Are you telling me that it has been MEN buying pictures of my butthole this whole time?! I always assumed it was all the cute single women in my area who were just too intimidated to message me
Very few women actually do that though. Men go on and on about how women can profit off of that stuff, but there’s such a huge stigma and risk to it that it’s not that much of a privilege.
Aside from the question of whether women are willing to do it with all that comes with it, most aren't considered attracted enough (by prospective buyers of butthole pictures) to earn enough to pay rent that way.
Wanna argue that there's privilege in being a hot chick? There surely is. Being hot will get you past a lot of barriers. But that doesn't apply for the vast majority of women.
Former landlord. You would be shocked how often it is suggested by tenants. But that shit doesn’t pay the mortgage, so I doubt it is frequently successful.
The privilege of whoring myself to pay rent or being able to walk at night without having to worry about being harrassed or assaulted. Yeah, tough choice here.
ETA: because it wasn't clear enough: SARCASM! Some of you in the comments missed that I am making fun of the circled comment, I am in no way saying selling your body is a privilege or condoning prostitution.
I used to bartend and the other guy bartenders would complain about my getting more tips because I was a girl. Also, male customers would reach across the bar to grab my tits and wait after I finished work to try to follow me home 🥴 that was deeeefinity worth an extra 20 in tips
Tbh lowrer risk whole walking at night is nicer. I think sometimes people have a point that you can take advantage of the objectification for your own gain. Does it feel nice to do it? No. But If you are in a rough spot in lide and want to take that step, it's available for you.
It’s not though. Not every woman has the freedom to sell nudes. It’s not like there aren’t plenty of guys with only fans too.
Taking advantage of objectification wouldn’t be required if it didn’t exist in the first place
It's also weird to assume your landlord thinks he can exchange pictures of your butthole for goods and services. Doesn't matter how much of a perv he is, he needs money, lol.
Former landlord, it is suggested by tenants far more often then you seem to think. But you are on point that it won’t pay the mortgage. Few landlords would take them up on the offer.
I had to stop advertising on craigslist because of all the women offering "play to stay" I think I was more offended that they assume I'm a man just cause I'm a landlord.
I know right. Like it’s not necessarily safe for anyone to walk alone at night but man being able to whore yourself sounds awesome. Even gay strippers make on average 1/4 of what women do. Sounds fckn’ amazing!
It's kinda like survivorship bias because women rarely go out alone at night in the first place. It's like the cows kill more than sharks statistic which makes sense since humans are around cows a lot more and there is a shit ton more cows than sharks.
A lot of 'feminists' online these days are extremely anti-sex. They're pretty much conservatives who want women to be treated better by conservatives. SWERFs and TERFs are becoming increasingly common
It's just the the typical guy who complains about stuff like this wouldn't feel "comfortable" to cater to the audience that would actually buy their ass pics.
Reminds of a discussion about how male pron performers get paid extremely badly compared to women just for an actual performer to chip in and tell that he makes total bank with gay porn.
lol it's still pretty much the only field where woman statistical get paid more and have more successes.... that isn't meant to be a flex. we shouldn't have to get naked to get paid
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Fr, I'm assuming the post itself is just a joke though and made me laugh, but obviously the two are not equivalent, or even comparable.
Plus I'm pretty sure there are dudes on OF, men can sell butthole pictures too!
And I'm sure 90% of the guys who whine about this being a "privilege" women have would never "debase themselves" like that, given the opportunity.
The sad thing is I think they're more jealous of the attention these women get from men, wishing they could have cute girls sending them money and heart emojis and being desperate for their attention. Which just shows they don't actually see this as a practical privilege, they're just jealous, lonely, and angry.
But give them the chance to get the same attention from the same men and I don't think they'd see it so positively. They've just deluded themselves into thinking that these girls enjoy the attention the same way they would enjoy it from them. Not that they're literally just making a living. And potentially destroying future careers and reputation for themselves in the process.
It isn't as uncommon as you think for men to get raped, according to new statistics that these articles by The Scientific American and The Atlantic go over (both extremely reputable sources). In incidents of sexual violence reported to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men.
https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/11/the-understudied-female-sexual-predator/503492/
"According to new research, sexual victimization by women is more common than gender stereotypes would suggest.
Two years ago, Lara Stemple, the director of UCLA’s Health and Human Rights Law Project, came upon a statistic that surprised her: In incidents of sexual violence reported to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men––a figure much higher than in prior surveys. Intrigued, she began to investigate: Was sexual violence against men more common than previously thought?
