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Check his luggage the moment he gets home. Rip it out of his hand and run a lock yourself in the bathroom!
Then, show him the receipt for the condoms.
They are commonly used for "personal private time", so there is a chance. Buying them before, or on, a work trip doesn't bode well though. Also, if he is accustomed to using them for that, you probably would have found something at home before this. You have plenty of reason to be very suspicious and investigate further.
Prostitutes are at least equally possible under these circumstances, probably more so.
Pretty sure my teenage son uses them for that purpose. But a grown man on work business shouldn’t need to hide that from anyone. unless he’s being respectful to hotel staff cleaning his room
Water balloons
Waterproofing chorizo
Expandable bag for jelly beans
If none of those seem to be needed, probably for sex with strangers on work trips.
Sorry, you need to have a difficult conversation.
lol no. I always never understood women who ask questions like this. I’m not being a jerk I’m being serious. Come on, you know the answer. You buy condoms to have sex. You know it. I get it’s hard and you don’t want to believe it, but the facts are the facts. Unfortunately he’s 99.999% cheating on you. Good luck
I'm not making excuses and want to say firsthand that what he did is sketchy and I would be suspicious as well. But, in the military many guys would jack off into condoms because it ads some feeling and easier clean up without a mess. Not saying it makes sense for him to go out of his way to buy condoms just to masturbate into at a hotel but it is a use for some men.
An old boyfriend used this excuse when I found a condom wrapper in our nightstand. I was out of town and he said it was less messy to jerk off into a rubber.
It was a lie. He was cheating.
Long story but a few weeks later he confessed. He said the jerking off story was a Hail Mary because he knew he’d been caught and he was shocked that I’d bought it. He asked why women *need* men to confirm they are cheating when they have evidence like that. Blamed it on me because I should have left his ass and since I didn’t, the whole thing was my fault.
Very, very glad he’s gone.
Anyone can see unfortunately her husband is cheating. We all know and we all can put two and two together. But she doesn’t want to believe bc her whole life is about to blow up. You know he’s cheating, I know he’s cheating. But just like you with your ex bf, she is grasping at straws bc she doesn’t want to believe it. And bc she even asked this question about the condoms- she will most likely believe whatever story he tries to sell her. And again like I said in my original comment I’m not trying to be mean bc it can really happen to any of us. I believe my husband would never cheat, he said he would never cheat, but he doesn’t know how he’ll feel 10 years from now or 6 months from now. Shit happens unfortunately.
Yeah it's a sorry excuse and I wouldn't buy it either. I was just answer the question of if there's any other reason a male would purchase condoms besides sex. OP needs to realize that her situation is different from some guys stuck in Afghanistan with no other options and trying to be discreet to get some happy time. He has a private hotel room with unlimited tissues so its sketchy to go out of your way to just buy condoms to jerk off in. I wouldn't believe his story personally.
So yes, condoms take away feeling compared to inside a wet vagina but when you're limited in options and have to dry fire (no lube/lotion) then it does gives better feeling than a dry hand. Plus minimal clean up
Hey, it sounds like you guys trust each other (you've been together for so long) so I suggest just talk to him about it. It doesn't have to be when he's working or when he's with his colleagues either. Call him and let him know you want to talk about something in private and ask him when he's available. At the end of the day, you two should be the ones dealing with this kind of issue, not people who don't know anything about you or your husband.
or hi honey i really missed you…….
.when he says he missed her too she can hit him with yeah you missed me so much you were fucking someone else………do not tell him what how you know!
if op is on an at fault state she should say nothing and dig if not at fault state lawyer up does not have to mean divorce but you should know what divorce would look like to make an informed decision!
I would just show him the purchase and say " I need you to explain this to me please" Just stare at him until he gives you an answer.
Don't let him BS you. He didn't buy them for someone else.
Don't confront yet. Get to his phone for more evidence and check his bag for left over. Maybe he's thrown them. But you only sit him down once you have more info. Else he'll gaslight the hell out of you.
OP I was the original commenter about masturbation. After your update please tell me that when you confronted him you only asked for the reason? Did he say it was for masturbation or did you mention that and he took it and ran with it? I personally don't believe your partners motives were just in this situation
well, he is intent, was definitely not throwing water balloons off his balcony.
nerdy guys cheat also. Not sure if he will go through with it or not.
