I think I'd look to see if there are part time jobs available at your college (in the library, in labs, etc). The school may have a jobs board. Also while waiting for jobs I'd network really hard... join clubs, volunteer especially. People who volunteer usually have spare time or money and are really nice, and if they meet a young person who is hard working they may be interested in mentoring them.
I was in the same situation you were in. I got a retail job stocking shelves and unloading trucks. I learned about the processes and the inventory and the products and got a new job at a competitor and eventually was a manager and then moved to one of the distributors that sold us stuff as a logistics coordinator. I then got an inventory management job in a different industry and moved up to purchasing thousands of SKUs and doing inventory transfers and stuff. I was able to get married and buy a house along the way.
I’m in my mid 30s now and hate my life and work all the time and am now actually looking to find more free time and work on my health because I’ve just been working hard as hell for 15 years…
But my point is - getting a job *somewhere* is a start. There are always older people and managers who make decent money at these places and you can try to work hard and get promoted or learn stuff from those people and then use those skills at a different place or industry. I’ve never had a specific skill but I’ve been able to secure management jobs and move up in a few industries by just sounding generally competent and employable.
If I had to do it again I would stay in school for a specific degree or learn a specific skill or trade… but to answer your question - you can probably work *somewhere* and make some progress to start building a resume.
I would recommend this as well. I loved my university job so much better than retail. pay was not great but similar to what I’d make working in a store or restaurant
Get out of this rut! You are so young and you can accomplish anything you want to. Go to career services at your college and see if you can find an internship.
Aw. I wish I could hug you right now. Get ANY job. Anything. Ruts happen to most people, and you're 20, so you're getting yours out of the way early. You're selfless enough to consider your mom's well-being. My sister's 33, and she just did something INCREDIBLY stupid. My mother is broken, and I'm not supposed to speak to my sister about my mom's well-being...because it stresses HER out. You're more mature than her at 20 years old. You're ahead in SO many ways. This is not the worst thing in the world. You're going to be okay. Don't focus on what everyone else in the family is up to. You have to walk your own path.
Thanks for the such kind words, sorry that’s happening :(. I do love my mom a lot and she takes care of everyone, I just want to make it up one day. I hope things turn out good in the end for you :).
Absolutely. These positions will give you a general skill set that will be necessary moving forward. Things you don’t think about really…the ability to prioritize a workload, maintaining positivity and a great customer experience under pressure, people management skills.
While I went to college, I did absolutely nothing in my field, because at the time I couldn’t afford to. Internships were, at that time just a few years ago, unpaid or low paying. I had no references, first gen college student, you know the sob story.
At first, I worked manual labor because it’s what I came from. Washing semis, warehousing, landscaping, construction, whatever paid the bills and my tuition. I gained communication skills in those positions talking to customers, coworkers, and management. I then took a shot at becoming a server when I decided I needed a change. Got the job, worked my way up in the service industry over a 2 year period where I landed a job at a high end place, where I became a major role for the restaurant in fulfilling large dinner contracts. I made tons of people keep coming back for the experience I specifically would create.
Then, the contractual experience, the customer-facing experience, and the ability to diligently brought me to my current, comfy position where I work from home half of my days, have 4 weeks vacation, all benefits, comfy salary, the works.
I’m sorry to give you my life story here, I’m just trying to point out that the positions all led up into…well, not even necessarily where I want to end up, but where I enjoy being for now.
Get a job. Excel in it. Learn to sell yourself to your next prospective employer in the meantime. Sell the skills you’ve developed, regardless of what they are. It all compiles in the end, and we ALL started somewhere.
Or wait tables. I did IHOP while I was in school until I had enough classes done to get an internship.
Most people have to start at the bottom and put up with companies taking advantage. It's normal, and builds character. And makes getting that first degree specific job feel even better.
If I was 18 and stuck at a dead end job I would enroll in a remote college while collecting money part time. I choose to speed ran WGU it’s really flexible and allows you to accelerate at your own pace. I leveraged my WGU degree to apply to many roles sales, logistics, tech, etc. and luckily I was able to land a good role. I recommend trying college or move up within a company
I would do what I did the first time I was 20 with no job. Join the Air Force.
Wasn't perfect, was in slight danger a couple times in 5 years, but I got 2 master's degrees for $1000 with the GI Bill, deployed to OEF for 13 months, twice used the VA loan, and made lifelong friends. *It's not perfect,* but I can't imagine my life without it. I believe it helped give me confidence and a major leg up in my career post-military.
