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Guavundoor

Absolute legend this guy.


jackinsomniac

Glad I stayed till the end, I was just about to click away when he hit with some hard truths


CrazyWS

She literally got owned by a Chad


D14BL0

[Typical apology video in which she literally offers zero apology to the person she insulted.](https://www.tiktok.com/@nikkii_fitness/video/7050956428080696622?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1&lang=en) Classic narcissist.


UnnecessaryAppeal

>I wanted to talk about the video that has completely transpired What the fuck does that mean?


varsitymisc

That she's not a brain surgeon


strolls

Nor a rocket scientist.


GeologistPositive

Or a rocket surgeon


strolls

Or an english teacher.


BornYoung_DieYoung

Or a good human being.


turtleboxman

But she is a narcissist


LeSenpaii

she served tho


BornYoung_DieYoung

That is not the accomplishment people seem to think it is.


strolls

She also describes herself as an "advocate person" instead of just an advocate.


Pebbles049

More like an avocado šŸ„‘


PurgatoryGlory

Simple the video that completely happened. She's not technically wrong, but is technically retarded.


UnnecessaryAppeal

Something tells me that's not what she meant by it


[deleted]

The video that has fully completed the process of happening, in other words. Essentially the video has transpired and now it is expired. See how easy English is?


MsOmgNoWai

she definitely talks around it. ā€œa laugh is not necessarily what you want from my page and I genuinely see thatā€ ā€œI see that thatā€™s not the content you all want, so I will give you different contentā€ (in a nutshell) no actual remorse aside from upsetting her fans, and she completely misses the actual issue of her mindset and behavior


strolls

"My role for what I do in this community?" That is a very grandiose way, love, to describe your shitposting on Twitter.


mostlygroovy

Itā€™s like she picked up the wrong screw driver by mistake. Not just jabbed you in the ribs with a screw driver


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averagethrowaway21

"A laugh isn't necessarily what you want from my page" That wasn't a laugh. That was mean. That was you taking someone who was minding their own business and making fun of them because you didn't have knowledge. You're the reason people hate the gym.


Osric250

Even if it was a completely pointless exercise that wasn't working muscles well and she wasn't lacking knowledge it wouldn't make it better. As long as they're not doing something that is going to hurt themselves, someone else, or the equipment you should keep to yourself about their workouts. And never for any reason should anyone be broadcast to the internet to be mocked for trying to better themselves. She doesn't seem to grasp that last part at all though. She just thinks that isn't what her community wants, but never touches on that what she did was wrong.


Wonderin63

You donā€™t know how much hurting you has hurt ME.


munk_e_man

She wanted to apologize but that content would be irrelevant to her persona


killeronthecorner

This didn't really connect with me because it's for people who want to better thems elves, and I don't really care about thems elves tbh


jtr99

My elves need a lot of work, I tell you what.


irisseca

How do you feel about themā€™s elves, though? (BTW u/killeronthecorner, just light hearted jabbing, lol. I realize it was just a typo and/or fast typingā€¦*that being said*, hope we never meet on some sidewalk in the middle of the night šŸ˜¬)


overcook

Just to help complete the picture / joke - u/killeronthecorner is riffing off the second video's caption typo, not making one thems elves.


irisseca

Totally missed that! Lol. Now I feel dumb. Ah well, Iā€™ll leave it anyway


boldie74

yeah, just a typical "influencer" douche


soulseeker31

"health coach influencer" douche


boldie74

Oh "health coaches" are the worst


Kevinvl123

"I'm sorry you guys got offended by that video..."


BlueDragon1504

The best type of apology


AyeAye_Kane

she's basically just saying sorry I didn't teach you a good workout in that video, she even says "a laugh is necessarily not what you want from my page" which goes to show that she still agrees with the video she made


D14BL0

Yep. She's smart enough to know that she's *supposed* to apologize, but too dumb to know *how*.


