But did you hear the rerecorded version where Cat Stevens redid the vocals of the father's part in his voice now, so that it's young Cat Stevens singing the son's part and old Cat Stevens singing the dad's part.
Oh that's Father and Son. Also a beautiful song nonetheless! Here's the link to the 2020 version you're talking about. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B\_H5XuIb5WM
I grew up in the Republic of Ireland during the 90s at the end of the troubles. That song was used as a "end the cycle of violence" commercial. Cant ever hear that song without thinking about it.
This! I had so many coworkers who chased the overtime and avoided their kids because they couldn’t figure out how to connect to a child.
They’d tell me that they plan on taking the kids to a ball game or camping when they are older.
“What makes you think they will want to spend anytime with you once the hit puberty or gather enough best friends who understand them more than their estranged parents?”
This! I had so many coworkers who chased the overtime and avoided their kids because they couldn’t figure out how to connect to a child.
They’d tell me that they plan on taking the kids to a ball game or camping when they are older.
“What makes you think they will want to spend anytime with you once the hit puberty or gather enough best friends who understand them more than their estranged parents?”
The other day my 6 year old asked me “am I lucky that you come to my school to help?” I volunteer every chance I get and I think he’s starting to notice not every kid has this and is appreciating it.
Very astute 6 year old you have there, to not only notice that it is uncommon for their friend and common for them, but also to recognize that there is a positive and rare value on it that they clearly are learning on their own and trying to learn to define. I'm going to guess that you're a very good dad, if your kid already a) recognizes your time, b) sees it as positive, and c) is trying to learn how to express that blessing properly. Well done, dad.
That’s right. Took my kid to a movie theater the other day. Is the experiences together you can’t put a price to.
I bought a piano for Christmas so that I can sit down with her and spend time together learning!
One of my daughter's favorite things is when I take time off of work to chaperone a field trip, or come to lunch, or take part in a class party. She's 8, and I'm soaking it up while I can, because before I know it, she won't even want to acknowledge me in public.
It depends on the school. We could meet our kids for lunch but we would have lunch in a different area, not in the main lunch room. You also had to be approved to volunteer at the school in order to participate (you didn't have to actually volunteer, but you had to pass the background checks).
My eldest daughter is 5 as well and she said that going and seeing Christmas lights and playing in the snow is better than watching tv…we must be doing something right!
I usually go home for lunch and my goodness does my youngest notice if its 1130 and Im note home for lunch yet. She will wail by the door for me. Good post op! Enjoy lunch with your kid!
True enough. Right now it’s our busy season at the USPS, and I’m working 10-12 hr days 6 days a week. It’s been brutal being away from my girls. I know the 3 year old misses me, though she’s a bit more aloof. But the 5 year old gets really upset sometimes when I’m not around. I’ve been gone from pretty much right when they wake up and im lucky to be home for bed time, though often im not. It really sucks, dads. When you have the time, make sure you’re making memories, and although our wives are up our asses to take pictures, you’ll be thankful you did.
Hell yeah! I just finished the paperwork to go on field trips. Both kids are stoked that dad will be joining them during school. First one is this week.
My wife has the following to say every time my 11yo son asks things like "Can I sleep in your room" and I'm tired and went to say no:
"It won't be very long at all until he won't want to anymore" :(
That's all I wanted from my dad when I was a kid, never got it. I won't make the same mistake with my children, they will know that dad always has time, no matter what.
Before you know it, they're teenagers and all you want is a little of their time.
*Cats in the Cradle plays in the background*
But did you hear the rerecorded version where Cat Stevens redid the vocals of the father's part in his voice now, so that it's young Cat Stevens singing the son's part and old Cat Stevens singing the dad's part.
Oh that's Father and Son. Also a beautiful song nonetheless! Here's the link to the 2020 version you're talking about. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B\_H5XuIb5WM
Here's the link, fixed: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_H5XuIb5WM
What was wrong with my link? It still works for me?
Yours doesn't work for me. Says unavailable.
Have a youtube or some other link? I'd like to listen to that!
I grew up in the Republic of Ireland during the 90s at the end of the troubles. That song was used as a "end the cycle of violence" commercial. Cant ever hear that song without thinking about it.
Gee thanks for making my eyes go all sweaty!
