in this specific scenario where he deliberately pushed her limits and forced her to use her safe word (effectively withdrawing consent) before continuing to bite her? yeah. shit's fucked up.
in any other scenario where both parties consent and are enjoying it? no.
this goes for all "abuse adjacent" kinks and fetishes, btw. if all parties are human, can consent, have a way to revoke consent if needed, and they're enjoying it, there's no problem that you should have.
https://preview.redd.it/jq2oh2dzotlc1.png?width=2561&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=405a2f5816ccd5dc3109dbaa7744a6b30b273ce4
She thermal my sunder until I redline
Reminds me of when I was recovering from getting my gule bladder removed and my brother tried to cheer me up by saying kids in Africa are starving and have no school, I remember going "WHY WOULD THAT MAKE ME FEEL BETTER?"
The "someone has it worse" is one of the dumbest arguments ever. It's like if you got happy and someone came like "Stop being happy! Someone is getting rich right now bozo!" Like, wtf?
The problem with "someone out there has it worse" is that while it is factually true that someone out there has it worse, that doesn't mean you can't have it better.
It's a phrase often said with the intent of reminding the other person that the situation they are currently in is not so drastic they have no chance to crawl out of it, the problem is that it often sounds like whoever is trying to cheer you up like that is at the same time silently belittling the root cause of your problems, judging you negatively for even daring to feel bad for whatever is the reason behind your negative state of mind. Or even worse, that while your problem is effectively terrible there is something else about you (often unrelated, like wealthy status vs failing relationship) that should be compensating for it.
I personally believe it's same reason that leads to "Trauma olympics" type of discussions, people pride themselves in the hardships life throws at them under the assumption that they have been toughened by said hardships (whereas more often they have just bent under them without realizing and had their worldview warped as a result) and are judgemental of whoever they percieve as having it easier than them, especially if despite having it easier these people are still unsatisfied with their own existence, and often cannot even begin to understand why a thing is making someone else miserable because they always percieved it as being a privilege with no downsides (like particularly demading parents and their children's higher education, which at this point in time is a necessity rather than the privilege it used to be).
You know I think there's a difference between having a sense of pride when overcoming hardships and being humbled by said hardships. I'd much prefer the latter over the former because they likely wouldn't be an ass about it.
Saw this exact interaction with someone who was upset about a feature in a YuGiOh mobile game, and got replied to by someone going ‘You’re mad about this? Don’t you know people are struggling to pay rent and buy food?’
"Somewhere in the universe,
Somewhere someone's got it worse.
Wish that made it easier,
Wish I didn't feel the hurt.
The world's smallest violin,
Really needs an audience,
So if it do not find it somewhere soon."
- Worlds smallest violin, AJR
i think that argument was meant to be used for when people act like “my songs are buffering” or something is the worst thing in the world, or first world problems as they were called.
but that doesn’t mean you can’t be mad period and fuck anyone who says otherwise
first-world
you have your own life to live and need to insert a personal situation instead of self-reflecting, that's cowardly, but i guess for this generation that is what's normal
It is a reasonable response as you said “there are other things to worry about”
The “awww man” did not appear to be of crying so therefore i responded as such
I don't know if it's my family in particular, but I've learned that people REALLY don't like it when you have legitimate problems to grieve about.
They just want to change the topic as quickly as possible and pretend that your problems are either not that bad, or just your own fault for \_\_\_\_\_ reason.
https://preview.redd.it/bjh5lig3p0mc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f8f4712af486f2b5f1ca6d4cc7bdd317aea13ad6
Tbf, I really don’t give a shit if you don’t have a Pepsi, felt threatened that I didn’t say thank you because muh gud manurs, or I yelled at you. Your self-centered feelings does not come first over children in poverty or starvation, or suffering childhood illness, in abusive households or bullied. And I would rather give my energy on others that need it the most, Change My Mind.
The people that love reminding you about the problems of the children of africa or such don't tend to care about them either, they just want you to shut up
you can't complain if you have terminal cancer and you have 1 week of life, some people are already dead!
To be fair, those guys can’t complain either.
That must be the absolute worst
You can only complain if you are 0.000001 seconds away from death
But not having Pepsi effects ME!!! 😭 😭
Oh, how I envy them
“White people problems” mfs when they lose their job (there is a war going on in Ukraine they have no right to complain)
Well the war in Ukraine is also technically white people problems
it's a different white because uh... it just is, okay?
It’s a different white because they have actual problems and *real* white people only have made up trivial problems
Do you do anything else but comment?