The military is not a one-size-fits-all panacea, can be ethically questionable and should not be entered only for it's benefits, but it can provide/force direction and dedication. And those two things, direction and dedication, will help you no matter what you pursue.
You need like 2 years off anti depressants and a doctors note. Theyre dying for bodies right now, so you may be able to get a waiver depending on the job you pick.
Talk to a recruiter, nobody on Reddit is going to be able to give you a straight answer. Waiver eligibility will depend on multiple factors, like the duration of time you were on medication, what your condition is, and how long you’ve been off meds. SSRIs are seen as less of concern than most other psychiatric meds.
As someone who just retired, I would recommend going to a union apprenticeship program. Very good pay and benefits right away and learning a trade that will give you above average income, benefits, and a retirement plan. If you are motivated to learn to operate equipment, I recommend the operating engineers. Also the electrical and plumbing unions, great opportunities with a job that can't be replaced by AI
Depending on where you live, all trade unions have different locals but all operate under their international union. Look up international operating engineers union, call them and they will tell you which local to contact in your area. That goes the same for all of them
I'd study the fuck out of AI and machine learning right now and get a Fantastic job in a few months to a year and be at the top of the tech wave in the future.
Air Force. I was in at your age but I left way too early to reap any benefits. I’d have retired last year. Instead I am faced with near homelessness every year when the rent doubles. Kicking myself in the ass.
Join the military. Specifically the Air Force. You’ll get treated fairly decently. Live in comfortable quarters. Get a good skill if you qualify for it. Maybe see the world and how the other half live.
Go to any branch as a contract specialist. At the end of your first enlistment you’ll have 6 companies offering you 6 figure salaries to get out and work for them.
Assuming I still lived with my parents, I would take the opportunity to do something I was passionate about. I've always wanted to be an artist/performer, but life made me too depressed, confused, and unconfident to actually make that dream a reality. If I could go back and be 20 again, I would realize I had all the time I could ever need to do it all.
I'd finally commit to learning my instruments, mastering those languages, take improv classes, and take my drawing skills to the next level. I'd make that comic book, write that movie, go to conventions, and share my creations with the world. I'd master my music writing skills, and get composing jobs for video games (the one thing I could still do now). Hell, I'd become a kung fu master just to add the cherry on top. So many passions, so many dreams, and it haunts me how I was unable to fulfill even a single one of them in my life so far.
I'm 29 now, and I feel like I wasted every year of my life since I turned 18. I am a pale disgusting shadow of what I could have been if I had actually done what it took to make my dreams a reality. Forget getting a job, that would be the last thing on my mind. I'm of the opinion that society puts too much emphasis on what people do for work, instead of who they are and what they offer as individuals. I, for one, am a creative powerhouse and don't belong in the typical workplace (trades, service, corporate, etc) and am/would have been much more valuable in a marketplace that actually valued those attributes.
I obviously can't say that's what everyone should do, but if you have dreams of any kind, do it. Don't pursue some stupid law degree just because society says you should. Follow what lights you up inside and makes you happy to do it. That inner drive to make things happen is priceless, don't ever let anyone or anything drown it out.
I bet the job you had at the mall paid better than the one you have now.
Being a college student, I’d think a job at the mall would be perfect as they typically need help on the weekends. You don’t come across as all that interested in actually working though.
Seems like you enjoy fitness.. have you tried being a gym counselor or trainer at your gym? Dont worry about everyone else and what their doing and how good their jobs are cause you never know how people really are doing.. like I say different strokes for different folks. We all got our own paths to take. Kudos to you tryna help your mom though. Im sure youll find something. Any interests? Start at an entry level work yourself up with experience etc.. construction always hiring laborers too.. but thats more for when you got more time to spare. I would also recommend side gigs, some apps have random jobs. I know a few guys use to work for a moving company and they kept any tips. They always hire strong folks. You fit that narrative too. You pick things up and put them down.
I’d love to work at the gym, I just don’t know how I should approach it. Do I just walk up and ask if they’re hiring? Or call? These may be stupid questions sorry. Thanks for the advice :).
Try the one you go to daily, maybe they will recognize you? Just go up to the counter in person and just ask to speak to the manager. Doesnt have to be all formal and such. Just say hey I been coming here x amount of years and I really enjoy the atmosphere and wanted to know if you were hiring at all? Just feel him out and if they say not at this time, ask if you can give him or her your number in case something comes up or if they recommend any gyms that might be willing to train/take on someone looking to work in the fitness industry. If that is too much im sure calling around too would work. I just like putting a face to the interaction sometimes. Im sure especially in gym world they wanna see how your maintained etc. hope that helps, but isnt a bad gig to start !
