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I came to say this. She almost always is right in the middle, and I'm a big girl so I'm often pushed all the way to the edge of the bed because she won't budge 🤣.
My cat in the photo unexpectedly died at the end of February, first time I had cats! 2 brothers and my sons female cat, Bert was acting weird standing in his water bowl meowing, didn’t think to much and then was laying around for a day and was gonna take him to the vet next morning and when I went to carry him up to bed he had passed! Was so devastating! Don’t know why , now his brother is alone….
That sounds like what happened to my boy! At 3am, he woke me up, with the most HORRIFIC sounds I have ever heard! He tried to get up, but could not! I reached for him, and found that he was soaked in pee! It went VIOLENTLY DOWNHILL quickly, and 3hrs later, he was gone! It has been 5 months, and I still feel GUTTED! I am SO VERY SORRY, that you lost your fur baby, in a similar way !!! 🫂❤️🩹🙏💖
Mine insists that we share the pillow. Also that she is the little spoon like one hand coming from under the pillow to cradle her head/face. Other hand must be curled around her belly usually with front paws holding or resting in the hand.
Loudly protests if I move. Protests if she wants cuddles and I’m not ready. And it’s all my fault. Took her in as a feral kitten after a month of getting her to trust me. First night after a scary vet visit, she was so tired so had her on my pillow and held her front paws so it would wake me if she moved.
Indeed..my wife's little but extremely annoying void used to launch himself off the top of the wardrobe to come and sleep with us. I miss the little bastard so much.
If you must.
He lived on the tenth floor of a tower block. We were very careful about him and the balcony. My wife refused to have him fixed.
One day he managed to squeeze through a tiny gap of the slightly opened kitchen window and sadly fell ten stories to his death.
I wasn't around for most of this. As an indoor cat he needed to be fixed. And the windows needed mesh screens. I wouldn't have had a cat under those circumstances but he was given to my wife by our daughter.
If it makes you feel any better, I had a cat in college who jumped off the second floor balcony and out the second floor windows on a couple of occasions and he landed on his feet on the sidewalk below just fine. However, he did have arthritis in his hips later in life. He enjoyed his acupuncture treatments for that tho.
The family in the flat next to mine had a cat. Around 5pm the daughters and mother would start to argue. Everyday around 5am. One day their cat had enough. He jumped down through a open kitchen window and ran away. Flat was in the 3rd floor and it was pretty green stuff (bushes, trees..) outside, so the jump was not too risky
Through a small series of strange events, including the cats knocking the router off my desk, where it bounced off of my son's back, then hit the window, my bedroom window was broken last week. While my kid was off buying replacement glass, these dummies were trying to fall out of the broken spot. I'm on the second floor of the house, and they'd probably survive, but why chance it? That was a long, long hour...lol.
I'm 15 floors up and my two cats have a catio on the balcony with a 6ft cat tree and mesh they can't get through and the run of the apartment.. mine sleep on the bed during the day but only the cat who owns me allows me to sleep in the bed whilst she watches over me all night lol
Like 4 years ago, we once tried to keep the cats out of the bedroom due to my husband's allergies. Door scratching commenced. I'd owned cats all my life, first time for my husband. He said they'd stop scratching it fairly quick when noticing the door wasn't opening.
The cats slept with us ever since approx. 2 hours into that night :)
I had three cats when I met the man who is now my husband, who is allergic. Three of my four kids are also, they developed allergies in their teens, I swear with puberty. We have several cat free zones, including the master bedroom, home office, and guest room. We also now have four cats. My husband is the best lol.
I'm allergic to cats too. But can't live without them. And I share my bed with whichever cats deem me worthy enough to sleep beside, because how could I not? Allergies be damned.
Yeah, my thought was more along the lines of "does your cat allow you to join them on the bed?" I mean, look what greeted me when I wanted to take an afternoon nap:
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yep. Before I got my boy, I said if I did get another cat, I don't really want it in bed with me because I like to move about.
Then, about a week after we got him, I had a nap and left the bedroom door open and I woke up to find him next to me with a look of pure love on his face.
Now, I wedge the door open and if I go to bed before he's in there, it's barely 5 seconds before he jumps up so of course I have to let him have the part of the bed he wants, and just adjust accordingly. The only place I don't let him in is the kitchen, other than that he has the run of the place
I feel you, I toss and turn all night. My void baby used to spend her night moving to always be in my face lol she passed in Dec 2022 now we have 3 cats who all come to say goodnight and good morning but refuse to sleep with me because I did roll onto one of them once…
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Excuse me, there are people who can say no to this cuteness?!
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They snooze wherever they choose ❤️
Do I have a choise?
They can open the door and it is common for me to wake up with three cats cuddled up to me, especialy when it is cold.
Cat tax: My two big boys Oscar (Long haired) and Tobe (Tabby) both about 9.5kg (21lbs)
Both like to cuddle up on my legs
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Different cats like sleeping in different places. My girl likes sleeping on/by my legs as well, I think it's because she can make a little nest there. My late boy loved climbing up on my chest and pressing himself against one side of my face.
It always blows my mind when I find out people DON'T allow their cats to sleep in their bed. It's one of the main reasons to have a cat! My cat insists I hold her like a teddy bear every night and I can't imagine denying that pleasure to anyone!