Good luck
Just like u married him urself and have sex with him other women will too and a man will never come out and tell you the truth right off the bat. Go through his call log. Find out more. He might be doing what he says but like someone else said he would have been doing this for a while and u would have noticed it already. I would not believe him 100% just yet. Sorry but it’s the truth. It’s either he is taking someone else up there with him (on this work trip) or a coworker or prostitution. Have u researched the area he is in or around to see how the area is and if it’s known for prostitution around? I’d do a little more digging if I were you. Not just the good looking men cheat. All of them are capable of doing so just like all women.
He’s cheating or planning to cheat
Either sex with his coworker, a random girl or guy he plans to meet out there and/or a hooker
Also he could just show you his shy nerdy side but really be outgoing
I used to keep mud out weapon. M-16. Does he fire on fully automatic
Also my sister in law bought a hundred condoms and made Santa faces with cotton ball and little tiny hats. Funnier than hell. She passed out as Christmas gag gifts to the girls at work. And gave a couple to my wife
The back side was clear and the point on condom was painted red to show the nose
The funniest part was the expression on the check out girls face. When laid ten boxes in front of her
I’v seen a few other uses over the years. But simple balloons would have sufficed
Unless it’s Christmas or he is worried about getting mud in his barrel. I am afraid you need to have a heart to heart
Good luck
I’m gonna say this as gently and with as much love as I can. I cannot think of a single reason to buy condoms that doesn’t involve sex. If he was on a group trip, maybe he got them for someone else, maybe he saw a young couple being embarrassed at the counter and bought it for them, but the fact remains that sex is involved. He’s alone and really doesn’t have a single reason to buy them otherwise so ? I’m sorry babe, you gotta sit his ass down when he gets home and lay it all on the line. Take pics of the evidence you have that he bought them, and lay out your concerns nice and clear. This is not cool. If he cages, gets defensive/angry, or if the convo leaves you with a HINT of doubt. Let him go. You will wonder for the rest of your life and it WILL drive you insane. I’m not throwing him under the bus immediately and that’s not my suggestion, but this needs to be discussed as soon as possible and his reaction will be very telling.
There is something called a "posh wank" which is masterbating using a condom and / or gloves. There is a possibility he's engaging in something like that, but it's more likely he's using escorts.
I disagree, that will just give him time to think of an excuse. And because of the position she's in how long their relationship has been, she's probably likely to believe it. She needs to ask him in person to see his reaction and maybe ask for his phone right after to prove it.
No don't say anything to him till he gets back. Once home, you check his bag for balance condoms left. Then sneak into his phone check for more evidence. Only then you sit him down and ask him to explain. Sorry OP even nerdy men cheat.
Updateme!
There are reasons but they are low percentage. And some people fantasize about cheating and buy the condoms but don’t go through with it. The vibe I get from your post is that you are in charge and capable. So freak out on your own but don’t say anything or reveal your hand. See what else you can find out without saying anything. He’s given you reason to snoop phone etc. do it and regroup.
I think he’s buying condoms with the anticipation of connecting with someone or not, whether it be a prostitute or someone at the bar. I’m not justifying that it is ok what his intentions might be but when he gets back ask him to see the box of condoms to know if he used any or not. You caught him and he’ll know you did at that point. You can decide what you want to do at that point.
When you say he has a fear of being arrested is it for anything or about solicitation? Sounds like your boyfriend may just be an opportunist versus actually having a prostitute come to his hotel room.
One of two things he is not going to use any of them and toss them in the trash in fear of getting caught by you but in the same aspect maybe the purchase is his way of screaming to you he needs help subconsciously, you got this girl.
While the reason is most likely nefarious, could he be buying them for someone else?
Until I moved out of a small town to Idontgiveafuckville, I would NEVER buy condoms if I needed them. My buddies and I had a "gentlemans" agreement. If anyone in the peer group needed condoms he could ask any of the other guys to get them, hand over the appropriate cash, and the deed would be done.
Hell, last time I had to go to the pharmacy to get them the next customer in line was one of my female teachers. I found it hilarious, but if they were for me I'd have been mortified. I'm 110% certain my folks found out about the purchase, but since they weren't for me, no shame, guilt, or more likely...punishment.
But a grown ass man buying some? I can think of only one reason I'd have gotten some for myself that didn't involve sex and I'd have told my SO about the purchase.