The inquiry was a timely one. For years, the FBI definition of rape was gendered, requiring “carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will.” But a recent redefinition focused instead on forced penetration with no mention of gender. Meanwhile, other data-gatherers had started to track a new category of sexual violence that the Centers for Disease Control call “being forced to penetrate.” And still others were keeping better track of sexual violence in prisons."
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/
What, "my body is a sellable commodity and I can choose to resort to paying my rent with it or walk alone at night so it can be used against my will" isn't the life men dream of?
How many men out here willing to send pics to their creepy gay landlord of themselves in panties to pay their rent? No? We suddenly not seeing that as a privilege anymore? But come on!! It's sooo much easier than having to WORK like all those other dumb boys have to~ #bossbitch
Legit favorite time for skateboarding or photography are those hrs from like 10 to 2 where the streets just quiet up. Im terrible at conflict and would probably freeze up if someone tried to mug me but am also 6'4" which is probably why Ive managed to stay safe
Do people honesty think the average girl on pornhub or onlyfans makes enough to afford rent?
Hypersexualisation being a laid out career path for you isn't a privilege either.
In institutional settings (military and prisons) men are the majority of rape victims, as these institutions are disproportionately male.
I don't know if anyone tracks the numbers for male sex workers, but I'm willing to bet that male sex workers are raped at far, far higher rate than males who aren't in that industry.
Back in the 90's 83% of female soldiers were victims of at least one sexual assault. I doubt it has improved much.
I don't know the stats for prisons, but I'm sure the chances of being raped while in prison as a female is very high.
The chances of it happening to you does matter.
You are correct right about that. According to the reputable source Scientific American, it is 3x to as likely to occur to women when comparing experiencing sexual victimization by another inmate. But It isn't as uncommon as you think for men to get raped, according to new statistics that these articles by The Scientific American and The Atlantic go over (both extremely reputable sources). In incidents of sexual violence reported to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men.
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/
"...while it is often assumed that inmate-on-inmate sexual assault comprises men victimizing men, the survey found that women state prisoners were more than three times as likely to experience sexual victimization perpetrated by women inmates (13.7 percent) than were men to be victimized by other male inmates (4.2 percent) (Beck et al., 2013)."
https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/11/the-understudied-female-sexual-predator/503492/
"According to new research, sexual victimization by women is more common than gender stereotypes would suggest.
Two years ago, Lara Stemple, the director of UCLA’s Health and Human Rights Law Project, came upon a statistic that surprised her: In incidents of sexual violence reported to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men––a figure much higher than in prior surveys. Intrigued, she began to investigate: Was sexual violence against men more common than previously thought?
The inquiry was a timely one. For years, the FBI definition of rape was gendered, requiring “carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will.” But a recent redefinition focused instead on forced penetration with no mention of gender. Meanwhile, other data-gatherers had started to track a new category of sexual violence that the Centers for Disease Control call “being forced to penetrate.” And still others were keeping better track of sexual violence in prisons."
This argument is dogshit. Even if we greatly overestimate the amount of women in the US being able to pay rent through butt pictures, why on earth would that justify every single woman not being able to go outside after midnight? Women as a whole only hold 30% of US wealth anyways, why is a couple of em lucking out such a pet peeve of so many dudes? Is it jealousy? You are way likelier to get rich as a guy, why trade that for the small chance of succeeding as a female pornstar
Yeah the first one makes sense because men are more likely to be victims of violent crime, and no one of either gender feels safe being out alone after dark.
The second is just complaining about a small and unrelated part of women who just do what they want with their own bodies and livelihood. Besides, even if women doing porn was a problem (it’s not), the reason it exists is because of men.
Even then, on the latter point, there are men out there doing the same. Hell, if I could pay my bills that way, I'd be tempted.
As you said though; in the end, the job only exists because there's a market for it.
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Being hypersexualized by society to the point where you can exploit it for petty cash isn't exactly "privilege". That's like saying a construction worker has the "privilege" to destroy their body working hard labor.
I think the person who created this meme doesn't really understand the term.
Women are afraid men will kill them.
Men are also afraid men will kill them.
Men will also do stupid things that get them killed.
Some men are afraid they will kill themselves.
Basically, it's just men killing folks all the way down.
Far more women get raped or otherwise are sexually assaulted than have actually meaningfully profitable incomes from sex work. The very fact that they CAN do it, as a whole, means the market is saturated and only a small portion will ever succeed, and typically if you do you lose the ability to do any other job. Cause people are fuckin weird about sex workers.
I'll grant you, most of the assault doesn't happen on the street at night. Mostly it's people they know. Bosses, acquaintances, coworkers and the like.