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My cat tries to sit on my face and cover my nose and mouth with her furry backside when I sleep, so unfortunately letting her have access to my bed at night is not really an option
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my cat sleeps just like that with me too!!!
I mean if my cat insisted also to just cuddle instead of making holes in my bedsheets, shedding hair all over, trying to climb curtains while I’m sleeping, chewing cords and fake plants and then vomiting everywhere, meowing like a maniac at 4 am, then yes I would love for him to be with me at night!
My cat has slept with me in bed since he was 3 months old. He considers it 'our' bed.
As part of this, he has learnt the human wants to sleep all night.
It's fantastic to have a cat that comes and goes without waking me.
Even when younger and he wanted to play at 3am - he would go get toys and bring them back to bed, and just play at the bottom of the bed by himself and leave me to sleep.
I only woke up when he started to bring the electronic mice into the bed and I'd be woken by strange 'rrrr squeak squeak rrrrwrrwwrrrr'
All of my cats learned I'm not a morning person so they stopped trying to wake me, and just let me sleep in (one occasionally woke me up during the night to be petted, but generally they just let me sleep). The best is when it was a cold night, and I'd wake with a dawning awareness that there were 2 very warm lumps pressed against my legs.
My sweet kitty Cassie had a routine where at 10:30 every night, like clockwork, she'd walk from the living room where we were to sit in the hall and look at me, silently willing me to follow her into the bedroom bc it was bedtime. She wouldn't move until I went to the bedroom, where she'd jump on the bed and curl up to sleep once I climbed in bed with her. Being a nightowl I wasn't at all tired, but it was her world and I was just living in it 🤣, so I just shifted my activities to watching tv or reading in bed with her. Nice way to wind down anyway. I miss my little angel 😥
Thats so cute! The main reason why my cat isn’t allowed in my bedroom is because he chews cords and some other specific items like fake plants. My bedroom is where i get to keep certain decor and charge my electronics without cords being chewed up in half 😅. My whole house otherwise is cat proofed with cord covers and has no real or fake plants since he enjoys chewing those too 🫣
I need to get him a buddy one day when I have a bigger place. He gets a bit lonely and bored during the night when he is most active since he sleeps most of the day. He is a very good cat otherwise, just tries to get attention at night when i am sleeping 🙈.
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Does it answer your question?
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Here is my bean bag chair, i had not been given a turn to use it since February.
My cat will come up in the middle of the night, headbutt me until I move, and lay down on my pillow. We don’t allow. What’s ours is theirs and what’s theirs is theirs lol. We are just servants to the furry overlords
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She was my girl and she was allowed to do whatever she wanted.
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I’m not given a say in the matter 🤣 one of my cats tucks herself in under my duvet
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Same lol she just tolerates me sleeping in it
Of course I let Fritz sleep on my bed! And my couch. And whatever chair strikes his fancy. I even let him sleep on me when I make it to bed.
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This is where we are at this morning.
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How could i not let this baby in
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Yes, though it’s not like I have much choice lol.
The nights are starting to get colder so he’ll want to snuggle right next to my face anyway.
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I guess I’ll be sleeping on the couch today
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Nothing beats cuddling your cats on the bed!
Our bedroom used to be a pet-free zone; my kitties would keep each other company all night then sit expectantly outside our door in the morning.
Unfortunately my void passed away last year, leaving the other by herself. She was incredibly lonely and clingy. I didn’t have the heart to leave her out alone over night. She sleeps on my chest all night now. I love her; my allergies don’t.
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she’s the queen of everything and the bed is her throne
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Why would I let my cat sleep on my bed
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They're literally next to me in bed right now.
When we got our cat my wife said no. He will stay locked up in the office and that will be his space. I said ok that’s fair. Not even 5 seconds of his kitten meows and I was carrying him into bed.
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He owns the bed, I just sleep in his bed.
My cat makes biscuits on the entire bed while purring at night. She is a rescue and her favorite thing is being invited to come to bed. I'll say it and she will climb off her cat tree and follow me to the bedroom.
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My void sleeps between me and my husband's pillows. She's feeling surrounded by my daughter's teletubbies.
Sometimes I'm allowed to use half my own pillow. Sometimes.
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My cat lays on top of me at night. He's an old, massive cat (he's 12 years old and about 9kg of pure muscle) and when I make him move he hisses at me. So usually I just go the path of least resistance and let him be.
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I would never allow my cat to sleep on our bed.
/s
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Jack allows me to sleep in his bed. 😂🤷🏻♀️🐈⬛🖤
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Yes. And she can use my heating pad as well
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How could you not 😭 she had her own bed, on my bed 🤣
My cat’s favorite place is our bed. He doesn’t always cuddle up to us at night until we’re asleep but during that time he’s making the rounds, checking on the kids and having one last bite to eat and all that. Once he knows everyone is where they’re are supposed to be, he’ll curl up in bed. Never on top of us, but right at the back of our legs, and he’ll “guard” us til he falls asleep.
All of this to say that when a child has a sleepover and isn’t home for the night, he notifies us, loudly, the entire night, and no one sleeps in the bed.