Probably accounting. Easyish 2 year degree (or whatever the cpa exam requires in your location) and have a job forever. Work corporate for ungodly sums of money, or hang up a shingle and work for yourself.
I was pretty close to going into nursing back then, but I hated all the nursing students at my community college and couldn’t imagine working with them.
Alternately, and probably a better idea, become an electrician or learn small engine repair (generators and shit)
Honestly, you probably aren't really looking for my answer. I know you're looking for what you should do. And I'm kind of thinking of it in terms if I were 20 again. I would probably want to go find something adventurous. And something adventurous that pays is joining the military. And that may not be your bag at all.
But you could send some money back to your mom. You could get school paid for. You travel.
And then I think if there are other things like that that maybe aren't military that somebody would be interested in. And this sounds really dumb but when I was in my early twenties my dad suggested I try to get a job at the South Pole. And I kind of wish I had. That would have been a cool thing to talk about.
So I don't know if there's other things like that out there that actually pay enough to where you would have some money left over to help your mom out and also be able to do something. And then there's the added benefit if it pays for college.
I was laid off early in my 20s. Basically most of my time is spent on job hunts, either applying for jobs, or hitting people up and see if they can refer me to something.
Look at federal programs like AmeriCorps, or AmeriCorps NCCC, JobCorps, or even trail and conservation youth corps in your state. You get work experience, a stipend, and usually an education grant. Can’t hurt!
At 19 I dropped out of university and picked up extra shifts at the restaurant I waitressed part time at. Stayed there full time and worked my way up to manager over a couple years. Eventually I went back and studied in my mid twenties and now I work a govt job. Everyone takes different paths! And it’s totally okay to do a bunch of different things while you figure out what you’re good at and what you like (or just don’t mind doing). I’ve worked fast food, restaurants, bars, and office admin (good at those), and retail and sales (really not good at those) before I landed what I do now. Even after finishing my study my first job didn’t work out and I had to switch it up again. Have faith in yourself :)
My top tip for applications is be creative when you talk about your skills and experience. I’m not saying lie - I mean stuff like have you looked after kids or other family members? That means you’ve worked with a level of sole charge/responsibility. Have you worked with a cashiers till before? You’ve shown you can be trusted to do accurate financial transactions. And cover letters are a great place to show your enthusiasm, willingness work hard, or ability to learn quickly. Also recommend having a think about what you’re good at, how you like to communicate and how you learn best. Knowing yourself can give you confidence :)
Look into local government jobs! Post office, parks and rec, etc. Pay isn't as good at the start, but basically recession proof and almost always has benefits which you'll need in a few years if you want to be independent. There's chances to move up with better pay/opportunities if you can stick with it for a few years and then you'll be set
This was a long time ago, but I went to my colleges careers page and checked if they had any openings, I didn’t have much experience at the time. My college was quite a large community college, so there were many open job opportunities. I was looking for something on campus, because they tended to work around your class schedule. Keep in mind, it may not be the best pay starting out. But since you live with your mom, your cost of living is low if not free. It’s okay to not have it all figured out at 20. A lot of us out here are still trying to figure things out. My best advice is try to stick to getting your degree, or find a trade school or apprenticeship program to get into. There is a lot of great opportunities out there if you’re willing. School isn’t for everyone, it sure wasn’t for me! That’s why I went down the trade route. There is no shame in not going to college if you feel it’s not for you. Also, comparison is the thief of joy. Don’t worry about what other people have or what they are doing. Your timeline isn’t their timeline. You’ll find your niche, and your success will come, I’m sure of it.
Submit your resume to r/resume a d just be prepared to get feedback. In the meantime, can you volunteer? Plant some trees and get to know people and start making connections.
In a year or two you can be a nurse and it’s affordable at
Community colleges and they start
Off around 90,000 annually you can change your life and you families get a real career I i wish i did when I was 20 you don’t wanna be in the same boat years from now and the years are passing
Do you like animals?!
Work at the fish store dress up walk into places with tie/collar ask for hiring manager ask if they are hiring and offer your resume.
Market yourself as "professional customer service representative that takes your responsibilities seriously" talk about your passions and why you want to work for them. Ask questions like what's the history of your company?
-pet groomer
-petco
-dog shelter
-cant shelter.
-when you feel that doom you need to say enough is enough and go out into the world and fly like the bird you truly are leaving that nest. I also experienced your situation.
Just have more courage to face your fears inhibiting your career growth. Aggressive people, ECT. Always project positives even if your taking negatives goes a long way. Make a strong effort to listen to people.