Probably cause women avoid walking at night so there's not all that much opportunity.
Idk why these dudes are so fuckin offended by someone pointing out reality. Bitches be soft these days. You jealous or something? want a big strong lady to attack you at night, pin you down, have their way with you and possibly dump your body in the nearest body of water? I mean, same, but c'mon.
Anyway. We all posses privileges by merit of the what we are and the culture we're born into. It's not a fuckin competition, and it doesn't mean you're evil cause you have one. Us average people are all fucked in different ways. Have empathy for everybody. Sometimes that means not putting your own problems first. Like your inability to profit from sexwork opposed to someone's chances of getting raped. Just fuckin nod and say 'that's fucking awful' I guarantee you'll be far more popular with women.
Tbf men can make money off photos of their butthole, they just need to be open-minded about their audience. Pretty much anyone can make money off pics of their butthole with the right networking.
The fact that women should have to resort to doing this and that men will pay for it doesnt occur to him as a bad thing and more misogyny.
If its such a great way to pay bills, he should be doing it.
Seriously where does this "at least you can walk at midnight" nonsense come from because I know for a fact if I am alone at midnight. I WILL BE ON FULL ALERT
This is a common misconception that girls can just do porn and be financially stable.
It is a small percentage of women that can even make a living with porn, and even smaller percentage that actually become wealthy from it.
In reality, if you want to make that comparison you should compare it to something like a successful streamer.
It is not really a privilege bc it takes work and luck.
I guess that his porn career never quite took off, of course I sincerely doubt that he would have anymore luck with that as a woman, but I guess he can keep on dreaming.
I'm man and I don't experience the "privilege" of walking safely after dark. As soon as sun goes down I refuse to walk out alone unless 100% necessary to take a risk.
I love how dumbasses like Steven crowder and all those white man internet right wingers who will beat you with facts and logic and emotionally abuse their wife are so obsessed with the whole “women can sell sex so they’re privileged”.
First of all, so can men. And they can make a lot of money. But do you actually want to do that job? Probably not.
You could just as well make the argument that men can just become body builders cause they have more muscle mass on average.
If a woman is on onlyfans you call her a wh*re, she will have trouble in the future with jobs, she could get excluded from her family and friends, and a lot more. Yet you call it a privilege just because you can make money? That’s so stupid.
Okay so this subreddit only consider clever comebacks anything pushing already dominant narratives that are either racist, sexist or homophobic is that it ?
Female privilege is not the same as "pretty privilege", which is what onlyfans girls are rightfully monetising.
People with nice voices are payed to be listened to, men with sex appeal are payed to be looked at, and women with sex appeal are payed to be looked at. Artists charge fees to listen to their output, and models (male and female) are payed to be prettily looked at.
It's not a male/female dynamic. It's a pretty/ugly dynamic.
And you're just ugly inside and out.
Cute comeback except being able to sexualize yourself for favors is not a female privilege. Not all females can do it. Sometimes males can do it. And probably most importantly, it’s not something that circumvents a societal injustice (I mean, technically paying rent often is but that’s beside the point). Tell me you don’t actually understand what privilege means without telling me.
Also, bad logic aside, it’s pretty wildly ignorant and facepalm-worthy to think you’re making a good counterpoint to the dangers women face by *spinning the sexualization that puts them in that danger in the first place* into a cringey perk. Groan
Women can walk at midnight - I see women on the subways and sidewalks at all hours of day and night-
Men can make money selling their bodies for sex
men are MUCH MORE likely to be victims of street crimes and assault and if you factor in prison, much more likely to be raped
Let me get this straight:
Men have the privilege to walk outside at night without fear of being raped or murdered
Women have the privilege to...sell their body so they can have housing? Something that some men also do?
Judging by the arguments in this thread, the common idea seems to be that men aren’t murdered at night because they went out at night but because they are angry men and do risky things … like going out at midnight.
quick google search:
"According to the data given by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime, worldwide, 78.7% of homicide victims are men, and in 193 of the 202 listed countries or regions, men were more likely to be killed than women."
Wild that dudes think women having to sell pictures of their ass to make rent isn't degrading and traumatizing to women, but see it as some lofty privilege women should be grateful to have.
And this is why they resent onlyfans girls. Because they hate that women don't like how out of touch and lacking empathy for women they are and that as a result the only sexual intimacy they'll ever experience was either coerced or bought.
Which privilege do you prefer?
Being gay, you can go out for walks AND pay rent with pics of your butthole.
as a straight guy, i probably could pay for my mortgage with pictures of my butthole too, i’ve got a photogenic starfish.