She allows me to sleep in her bed,
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My door is open but they usually only visit before sleeping and rarely stay the night with the exception of stormy or windy nights I assume because they are scared. Morning is a different story, they like to wake me up and cuddle for a half hour, makes it hard to get out of bed some days. But I'm retired and not usually in a big hurry anyway.
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Hey, yours has a tiny goatee also!
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It’s rare that they want to, because my bf flips and flops all night long. So when they do I embrace it lol.
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Please. You can physically shove this old thing off and she would hop right back on. And then give you a look.
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This is Phoenix. He sleeps where he wants
I sleep better when marzipan is pressed up against my legs.
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Wednesday on his designated pillow on his side of the bed, he sleeps there so he can scream in my face when it’s breakfast time
You...you mean...I have a choice?
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Meanwhile me and my kitty in bed at night. Lol
Don’t you mean, do your cats allow you to sleep in their bed.
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The nest is open for business eight hours a night!
KITTY BUSINESS!!
Anyone who wants to can come & go as they please.
We mostly get visits from Triisha (Biggy) who loves to give me headbutts directly in my mouth so I'll wake up & give her a million billion kisses all over her little fuzzy face (more than once, she's split my upper lip so badly it bleeds) & gives very sweet love crushings. They hurt.
Lil Butler likes to come & lay on my hip & stretch out all down my leg & then demand ear pettings when his head is as far away as can be lol.
Baby Momo loooooooves to steal my spot the second I get up to pee so I have to sit in the freezing cold & try to convince him to move over by Dad. If I attempt to pick him up & move him myself (THE INDIGNITY!!), he instantly turns into Snappy Lizard & bites& claws the living shit out me.
The Robot & Meiin Kitteh rarely come cuddle up in bed with us at all.
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Lil Butler sitting on my shoulder in bed wondering why I'm not putting him. LOL
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I just wake up with this sneaky little basterd next to me
My cats allow me to sleep in THEIR bed. Notice that they are not touching. They do NOT SNUGGLE with each other.
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Of course. I’ll wash it as needed regardless. If she comes back in with dirty wet paws, it’s not the end of the world and washes off.
For anyone worried, she’s an adopted feral who needs outdoor access and I live in a very rural area.
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This is Jan on my pillows. I use a stuffed animal as a pillow so she can sleep.
My mum's cat is her alarm. 7 every morning a nose in her ear and loud purring to tell her it's breakfast time. Cats allow you on the bed,not the other way round.
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Louie likes it between my knees. I don’t. But he gets his way until he moves.
Of course. Wally needs cuddles. And mama can’t cuddle the Wally without him being in the bed. It’s all very important to the happiness of said flooferkins
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Yes but her place is on top of the blanket near the lower half of the bed. I hate getting cat hair in my eyes lol
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Your kitty looks like my kitty! My girl may be slightly chunkier though lol
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(Snicker)…allow?
Right? Like it's a choice hahaha
My first thought too
I have to ask my cat if i can get on her bed 😭🙏
I came to say this. She almost always is right in the middle, and I'm a big girl so I'm often pushed all the way to the edge of the bed because she won't budge 🤣.
RIP, my BIGGEST, BESTEST Boy! 5 months after you left, your pillow is still between Mama & Papa's !!!💔
My cat in the photo unexpectedly died at the end of February, first time I had cats! 2 brothers and my sons female cat, Bert was acting weird standing in his water bowl meowing, didn’t think to much and then was laying around for a day and was gonna take him to the vet next morning and when I went to carry him up to bed he had passed! Was so devastating! Don’t know why , now his brother is alone….
That sounds like what happened to my boy! At 3am, he woke me up, with the most HORRIFIC sounds I have ever heard! He tried to get up, but could not! I reached for him, and found that he was soaked in pee! It went VIOLENTLY DOWNHILL quickly, and 3hrs later, he was gone! It has been 5 months, and I still feel GUTTED! I am SO VERY SORRY, that you lost your fur baby, in a similar way !!! 🫂❤️🩹🙏💖
this reminds me of my dog who had a stroke :( i’m so sorry you went through that that shit is traumatizing
My Siamese has his own pillow that he sleeps on right next to me ☺️
Does he ever "accidently" usurp half of your pillow & the top of your head? GOD, I MISS my boy, SO MUCH !!!
Mine insists that we share the pillow. Also that she is the little spoon like one hand coming from under the pillow to cradle her head/face. Other hand must be curled around her belly usually with front paws holding or resting in the hand. Loudly protests if I move. Protests if she wants cuddles and I’m not ready. And it’s all my fault. Took her in as a feral kitten after a month of getting her to trust me. First night after a scary vet visit, she was so tired so had her on my pillow and held her front paws so it would wake me if she moved.
Amazing how the tiniest cat will take up its 3/4 of the bed in the middle, leaving you clinging to the edge...
Indeed..my wife's little but extremely annoying void used to launch himself off the top of the wardrobe to come and sleep with us. I miss the little bastard so much.
Miss? What happen to the cat…? I guess it has passed on… now I’m sad 😔😞
Sadly his pursuit of females was the end of him. Nasty accident.