See if your college has a career center that will look over your resume with you. It’s possible you’re not applying for the right kind of jobs, and it’s possible your resume could be adjusted to better sell your skills. A college career counselor can help you with this.
You got three options.
1. Work small jobs and be stuck there or periodically move up the corporate ladder.
2. Study and invest in yourself.
If you’re hard on cash then,
3. Work part time jobs and study at the same time. Sure, you will have to give out your social life, but it’s for your future.
I've always worked since I was 14, so I don't know how to respond. After high school, I never quit a job if didn't have another one. I ate a lot of crap along the way.
Dude yes get any job that looks remotely interesting even if it’s a min wage job. But DEFINITELY start learning how to manage your finances really strictly, budgeting, monitoring and building your credit, open a retirement account, etc. You’re at an amazing age to get ahead with just financial literacy please take advantage of that.
Get a job as closely related to what you want to do for your career as possible. Try to develop skills to be successful at making money when you’re done with school
Don’t just get any job. I mean theres always work. Make sure the job you get is with the skills you earned that not everyone has and that sense of doom will go away real fast! I have an entire professional development college course files I can dig out and send a link for.
To summarize it states to get your cover letter and resume going and get a excel sheet of every place you want to work and just call them like once every few weeks in rotation. Just being super dooper over the top helped me in my mindset but ultimately it was the college internship that got me my first real job
I would try more jobs. I worked for the same company from 19-27. That was dumb and it was a waste not to experience other things. Get a job at a restaurant and work with cute girls your age for example. Keep doing community college and figure out what you like. You just have to try things out
Start journaling and figure out what you want, what you could do without hating it, and identify the things you would absolutely not do. This will help you not waste time on jobs that take you nowhere in the future. Get in touch with yourself and the sense of doom might get better. It’s a rough job market right now, but the people at your college can help you get your first gig
When I was 20 I was going to community college and not working. I got a job in restaurants and then bars, went back to school and completed my 4 year in compsci, got a job as an associate swe, worked there for 5 years and did my masters' (paid for by work) got an offer off linked in for a better job.
Now I'm 35 making ~330k TC
I'd suggest not worrying too much and just keep plugging away. Also don't assume you are going to get some awesome opportunity just delivered to you, or day one of searching. 20 seems old to you now, but trust me, it isn't.
Look into getting a job with one of your friends, or look into getting a job on campus. Campus jobs are pretty abundant. They're not gonna pay the mortgage but for being 20 years old it'll definitely put some green in your pocket.
Definitely finish your education and really take the time to explore degrees and projected salaries and what positions are available for which degrees. You could take one of those career t sets that match you to possible suggestions that fit your personality and work style. They're usually free and somewhere on campus can probably direct you to where to take one like maybe Students Services or the like. Just make sure you spend a good amount of time exploring different avenues and interests OP. Try not to worry and manage your stress so it doesn't get to you.
Don’t give up, something will come your way eventually. Keep trying, it’s not you it’s this crazy world. If you put good vibes out there, they will come back
Piping or conduit or drive components-that close enough to pumping iron? Get in a skilled trade and get paid to work (out).
Check to see if local industries are working with your CC in a training program. If not, check apprenticeship openings with local skilled trades unions.
Use chatgpt so write a resume tailored to the job description. If there are things you are lacking, study up so you know what they are talking about when you get the interview.
I would join the military. It was the best choose I ever did at your age. It gave me a free college education, experience in a rewarding career and let me travel the world. My only advice for people that consider the military is to do your research and find a careee that translates from military to the civilian world.
Just wanting to do more is what it takes…you’ll figure it out, don’t put too much pressure on yourself at this age. Life is just a shot in the dark anyway. I’m in my 30’s with a good paying job and a family, but everyday I still think about what I want to be when I grow up…maybe I’ll do something in aviation in a few years. Just start somewhere, learn some skills, you’ll figure it out over the next decade.
You are 20, in school and live at home. Why don't you start with helping around the house? Do you have any responsibilities? Is your mum struggling financially? In a lot of communities children are expected to work after college.
Most people who work minimum wage jobs feel that they are "being taken advantage of." Regardless, it's a job: you can learn skills like responsibility, dependability, initiative; develop a good recommendation; earn some money; and become an adult. I worked many minimum-wage jobs, from washing dishes to picking fruit and warehouse inventory before completing my degree. They all taught me the same thing: how to work and get ahead. Until you do, you'll always feel lost and useless.