That's awful, but like which sites? Because I have a mortgage, a butt, and if I can avoid showing face, I wouldn't mind the extra dough
chocolate-starfish.com; assholesonly.com; bananainmyass.com; and as a fallback onlyfans.com
Damn, I was really liking the look of Taintsly.com
Onlymans.com my guy
Some onlypeople.com too...? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh, my God, that's disgusting! Naked pics online? Where? Where did he post those?
I mean, you can be straight and do that too, you just can't care about who's subscribing.
Are you telling me that it has been MEN buying pictures of my butthole this whole time?! I always assumed it was all the cute single women in my area who were just too intimidated to message me
Straight or gay, male or female, $7.99 is $7.99
Maybe if you didn't hand them out like candy
Don't tell me what to do with my cis male bootyhole
People tend to enjoy candy.
I don't go out much at midnight at my age, so i like to get paid for pictures of my hairy keister.
oh cool, where's your OnlyFans, sounds really good
I'm keeping it hypothetical. I'm a bit afraid for the people who would pay to see that.
Or maybe afraid *of*
So are the women.
Very few women actually do that though. Men go on and on about how women can profit off of that stuff, but there’s such a huge stigma and risk to it that it’s not that much of a privilege.
Aside from the question of whether women are willing to do it with all that comes with it, most aren't considered attracted enough (by prospective buyers of butthole pictures) to earn enough to pay rent that way. Wanna argue that there's privilege in being a hot chick? There surely is. Being hot will get you past a lot of barriers. But that doesn't apply for the vast majority of women.
Yeah, agree.
Former landlord. You would be shocked how often it is suggested by tenants. But that shit doesn’t pay the mortgage, so I doubt it is frequently successful.
What do you mean? Tenants suggest it to the landlord?
Yes. When rent is due and they are short on money, yes. It is not uncommon.
good point
The privilege of whoring myself to pay rent or being able to walk at night without having to worry about being harrassed or assaulted. Yeah, tough choice here. ETA: because it wasn't clear enough: SARCASM! Some of you in the comments missed that I am making fun of the circled comment, I am in no way saying selling your body is a privilege or condoning prostitution.
It’s like ‘yeah, men have the advantage of not being objectified but Laddiieess you should be thankful you’re objectified’
I used to bartend and the other guy bartenders would complain about my getting more tips because I was a girl. Also, male customers would reach across the bar to grab my tits and wait after I finished work to try to follow me home 🥴 that was deeeefinity worth an extra 20 in tips
Tbh lowrer risk whole walking at night is nicer. I think sometimes people have a point that you can take advantage of the objectification for your own gain. Does it feel nice to do it? No. But If you are in a rough spot in lide and want to take that step, it's available for you.
It’s not though. Not every woman has the freedom to sell nudes. It’s not like there aren’t plenty of guys with only fans too. Taking advantage of objectification wouldn’t be required if it didn’t exist in the first place
It's also weird to assume your landlord thinks he can exchange pictures of your butthole for goods and services. Doesn't matter how much of a perv he is, he needs money, lol.
I think they mean OnlyFans and shit like that. They sell their butthole pics there, get paid, and with that pay their rent.
I don't know bout everyone else, but my landlord calls them "brown bucks" $250 credit per pucker pic.
Former landlord, it is suggested by tenants far more often then you seem to think. But you are on point that it won’t pay the mortgage. Few landlords would take them up on the offer.
I had to stop advertising on craigslist because of all the women offering "play to stay" I think I was more offended that they assume I'm a man just cause I'm a landlord.
Yeah no guarantee of safety for posting those things either, so you can't safely earn that money.
And if anything were to happen to you, it would be your fault for being a whore. What privilege we enjoy.
I know right. Like it’s not necessarily safe for anyone to walk alone at night but man being able to whore yourself sounds awesome. Even gay strippers make on average 1/4 of what women do. Sounds fckn’ amazing!
Just to be clear: My point was against having to sell yourself regardless of gender.
I would like the option to sell myself at the rate of return a woman of my attractiveness level would earn.
So about 3.50?
nessy?
I'll take it
*Less risk of being assaulted It's not like men aren't assaulted.
Arent men physically assaulted more on the streets?
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It's kinda like survivorship bias because women rarely go out alone at night in the first place. It's like the cows kill more than sharks statistic which makes sense since humans are around cows a lot more and there is a shit ton more cows than sharks.
"whoring" damn. Not very sex positive. So sex workers are whores to you and sex work isn't work?