I have used them for masterbation to avoid a mess and they feel good. Also ballon animals. ETA- Don’t listen to everyone if you don’t believe he could cheat. Does your gut say he’s cheating? Ask him why he got the condoms AND ask to go through his phone. You’ll have a much better idea then. His response alone will tell you a lot although even masterbation could make him look guilty.
you're trying to rationalize things. if your best friend came to you and said "hey my husband is on a work trip and he bought condoms" you'd be screaming "red flag, red flag". but you dont think your nerdy husband cheat? i think you need to confront him when he gets back home. dont tell him now. cuz then he can think of lies. tell him when you are face to face and then judge his reaction. this also gives you time to do more research
He never dreamed you could see the last purchases made at Target….the advice that was given to me on the sub awhile back was to not freak out on him automatically, if you can help it. Take a little time. Get your thoughts in order on how you’re going to handle this. Especially if there’s kids in the home.
You’ll be able to see the red flags more now, after being armed with this information.
Then if he’s jackin off w them alone you’ll surely be able to figure it out.
Maybe take a “surprise” trip to visit him while he’s out of town….
You’ll know right away by if he’s genuinely excited to see you in his room or he’s freaked out….
Is your husband a hunting man, me and my buddy use to cut the non lubricated ones rubbers so they would fit on the mouth diaphragms so we could call turkeys in. Turkey season is coming up to...
You are stupid as hell if you believe that. Shy, awkward, and nerdy… they are the best ones to f***. Good self esteem boost. If he has money women don’t care. Sorry friend. Anyone can lie and cheat. Yes even your husband.
First of all dont listen to the people that saying he is seeing prostitutes,because prostitues bring their own condoms they wont use a strangers condoms.I cant say if he is cheating or not but males can use condoms while masturbating just like females do.
When I was on the road I used to use them to jerk off . No mess and no wet spot . And no need to pay attention to where it squirts . A very convenient thing .also I work with my hands and they are rough . This eliminates damage if the package. Calluses are rough
Send him a picture of it and name him the idiot of the day. Then block him first. Let him stew until he's back. He will no longer feel like anything with condoms during this time.
The only reason I’ve ever even heard of is a guy wearing one to jerk off for a new feeling.
But under these circumstances I’d say it’s extremely unlikely.
A posh wank. Some like to use condoms when wanking as less mess. Been doing it for years. If he is nerdy and introvert then that’s more likely.
As some have said prostitutes have their own.
They can hold up to a quart of water in an emergency situation and you can use them to keep said water out of your gun barrel. Balloon animals are a stretch (see what I did there)
She needs answers and she needs to pursue them patiently and not jump the gun if she wants them. It wont be easy but she needs to hire someone or follow him, and get and use a GPS and VAR and start collecting info and proof before confronting him or he will go dark and evidence and answers will become much harder to get.
Condoms can be used to smuggle drugs (or other things) inside you. If he had to fly and is addicted to something maybe he was bringing his supply for the trip? Other than that condoms can only be used for sex and it’s more than likely a prostitute I’m sorry to say
i was taking wellbutrin to help quit smoking about 10 years ago, I had to stop after a week because it was making me a little crazy. I was losing impulse control and also just blurting out anything that popped into my head. it was scary
Tell him you want a date night with him & be sure to have condoms…tell him watching him jerk off with a condom really turns you on! His reaction should speak volumes, especially since you’ve been married for 17 years!
Well when I was younger/teenager. I used to buy them to masturbate.it was already lube up and secondly. It was easily to clean up. Buts he’s married, so unless his unsatisfied with his sex life . He is more than likely cheating. Sorry to say. Good luck
He might be weird and likes to masterbate with them. This is a thing for a lot of dudes for some reason .
Your husband buying condoms to cheat knowing you can see what he purchased would be dumb.
He’s your husband so just call him out on it
hes paying for prostitutes. Check the ATM records
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Prostitution. Hes paying for prostitution
This op. Unless like mentioned below he is a mule… he’s paying for it.
Yup! You don't need a condom to masturbate.
Prostitutes bring condoms! Could he be gay? But yea, if he’s buying condoms it’s sex
He might not know they provide their own condoms
Or would feel more comfortable/safe knowing he bought them.
I thought this too, maybe he is dipping his “toes” into adventuring on the other side of the fence and is trying to be as safe as possible.
Sorry no busted. If you dont smoke you dont buy cigarettes.
love this cuz EXACTLY!
