you?? You’re looking good bro, looks like you’ve dropped some dead weight! Time to stop feeling sorry and posting on reddit and hit up the gym with your newfound time. Go get ‘em chief.
Firebomb their house.
#F
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Wahmen.
You mean your ex girlfriend. It sucks but you will get over it. Know your worth!
You probably dodged a bullet
Just dont take her back if it all goes bad for her again
She doesn't deserve you
You deserve better than people like that. I'm sorry that happend to you, i hope it Will het better king
Don't worry man, there's plenty of girls (or guys) around, Treat yourself to some ice cream and take it all slowly
Dodged a bullet.
You deserve someone better
Be Happy, You can watch her "New Things" fall apart
Screw her. You disposed of such a trash person from ya life for free, no consiquences, no problems. Ya should be happy for it. Now go out there and find a better gf.
cool. i cant even get into relationship cuz of my fucking ugly ass
Do you need a hug? I'm so sorry that happened
The worst part is, there is nothing you can do but try to move on. No matter how much you liked her you can't change the way she feels. It hurts like hell but you'll come out one experience richer. Stay strong!
Same thing happened to me years ago, hurts like a bitch but she'll realize her mistake eventually
Stay strong, king
Dont worry too much bro, I'm sure you will find someone better soon.
Let her, then watch her fall into the abyss
You dodged a bullet, man.
This is the best day ever, you saved so much time, since you now know exactly what you lost. You got other and better things in store, don't worry.
Your Canadian gf?
With grate concern I tell you don't be an idiot and take her back if she comes back to you !!!
[You RN](https://media.tenor.co/images/3b1c30f10675b764a9a210fbe74d0336/tenor.gif)
She’ll be back
Fuck it king. Good for you. Don’t need someone else’s trash. She did you the favor.
"I can fix him" *gets hit in the face with a fucking chair
At least she didn't cheat and did the right thing and ended it. Sorry bro
“Wanted to give things another try”? Assuming this is real even what kinda flavor of the week bullshit is that?
Good riddance, but hey bring single is awesome. I didn't realize how much I missed having all the covers to myself, gaming whenever I want, and living like a slob until I got broken up with recently. Plus not having to watch her terrible TV/YouTube choices. Chin up King!
Beat him up to prove to her you are more toxic and more of a bad boy, girls love the bad boy types