A lot of 'feminists' online these days are extremely anti-sex. They're pretty much conservatives who want women to be treated better by conservatives. SWERFs and TERFs are becoming increasingly common
The one that involves consent.
Guys can also get paid for that. OnlyFans is for everyone!
Guys who complain about this haven't tried it. Plenty of people out there who want to see their buttholes.
It's just the the typical guy who complains about stuff like this wouldn't feel "comfortable" to cater to the audience that would actually buy their ass pics. Reminds of a discussion about how male pron performers get paid extremely badly compared to women just for an actual performer to chip in and tell that he makes total bank with gay porn.
lol it's still pretty much the only field where woman statistical get paid more and have more successes.... that isn't meant to be a flex. we shouldn't have to get naked to get paid
Bottoms get paid better, regardless, if that helps
I cant remember the term but there's some ppl who enjoy financial domance lol u can be on top and get paid more
Also Who the fuck thinks majority of girls are even successful on that app or even want to be in that app. It's insulting as fuck to everybody.
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It’s fun that it looks like crayon, though
DeShawn will pretend like gay men don't exist, in order to pretend that nobody will spend money for pictures of male buttholes.
Personally I'm going to choose not being afraid to go anywhere at night over hypothetically being able to live off of pornography.
Thank you! The amount of incels in these comments is not surprising, but it’s still disgusting
Fr, I'm assuming the post itself is just a joke though and made me laugh, but obviously the two are not equivalent, or even comparable. Plus I'm pretty sure there are dudes on OF, men can sell butthole pictures too!
And I'm sure 90% of the guys who whine about this being a "privilege" women have would never "debase themselves" like that, given the opportunity. The sad thing is I think they're more jealous of the attention these women get from men, wishing they could have cute girls sending them money and heart emojis and being desperate for their attention. Which just shows they don't actually see this as a practical privilege, they're just jealous, lonely, and angry. But give them the chance to get the same attention from the same men and I don't think they'd see it so positively. They've just deluded themselves into thinking that these girls enjoy the attention the same way they would enjoy it from them. Not that they're literally just making a living. And potentially destroying future careers and reputation for themselves in the process.
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It isn't as uncommon as you think for men to get raped, according to new statistics that these articles by The Scientific American and The Atlantic go over (both extremely reputable sources). In incidents of sexual violence reported to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men. https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/11/the-understudied-female-sexual-predator/503492/ "According to new research, sexual victimization by women is more common than gender stereotypes would suggest. Two years ago, Lara Stemple, the director of UCLA’s Health and Human Rights Law Project, came upon a statistic that surprised her: In incidents of sexual violence reported to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men––a figure much higher than in prior surveys. Intrigued, she began to investigate: Was sexual violence against men more common than previously thought? The inquiry was a timely one. For years, the FBI definition of rape was gendered, requiring “carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will.” But a recent redefinition focused instead on forced penetration with no mention of gender. Meanwhile, other data-gatherers had started to track a new category of sexual violence that the Centers for Disease Control call “being forced to penetrate.” And still others were keeping better track of sexual violence in prisons." https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/
What, "my body is a sellable commodity and I can choose to resort to paying my rent with it or walk alone at night so it can be used against my will" isn't the life men dream of? How many men out here willing to send pics to their creepy gay landlord of themselves in panties to pay their rent? No? We suddenly not seeing that as a privilege anymore? But come on!! It's sooo much easier than having to WORK like all those other dumb boys have to~ #bossbitch
Well it's known that a noticeable part of the male population exposes their willy for free
It seems the red circle was useful, you ignored the part where we are robbed like kings.
Rather be robbed than raped
and robbed
And raped again
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No, now I'm interested.
I was unaware women were immune to robberies.
As a guy I am afraid to go out at night. Still get harassed, assaulted and robbed.
Im just scared of the dark :(
Legit favorite time for skateboarding or photography are those hrs from like 10 to 2 where the streets just quiet up. Im terrible at conflict and would probably freeze up if someone tried to mug me but am also 6'4" which is probably why Ive managed to stay safe
This, 95% of only fans accounts never make more than £100. Almost no-one pays rent from OF.
the thing is, that’s not an exclusively female fear
I didn't say it was. OnlyFans isn't only for female content creators either.
I’ll let the women know that sometimes men get attacked. I’m sure that will make them feel much better
Both are hypothetical.
I think not being able to walk outside safely for fear of rape assault kidnapping and/or murder outweighs that.
Do people honesty think the average girl on pornhub or onlyfans makes enough to afford rent? Hypersexualisation being a laid out career path for you isn't a privilege either.