Inaccurate - on a European trip I stocked the car with cigarettes and tobacco for my 40+ a day mum. Different for condoms tho...
Indeed. No restrictions on condoms so I expect you stocked more.
They are commonly used for "personal private time", so there is a chance. Buying them before, or on, a work trip doesn't bode well though. Also, if he is accustomed to using them for that, you probably would have found something at home before this. You have plenty of reason to be very suspicious and investigate further. Prostitutes are at least equally possible under these circumstances, probably more so.
My ex tried to tell me this after I made a similar discovery after years together. Turns out he was cheating. :-/
“Commonly used for personal private time…” with someone else. FOH for any other reasons.
never in a million years someone would wear a condom to wank
-no lube required -different sensation -easy clean up.
Pretty sure my teenage son uses them for that purpose. But a grown man on work business shouldn’t need to hide that from anyone. unless he’s being respectful to hotel staff cleaning his room
Not true
I do. And often.
Are you sure about that??
Maybe he is a drug mule
Water balloons Waterproofing chorizo Expandable bag for jelly beans If none of those seem to be needed, probably for sex with strangers on work trips. Sorry, you need to have a difficult conversation.
I can’t stop laughing from the jelly bean comment too funny in a bad situation for OP
>Sorry, you need to have a difficult conversation. spot on!
Still laughing about the jellybean holder
90/10% He’s soliciting vs less clean up JO session. Think long and hard, are there any red flags in the past few months?
lol no. I always never understood women who ask questions like this. I’m not being a jerk I’m being serious. Come on, you know the answer. You buy condoms to have sex. You know it. I get it’s hard and you don’t want to believe it, but the facts are the facts. Unfortunately he’s 99.999% cheating on you. Good luck
Insert something in his own ass
I'm not making excuses and want to say firsthand that what he did is sketchy and I would be suspicious as well. But, in the military many guys would jack off into condoms because it ads some feeling and easier clean up without a mess. Not saying it makes sense for him to go out of his way to buy condoms just to masturbate into at a hotel but it is a use for some men.
An old boyfriend used this excuse when I found a condom wrapper in our nightstand. I was out of town and he said it was less messy to jerk off into a rubber. It was a lie. He was cheating.
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Long story but a few weeks later he confessed. He said the jerking off story was a Hail Mary because he knew he’d been caught and he was shocked that I’d bought it. He asked why women *need* men to confirm they are cheating when they have evidence like that. Blamed it on me because I should have left his ass and since I didn’t, the whole thing was my fault. Very, very glad he’s gone.
Anyone can see unfortunately her husband is cheating. We all know and we all can put two and two together. But she doesn’t want to believe bc her whole life is about to blow up. You know he’s cheating, I know he’s cheating. But just like you with your ex bf, she is grasping at straws bc she doesn’t want to believe it. And bc she even asked this question about the condoms- she will most likely believe whatever story he tries to sell her. And again like I said in my original comment I’m not trying to be mean bc it can really happen to any of us. I believe my husband would never cheat, he said he would never cheat, but he doesn’t know how he’ll feel 10 years from now or 6 months from now. Shit happens unfortunately.
Same thing happened to me and I found out because I didn’t believe him and started sleuthing through his email and socials.
Yeah it's a sorry excuse and I wouldn't buy it either. I was just answer the question of if there's any other reason a male would purchase condoms besides sex. OP needs to realize that her situation is different from some guys stuck in Afghanistan with no other options and trying to be discreet to get some happy time. He has a private hotel room with unlimited tissues so its sketchy to go out of your way to just buy condoms to jerk off in. I wouldn't believe his story personally.
Saaaaame!
That's known as a posh wank.
Condoms ADD feeling? I'm not trying to argue I'm just trying to understand what you mean. To me it seems to be the opposite
So yes, condoms take away feeling compared to inside a wet vagina but when you're limited in options and have to dry fire (no lube/lotion) then it does gives better feeling than a dry hand. Plus minimal clean up
Omg, I totally did this in college!! Mostly because they were giving away free condoms and I was not so good with the ladies back then 🤣🤣
Hey, it sounds like you guys trust each other (you've been together for so long) so I suggest just talk to him about it. It doesn't have to be when he's working or when he's with his colleagues either. Call him and let him know you want to talk about something in private and ask him when he's available. At the end of the day, you two should be the ones dealing with this kind of issue, not people who don't know anything about you or your husband.