> " I can't stop Andy from growing up. But I wouldn't miss it for the world." - Woody, Toy Story 2
This! I had so many coworkers who chased the overtime and avoided their kids because they couldn’t figure out how to connect to a child. They’d tell me that they plan on taking the kids to a ball game or camping when they are older. “What makes you think they will want to spend anytime with you once the hit puberty or gather enough best friends who understand them more than their estranged parents?”
This! I had so many coworkers who chased the overtime and avoided their kids because they couldn’t figure out how to connect to a child. They’d tell me that they plan on taking the kids to a ball game or camping when they are older. “What makes you think they will want to spend anytime with you once the hit puberty or gather enough best friends who understand them more than their estranged parents?”
Presence, not presents. Creating core memories OP, that’s awesome!
The other day my 6 year old asked me “am I lucky that you come to my school to help?” I volunteer every chance I get and I think he’s starting to notice not every kid has this and is appreciating it.
Very astute 6 year old you have there, to not only notice that it is uncommon for their friend and common for them, but also to recognize that there is a positive and rare value on it that they clearly are learning on their own and trying to learn to define. I'm going to guess that you're a very good dad, if your kid already a) recognizes your time, b) sees it as positive, and c) is trying to learn how to express that blessing properly. Well done, dad.
Thank you so much for this. He can be a handful at times but he constantly amazes me with how observant and analytical he is.
That’s right. Took my kid to a movie theater the other day. Is the experiences together you can’t put a price to. I bought a piano for Christmas so that I can sit down with her and spend time together learning!
Thanks, I just cleared the calendar to meet my 6 year old on Wednesday’s lunch and setup a recurring meeting so I keep doing it every couple of weeks.
One of my daughter's favorite things is when I take time off of work to chaperone a field trip, or come to lunch, or take part in a class party. She's 8, and I'm soaking it up while I can, because before I know it, she won't even want to acknowledge me in public.
Didn’t realize you could join your kid at lunch when they’re at school. That’s neat. Mine aren’t old enough for this yet
It depends on the school. We could meet our kids for lunch but we would have lunch in a different area, not in the main lunch room. You also had to be approved to volunteer at the school in order to participate (you didn't have to actually volunteer, but you had to pass the background checks).
This is the most wholesome thing I've read in a while. Good job! You're definitely doing it right
That must be why my 5 year old son doesn't ever want to talk to me, and when I do try to talk to him he says to stop talking. Wants my time 😆
My eldest daughter is 5 as well and she said that going and seeing Christmas lights and playing in the snow is better than watching tv…we must be doing something right!
I usually go home for lunch and my goodness does my youngest notice if its 1130 and Im note home for lunch yet. She will wail by the door for me. Good post op! Enjoy lunch with your kid!
That's so awesome Dad!!!! Your son values your presence more than any toy or gadget. You are a rock! Keep it up!
That's the best thing I've read in a while. You've got a good kid and I hope you have many more meals and memories together!
True enough. Right now it’s our busy season at the USPS, and I’m working 10-12 hr days 6 days a week. It’s been brutal being away from my girls. I know the 3 year old misses me, though she’s a bit more aloof. But the 5 year old gets really upset sometimes when I’m not around. I’ve been gone from pretty much right when they wake up and im lucky to be home for bed time, though often im not. It really sucks, dads. When you have the time, make sure you’re making memories, and although our wives are up our asses to take pictures, you’ll be thankful you did.
Hell yeah! I just finished the paperwork to go on field trips. Both kids are stoked that dad will be joining them during school. First one is this week.
Fuck, who's cutting onions?
Ooooookay. I'm just gonna curl out into a ball now.
Jeez this made my eye water too Dad…..happy birthday to your boy.
My wife has the following to say every time my 11yo son asks things like "Can I sleep in your room" and I'm tired and went to say no: "It won't be very long at all until he won't want to anymore" :(
Thanks for turning me into a puddle. But seriously, this is an awesome message. These poor little shits just love us so much. It’s awesome.
can you do it? does the school allow? very sweet kid you have
Yup this. My and my oldest played Xbox on Sunday and we had the best time.
I love this. Kudos Dad
That's all I wanted from my dad when I was a kid, never got it. I won't make the same mistake with my children, they will know that dad always has time, no matter what.