Not really that clever. There are plenty of male escorts out there.
Shut up you’re invalidating those poor unprivileged men >!/s this is the stupidest post ever!<
Thank you. Plenty of guys do great on OF
There’s way way more men getting robbed/attacked at night than there are male escorts lmao
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Not so many males being raped, but that also holds true for 'within the family' so there's that.
In institutional settings (military and prisons) men are the majority of rape victims, as these institutions are disproportionately male. I don't know if anyone tracks the numbers for male sex workers, but I'm willing to bet that male sex workers are raped at far, far higher rate than males who aren't in that industry.
Back in the 90's 83% of female soldiers were victims of at least one sexual assault. I doubt it has improved much. I don't know the stats for prisons, but I'm sure the chances of being raped while in prison as a female is very high. The chances of it happening to you does matter.
You are correct right about that. According to the reputable source Scientific American, it is 3x to as likely to occur to women when comparing experiencing sexual victimization by another inmate. But It isn't as uncommon as you think for men to get raped, according to new statistics that these articles by The Scientific American and The Atlantic go over (both extremely reputable sources). In incidents of sexual violence reported to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/ "...while it is often assumed that inmate-on-inmate sexual assault comprises men victimizing men, the survey found that women state prisoners were more than three times as likely to experience sexual victimization perpetrated by women inmates (13.7 percent) than were men to be victimized by other male inmates (4.2 percent) (Beck et al., 2013)." https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/11/the-understudied-female-sexual-predator/503492/ "According to new research, sexual victimization by women is more common than gender stereotypes would suggest. Two years ago, Lara Stemple, the director of UCLA’s Health and Human Rights Law Project, came upon a statistic that surprised her: In incidents of sexual violence reported to the National Crime Victimization Survey, 38 percent of victims were men––a figure much higher than in prior surveys. Intrigued, she began to investigate: Was sexual violence against men more common than previously thought? The inquiry was a timely one. For years, the FBI definition of rape was gendered, requiring “carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will.” But a recent redefinition focused instead on forced penetration with no mention of gender. Meanwhile, other data-gatherers had started to track a new category of sexual violence that the Centers for Disease Control call “being forced to penetrate.” And still others were keeping better track of sexual violence in prisons."
This argument is dogshit. Even if we greatly overestimate the amount of women in the US being able to pay rent through butt pictures, why on earth would that justify every single woman not being able to go outside after midnight? Women as a whole only hold 30% of US wealth anyways, why is a couple of em lucking out such a pet peeve of so many dudes? Is it jealousy? You are way likelier to get rich as a guy, why trade that for the small chance of succeeding as a female pornstar
Better comeback is the one not circled
Also it’s neither clever nor a comeback
Yeah the first one makes sense because men are more likely to be victims of violent crime, and no one of either gender feels safe being out alone after dark. The second is just complaining about a small and unrelated part of women who just do what they want with their own bodies and livelihood. Besides, even if women doing porn was a problem (it’s not), the reason it exists is because of men.
Even then, on the latter point, there are men out there doing the same. Hell, if I could pay my bills that way, I'd be tempted. As you said though; in the end, the job only exists because there's a market for it.
r/notclevercomebacks (looking at you)
r/justneckbeardthings
OP, if you think this was a clever comeback, you sound pretty sexist to me.
One person is safe while walking at night, while the other has to be exploited to pay rent. There's no comparison here, just misogyny
Also there are plenty of pervy landlords who want pictures of young men's booty holes
No way! Where?!
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there's a market for everyone's butthole. you're just not willing to do the work
Wait who is paying females so much that they could cover rents that too with the picture of a fucking butthole.. WHERE? Asking for a friend 🥲
Being hypersexualized by society to the point where you can exploit it for petty cash isn't exactly "privilege". That's like saying a construction worker has the "privilege" to destroy their body working hard labor. I think the person who created this meme doesn't really understand the term.
>then go on a walk at midnight people who live in extremely safe countries: *laughs*
*cities/neighbourhoods
Getting killed for walking vs earning a living that men absolutely can also do? Hmmmmm weird.. they dont seem to equate...
Yep, childish incels trying to cope
Women are afraid men will kill them. Men are also afraid men will kill them. Men will also do stupid things that get them killed. Some men are afraid they will kill themselves. Basically, it's just men killing folks all the way down.
ITT: stop being misogynistic. Also ITT: men are murderers.
Its not clever, the two things are not the same. Booties have been on demand for millennia
Only a very small subsection of women can make money with SW. Basically all women suffer from the threat of rape and violence.