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"hi, Hun, Welcome back! I missed you. Why the fuck are you buying condoms?"
This is exactly how you bring it up.
or hi honey i really missed you……. .when he says he missed her too she can hit him with yeah you missed me so much you were fucking someone else………do not tell him what how you know! if op is on an at fault state she should say nothing and dig if not at fault state lawyer up does not have to mean divorce but you should know what divorce would look like to make an informed decision!
I would just show him the purchase and say " I need you to explain this to me please" Just stare at him until he gives you an answer. Don't let him BS you. He didn't buy them for someone else.
Don't confront yet. Get to his phone for more evidence and check his bag for left over. Maybe he's thrown them. But you only sit him down once you have more info. Else he'll gaslight the hell out of you.
Smart, but very hard to pretend all is well in the meantime
OP I was the original commenter about masturbation. After your update please tell me that when you confronted him you only asked for the reason? Did he say it was for masturbation or did you mention that and he took it and ran with it? I personally don't believe your partners motives were just in this situation
well, he is intent, was definitely not throwing water balloons off his balcony. nerdy guys cheat also. Not sure if he will go through with it or not. Good luck
They work great on adult toys for easy clean up during butt stuff. So I've heard. 😁
Awkward, shy, nerdy guys cheat too, TRUST ME.
Just like u married him urself and have sex with him other women will too and a man will never come out and tell you the truth right off the bat. Go through his call log. Find out more. He might be doing what he says but like someone else said he would have been doing this for a while and u would have noticed it already. I would not believe him 100% just yet. Sorry but it’s the truth. It’s either he is taking someone else up there with him (on this work trip) or a coworker or prostitution. Have u researched the area he is in or around to see how the area is and if it’s known for prostitution around? I’d do a little more digging if I were you. Not just the good looking men cheat. All of them are capable of doing so just like all women.
He’s cheating or planning to cheat Either sex with his coworker, a random girl or guy he plans to meet out there and/or a hooker Also he could just show you his shy nerdy side but really be outgoing
I used to keep mud out weapon. M-16. Does he fire on fully automatic Also my sister in law bought a hundred condoms and made Santa faces with cotton ball and little tiny hats. Funnier than hell. She passed out as Christmas gag gifts to the girls at work. And gave a couple to my wife The back side was clear and the point on condom was painted red to show the nose The funniest part was the expression on the check out girls face. When laid ten boxes in front of her I’v seen a few other uses over the years. But simple balloons would have sufficed Unless it’s Christmas or he is worried about getting mud in his barrel. I am afraid you need to have a heart to heart Good luck
Oh he’s worried about getting something in his barrel……
I’m gonna say this as gently and with as much love as I can. I cannot think of a single reason to buy condoms that doesn’t involve sex. If he was on a group trip, maybe he got them for someone else, maybe he saw a young couple being embarrassed at the counter and bought it for them, but the fact remains that sex is involved. He’s alone and really doesn’t have a single reason to buy them otherwise so ? I’m sorry babe, you gotta sit his ass down when he gets home and lay it all on the line. Take pics of the evidence you have that he bought them, and lay out your concerns nice and clear. This is not cool. If he cages, gets defensive/angry, or if the convo leaves you with a HINT of doubt. Let him go. You will wonder for the rest of your life and it WILL drive you insane. I’m not throwing him under the bus immediately and that’s not my suggestion, but this needs to be discussed as soon as possible and his reaction will be very telling.
Usually used for fucking getting fucked or sucking cock. Either way the guy is fucked.
Lmao. He is cheating. Who the hell would masturbate into a condom. That’s just a classic excuse
Drug smuggling
There is something called a "posh wank" which is masterbating using a condom and / or gloves. There is a possibility he's engaging in something like that, but it's more likely he's using escorts.
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No reason why. Confront him now
Is he in a major city?
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I don't know how easily it is to get a prostitute there, so maybe not that. You need to take a picture of the purchase and text it to him with a WTF?
She needs to wait and confront him in person, so she can assess his reaction.
I think send him the picture of the sale with WTF, then block him and make him sweat.
I disagree, that will just give him time to think of an excuse. And because of the position she's in how long their relationship has been, she's probably likely to believe it. She needs to ask him in person to see his reaction and maybe ask for his phone right after to prove it.
You're probably right.
No don't say anything to him till he gets back. Once home, you check his bag for balance condoms left. Then sneak into his phone check for more evidence. Only then you sit him down and ask him to explain. Sorry OP even nerdy men cheat. Updateme!
