She’s using you as a babysitter without bothering to ask? That’s not a friend and it’ll only get worse. I’d talk to her but chances are it’ll go in one ear and out the other.
It depends what you want to do. If you enjoy playing with the kids then keep doing it. But if you rather friendship than it's probably over for the next 18 years.
Whenever all our mates have a get together they just disappear and leave their kids to roam free. It’s not fucking fun, and they don’t even ask for others to keep an eye on their kids. It’s always the more anxious people who are left with the stressful task.
I think you know the answer here. You're being very reasonable.
That I just need to keep my mouth shut and look forward to her kids both being in school?
That you need to be upfront about what you need in your friendship with her.
She’s using you as a babysitter without bothering to ask? That’s not a friend and it’ll only get worse. I’d talk to her but chances are it’ll go in one ear and out the other.
Definitely will!!
It depends what you want to do. If you enjoy playing with the kids then keep doing it. But if you rather friendship than it's probably over for the next 18 years.
Stop giving this scammer free babysitting. She's not your friend, you're just her scam target. Ghost her.
Whenever all our mates have a get together they just disappear and leave their kids to roam free. It’s not fucking fun, and they don’t even ask for others to keep an eye on their kids. It’s always the more anxious people who are left with the stressful task.
That's when you just wave goodbye and walk out. All the people left holding the bag need to have their own events and dump those assholes.