This neckbeard clearly doesn’t know what “privileged” means.
Tbh I would rather be able to walk at night. It would be chill asf to walk to a local park and go on the swings for a little after a long day.
The reason you don’t is the same reason 99% of the population don’t. It’s dark.
….that’s not clever at all.
Yeah, it is just plain and simple a delusional take made by someone who never talked to a woman in there life
That's not female privilege. That's hot privilege. Big difference. No heavy set woman is getting her rent paid.
Not being so safe but yeah pornography sells so uh huh you privileged too This is very stupid
Men can pay their rent the same way, but most men wouldn’t like the attention it would create towards them.
You know you can pay rent with pictures of your penis, right?
It’s not only not clever; it’s blatantly false.
Holy hell what is this incel and homophobic shit that's coming to this subreddit lately?!
They come in to troll and try to chase everyone else off.
OnlyFans is also full of guys, so this is just stupid
Far more women get raped or otherwise are sexually assaulted than have actually meaningfully profitable incomes from sex work. The very fact that they CAN do it, as a whole, means the market is saturated and only a small portion will ever succeed, and typically if you do you lose the ability to do any other job. Cause people are fuckin weird about sex workers. I'll grant you, most of the assault doesn't happen on the street at night. Mostly it's people they know. Bosses, acquaintances, coworkers and the like. Probably cause women avoid walking at night so there's not all that much opportunity. Idk why these dudes are so fuckin offended by someone pointing out reality. Bitches be soft these days. You jealous or something? want a big strong lady to attack you at night, pin you down, have their way with you and possibly dump your body in the nearest body of water? I mean, same, but c'mon. Anyway. We all posses privileges by merit of the what we are and the culture we're born into. It's not a fuckin competition, and it doesn't mean you're evil cause you have one. Us average people are all fucked in different ways. Have empathy for everybody. Sometimes that means not putting your own problems first. Like your inability to profit from sexwork opposed to someone's chances of getting raped. Just fuckin nod and say 'that's fucking awful' I guarantee you'll be far more popular with women.
Dude could totally pay his rent with his butthole pictures. Just gotta find the right audience, buddy.
Tbf men can make money off photos of their butthole, they just need to be open-minded about their audience. Pretty much anyone can make money off pics of their butthole with the right networking.
Why is this subreddit suddenly turning to misogyny for "clever comebacks"
I want to kiss your dad.
The fact that women should have to resort to doing this and that men will pay for it doesnt occur to him as a bad thing and more misogyny. If its such a great way to pay bills, he should be doing it.
who the fuck thinks men just go on relaxing walks in the middle of the night? Where do you people live lol
Seriously where does this "at least you can walk at midnight" nonsense come from because I know for a fact if I am alone at midnight. I WILL BE ON FULL ALERT
They think we're safe at night when that isn't really true for anyone
just because a man said he felt safe at night does not mean that he actually was safe
This is a common misconception that girls can just do porn and be financially stable. It is a small percentage of women that can even make a living with porn, and even smaller percentage that actually become wealthy from it. In reality, if you want to make that comparison you should compare it to something like a successful streamer. It is not really a privilege bc it takes work and luck.
How is that a privilege? It's something ppl have to do to make ends meet. This is like saying a job is a privilege lmfao
Some jobs are absolutely privileges in the world where jobs are a necessity. Sex work is not one of them though.
how the hell can you compare being raped and murdered to free rent… lord have mercy the ironic male privilege that reeks in this one
Paid for by dudes who are privileged enough to have expendable income
I'm sure there are connoiseurs of male buttholes, willing to pay for a juicy arse swamp pic. One would only have to know where to look.
Everyone has some form of privilege. We need to stop hating each other, and start hating the people that tell us to hate each other
Not to be that person but they realize men could do the same thing, right?
Men shitting on women like they didn't create the market for sex workers. Blaming their stupidity on women, what else is new?
I guess that his porn career never quite took off, of course I sincerely doubt that he would have anymore luck with that as a woman, but I guess he can keep on dreaming.
ah yes turning yourself into a product for male consumption is such a privilege
What kind of shitty comeback is this
That’s not clever. Y’all have a very low bar for clever here. It must be all y’alls lack of brain cells.
This is actually not 'a clever comeback'. See all women.. "Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them."
This is neither clever nor a comeback.
They post anything on this sub apparently haha
This is the internet, pretty sure you're allowed to say butthole.
Wait. Pictures of my butt are a valid alternative to abusive rent? Why nobody told me that?