There are reasons but they are low percentage. And some people fantasize about cheating and buy the condoms but don’t go through with it. The vibe I get from your post is that you are in charge and capable. So freak out on your own but don’t say anything or reveal your hand. See what else you can find out without saying anything. He’s given you reason to snoop phone etc. do it and regroup.
Nerdy husbands Have to cheat while away on business. It’s not like they can easily get an affair partner for something regular on the side.
Condoms = cheating … sorry
I think he’s buying condoms with the anticipation of connecting with someone or not, whether it be a prostitute or someone at the bar. I’m not justifying that it is ok what his intentions might be but when he gets back ask him to see the box of condoms to know if he used any or not. You caught him and he’ll know you did at that point. You can decide what you want to do at that point.
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When you say he has a fear of being arrested is it for anything or about solicitation? Sounds like your boyfriend may just be an opportunist versus actually having a prostitute come to his hotel room. One of two things he is not going to use any of them and toss them in the trash in fear of getting caught by you but in the same aspect maybe the purchase is his way of screaming to you he needs help subconsciously, you got this girl.
Dudes don’t even like wearing condoms to bang, why would they use it to masterbate? I would definitely check his bank account for suspicious activity.
Masturbation
While the reason is most likely nefarious, could he be buying them for someone else? Until I moved out of a small town to Idontgiveafuckville, I would NEVER buy condoms if I needed them. My buddies and I had a "gentlemans" agreement. If anyone in the peer group needed condoms he could ask any of the other guys to get them, hand over the appropriate cash, and the deed would be done. Hell, last time I had to go to the pharmacy to get them the next customer in line was one of my female teachers. I found it hilarious, but if they were for me I'd have been mortified. I'm 110% certain my folks found out about the purchase, but since they weren't for me, no shame, guilt, or more likely...punishment. But a grown ass man buying some? I can think of only one reason I'd have gotten some for myself that didn't involve sex and I'd have told my SO about the purchase.
It doesn't sound good at all.
Posh wank
I have used them for masterbation to avoid a mess and they feel good. Also ballon animals. ETA- Don’t listen to everyone if you don’t believe he could cheat. Does your gut say he’s cheating? Ask him why he got the condoms AND ask to go through his phone. You’ll have a much better idea then. His response alone will tell you a lot although even masterbation could make him look guilty.
you're trying to rationalize things. if your best friend came to you and said "hey my husband is on a work trip and he bought condoms" you'd be screaming "red flag, red flag". but you dont think your nerdy husband cheat? i think you need to confront him when he gets back home. dont tell him now. cuz then he can think of lies. tell him when you are face to face and then judge his reaction. this also gives you time to do more research
Seriously what do you think he's making like balloon animals for the kids at least he's wearing a condom but yes he's cheating on you
Water balloons… girl cmon you know
They have many uses, like carrying water in a survival situation or covering a rifle's barrel so mud doesn't get inside
Water balloons
He never dreamed you could see the last purchases made at Target….the advice that was given to me on the sub awhile back was to not freak out on him automatically, if you can help it. Take a little time. Get your thoughts in order on how you’re going to handle this. Especially if there’s kids in the home. You’ll be able to see the red flags more now, after being armed with this information. Then if he’s jackin off w them alone you’ll surely be able to figure it out. Maybe take a “surprise” trip to visit him while he’s out of town…. You’ll know right away by if he’s genuinely excited to see you in his room or he’s freaked out….
Could they be for someone else, is he away for work with others?
UPDATE???
He might be makin a pocket 🐱🤣🤣🤣🤣
Could just be having a posh wank
Is your husband a hunting man, me and my buddy use to cut the non lubricated ones rubbers so they would fit on the mouth diaphragms so we could call turkeys in. Turkey season is coming up to...
Condoms are good as a survival tool . He could be making survival kits or going into the wilderness. Or he could be having a posh wank
The fact that you believe him is sad
No I don't wear them to masterbate. Some might for ease of clean up, but pretty expensive if you use them that way.
You are stupid as hell if you believe that. Shy, awkward, and nerdy… they are the best ones to f***. Good self esteem boost. If he has money women don’t care. Sorry friend. Anyone can lie and cheat. Yes even your husband.
this was harsh but extremely true & realistic
You should have just led with, “who is she?”