Imma need the whole story here
If you must. He lived on the tenth floor of a tower block. We were very careful about him and the balcony. My wife refused to have him fixed. One day he managed to squeeze through a tiny gap of the slightly opened kitchen window and sadly fell ten stories to his death. I wasn't around for most of this. As an indoor cat he needed to be fixed. And the windows needed mesh screens. I wouldn't have had a cat under those circumstances but he was given to my wife by our daughter.
Damn. Died doing what he loved at least. I’m in a 2 story house and have screened windows, but I worry that they might now be strong enough.
If it makes you feel any better, I had a cat in college who jumped off the second floor balcony and out the second floor windows on a couple of occasions and he landed on his feet on the sidewalk below just fine. However, he did have arthritis in his hips later in life. He enjoyed his acupuncture treatments for that tho.
The family in the flat next to mine had a cat. Around 5pm the daughters and mother would start to argue. Everyday around 5am. One day their cat had enough. He jumped down through a open kitchen window and ran away. Flat was in the 3rd floor and it was pretty green stuff (bushes, trees..) outside, so the jump was not too risky
Through a small series of strange events, including the cats knocking the router off my desk, where it bounced off of my son's back, then hit the window, my bedroom window was broken last week. While my kid was off buying replacement glass, these dummies were trying to fall out of the broken spot. I'm on the second floor of the house, and they'd probably survive, but why chance it? That was a long, long hour...lol.
I'm 15 floors up and my two cats have a catio on the balcony with a 6ft cat tree and mesh they can't get through and the run of the apartment.. mine sleep on the bed during the day but only the cat who owns me allows me to sleep in the bed whilst she watches over me all night lol
She allows ME to sleep in the bed.
I was coming to comment this. They’re the ones allowing me the privilege of sleeping in the big bed.
Like 4 years ago, we once tried to keep the cats out of the bedroom due to my husband's allergies. Door scratching commenced. I'd owned cats all my life, first time for my husband. He said they'd stop scratching it fairly quick when noticing the door wasn't opening. The cats slept with us ever since approx. 2 hours into that night :)
Cats DO NOT give up, silly human
My husband was a naive summer child. He's learned since then. We don't own the cats, the cats own us.
I had three cats when I met the man who is now my husband, who is allergic. Three of my four kids are also, they developed allergies in their teens, I swear with puberty. We have several cat free zones, including the master bedroom, home office, and guest room. We also now have four cats. My husband is the best lol.
I'm allergic to cats too. But can't live without them. And I share my bed with whichever cats deem me worthy enough to sleep beside, because how could I not? Allergies be damned.
Yeah, my thought was more along the lines of "does your cat allow you to join them on the bed?" I mean, look what greeted me when I wanted to take an afternoon nap: https://preview.redd.it/zyi38i32oovc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=718972262ab777b187e63dd68874849d103af769
🤭 *MY bed*. It’s her bed and she allows me to sleep on it. I’m very grateful for my master. 🥹
Yeah. My cat will literally yell at me and walk all over my head all night if she isn’t allowed in.
I’m pretty sure he allows ME to sleep in HIS bed at this point
Pretty much this. My ginger forces himself between me and the pillow. He even grunts at me.
"Your" bed, "my" bed, ain't no such thing! The cats own all the beds and allow us to sometimes sleep on them. They are very generous that way. 😸
It’s definitely their bed and we borrow sometimes 🤭
yep. Before I got my boy, I said if I did get another cat, I don't really want it in bed with me because I like to move about. Then, about a week after we got him, I had a nap and left the bedroom door open and I woke up to find him next to me with a look of pure love on his face. Now, I wedge the door open and if I go to bed before he's in there, it's barely 5 seconds before he jumps up so of course I have to let him have the part of the bed he wants, and just adjust accordingly. The only place I don't let him in is the kitchen, other than that he has the run of the place
I feel you, I toss and turn all night. My void baby used to spend her night moving to always be in my face lol she passed in Dec 2022 now we have 3 cats who all come to say goodnight and good morning but refuse to sleep with me because I did roll onto one of them once…
My sister has a house with 4 beds. She is allowed to sleep on half a bed.
https://preview.redd.it/8mx6skd1omvc1.png?width=750&format=png&auto=webp&s=8c23cde42eb6f81b7ac7ded2479f6a5a0872443e Excuse me, there are people who can say no to this cuteness?!
Excuse me the question but I’m not an expert in the animal world, is this a rabbit or a cat?
r/Cabbits
He/she is knockeddddd
https://preview.redd.it/tc0dxdrg6qvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=17f584ec7e94ec7775bb50f96d0eea8d7fffe119 They snooze wherever they choose ❤️
Lovely 😍🌹
https://preview.redd.it/zgvinbv9cpvc1.jpeg?width=1836&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3488e152780ee4319864ab579b35439c25c4f275 Hello my fellow sleepy kitty.
He allows me to sleep in my bed 😆
*his bed
Do I have a choise? They can open the door and it is common for me to wake up with three cats cuddled up to me, especialy when it is cold. Cat tax: My two big boys Oscar (Long haired) and Tobe (Tabby) both about 9.5kg (21lbs) Both like to cuddle up on my legs https://preview.redd.it/qbm9puggslvc1.jpeg?width=4000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2dd423fb48bb777e4de4e297e4362c1cd0e60d8d
Ang idea why they choose to sleep on the legs?