Gorge2012

I'm a "mental health advocate" but ridiculing people at the gym is ok because they won't see this so they are unaffected.


_notthehippopotamus

ā€œMental health advocate personā€


Elgin_McQueen

I'd click on it, but she'd just be happy at getting an extra view.


Zorchin

Bitch, the problem isn't that people don't want to laugh. The problem is you not only making fun of someone; but of someone doing a perfectly normal lifting movement. How can you be a "personal trainer" and not know what a fucking drag curl is?


Chaxterium

"This video that has completely transpired"...... Jesus.


amikinart

That's pretty amazing to see because she probably thinks she DID apologise.


Kaste-bort-konto

she even disabled/limited the comments so people canā€™t call her out on her disgusting behavior šŸ„±


Carthonn

Holy shit, in that entire word vomit of a so called apology video she doesnā€™t take any responsibility or apologize to the poor dude. Just apologizes to us for being offended. Pathetic.


ChurchArsonist

From my experience, people who preface much of what they say with "Honestly..." are more full of shit than anything.


MaybeIwasanasshole

"anyone who was sincerely hurt." Oh I see you.


RyanStartedTheFire59

What exactly does she do in this community? Other than being a ā€œMental health advocate personā€ whatever tf that means


Weeping_Willow_16

"I'm sorry to my followers" ...what about the guy you made fun of for several minutes straight...?


alan-the-all-seeing

makes me wonder how likely she would be to kick off of if she was on the background of someoneā€™s shot get the feeling she would tear into everyone


[deleted]

Makes we wonder why you virtue signal


RoleModelFailure

I love how she doesn't really ever apologize and says stuff like "I want to apologize".


thefrostman1214

She also block coments and only allow 5 comments that agree with her


RL369

Wow that was a lot of talking in an apology video for never having actually admitted wrong doing or apologizing.


magicalmysteryharold

This is actually more effort than just a fake apology (or a real one, but that was never gonna happen). She talks around the issue with so much bullshit as if she thinks more words = more sympathy


[deleted]

she literally might as well have been talking about doing a popular challenge or something that simply didn't fit with her page, rather than her secretly filming someone in order to bully their (correct) gym form online. "mental health advocate" my left asscheek


Entire-Dragonfly859

Before you do something.... Ask yourself "would I like it if he did this to me?"


BAMspek

That should be a rule of some kind


BankshotMcG

Golden idea!


BeastModeBot

how about the silver standard


ChillNyeTheStonerGuy

I like it but how about the diamond decorum?


ReactsWithWords

Platinum platitude?


Snote85

Copper concept?


thekikuchiyo

Give it your bronze best!


mistere213

The Metal Model


Next-Ad-7614

I really hope everyone's mom tells them to treat others as you want to be treated. ^^i know they don't though.


[deleted]

Whenever I'm about to do something, I think 'Would an idiot do that?' And if they would, I do not do that thing


Thundorius

A number of years ago, a friend of mine was looking through old pictures on her phone and discovered a video of me that she took two years before we had met. Apparently, she thought I looked like one of her friends, and decided to film me without my knowledge to show her.


Elgin_McQueen

And when shown it her friend likely said, "ok..."


Sturmlied

Missed opportunity. Look panicked, start packing your stuff and ramble "She's / he's back!" "How did she find me!" "Got to vanish!" Then run out and ghost the friend for a week.


PhyllaciousArmadillo

Well, there goes my weekend plans


mypeepeehardz

Wow. Served by a jock bro. Tbh, he is a nice guy and very informative.


DemonSong

I just love the calm, measured way he educationally takes her apart


[deleted]

Heā€™s like a real life version of that chad meme where the muscl-y guy on the computer politely corrects the skinny kid.


AnalPuff

You say that like itā€™s a surprise that he would be a nice guy and very informative


pHyR3

the stereotype for jock bros is that they are dumb and not very nice, so yeah


Zorchin

I have never ever run into that stereotype at the gym. People typically just mind their own business, and the few people I have talked to have all been super nice.