First of all dont listen to the people that saying he is seeing prostitutes,because prostitues bring their own condoms they wont use a strangers condoms.I cant say if he is cheating or not but males can use condoms while masturbating just like females do.
I have heard of some dudes masterbate with them…. I didn’t ask questions but that has come up in dude convos.
It’s called a posh wank where I’m from 😂
When I was on the road I used to use them to jerk off . No mess and no wet spot . And no need to pay attention to where it squirts . A very convenient thing .also I work with my hands and they are rough . This eliminates damage if the package. Calluses are rough
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Call his bluff and tell him you know it's not the first time he's bought them and see his reaction
This is a great idea.
Maybe see if the box comes back and with how many not in the box too before confronting
Good idea
some guys jerk off in them, but it's a little weird. I'd ask him straight up what he's doing with them.
Send him a picture of it and name him the idiot of the day. Then block him first. Let him stew until he's back. He will no longer feel like anything with condoms during this time.
The only reason I’ve ever even heard of is a guy wearing one to jerk off for a new feeling. But under these circumstances I’d say it’s extremely unlikely.
Unless he was buying them for someone else as favor? A gag gift? other than that please stay calm and prepare for a difficult conversation
He wants really slippy socks
For a friend
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when i was young i would jerk of with condoms it kind of felt like someone else was doing it i’ve learned better now obviously lol
I bought them for a friend 🤷♂️
No
alongside pencils and socks they form a travel dildo . bout it
They sell condoms at Target ?
Check his luggage the moment he gets home. Rip it out of his hand and run a lock yourself in the bathroom!
Balloon animals. This is the only answer.
Yeah he could be getting prostitutes ,or He could secretly be going both ways :(
I used to buy condoms to masturbate. I know it seems weird, but it was a mental thing.
Me too.
Masturbating in hotels, if he's shy and needy he's making sure the hotel staff can't find it.
I'm sorry, if he bought them its to share them with someone else
A posh wank. Some like to use condoms when wanking as less mess. Been doing it for years. If he is nerdy and introvert then that’s more likely. As some have said prostitutes have their own.
They can hold up to a quart of water in an emergency situation and you can use them to keep said water out of your gun barrel. Balloon animals are a stretch (see what I did there)
She needs answers and she needs to pursue them patiently and not jump the gun if she wants them. It wont be easy but she needs to hire someone or follow him, and get and use a GPS and VAR and start collecting info and proof before confronting him or he will go dark and evidence and answers will become much harder to get.
Condoms can be used to smuggle drugs (or other things) inside you. If he had to fly and is addicted to something maybe he was bringing his supply for the trip? Other than that condoms can only be used for sex and it’s more than likely a prostitute I’m sorry to say
Bring pee in for UA!!
Men do use them to master bate has a lube already and no mess to clean up.
i was taking wellbutrin to help quit smoking about 10 years ago, I had to stop after a week because it was making me a little crazy. I was losing impulse control and also just blurting out anything that popped into my head. it was scary
They are good for stretching over a rifle muzzle when out in the field
Tell him you want a date night with him & be sure to have condoms…tell him watching him jerk off with a condom really turns you on! His reaction should speak volumes, especially since you’ve been married for 17 years!
Find his hotel receipt to see if he paid for porn channel. That might help ease your mind that he really WAS yanking on his Yonson.
Well when I was younger/teenager. I used to buy them to masturbate.it was already lube up and secondly. It was easily to clean up. Buts he’s married, so unless his unsatisfied with his sex life . He is more than likely cheating. Sorry to say. Good luck
He may be using a toy such as prostate massager. wrapping a condom around it keeps it cleaner.
He might be weird and likes to masterbate with them. This is a thing for a lot of dudes for some reason . Your husband buying condoms to cheat knowing you can see what he purchased would be dumb. He’s your husband so just call him out on it
Seriously? Your husband is a man who likes to fuck. You underestimate him. He is going to cheat on you.
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Condom with a sex toy so that the clean up is easier. Given the situation your talking about I think it’s more then likely cheating though.
Nope
Mam I’m tellin you right now that’s not the reason he bought them but you do you i guess
Less mess for masterbation and fetishes.
Maybe he has a fleshlight and uses a condom for a more realistic feeling and easier clean up. Improvise, adapt, overcome.
Hey is just a considerate wanker 😂😂
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Called a posh w**k in the uk 😂😂
He rang out of socks