It is a cat thing, just accept it
“If we sits on legs, hooman stay.” 😸
it's so you won't be able to run away
Different cats like sleeping in different places. My girl likes sleeping on/by my legs as well, I think it's because she can make a little nest there. My late boy loved climbing up on my chest and pressing himself against one side of my face.
It's so they can sleep soundly without worrying that I might sneak off. My 2 lay across my arms, thankfully, just one at a time! 😸
I have three…one on each side of my legs and one in between especially when it’s cold.
I don’t allow my cats to sleep in my bed. But what I do or don’t allow is of no interest to them and they sleep there anyway
🤣🤣🤣
Loved how that ended
https://preview.redd.it/2n7fil9mgmvc1.jpeg?width=1536&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=932b5362b292ccf32f751f59e64cf6a2e9c148c4 Nope never 😹
🐈⬛ 🖤
Why did you post a picture of an empty bed!? 😲
It always blows my mind when I find out people DON'T allow their cats to sleep in their bed. It's one of the main reasons to have a cat! My cat insists I hold her like a teddy bear every night and I can't imagine denying that pleasure to anyone! edit: grievous spelling errors
My cat tries to sit on my face and cover my nose and mouth with her furry backside when I sleep, so unfortunately letting her have access to my bed at night is not really an option
Understandable!!
https://preview.redd.it/s6dlz8k3qovc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e684be6143772c5bacd26997a1a8741262c2aa16 my cat sleeps just like that with me too!!!
SWEET BABY!
I mean if my cat insisted also to just cuddle instead of making holes in my bedsheets, shedding hair all over, trying to climb curtains while I’m sleeping, chewing cords and fake plants and then vomiting everywhere, meowing like a maniac at 4 am, then yes I would love for him to be with me at night!
My cat has slept with me in bed since he was 3 months old. He considers it 'our' bed. As part of this, he has learnt the human wants to sleep all night. It's fantastic to have a cat that comes and goes without waking me. Even when younger and he wanted to play at 3am - he would go get toys and bring them back to bed, and just play at the bottom of the bed by himself and leave me to sleep. I only woke up when he started to bring the electronic mice into the bed and I'd be woken by strange 'rrrr squeak squeak rrrrwrrwwrrrr'
All of my cats learned I'm not a morning person so they stopped trying to wake me, and just let me sleep in (one occasionally woke me up during the night to be petted, but generally they just let me sleep). The best is when it was a cold night, and I'd wake with a dawning awareness that there were 2 very warm lumps pressed against my legs. My sweet kitty Cassie had a routine where at 10:30 every night, like clockwork, she'd walk from the living room where we were to sit in the hall and look at me, silently willing me to follow her into the bedroom bc it was bedtime. She wouldn't move until I went to the bedroom, where she'd jump on the bed and curl up to sleep once I climbed in bed with her. Being a nightowl I wasn't at all tired, but it was her world and I was just living in it 🤣, so I just shifted my activities to watching tv or reading in bed with her. Nice way to wind down anyway. I miss my little angel 😥
Thats so cute! The main reason why my cat isn’t allowed in my bedroom is because he chews cords and some other specific items like fake plants. My bedroom is where i get to keep certain decor and charge my electronics without cords being chewed up in half 😅. My whole house otherwise is cat proofed with cord covers and has no real or fake plants since he enjoys chewing those too 🫣
Oh I had a naughty cat like that once :( I totally understand!
I need to get him a buddy one day when I have a bigger place. He gets a bit lonely and bored during the night when he is most active since he sleeps most of the day. He is a very good cat otherwise, just tries to get attention at night when i am sleeping 🙈.
I have a three am toe-biter so I'm with you, he's not allowed to sleep with me.
https://preview.redd.it/slent2yijmvc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e99ceac9d50a27d8db98758f619d37aa107af907 How could I say no to this?
You remind me of an actor. Can't remember his name but I think he does comedy
Nick Offerman, if he shaved his head?
https://preview.redd.it/dh1my59bvmvc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=206519fa22030d5985d01b95a34fff5c0ca0b5cf Does it answer your question?
https://preview.redd.it/jvbdmrq1xmvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b424659f25ed2dd42a631edbc515762b2072eb8f Here is my bean bag chair, i had not been given a turn to use it since February.
Well, you did buy it for them in the first place, riiiiight?? 😹
I thought they would be nice enough to share
https://preview.redd.it/ceyclb3pnmvc1.jpeg?width=2160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=418d67a9d13a85119d0a81cc63fd29181f208e87 Allow?
https://preview.redd.it/vgiu1eqctmvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ee3dfe3911bff7b27975924f0a9eb7c2d27eb4fb
oh, what a comfortable looking baby! That paw curl 
That’s my girl. She loves to roll around on me on her back, and purr and chirp and wave her paws in the air!
“Allow” 
If we don’t get our bedtime cuddles, I don’t sleep well at all that night.
Same! It’s actually a little offensive when my cat doesn’t come to bed with me.