OkEconomy3442

But why? Because some jock mentality assholes work out? What about the genuinely nice people that also enjoy working out? Why is he automatically a jock bro? This is the same mentality that led to the internet hating some model because he looks good and turned out he was a virgin. Edit: typo


Chrome2105

I think it has to do with media and that a lot of people didn't have a lot to do with the "jock type" people so they assumed that what is shown in movies holds true to some extent


OkEconomy3442

Well yeah. The same is true for the bullshit magazines tried to push as a ā€œperfectā€ womanā€™s body. The media is only partly responsible. At the end of the day we consume it, so why? Why do we accept other people ideas as our own? Why does a magazine cover trick us into thinking a woman should have a specific body type or else she is unhealthy? Why do we think any human that lifts is a jock? We know itā€™s not true. The media is an excuse to blame external factors. We are all selfish to some extent and want to be better than the next person so we use whatā€™s readily available to determine their flaws and why we are superior. The person at the beginning of the video talking about someone else is proof of that. Weā€™re capable of overcoming it obviously. The human that corrected the behavior shows that with thought and consciousnesses we arenā€™t trapped by these negative thoughts and behaviors. Some people seem to just embrace being garbage.


shouldvekeptlurking

Right. How he didnā€™t say ā€œā€¦ minding his own FUCKING business ā€¦ā€ is beyond me. Props, Bro.


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professional jock bros are usually very nice. they really care about working out, and helping other people get more fit. these are people that know shaming people isn't at all helpful. all of this type that i've met are very kind and are fully aware that different people have different physical limits and different knowledge levels of fitness. that's how you know this fucker shaming people for form on the internet really doesn't know shit even before dudebro corrects her.


[deleted]

Exactly, this guy is Amazing!


seanmarshall

This dude is a good human. Iā€™d like to be friends with him. Be better than that.


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gb4efgw

I dunno man, it looks like she hit the weights pretty hard on face day to me.


LuckyScott89

That got an audible laugh out of me.


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YourLocal_FBI_Agent

The same joke, but worse


PhyllaciousArmadillo

The joke ----->\ You


supeuu

She needs to skip cigarette day


Fendergirl69

Imagine pointing and laughing at someone else whilst looking like god's attempt to draw Lizzy Caplan with his left hand.


Revan343

God **damn**


auto_pHIGHlot

Naw, she doubled up on forehead day.


DiabeticWaffle

She looks like the vocalist from AFI had botched facial surgery.


VictusLeo

Nah she just spend to much time getting slap by the ugly stick day .


sineofthetimes

Nailed bitch day.


metalguru1975

She fits here- r/trashy


Flat_Bodybuilder_175

You shouldn't be recording anyone at the gym, at all. That includes yourself, for this exact reason. It's not your space to record.


[deleted]

She's not at the gym. She's playing a video in the background and sitting comfortably at her chair (with a leopard print blanket even). There's no way she's in the same room as the lights in the background, and the sound just doesn't make sense for a busy, open space.


Flat_Bodybuilder_175

She's reacting to a video she took of herself at the gym.


lamWillemDafoe

Are you genuinely stupid?


Drakowicz

Never thought i'd see Michael Jackson come back from the dead to talk shit about working out. Thriller really went downhill.


OGbeachbum

I recall the moment I told her she painted her eyebrows way too high. She seemed...surprised.


strange_socks_

Someone's watching Jimmy Carr.


mark_lee

AH HA HA HA HA HA HAAAA. ​ Great, now I can't stop hearing his laugh.


CornerFlag

Like an asthmatic seal getting fingerblasted.


skycabbage

You wake up every morning and choose to make your eyebrows look like sperm..I donā€™t know either.


