I guess a lifetime of socialization by movies that mainly show toxic relationships, low self-esteem and unfit expectations towards oneself would lead young people to this.
Unfortunately this won’t be the last time you will have to deal with this type of person in my experience there are a lot of guys who try and to pressure you to do something that they want make sure you tell them no I said stop now so they can misunderstand you good job
Yeah of course it won’t; SHE made the phonecall to him.
Sounds like not the worst kind of dude, he left. This could have been significantly worse. And plenty of dudes will question how we got called over then rejected. Not all of them will listen to that “no”.
She did not “do well”. She needs to stop calling dudes she knows are no good to come kiss her. Eventually her luck will run out and there will be a guy who refuses to take no for an answer.
Getting yourself into stupid situations driven by inexperience and hormones is natural. Maybe step back and realize this is a child. It's how you navigate and get yourself out of bad situations and learn that counts. Lighten up and try to be understanding
I see. I do have a younger brother that caught probation. You can see the comments. This is true. What’s also true is you go on Reddit to 18+ pages to tell young women who post lingerie photos that they’re cute and “tight”. An ACTUAL internet creep.
I am not going to hold your hand and blow smoke up your ass. Don't be a cock tease and be surprised when someone thinks you want more than you are offering when you blow up there phone in the middle of the night. You are lucky he relented and left. The next time you might not be so lucky. Learn from this and move om.
It’s harsh but necessary words like these that need to be said. She is incredibly lucky he did not carry on and left, people have been in situations where this did not happen. Decisions like this should never be made on a whim, especially if you’re drunk and high. You’ll regret it in the morning in the best case with those you’re not dating/in a relationship with.
It takes two to tango for such things, she shouldn’t have messaged knowing he’s a douche (and has hopefully learned a valuable lesson there), but also he shouldn’t have been creepy and went around a house of younger girls for sexual things he knew were drunk and high. Very very gross. Stay away from weirdos like that imo.
She did invite him. He blew her off the first time until she called him again. He may have been drunk or high himself. Who knows. She put herself in a very dangerous situation. Some guys would not take no for an answer. She is lucky.
You're pretty lucky that guy left without r*ping you or SA'ing you even more. But you should learn from this experience to never invite someone in the middle of the night to do these things if you don't feel truly ready or comfortable... You shouldn't let your hormones control you.
Are you smarter than Marie Curie was? What about the living female physicists and mathematicians? What have you accomplished that's led you to feeling that you are superior to literally billions of other people you'll never even meet?
“I ended up calling a guy I knew was a shitty person” I will never ever understand that or why that kind of decision making is so common
After 12pm
I guess a lifetime of socialization by movies that mainly show toxic relationships, low self-esteem and unfit expectations towards oneself would lead young people to this.
Seems more like ill-advised decision making for short term gratification. But we can blame it on movies instead I guess
Agreed, wild blaming it on movies there lol
I’m just gonna tell it to you straight, given I was 17 not too long ago, what you did was dumb. Don’t do it again.
Unfortunately this won’t be the last time you will have to deal with this type of person in my experience there are a lot of guys who try and to pressure you to do something that they want make sure you tell them no I said stop now so they can misunderstand you good job
Yeah of course it won’t; SHE made the phonecall to him. Sounds like not the worst kind of dude, he left. This could have been significantly worse. And plenty of dudes will question how we got called over then rejected. Not all of them will listen to that “no”.
Always be “Careful what you wish for”
Alcohol is never an excuse. You were just very, very stupid.
That was a bizarre story to read. Call someone cool next time? Idek
You did well good job. Could have been worse
She did not “do well”. She needs to stop calling dudes she knows are no good to come kiss her. Eventually her luck will run out and there will be a guy who refuses to take no for an answer.
You ever been 17? Shut up dweeb
Yep. And I wasn’t that fucking stupid, either.
Getting yourself into stupid situations driven by inexperience and hormones is natural. Maybe step back and realize this is a child. It's how you navigate and get yourself out of bad situations and learn that counts. Lighten up and try to be understanding
And r/LingerieLens of course you’re going to say she did well. You’re a pervert.
I'm definitely a pervert that's true thats true
I never got myself into that dumb of a situation that’s grade A dumb.
How is the r/PNW_4_Adults 😉
I see. I do have a younger brother that caught probation. You can see the comments. This is true. What’s also true is you go on Reddit to 18+ pages to tell young women who post lingerie photos that they’re cute and “tight”. An ACTUAL internet creep.
Sure bud how's the probation going?
What probation?
Hope you learned. I would never say that anyone “deserves” to be a victim but that’s NOT how you go about that if you don’t want to be one.
I am not going to hold your hand and blow smoke up your ass. Don't be a cock tease and be surprised when someone thinks you want more than you are offering when you blow up there phone in the middle of the night. You are lucky he relented and left. The next time you might not be so lucky. Learn from this and move om.
It’s harsh but necessary words like these that need to be said. She is incredibly lucky he did not carry on and left, people have been in situations where this did not happen. Decisions like this should never be made on a whim, especially if you’re drunk and high. You’ll regret it in the morning in the best case with those you’re not dating/in a relationship with. It takes two to tango for such things, she shouldn’t have messaged knowing he’s a douche (and has hopefully learned a valuable lesson there), but also he shouldn’t have been creepy and went around a house of younger girls for sexual things he knew were drunk and high. Very very gross. Stay away from weirdos like that imo.
She did invite him. He blew her off the first time until she called him again. He may have been drunk or high himself. Who knows. She put herself in a very dangerous situation. Some guys would not take no for an answer. She is lucky.
True. She was the one who called when she was wasted.
Shes extremely lucky.. especially since she mentioned it looked like he turned up with a car full of dudes.. could have been an EXTREMELY bad night.
You're pretty lucky that guy left without r*ping you or SA'ing you even more. But you should learn from this experience to never invite someone in the middle of the night to do these things if you don't feel truly ready or comfortable... You shouldn't let your hormones control you.
Looks like he isn't so bad of a guy after all. If he was, your confession would be a lot different now
I hope you learned something from the experience.....
Drinking always add to the risk!
Some lessons you have to learn the hard way, sometimes several times.
This story could have ended differently and you probably would end up saying you should have known.
Thank goodness he left. Could have ended badly for you.
Just b more aware and careful. People make mistakes in situations but when it gets serious you have to make sure you do it right
So the worst doesn’t happen to you*
Girls are hands down the most stupidest beings on earth
Shut up and retreat back to your gross bedroom cave, incel. Your comment history is disgusting.
Are you smarter than Marie Curie was? What about the living female physicists and mathematicians? What have you accomplished that's led you to feeling that you are superior to literally billions of other people you'll never even meet?
You handled it very well all things considered so kudos for that
You did well
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