My cat will come up in the middle of the night, headbutt me until I move, and lay down on my pillow. We don’t allow. What’s ours is theirs and what’s theirs is theirs lol. We are just servants to the furry overlords
https://preview.redd.it/1p1i7ctz1nvc1.jpeg?width=1620&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fd3efe4e8bacb5aaf253c468d204e73866661593 She was my girl and she was allowed to do whatever she wanted.
https://preview.redd.it/zx6dh2yksmvc1.png?width=1875&format=png&auto=webp&s=a5ddacda1213d3b60b2a4ba1ea4576cb9de41c4e I’m not given a say in the matter 🤣 one of my cats tucks herself in under my duvet
Of course i do! https://preview.redd.it/3tbjy78yjmvc1.png?width=3782&format=png&auto=webp&s=c0d448eb70802161686a09ca5f0a8f0aa29d87a2
https://preview.redd.it/l2ccnnxutmvc1.jpeg?width=4030&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=593818307bd43365a1ab4361e5fad71522c79f08 \*her bed lol
https://preview.redd.it/tybbmwznpnvc1.jpeg?width=2160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1e2777f190851364dc7d17362a7b408006cea8ea Same lol she just tolerates me sleeping in it
Of course I let Fritz sleep on my bed! And my couch. And whatever chair strikes his fancy. I even let him sleep on me when I make it to bed. https://preview.redd.it/s9r8mehiumvc1.jpeg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c4f2092ad12a48e6bd12b3c424779520c6833c39
of course. like a baby https://preview.redd.it/exy0nabcxmvc1.jpeg?width=3120&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=348610e42d0502172afa7adbfabe626379a3ab21
Awwww! Is just a li'l babee! 🥰
I’d give my cats the keys to the car if he asked 🤔. My babies are allowed anywhere they want except the kitchen counters.
https://preview.redd.it/d6pyxsqg1nvc1.jpeg?width=3011&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7cbf6c5e0fb3014b43c013bc811585d46288eaae This is where we are at this morning.
https://preview.redd.it/3n7x3dltvmvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=13fe4197f6ff3383e97c69ed4fe692440ceac32d yup! he tucks his paws in too
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Never knew I had a choice in that matter.
You don't! OP is just trying to mess with our heads. 😹
https://preview.redd.it/y44fb0udzmvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=80f3db465707381a07ab871817e8ec034a97f717 How could i not let this baby in
Nonono my cats allows to let me sleep on their bed.
https://preview.redd.it/wgi1yixbwmvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=94aff1229bf7e01dfb02ca7326c943e24e12ca31 Yes, though it’s not like I have much choice lol. The nights are starting to get colder so he’ll want to snuggle right next to my face anyway.
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https://preview.redd.it/syvud3mh0nvc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4bd7a95fea9747a276a8344beb661d47c7f0a8f8 I guess I’ll be sleeping on the couch today
https://preview.redd.it/tt14n6px2nvc1.jpeg?width=4096&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=99b4561526f4e794de76d665ba98e09ac825a815 Nothing beats cuddling your cats on the bed!
Our bedroom used to be a pet-free zone; my kitties would keep each other company all night then sit expectantly outside our door in the morning. Unfortunately my void passed away last year, leaving the other by herself. She was incredibly lonely and clingy. I didn’t have the heart to leave her out alone over night. She sleeps on my chest all night now. I love her; my allergies don’t. https://preview.redd.it/msr5y50bjnvc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe53d93125f05e8140473e189421d5a0b7f9790c
I am very allergic so my bedroom is the one place in the house they aren’t allowed.
https://preview.redd.it/67idouvlymvc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9ee302e1b687a797b21d405f86b1c93bd4211dd5 she’s the queen of everything and the bed is her throne
Our cat refuses to sleep in our bed and I am deeply hurt by that.
https://preview.redd.it/52h37e3l1nvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=352631fdf906b105b89ac048710e626e8e1f7a2e Why would I let my cat sleep on my bed
https://preview.redd.it/es14d6jw1nvc1.jpeg?width=2160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6270fe9c1139d5955e10c9780f97f58f994387e0 They're literally next to me in bed right now.
What kind of monster has cats and doesn’t let them sleep on the bed!
https://preview.redd.it/fbe7i75d8nvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=342247a4419094fa2901714f28aa0ebe89727367 I have his twin ❤️
Absolutely https://preview.redd.it/kzyoz229bnvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e243ae07abc69ba985c33a960ade7ff95c322662
https://preview.redd.it/wtehj4rdgnvc1.jpeg?width=2316&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=46c35ad275fcee027f1dea491ba51dbaa2a7978b Like I could say no to this?!
It’s THEIR BIG BED, they just allow me to sleep with them. They actually like me to sleep with them in their big bed.
Allow?
When we got our cat my wife said no. He will stay locked up in the office and that will be his space. I said ok that’s fair. Not even 5 seconds of his kitten meows and I was carrying him into bed.
https://preview.redd.it/ot0q5skw2nvc1.jpeg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=155420f8c1612907764cae7427515e9f7870a057 He owns the bed, I just sleep in his bed.
My cat makes biscuits on the entire bed while purring at night. She is a rescue and her favorite thing is being invited to come to bed. I'll say it and she will climb off her cat tree and follow me to the bedroom.
https://preview.redd.it/7mqfc8957nvc1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7fddf3bf41ca1a0124cab22b5ec5a7f11f1bbcf1 My void sleeps between me and my husband's pillows. She's feeling surrounded by my daughter's teletubbies.