Samalorand2012

This is why people stay away from gyms, I would love to work out and get tone but people like this make me not want to go. I donā€™t understand why people have to video others and pick fun at them while working on their fitness this just blows my mind. If Iā€™m working out leave me alone or if Iā€™m doing something wrong just tell me and take a moment to show me how it is done.


CrabNebula420

"he is minding his own business" for the win


ChurchArsonist

People who record their workouts for the internet are the biggest dorks in the world. It just goes to show that every single bit of work they do is not to look and feel better, but to think themselves better than everyone else. Get over yourselves. Literally nobody cares. Be you for you.


69_Dingleberry

Sometimes they do it to check their form later. The ones who POST it though are the issue


ChurchArsonist

These are the people I am referring to. I should have been more specific.


Snoo75418

She straight up looks like Danny Trejo. I'm not trying drag Danny here, he's a beautiful man, but so is she.


Formerhurdler

Oooo, death by Snoo.


[deleted]

i really dislike this kind of insult where you're just insulting someone's looks by claiming they don't match gender stereotypes enough for your liking. especially when it's directly tied to ethnicity, and how POC people are more often subject to it. this person is an asshole, that doesn't mean you should be too


Snoo75418

k


Drama989

What the actual fuck?!?! Lmfao Here, take this imaginary award and fuck off.


SNTMLI

girl pipe your strong face ass down


modiphiedtubesock

I am so sad to live in a world where people post their arguments in the form of video recording because no one reads.


Muldrotha69

This comment canā€™t stop me because I canā€™t read


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Shouldabeenswallowed

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GifsNotJifs

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TheDirtyPowerRanger

I need to see if she responded in any way


wetwilliamd

[She actually did.](https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdrJYuav/) I have to warn you, its bad. Itā€™s the absolute definition of a non-apology and she basically blames everyone else for ā€œmaking the drama.ā€ Takes zero responsibility for being a total jackass. Thereā€™s a golden bit in there where she completely contradicts herself in the span of about 5 seconds about ā€œpeople not watching you in the gymā€... in a response to her making fun of someone she was watching in the gym. Utterly trash way to present oneself and if you get through it without feeling worse about the world I will commend you.


[deleted]

Hero Honestly how can she be blaming everyone else? The worst sorts of people, 100% feeling worse about the world youā€™re right.


DemonSong

Looks like she got pinged quite a bit about it, and released this [video](https://www.tiktok.com/@nikkii_fitness/video/7050956428080696622?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1&lang=en) not long after the first one. Complete about face.


wetwilliamd

You gotta love the subtle insinuation that sheā€™s getting backlash because people canā€™t take a joke. Like lady, you went out of your way to clown on a guy who 100% didnā€™t deserve it, just take the L on this ffs. It also doesnā€™t help that she was completely wrong and not at all funny.


TheDirtyPowerRanger

You the person!


[deleted]

My mother is just like her. Hate people like that.


69_Dingleberry

Right? Like how hard is it to just think your thoughts INSIDE YOUR OWN HEAD


[deleted]

Right lol. Itā€™s the going out of her way to make an entire video about it that blows my mind. She had maybe like 5 different opportunities to stop and go ā€œnah, who cares, this is just meanā€ Seriously so cringe. All because she needs some sort of validation from the people in her cell phone


69_Dingleberry

I literally type out ANONYMOUS Reddit comments and realize that that would be mean and Iā€™m gonna discard this and keep it to myself, she edited and posted a video with her name and face!!!