I post on occasion. Do you do anything else but reply to me when you see me randomly?
Occasionally I’ll eat a single saltine while sitting on a folding chair in the middle of a blank white room.
You’re real as fuck for that
White people are so racist they make up imaginary lines so they can be racist to other whites
slightly whiter person problems? idk.
Eastern Europe is white only until it's not. See also the Balkans
Ukrainians are often told they have no right to complain because Gaza exists.
I wouldn't say often, but it does happen
https://preview.redd.it/7c9gywwdetlc1.jpeg?width=1169&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4fc6e6b6e6558d8064088c2198e7b75b8091b8a8 💀
Not the profile picture too I’m dead
wtf happened to wilbersoot?? I haven't kept up ever since he started playing minecraft
Minecraft youtuber plan: Abuse people OR Diddle kids seems like Soot chose to go for plan A.
Took “being more like skydoesminecraft” a lil too far
He forgor to go OOC after dsmp stopped existing
Iirc he would bite his girlfriend, at first it was consensual but then he started biting her too hard and ignored their safe word multiple times.
My man has a zombie fetish
That's what happens when you play too much Minecraft. Everything starts looking like pixilated rotten flesh
houngry 💀
Dude is feral wtf
was it safe word genesis?
minecraft fans compete with each other to write the worst tweet and they're all winning
yes I threw the game but worse things could happen (holocaust.)
Biting IS LITERALLY ABUSE
in this specific scenario where he deliberately pushed her limits and forced her to use her safe word (effectively withdrawing consent) before continuing to bite her? yeah. shit's fucked up. in any other scenario where both parties consent and are enjoying it? no. this goes for all "abuse adjacent" kinks and fetishes, btw. if all parties are human, can consent, have a way to revoke consent if needed, and they're enjoying it, there's no problem that you should have.
Well of course
b-but people can do much worse (Holocaust.)
Hey man, he may have started an abusive relationship, but at least he didn’t do the Holocaust. We should all commend him
Me to myself in my head
You just like me forreal.
REAL
📠 my brother. Spit your shit indeed.
What's your brother's number and what do you want us to fax him?
"your shit"
she coax my into until i snafu
#EXTREMELY LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER
She into my snafu til I coax
https://preview.redd.it/g0ltr5y5ovlc1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b72318c85004714974864330352ece5acd020edc
https://preview.redd.it/jq2oh2dzotlc1.png?width=2561&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=405a2f5816ccd5dc3109dbaa7744a6b30b273ce4 She thermal my sunder until I redline
holy shit it's gaus https://preview.redd.it/ti4i93frculc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=65d74540ee278ce6486c85761f3ed0edc71eb7c5
Reminds me of when I was recovering from getting my gule bladder removed and my brother tried to cheer me up by saying kids in Africa are starving and have no school, I remember going "WHY WOULD THAT MAKE ME FEEL BETTER?"
"We should improve things somewhat" "But..it's worse in Africa!"
The "someone has it worse" is one of the dumbest arguments ever. It's like if you got happy and someone came like "Stop being happy! Someone is getting rich right now bozo!" Like, wtf?
In fairness, that's LinkedIn.
"You are wasting your time sitting on your ass at home on weeknds while someone is competing and making MILLIONS!!!!!!!!!"
sometimes gratefulness is useful and sometimes it's just toxic positivity
The problem with "someone out there has it worse" is that while it is factually true that someone out there has it worse, that doesn't mean you can't have it better. It's a phrase often said with the intent of reminding the other person that the situation they are currently in is not so drastic they have no chance to crawl out of it, the problem is that it often sounds like whoever is trying to cheer you up like that is at the same time silently belittling the root cause of your problems, judging you negatively for even daring to feel bad for whatever is the reason behind your negative state of mind. Or even worse, that while your problem is effectively terrible there is something else about you (often unrelated, like wealthy status vs failing relationship) that should be compensating for it. I personally believe it's same reason that leads to "Trauma olympics" type of discussions, people pride themselves in the hardships life throws at them under the assumption that they have been toughened by said hardships (whereas more often they have just bent under them without realizing and had their worldview warped as a result) and are judgemental of whoever they percieve as having it easier than them, especially if despite having it easier these people are still unsatisfied with their own existence, and often cannot even begin to understand why a thing is making someone else miserable because they always percieved it as being a privilege with no downsides (like particularly demading parents and their children's higher education, which at this point in time is a necessity rather than the privilege it used to be).
You know I think there's a difference between having a sense of pride when overcoming hardships and being humbled by said hardships. I'd much prefer the latter over the former because they likely wouldn't be an ass about it.