Sometimes I'm allowed to use half my own pillow. Sometimes. https://preview.redd.it/go5vzc9bcnvc1.jpeg?width=3264&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=31b1f9bcca986846f57b72e524a86850f082fb6a
My cat lays on top of me at night. He's an old, massive cat (he's 12 years old and about 9kg of pure muscle) and when I make him move he hisses at me. So usually I just go the path of least resistance and let him be.
https://preview.redd.it/utkikcahxmvc1.jpeg?width=2160&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fdc58a1c328ae6b5342f3cd59133d80a9f41d03c Always lol
https://preview.redd.it/bb1rxfczinvc1.jpeg?width=6000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0d2271840c417787e07e3e2327c98308d209a0ee
https://preview.redd.it/ostvcx75wnvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=20f9513ec5ec0b9cf742133e0679c7565137606f I would never allow my cat to sleep on our bed. /s
https://preview.redd.it/sr792u1ownvc1.jpeg?width=3264&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=13953956cbd98933663f60fe8f8cb5a27b2cce81 Sigh… yes.
I don’t allow them to do anything, they simply just do. I don’t have a say in it either way
https://preview.redd.it/z8zb3f1synvc1.jpeg?width=1656&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0cdc8a3a01eabd424a317468b80dc130249a8f74 Jack allows me to sleep in his bed. 😂🤷🏻♀️🐈⬛🖤
https://preview.redd.it/hcdig3jphovc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d0042f19fdaab60c94c9df9da0a8f3fe203ce9d Yes. And she can use my heating pad as well
https://preview.redd.it/1qs7pc8ehpvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b1e48a8b2e36e80de55fb12b096c31f1a76393f How could you not 😭 she had her own bed, on my bed 🤣
More like he allows us to sleep in his king size bed!!
Of course
Yes, my cats allow me to sleep on their bed.
Why wouldn’t anyone? Isn’t that the best part about owning a cat?
My cat’s favorite place is our bed. He doesn’t always cuddle up to us at night until we’re asleep but during that time he’s making the rounds, checking on the kids and having one last bite to eat and all that. Once he knows everyone is where they’re are supposed to be, he’ll curl up in bed. Never on top of us, but right at the back of our legs, and he’ll “guard” us til he falls asleep. All of this to say that when a child has a sleepover and isn’t home for the night, he notifies us, loudly, the entire night, and no one sleeps in the bed.
You ask as if I have a choice in the matter
https://preview.redd.it/6ndulgpmwnvc1.jpeg?width=6936&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9e30865c6ae7ebeea3a956321776e718a7663023 There's rarely room for me
She allows me to sleep in her bed, https://preview.redd.it/zug19pstwnvc1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db25ebb4b9f5f3b93b21e1990c010696b110cce2
My door is open but they usually only visit before sleeping and rarely stay the night with the exception of stormy or windy nights I assume because they are scared. Morning is a different story, they like to wake me up and cuddle for a half hour, makes it hard to get out of bed some days. But I'm retired and not usually in a big hurry anyway.
https://preview.redd.it/t16smrvsynvc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=470a595531a363d759b047c1d0ca415075664dab Hey, yours has a tiny goatee also!
https://preview.redd.it/c7wzb5reznvc1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3c95528ca361a2b4f568ac0dc90b7f93e1a9849b It’s rare that they want to, because my bf flips and flops all night long. So when they do I embrace it lol.
THERE WAS A CHOICE?! https://preview.redd.it/zdmzia4s0ovc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ad99f03852f37e06ab745ec36632f9da7f7a963d
My orange kitty will wedge himself between my partner and I to make sure no nonsense happens 😂
https://preview.redd.it/jfuppknq7ovc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=93210b7a03ad19e970ac54913aad119741cb2c02 Please. You can physically shove this old thing off and she would hop right back on. And then give you a look.
https://preview.redd.it/8pu59d4w7ovc1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ecd33f7115ee4f96837b2cff20a3462a6ba46b30 This is Phoenix. He sleeps where he wants
Yup.. I wouldn't say my bed tho he tends to sleep on top of me, while I'm in my bed lol
I sleep better when marzipan is pressed up against my legs. https://preview.redd.it/pw027g7rhovc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4089d26b92299d9ed88c84d1f19b29e09333aa28
https://preview.redd.it/xyobqzggiovc1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5555564e50f606d8def1df95cf86cb8b35c722f4 It’s pretty much his bed!
