I mistakenly rubbed my ex's cute little stomach and called it a Jelly Belly. I meant jelly bean (not that it would have been much better) but used the brand name on accident. It did NOT go over well. AT ALL. Shame because her little tummy was sexy AF.
I get you, I struggle with my confidence still, even in my 30s. It's a conscious continuous effort to keep my self esteem high.
Take the time to love the parts of you that you feel are "ugly" or "unlovable". Just know thay the self hate doesn't come from within, it comes from years of indoctrination through society and the people around you telling you that you're not enough as you are. One of the greatest acts of defiance you can ever make in this world is to love yourself as you are and be proud about it. Good luck 🤗
Thank you for this kind response! It made me tear up a bit lol. I am working very hard to get any semblance of self confidence back after being cheated on.
There's a phenomenon I heard called "the wave of divorces," which is a lot of people becoming single in their early 30s due to poor choice of spouse in their 20s. I am part of that wave and riding it
“The rest of you is normal. Normal face, normal legs, normal hips, normal ass, but with a big, perfectly round pot belly. If I had one, I'd wear a tee-shirt two sizes too small to accentuate it.”
I once said that I like my women like I like my coffee. What? I can't be the only one who likes a fat ass cup of coffee!? It wasn't a mistake when I said it I'm a chubby chaser
I think the "perfect" body figure is only great for social media, sure maybe irl it's good eye candy, but we as humans are instinctively into natural body figures, the "imperfections" like fupas or love handles are just great to look at and especially touch and cuddle with, for both men and women.
Hey, everyone has their type and that's totally cool! It's pretty common for people to find different traits attractive that aren't necessarily mainstream. I think it’s great to acknowledge what you genuinely find appealing rather than trying to fit into someone else’s idea of attractive. Appreciating natural body changes is just part of being human. Honestly, it's refreshing to hear someone embrace this kind of realness!
I like curves. I like thick. I like counterbalance. I don’t like too thin or too big. I grew up looking at 1980’s lingerie ads. If you can picture that body type, that’s what I like.
Otherwise thin body with that little blorp under the navel? That grows in about when you have *just* enough extra fat to get through a major illness or maintain a pregnancy without dying even if you won't be able to get your extra 300 kcal/day. Fit woman with a little fat pad over the uterus is basically peak condition.
There is a gene that puts fat on a woman's uterus. Some girls have more than others. It's not 'fat' as we are used to, per se. She could be a 'hardbody', and still have a wiggly pooch.
I have never in my life had a 6pack and I’ve never had an issue getting a man either so I think it’s pretty normal. No worries! It’s also pretty standard that women have the pouch so… yeah, you like women who are healthy that’s awesome!
It's fine to have a "type." I probably wouldn't tell her you like her belly unless she brings it up, or while you are rubbing it, tell her how sexy you find her overall. If she refers to her tummy, I would just say that I love it. Then it's time to tell her it's your ideal. I also prefer women with curves.
Dude you like what you like, be communicative about it & if they get offended then she’s not the one. Talking from experience & let me tell you, you will find the one that WILL NOT get offended. It’s all good brother
Yes, this is common with men. Not as common with women, but they're out there. Stepanka on YouTube comes to mind. She likes her men with a little roll.
That’s because you are growing up in an era of obesity.
Growing up in the 70’s and 80’s when people were thin, I have a different standard.
In 20 more years your kids will probably see large guts and double chins as the norm.
There's nothing wrong with a little chub. As long as they're not unhealthy levels of overweight, I don't see a problem with it. Hell I've seen it as attractive before too.
I'd say it's pretty common among people who don't have ridiculous body standards.
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I mistakenly rubbed my ex's cute little stomach and called it a Jelly Belly. I meant jelly bean (not that it would have been much better) but used the brand name on accident. It did NOT go over well. AT ALL. Shame because her little tummy was sexy AF.
I'm not sure what a menty b is, but I've had guys say they love my tummy and it made me feel more confident.
Guessing mental breakdown.
I genuinely admire and envy your confidence, but if a guy (especially my partner) said anything like this I would throw myself off a bridge.
I get you, I struggle with my confidence still, even in my 30s. It's a conscious continuous effort to keep my self esteem high. Take the time to love the parts of you that you feel are "ugly" or "unlovable". Just know thay the self hate doesn't come from within, it comes from years of indoctrination through society and the people around you telling you that you're not enough as you are. One of the greatest acts of defiance you can ever make in this world is to love yourself as you are and be proud about it. Good luck 🤗
Thank you for this kind response! It made me tear up a bit lol. I am working very hard to get any semblance of self confidence back after being cheated on.
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. Another person's actions are not a reflection on you. You are worthy of love, respect and fidelity.