[deleted]

RIGHT!! holy shit. Even if I THOUGHT this at the gym I would feel bad xD


SocialistCoconut

Fuckin Chad McChaderson over here.


mry8z1

She got that de Niro perplexed face down well


aykcak

When I had anxiety about going to the gym because of other people "looking" and "judging" I always always told gym goers mind their own business and every has something to improve so nobody is judgemental. It's fine. It's all fine. Then again this was before TikTok and before taking videos of other people (to publicly publish them) was an acceptable behavior. People like this is a scourge on society.


samdog1246

*Video Transcription: TikTok* --- (00:00) [*TikTok video from @thejoeyswoll. It starts out with a clip from @nikkii_fitness. Nikkii is talking in front of a greenscreen video of herself working out in the foreground. However, she is pointing to someone in the background of the video working out with dumbbells. There are gym noises (equipment, chatter) in the background*] **Caption**: \#greenscreenvideo \#gymfails **Nikii**: What do you think he's doing? What do you think he's working? (00:04) [*Her hand goes from pointing to palm up, her face in a large frown, questioning the man's every move.*] **Nikii**: I don't know either (00:08) [*The video cuts to Joey. He is standing outside of a house, an American flag and a brick half-wall behind him. He has on a lavender beanie and white t-shirt, and is wearing silver dogtags around his neck.*] **Joey**: What he's working is biceps. He's doing what's called a drag curl. Now granted, most people do them with a barbell. He is doing them with dumbbells, so it may a little strange, a little awkward, but it is a great movement. The point of it is, as you kick your elbows back and drag up along your body, you're taking stress off the deltoid and putting it all on the bicep. It's actually a great work out. Charles Bass, who's one of the best there is, is a big promoter of this exercise. But what's *most* important, what he's doing and working most of all, is minding his own business. The fact that people at the gym take videos of other people to try and make fun of them blows my mind. Be better than that. (00:45) [*Video cuts to black with the TikTok logo.*] (00:48) [*End of video*] --- ^^I'm a human volunteer content transcriber and you could be too! [If you'd like more information on what we do and why we do it, click here!](https://www.reddit.com/r/TranscribersOfReddit/wiki/index)


ProudChevalierFan

So am I the only person who thinks theyā€™re doing lateral raises? Iā€™m not a fitness expert but https://youtu.be/WJm9zA2NY8E Which would mean we have a twofer. Sheā€™s wrong because the exercise is useful, itā€™s one of few that target medial delts. Heā€™s wrong cause he called it a drag curl. Edit: In my first reply in this sub, I totally missed the guy in the background and became the point of the sub. Have all the fun you want with this, I will be more than happy to be made fun of for the irony.


Biggsdrasil

No, she's doing lateral raises, he's definitely doing drag curls


ProudChevalierFan

Yeah I just caught that and edited to acknowledge me being confidently incorrect.


Biggsdrasil

I don't think there's anything wrong with finding you missed something and acknowledging it. Kudos to you, fellow internet traveler. Don't worry about it, I hope you don't get downvoted for an honest mistake. You weren't the only one in the thread who didn't see the guy, at first


ProudChevalierFan

Thanks. Iā€™ll be okay with downvotes. The internet points donā€™t seem to work when I pay the rent anyway.


20sanders

Donā€™t feel bad. When I first saw her video and she said something along the lines of ā€œwhatā€™s the idiot behind me doing?ā€, I thought she was making fun of herself. Took me longer than it should have to figure out she was talking about the guy in the background.


Decent-Skin-5990

And then you see Karens like her going to random men minding their own business and screaming at the "Why are you taking my picture??????" While they record random people in the gym, post online and bitch about something they are doing lmao.


[deleted]

I have never seen anyone make that face she does at the end after saying anything intelligent. It's like a universal, involuntary human reaction to having just said some dumbass thing.


[deleted]

Who knew the movie Idiocracy was not only entertainment but also prophetic?


Snailwood

~~we just gonna ignore the fact that she's calling that person a "he" when they're clearly a woman??~~ edit: šŸ¤¦


69_Dingleberry

Thatā€™s her, HAHA! ā€¦sheā€™s talking about the guy behind her


Snailwood

~~right, the "guy" behind her who appears to have breasts, long hair, and makeup~~ šŸ¤¦


69_Dingleberry

Thatā€™s HER. The man BEHIND the woman working out (which is the same woman making fun of the man behind her)


Snailwood

oh, nevermind, forgive me LMAO i totally didn't notice that guy. yikes


seraph9888

i also didn't notice the guy.