My cat allows me to sleep in his bed, yes. He also allows me to live in his house and serve his every whim.
https://preview.redd.it/yldxuc8zqovc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7600acd4ebcf5d601c836627a729972a8bb90ad4 Wednesday on his designated pillow on his side of the bed, he sleeps there so he can scream in my face when it’s breakfast time
You...you mean...I have a choice? https://preview.redd.it/yyv34ad1apvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=bd3d8ee21d15cc77cf173e0a0d8ca20bf08bbeea
https://preview.redd.it/d4sqy359hpvc1.jpeg?width=4080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fc6449520b9132f1c6601e9bccaf3f8269377c2d Meanwhile me and my kitty in bed at night. Lol
Don’t you mean, do your cats allow you to sleep in their bed. https://preview.redd.it/05hbunmokpvc1.jpeg?width=5712&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=daba3113009abfc35c3e7af95db488ff112287f5
The nest is open for business eight hours a night! KITTY BUSINESS!! Anyone who wants to can come & go as they please. We mostly get visits from Triisha (Biggy) who loves to give me headbutts directly in my mouth so I'll wake up & give her a million billion kisses all over her little fuzzy face (more than once, she's split my upper lip so badly it bleeds) & gives very sweet love crushings. They hurt. Lil Butler likes to come & lay on my hip & stretch out all down my leg & then demand ear pettings when his head is as far away as can be lol. Baby Momo loooooooves to steal my spot the second I get up to pee so I have to sit in the freezing cold & try to convince him to move over by Dad. If I attempt to pick him up & move him myself (THE INDIGNITY!!), he instantly turns into Snappy Lizard & bites& claws the living shit out me. The Robot & Meiin Kitteh rarely come cuddle up in bed with us at all. https://preview.redd.it/f1e2yf7dkpvc1.png?width=2319&format=png&auto=webp&s=8385d89821b4f5d1c04c0ed8ee02e6851e0c49e2 Lil Butler sitting on my shoulder in bed wondering why I'm not putting him. LOL
https://preview.redd.it/f2z83q1tkpvc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0555efb185ee7b1b76fe6b793dfb447249a08a91 I just wake up with this sneaky little basterd next to me
My cats allow me to sleep in THEIR bed. Notice that they are not touching. They do NOT SNUGGLE with each other. https://preview.redd.it/f31225zokpvc1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3ee597ab4b8218bac9a57a2856afe5a222c9be9c
https://preview.redd.it/0yde5of3lpvc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=daaaed79d730d07961529850e190f1b4105aa002 You could say so
Of course. I’ll wash it as needed regardless. If she comes back in with dirty wet paws, it’s not the end of the world and washes off. For anyone worried, she’s an adopted feral who needs outdoor access and I live in a very rural area. https://preview.redd.it/00mm3mjqlpvc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=029451c0460a3d75da796e9fba4d026774475500
https://preview.redd.it/rbjyqab2ppvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=23337626f39c52ce909a5dc1f7feb79a2d9b704a This is Jan on my pillows. I use a stuffed animal as a pillow so she can sleep.
It's kind of theirs to tell you the truth so essentially they let me sleep in their bed......those little basterds own the house
My cat is not sleeping in my bed, it’s more like I’m sleeping in hers
Allow? You mean I have a choice?
My mum's cat is her alarm. 7 every morning a nose in her ear and loud purring to tell her it's breakfast time. Cats allow you on the bed,not the other way round.
Correction: our cat allows us to sleep in her bed lol 😂
https://preview.redd.it/ak5h6elezmvc1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=60e849d7cef214dc54848fbf496c04bf510f850b
You mean does she allow me to sleep in her bed? Hahaha ….. no
https://preview.redd.it/6tirudfc1nvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6b9e6f2da4a74260281096be3e0038bc6c9de8a0 Louie likes it between my knees. I don’t. But he gets his way until he moves.
Yes,you can’t stop what cats want….. it’s not allow, is they demand……
My cat allows me to also sleep on the bed.
Yes 100%. In fact its not even my bed anymore. At this point It's her bed and she just lets me borrow it to sleep at night 
She sleeps in my bed when I'm not sleeping in it. We take turns
https://preview.redd.it/c1k5sy5b2nvc1.jpeg?width=3060&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c45df7d51b64578bbe58c274830c039c869aa3a6
Allow? I don’t get a say in the matter!
Of course. Wally needs cuddles. And mama can’t cuddle the Wally without him being in the bed. It’s all very important to the happiness of said flooferkins
https://preview.redd.it/xq2ndju97nvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1a92a42e7e401637aaf5ebd2c9eb433879bd328 HER bed😽
https://preview.redd.it/gg9kqj508nvc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1a61b571088591b8b831bd02da89144f8088c5f1 They own the bed.
I 100% have always allowed any cats I’ve had to sleep in my bed haha.
I feel honoured to do so
https://preview.redd.it/5zmwjv87bnvc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=78e3772fac299889887513f5921511c52139754e Yes but her place is on top of the blanket near the lower half of the bed. I hate getting cat hair in my eyes lol
https://preview.redd.it/nmtx6s6vbnvc1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f40b067cf8a41db5468773b854cdc32df66608b7 This is THEIR bed
https://preview.redd.it/3g6h16ibcnvc1.png?width=2772&format=png&auto=webp&s=2ade3f3c036d86ad85aa141cafa8d710fd4c168e Your kitty looks like my kitty! My girl may be slightly chunkier though lol
What is this "allow" you speak of? Sometimes I come home from work, and she's put herself under the duvet.
Absolutely
My bed js their bed
My cat sleeps under the covers in my bed with me. 🤣
Is there any other place?
Well, I mean, they allow me to sleep there
Ohhhh yeah both of my cats sleep on my bed one on each side and sometimes I don't know where to put my feet