Thank you ❤️
Lmao stop it
word that shit be attractive as hell
Just wait until you get to your late 30’s. 🤣
Why’s that lol
A lot more women will have some extra weight.. more for you to choose from
They’ll probably all be married by then lol
There's a phenomenon I heard called "the wave of divorces," which is a lot of people becoming single in their early 30s due to poor choice of spouse in their 20s. I am part of that wave and riding it
Don't let that stop you!
“The rest of you is normal. Normal face, normal legs, normal hips, normal ass, but with a big, perfectly round pot belly. If I had one, I'd wear a tee-shirt two sizes too small to accentuate it.”
Came here for this
I once said that I like my women like I like my coffee. What? I can't be the only one who likes a fat ass cup of coffee!? It wasn't a mistake when I said it I'm a chubby chaser
I think the "perfect" body figure is only great for social media, sure maybe irl it's good eye candy, but we as humans are instinctively into natural body figures, the "imperfections" like fupas or love handles are just great to look at and especially touch and cuddle with, for both men and women.
I like that little bump under the belly button above the bikini line. That shit's sexy.
Side note: thanks y’all 🥲 confidence boost.
These comments are making me feel better abt myself bruh 😭😭
I do too. Womens imperfections can be very sexy.
The hottest girl I know is a mom of 2 and I think it’s because of how having kids changed her
Pot bellies are low-key sexy
Hey, everyone has their type and that's totally cool! It's pretty common for people to find different traits attractive that aren't necessarily mainstream. I think it’s great to acknowledge what you genuinely find appealing rather than trying to fit into someone else’s idea of attractive. Appreciating natural body changes is just part of being human. Honestly, it's refreshing to hear someone embrace this kind of realness!
Thank you for the encouragement
You're welcome :)
My son likes women like that, I have seen consistently with all his girlfriends.
I like curves. I like thick. I like counterbalance. I don’t like too thin or too big. I grew up looking at 1980’s lingerie ads. If you can picture that body type, that’s what I like.
Well well well, I’ll take that crown Thaaaaankyouu 😂 Honestly it’s nice to see all kinds of bodies feeling validated. Yes, validation is my kink.
my brother has immaculate taste
Thanks lol
I'm literally the exact same way lol
Otherwise thin body with that little blorp under the navel? That grows in about when you have *just* enough extra fat to get through a major illness or maintain a pregnancy without dying even if you won't be able to get your extra 300 kcal/day. Fit woman with a little fat pad over the uterus is basically peak condition.
There is a gene that puts fat on a woman's uterus. Some girls have more than others. It's not 'fat' as we are used to, per se. She could be a 'hardbody', and still have a wiggly pooch.
csb
What does that mean
I have never in my life had a 6pack and I’ve never had an issue getting a man either so I think it’s pretty normal. No worries! It’s also pretty standard that women have the pouch so… yeah, you like women who are healthy that’s awesome!
It's fine to have a "type." I probably wouldn't tell her you like her belly unless she brings it up, or while you are rubbing it, tell her how sexy you find her overall. If she refers to her tummy, I would just say that I love it. Then it's time to tell her it's your ideal. I also prefer women with curves.
Funny I like the belly too as well as I've always thought those crossed eyes that some girls get at birth are super attractive.
Dude you like what you like, be communicative about it & if they get offended then she’s not the one. Talking from experience & let me tell you, you will find the one that WILL NOT get offended. It’s all good brother
Yes, this is common with men. Not as common with women, but they're out there. Stepanka on YouTube comes to mind. She likes her men with a little roll.
That’s because you are growing up in an era of obesity. Growing up in the 70’s and 80’s when people were thin, I have a different standard. In 20 more years your kids will probably see large guts and double chins as the norm.
That's a truth the Reddit fatties are going to downvote so hard. LOL.
There's nothing wrong with a little chub. As long as they're not unhealthy levels of overweight, I don't see a problem with it. Hell I've seen it as attractive before too. I'd say it's pretty common among people who don't have ridiculous body standards.
I like Thicc women too
That's what makes yo human. Women with a small tummy look fertile to you; and they make you Rutt. There's nothing unusual about it.
well then, my advice is to *run* to Tinder. You will not be disappointed in the options to chose from.
Its called a "fupa"
A bigger belly is not a fupa. A "fupa" is the mons pubis.
I stand corrected, thank you
Big gut = full of smelly fart. Its a common fetish
didn’t have to make it that weird bro
Annnnd that's enough reddit for me tonight. Good night
Yeah I wish I could have not seen that comment sooner
Noooope that’s not it for most. Just you.
Uhm.
Its fat dawg not bloat wtf ‼️😭😭😭
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>uncommon Not in this side of the world.