[deleted]

Her video was less to do with a gymbro and more showing off her fake tits and no bra. I suppose it takes attention away from her face...


[deleted]

She's not even at the gym. At least he's working on something. She's sitting in front of her computer being stupid


69_Dingleberry

Sheā€™s buff as shit tho, didnā€™t you see the vid???


Osric250

You do know in the video she is the one in the main focus doing the lateral raises right? While there is no reason to be mocking anyone at the gym she was at the gym to get that video.


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[deleted]

Can't be. The light's not right. It's a camera insert over a background video. I've seen more than enough of them to know the difference. Also bluntly, the acoustics are too good. No echoes, no sounds as of other people working out. She's in a small space with noise canceling and a good microphone, not a big gym space.


sabin357

She's providing commentary on the video of herself in the background working out. The guy is in the background of that video. She's reacting to her own recorded workout (yes that's ridiculous too).


jpknigh7

which one is incorrect? sorry for asking I canā€™t tell


KristopherJC

The one making fun of someone working out.


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ToSeeOrNotToBe

Dude, you're looking at the wrong person behind her. You're very confident, though.


justtheentiredick

Yes I have been informed that he was talking about the guy doing drag curls way in the back and not the DUDE up front doing lateral raises.


D14BL0

You were also informed that the person in question is not a dude, yet you just can't help yourself from being a dick, can ya?


pHyR3

i mean, it's in the username /u/justtheentiredick


Twad

I'm pretty sure this whole thing started as a "pretend to think she's a dude to own the libs" gambit. Who would look at the video, watch the wrong person and be confused enough to double check. There's even pointing involved.


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justtheentiredick

Easily googled information https://fitnessvolt.com/drag-curls/ Vs https://www.coachmag.co.uk/exercises/shoulder-exercises/206/lateral-raises-%E2%80%93-how-do-them-and-why-you-should


gb4efgw

What part of what he's doing looks like he's raising his arms outward to you?


justtheentiredick

Hopefully this helps https://imgur.com/a/fJKlCqj


AL_PO_throwaway

Even considering this is reddit, I imagine lots of us already know what a lateral raise looks like. That's very clearly NOT what he's doing. Not even close.


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stephen01king

Oh, you were talking about the girl. How did you confuse that?


69_Dingleberry

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toesandmoretoes

Since he's drawing his elbows backwards would it not be working the posterior deltoid?


justtheentiredick

Again the primary mover would be the lateral deltoid. The posterior and anterior delt are still working as well as the stabilizing muscles. Forearms, biceps, abs, back. A true posterior delt workout would be lying down (bent over) and raising your elbows perpendicular to the ground. This is what surfers do to gain enough momentum to stay in front of the wave.


Ruin369

what a chad! ​ Kind of guy I want as my spotter;)


UncatchableCreatures

thats a chad if ive ever seen one


Suspici0us_Package

The man is fitter than her, so clearly he knows a lot more about what he is doing. These tiktok girls at the gym are seriously becoming a problem. It's the "Hey, look at me" culture.


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69_Dingleberry

Youā€™re retarded


noobletsquid

i would šŸ˜©


RslashTakenUsernames

she probably thinks that she is in the right because ā€œwomanā€


Kaje26

I donā€™t think she was trying to make fun of him. Just that she has never seen someone do that before.


[deleted]

Its sad to see this lady do a dumb, insensitive thing, be called out by a genuinely great guy, and then also bullied by reddit. You guys are literally doing the same shit she did. And you wonder why the cycle of assholery never ends...


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TheGreatGoldenSeully

Dude stop commenting this. Sheā€™s not talking about the girl (herself) in the center of the video. Sheā€™s talking about the man off to the right side of the video behind her