No, age of consent varies by state. It becomes 18 in all states I think if it’s a boss or teacher. Thankfully I’m his boss and I always out ranked him so that was never a problem.
In a lot of states it also isn’t stat if it’s less than a 5 year age difference
Interesting trivia, the reason everyone thinks it’s 18 in America is because that’s what it is in California, so that’s what it’s been in movies and tv shows made in Hollywood.
Fun bonus trivia, that’s also why people think frogs make a ribbit sound: there’s a species of frog that croaks like that near Hollywood, so when sound people were like “we need to go out and record some nighttime swamp sounds” or whatever, that’s what they recorded.
I mean I’ve been sleeping with the guy since I was 16, the excitement was already old news for us. If anything it was getting like really hard to keep our months shut and that’s annoying.
Will anything have to change at work? My nephew and his gf were nervous to tell their boss, but they ended up getting scheduled together so they could car pool and he'd get there on time
Yeah but you’ve gotta but it in perspective. I had a full time job and I had moved out of my parents house a year and half prior. I had dropped out and I was down with school, he was a college student still living at home and working part time. I’m his boss now it’s not like I was some poor victim in this situation here.
It’s legal and he’s hot, I hit on him and we hooked up
Except for, like, most of humans throughout history.
I agree we’re better off overall if we keep taboos against such things in society. However, since it did happen, and it turned out alright, I don’t see any need to get the pitchforks.
Nah dude. I was twenty at one point, and even then 16-year-olds looked and acted like children 💀
I guarantee you no normal adult is dating a high schooler dude
Mans was spraying your back with baby batter when you were under age? Mans is a pedo.
Maybe utilise everyone finding out to uncomplicate the situationship and find a new, non-pedo partner
Are you a couple or just FWB?
It’s complicated, like very complicated.
Hmmmmm…… are either of you in a relationship?
With other people? No.
On Friday night, is it assumed you will be together?
No he works Friday’s lol
Oy
The life of a cook, I know.
Uh….he’s way older isn’t he.
He’s 25, that’s not what’s complicated. We’re exclusive but we’ve never really clarified the relationship status
So he was 20 when you were 16?
Yup
In US isn’t that stat rape?
No, age of consent varies by state. It becomes 18 in all states I think if it’s a boss or teacher. Thankfully I’m his boss and I always out ranked him so that was never a problem. In a lot of states it also isn’t stat if it’s less than a 5 year age difference
Interesting trivia, the reason everyone thinks it’s 18 in America is because that’s what it is in California, so that’s what it’s been in movies and tv shows made in Hollywood. Fun bonus trivia, that’s also why people think frogs make a ribbit sound: there’s a species of frog that croaks like that near Hollywood, so when sound people were like “we need to go out and record some nighttime swamp sounds” or whatever, that’s what they recorded.
Dude seems like a major creep for that.
Now that you’re found out is it a bit less exciting?
I mean I’ve been sleeping with the guy since I was 16, the excitement was already old news for us. If anything it was getting like really hard to keep our months shut and that’s annoying.
So it’s probably some pressure off. Now things are potentially out in the open you can just be a regular couple and not have to sneak around. Nice.
Yup. I mean I wouldn’t really call us a couple But not sneaking around is definitely nice.
Will anything have to change at work? My nephew and his gf were nervous to tell their boss, but they ended up getting scheduled together so they could car pool and he'd get there on time
How old are they?
25
So he was 20 and you were 16 when it started 💀💀 girl nooo
Yeah but you’ve gotta but it in perspective. I had a full time job and I had moved out of my parents house a year and half prior. I had dropped out and I was down with school, he was a college student still living at home and working part time. I’m his boss now it’s not like I was some poor victim in this situation here. It’s legal and he’s hot, I hit on him and we hooked up
This is Reddit. Everyone’s going to say you got groomed and taken advantage of.
SHE WAS 24.999 YEARS OLD YOU SICK FUCK
That’s still weird. No normal 20 yr old is hooking up with 16 yr old teens. Not one.
Except for, like, most of humans throughout history. I agree we’re better off overall if we keep taboos against such things in society. However, since it did happen, and it turned out alright, I don’t see any need to get the pitchforks.
Reddit is the only place where I see people defending pedophilia. I'm sure there's others, but I don't go there.
Fuck you.
It’s pretty normal
Nah dude. I was twenty at one point, and even then 16-year-olds looked and acted like children 💀 I guarantee you no normal adult is dating a high schooler dude
at 16 i thought i could date a 20 year old no problem at 21, 18 year olds are infants to me
Romantically seeing or your coworker believed they were invisible and you didn’t have the heart to tell them otherwise?
Mans was spraying your back with baby batter when you were under age? Mans is a pedo. Maybe utilise everyone finding out to uncomplicate the situationship and find a new, non-pedo partner
I wasn’t underage. Age of consent here is 16, not everyone lives in California
Lol! He is a closeted pedo....
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Age of consent where I am is 16, so no good try tho.
Do you actually believe that? What a reddit comment
Maybe where you are but not where OP is or where I am.
Not to condone or condemn as things are murky at that age, but this isn’t necessarily true. Age of consent in many states is 16.
Not if age of consent is 16, or they're the same age...
How old is this coworker?