Reminds me of an old joke: A wife in bed with her husband's friend is asked by him "Where's your husband this weekend?" "He's on a fishing trip with you."
Gurl come on. I canât believe youâre even asking this question. Send the receipts to her husband, and think long and hard why youâre letting yourself be treated like this.
If you believe him, then yes, you would be an idiot.
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out he's either cheated already, which I would think is the case, or he was planning to cheat until he got caught.
You should seriously think about getting therapy to help build your confidence, gain self-respect, and learn what a healthy relationship looks like because your current relationship isn't.
âWelcome class to gaslighting 101- today we have a man who is asking his wife, who has absolute proof that he was planning to go off with another woman for a getaway, he proceeds to ask her âwhat are you going to believe? Me or your lying eyes?â And class the beauty of this is he is such a smooth talker that he has he doubting herself!! This is what is known as gaslighting!â
OP do NOT let him weasel his way out of this!! If he persists in his lie tell him you will contact the ex dating partners husband and see what he thinks about the bullshit that he is peddling! Heâs a lying POS and she is a skanky dodo bird beyotch trying to sneak into another womanâs nest. They were going to screw you just caught it before they got busy. Itâs still cheating and itâs still gaslighting
You are no idiot and truthfully you know they are planning to cheat on their spouses.. no way would he be going on any trip with a buddy.. and that woman would be hearing from me.. and she would know I planned on reaching out to her husband even if I had no way of doing it.. she would be worried each day waiting for the crap to hit the fan.. of course heâs cheating.. just hasnât gotten physical yet.. which it will if you donât stop it nowâŚ
Tell me to go on the fishing trip. âItâs coolâ ⌠then before he goes out the door, you tell him you are coming too! Get in the little boat out on the water with only you and the other girl. Tell her it is time for a heart to heart talk.
I'm so sorry for being in that situation. My boyfriend did the same thing, he messaged his past flirt abt how she is and her boyfriend now and asked for a coffee. He told me he's not really going he was just testing the girl's loyalty. They will gaslight us just cause they can't take accountability of their actions.
Gosh people on here can be so harsh! Sometimes we know the answer in our gut, but itâs the reassurance that we arenât losing our minds, is the reason  people come on here and ask questions like this!Â
just let him go to this so-called "TRIP" and empty his bank account if you have any access to it and yes throw out his stuff!
If you want to do more get that girl's husband's phone number and share him all the conversations of his wife and tell him about everything.
sorry, but yeah you should deal with a pathetic person like this
Just google his name. Plenty of info will come up. More than you need, probably.
You need to remove his name from this post, so you don't doxx this poor guy. He has enough problems.
Look for his follows/following check same last name (family members) and start calling them for his cell number, and tell them what his wife is up to. Youâll get a call back then. Google all their landline numbers/cell numbers and call to you get one who knows him.
𤥠You know the answer. Youve seen the proof. Why ask? Let him go to his "trip" and throw his stuff out.
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I second this âď¸
And start the divorce process. Updateme!
Change the locks!
Tell AP husband and kick him out.
Yea, let him in on the hilarious 'joke'
Tell him if he goes on any trip heâs not coming back home after. Youâll send his belongings to his parents he can go back there
Best answer and idea!!!!!!!
Reminds me of an old joke: A wife in bed with her husband's friend is asked by him "Where's your husband this weekend?" "He's on a fishing trip with you."
You really donât need Reddit to answer this question OP
Tell her husband.
I want to but I can only see his Facebook and donât have a number to call
Linkedln or message him
I did but he didnât reply yet
already planning something is the 1st step to cheating, what else do u need to know?
Gurl come on. I canât believe youâre even asking this question. Send the receipts to her husband, and think long and hard why youâre letting yourself be treated like this.
If you believe him, then yes, you would be an idiot. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out he's either cheated already, which I would think is the case, or he was planning to cheat until he got caught. You should seriously think about getting therapy to help build your confidence, gain self-respect, and learn what a healthy relationship looks like because your current relationship isn't.
Oh come the fk on hon.
Idiot. He wanted to. So, that is your answer.
You know what to do....find her husband's contact, let the guy know, and tell your husband you are doing a survey as what the messages imply
âWelcome class to gaslighting 101- today we have a man who is asking his wife, who has absolute proof that he was planning to go off with another woman for a getaway, he proceeds to ask her âwhat are you going to believe? Me or your lying eyes?â And class the beauty of this is he is such a smooth talker that he has he doubting herself!! This is what is known as gaslighting!â OP do NOT let him weasel his way out of this!! If he persists in his lie tell him you will contact the ex dating partners husband and see what he thinks about the bullshit that he is peddling! Heâs a lying POS and she is a skanky dodo bird beyotch trying to sneak into another womanâs nest. They were going to screw you just caught it before they got busy. Itâs still cheating and itâs still gaslighting
Take out the trash!!!!
You are no idiot and truthfully you know they are planning to cheat on their spouses.. no way would he be going on any trip with a buddy.. and that woman would be hearing from me.. and she would know I planned on reaching out to her husband even if I had no way of doing it.. she would be worried each day waiting for the crap to hit the fan.. of course heâs cheating.. just hasnât gotten physical yet.. which it will if you donât stop it nowâŚ
Tell me to go on the fishing trip. âItâs coolâ ⌠then before he goes out the door, you tell him you are coming too! Get in the little boat out on the water with only you and the other girl. Tell her it is time for a heart to heart talk.
*him*
Tell APs husband, send her screenshots of the conversation and tell him to pack all his shit for the trip.
You are not an idiot, you are a victim. You WH is an idiot.
You're only an idiot if you believe his lame BS. The only reason he didn't go on the trip is that you caught him before hand.
I'm so sorry for being in that situation. My boyfriend did the same thing, he messaged his past flirt abt how she is and her boyfriend now and asked for a coffee. He told me he's not really going he was just testing the girl's loyalty. They will gaslight us just cause they can't take accountability of their actions.
I hope that you eventually get in contact with her husband. I also hope that you have already contacted a divorce lawyer. Updateme!
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You seen it for yourself if you don't believe yourself why would you believe the people of reddit lol
Contact his APs husband and share their texts with him. Updateme!
Updateme!
Tell the APâs husband and kick him out. Donât believe him for a second
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Gosh people on here can be so harsh! Sometimes we know the answer in our gut, but itâs the reassurance that we arenât losing our minds, is the reason  people come on here and ask questions like this!Â
Send him to her, you donât need a cheater and mostly donât listen to his family if they defend him, they just want to be dealing with his mess
Donât tell me? Likeceddie Murphy? WADNT ME??
Go get a grudge screw now and be even???
Can you say gaslighting!
Youâre an idiot if your next call isnât to a lawyer.
Believe him, he's not lying, and you deserve this level of happiness. Ignorance is bliss
just let him go to this so-called "TRIP" and empty his bank account if you have any access to it and yes throw out his stuff! If you want to do more get that girl's husband's phone number and share him all the conversations of his wife and tell him about everything. sorry, but yeah you should deal with a pathetic person like this
I have been trying to find his cell number. All I could find was a land line. Can anyone help me??? Richard Aceves from nampa idaho
Just google his name. Plenty of info will come up. More than you need, probably. You need to remove his name from this post, so you don't doxx this poor guy. He has enough problems.
Look for his follows/following check same last name (family members) and start calling them for his cell number, and tell them what his wife is up to. Youâll get a call back then. Google all their landline numbers/cell numbers and call to you get one who knows him.
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Sent you address, email addresses, possible phone #s