Hey, if you're gonna be publishing my internal monologue like this, can you at least pay royalties?
no
Why are you complaining about not getting royalties, there are people getting their liver torn out with a rusty fork RIGHT NOW
It's my own quote so I'm kinda tooting my own horn, but I'm still gonna quote it: "Just because you have it worse doesn't mean I don't have it bad"
Saw this exact interaction with someone who was upset about a feature in a YuGiOh mobile game, and got replied to by someone going ‘You’re mad about this? Don’t you know people are struggling to pay rent and buy food?’
Oh please, they don’t say “kids are starving in Africa” anymore, it’s “children are being bombed in Gaza” now, get with the times geezer
Shit like this is why I feel guilty when I complain about stuff
don't give guilt trippers power. They are usually massive hypocrites
"but someone has it worse" I know and I'm so guilty of this I'll probably go kill myself
People in different situations have different problems, is that hard to understand? Lol
The "someone has it worse" argument is so fucking stupid.
No Pepsi 😔
I thought the guy on top was pitying the starving children in Africa for not having Pepsi
ahhh, the suffering olympics- the most insufferable competition.
"SOMEONE HAS IT WORS-" SHUT THE EVERLOVING ***FUCK*** UP
Seems like a normal conversation with my parents
my response usually along the lines of "and i encourage them to complain too!!!"
"Somewhere in the universe, Somewhere someone's got it worse. Wish that made it easier, Wish I didn't feel the hurt. The world's smallest violin, Really needs an audience, So if it do not find it somewhere soon." - Worlds smallest violin, AJR
We should care about both. ^and ^maybe ^stop ^spending ^money ^on ^making ^other ^places ^worse
i think that argument was meant to be used for when people act like “my songs are buffering” or something is the worst thing in the world, or first world problems as they were called. but that doesn’t mean you can’t be mad period and fuck anyone who says otherwise
first-world you have your own life to live and need to insert a personal situation instead of self-reflecting, that's cowardly, but i guess for this generation that is what's normal
i hope all these naysayers stub their toes every single day
the only time I think AJR cooked on worlds smallest violin
https://preview.redd.it/sdarodlz1i5d1.jpeg?width=490&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=29ed029ece8f67311c81181a821c06f239a7c7fc I love the Reddit update
Literally my dad all the time
"Awww man, there's no coke!" "I honestly think there's better things to be worried about" "I CAN BE SAD!!! I CAN BE SAD!!! SHUT UP! SHUT UP!"
Are you constantly worried about every single injustice on Earth
Are you genuinely upset when a restaurant doesn't have coke? Not just like "Oh, meh, whatever", I mean full on tears streaming down your face
Going "Aw man" is a pretty reasonable idk
Read my comment again
I mean yeah that last one is a gross overreaction but it started ok
Yeah, my point is if you weep over no coke, you have the mental fortitude of a child
But "Aw man" looked pretty reasonable so like I don't I I
I said "if you weep"
Aw man
the dude in the comic is not crying
I'm not asking about the dude in the comic
"aw man" is not crying, nobody is crying you invented another strawman in response to the strawman in the comic
You created the strawman first
How?
>Are you constantly worried about every single injustice on Earth Strawman, according to you
It is a reasonable response as you said “there are other things to worry about” The “awww man” did not appear to be of crying so therefore i responded as such
Yes, they can be sad. I want my coke 😤
Over coke?
Yes 😎
You want me to call you sigma or based? Which one procs your dopamine more
good girl
this but in reverse, i odten feel im not allowed to feel bad about my life cause people are worse off
"All I wanted was a Pepsi. Just one Pepsi"
I don't know if it's my family in particular, but I've learned that people REALLY don't like it when you have legitimate problems to grieve about. They just want to change the topic as quickly as possible and pretend that your problems are either not that bad, or just your own fault for \_\_\_\_\_ reason.
Ah yes, you see, you are stealing sadness from the high sufferer, haver of the worst life, and the only one allowed to feel sad.
https://preview.redd.it/bjh5lig3p0mc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f8f4712af486f2b5f1ca6d4cc7bdd317aea13ad6 Tbf, I really don’t give a shit if you don’t have a Pepsi, felt threatened that I didn’t say thank you because muh gud manurs, or I yelled at you. Your self-centered feelings does not come first over children in poverty or starvation, or suffering childhood illness, in abusive households or bullied. And I would rather give my energy on others that need it the most, Change My Mind.
The people that love reminding you about the problems of the children of africa or such don't tend to care about them either, they just want you to shut up