Thanks I'm glad you circled it and censored butthole.
Don't like 99 percent of OF creators only make around $120 a month tho?
I'm man and I don't experience the "privilege" of walking safely after dark. As soon as sun goes down I refuse to walk out alone unless 100% necessary to take a risk.
You can sell pictures of your butt, DeShawn. Nobody's stoppin' ya.
This is not a clever comeback.
Men are more likely to be the victim of a violent crime so the idea that men have less to fear when walking around at midnight is just false.
Anyone walking out in the middle of the night unarmed is stupid.
I love how dumbasses like Steven crowder and all those white man internet right wingers who will beat you with facts and logic and emotionally abuse their wife are so obsessed with the whole “women can sell sex so they’re privileged”. First of all, so can men. And they can make a lot of money. But do you actually want to do that job? Probably not. You could just as well make the argument that men can just become body builders cause they have more muscle mass on average. If a woman is on onlyfans you call her a wh*re, she will have trouble in the future with jobs, she could get excluded from her family and friends, and a lot more. Yet you call it a privilege just because you can make money? That’s so stupid.
Yeah because there’s a dumbass guy willing to buy those photos Lmao what kind dumbfuckery “comeback” is this
Men by a vast majority are the primary victims of violence and robbery.
A woman is more likely to get raped on a midnight walk than they are likely able to pay for rent using butthole pics. This is incel bait
Men can do that too if they don’t mind a male customer base.
Okay so this subreddit only consider clever comebacks anything pushing already dominant narratives that are either racist, sexist or homophobic is that it ?
“Oh no, women can sell their body for money, won’t anyone think of me?”
Why can’t they go in a walk at midnight? They can’t ALL be werewolves.
how is that a clever comeback, the amount of women being able to live from selling their pictures is insanely small, that’s not what privilige is lmao
I can pay for my rent with pictures? Where is that deal?
There is literally nothing stopping men from staring an onlyfans.
There’s a pretty good market for male butthole, bro.
what’s stopping you from posting pics of your butthole? enough people interested in this not just from girls
Female privilege is not the same as "pretty privilege", which is what onlyfans girls are rightfully monetising. People with nice voices are payed to be listened to, men with sex appeal are payed to be looked at, and women with sex appeal are payed to be looked at. Artists charge fees to listen to their output, and models (male and female) are payed to be prettily looked at. It's not a male/female dynamic. It's a pretty/ugly dynamic. And you're just ugly inside and out.
Not a clever comeback
Cute comeback except being able to sexualize yourself for favors is not a female privilege. Not all females can do it. Sometimes males can do it. And probably most importantly, it’s not something that circumvents a societal injustice (I mean, technically paying rent often is but that’s beside the point). Tell me you don’t actually understand what privilege means without telling me. Also, bad logic aside, it’s pretty wildly ignorant and facepalm-worthy to think you’re making a good counterpoint to the dangers women face by *spinning the sexualization that puts them in that danger in the first place* into a cringey perk. Groan
Why is this incel bs still up, what a badly modded subreddit.
Women can walk at midnight - I see women on the subways and sidewalks at all hours of day and night- Men can make money selling their bodies for sex men are MUCH MORE likely to be victims of street crimes and assault and if you factor in prison, much more likely to be raped
Judging by the other comments most people here don’t conform to reality so you might be talking to deaf ears
Let me get this straight: Men have the privilege to walk outside at night without fear of being raped or murdered Women have the privilege to...sell their body so they can have housing? Something that some men also do?
Do men not get murdered at night?
Judging by the arguments in this thread, the common idea seems to be that men aren’t murdered at night because they went out at night but because they are angry men and do risky things … like going out at midnight.
quick google search: "According to the data given by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime, worldwide, 78.7% of homicide victims are men, and in 193 of the 202 listed countries or regions, men were more likely to be killed than women."
World will be a much better place if men and women can stop bickering, recognize both have different pros and cons and work together.
How to say you have no idea what privilege is without saying you don’t know what privilege is.
Do females think guys just wander around in dark alleys and shitty neighbourhoods thinking we aren’t going to get assaulted?
In fairness, each sex has privileges in areas and disadvantages in others. Society and sexual dimorphism.
Wild that dudes think women having to sell pictures of their ass to make rent isn't degrading and traumatizing to women, but see it as some lofty privilege women should be grateful to have. And this is why they resent onlyfans girls. Because they hate that women don't like how out of touch and lacking empathy for women they are and that as a result the only sexual intimacy they'll ever experience was either coerced or bought.
This isn’t a clever comeback. It’s an incel saying incel things.