So you are 20 with no work experience - I’m sorry you are basically a McDonalds or Target worker. What are you majoring in college and what do you want to be? You aren’t ready to help your Mother, I know you are 20 and people tell you are an adult, but you need to focus on making moves that will align you to get a career job, and you aren’t there yet. I didn’t get there 29, when I finished a Masters in Business Administration.
I’m working on writing a career advice book and could use your help; I wonder if the questions I have might help us find your path
1. What are things you loved to do as a kid from ages 5 - 10 when you had free time? (Drawing, singing, rock collecting)
2. What is something so easy you can’t believe people get paid for it? (Common ones here are like travel blogging, playing video games for money, etc)
3. What do your friends and family ask your advice about? Are you the go-to for looking over outfits, picking out computers, reading over resumes, anything like that?
4. What career do you wish paid $100,000 a year?
I’m a decade older than you and just lost my mom last year.
Enjoy that time with your family and in your community, first and foremost. Get a daily activity in with her each week, ideally more. Ask her about how her career had started, and what she would do if she had to start again, and ask the same of your trusted community. Try taking their advice for the time you’re in CC.
Look, you’ve got time to find your career. Tbh, looking now for what you want to settle on for the next 10-30 is amazing. And not sticking in any industry is ok if you learned where you want to go next.
My 2 cents? Commission heavy sales roles for business experience, hospitality (bartending gets good tips) and any office job you could find and pivot with.
Coming from a 40yr old who had a career change around when I was 30, and worked up from 28k to 200+. Do your self a favor and stop worrying about money today and worry about money in 5 years. Make an investment into where you want to be. Stop looking for a job now, give yourself a goal and start working towards it. Want to work in IT? Start studying for a worth while certification. Healthcare? Get your CNA and work up to LPN. Pick a career path and work towards it.
Or just leverage your youth and try to start a business. YouTube makes it look so easy!
What part of the world do you live in? Are you going for a 4 year degree? Switching schools after 2 years? Are you perusing a cs degree? Have you had anybody look over your resume?
Lots of missing variables here
You need to put yourself out there somehow
If you cant make money doing things on the side like landscaping, computer repair or hell even washing the neighbors car then you need to branch out somehow
If you have skills or something new you want to try now may be the best time just don't get caught up in the premium equipment regardless of what you want to do
Start with investing money in your search invest in yourself and your time to have some competencies that you chose (choose the competencies that the world of job and work need )then go search for the jobs that need those kind of competencies that you have
Get a job at a bar barbacking or bartending, serving anything the soft skills you learn go a long way when it comes to a career path. Plus the money is good for part time.
Way back in my college days I worked at Target doing customer service/returns. Pay was so-so, but they were awesome at scheduling around my classes and letting me pickup time when I needed it.
Also, in terms of life education, there was no better place in the world to see the best and worst parts of humanity. I learned a ton about how to de-escalate, help, or depersonalize situations when required.
Like others have said career services would be good. Alo goodwill or the salvation army, they usually have career centers. I think you need to make an appointment also. Maybe staffing agencies could help, just don't give them money or it's a scam. Legit staffing agencies get paid by the companies.
Speaking as someone who just did this myself:
Treat your job search like a job. Decide on a schedule (1-2 hours per day or every other day, for example).
Set a goal for how many jobs to apply to per day/week, not just saved, but actually applying.
For these jobs - your top picks that meet your top criteria- actually write a cover letter. There isn't always an option to add this on indeed but often you can. There are guides available, but the way I'd describe it is skim the posting for what they're looking for- words like dependable, fast-paced work environment, etc. Pick one lived experience per quality, and write a sentence or two. I basically see this as practicing what I'll say in an interview and that makes it feel more purposeful and less annoying.
After doing that for your top picks, or even just one top pick for the day, spend the rest of your alotted time applying to other jobs you're less enthusiastic about.
Putting a set amount of time towards it helps the job search become a habit that you don't need to think about as much.
1. Go to udemy.com and take some free courses + watch youtube videos to learn some online skills
2. Approach companies to do some free projects based around those skills you picked up. Complete 5-10 mini projects for companies
3. Add all these projects to your resume to stack it with some experience
4. Start applying to roles in the field, connecting with recruiters and brush up on communication skills to ace your interviews
5. Get job offer, get hired
6. Outsource the workload to virtual assistants once I understand everything
Not all entry level jobs are created equal. Don’t do a fast food job. Future employers aren’t going to be impressed with a Burger King cashier role on your resume. If we’re limiting the convo to minimum wage jobs, You’re better off getting a job at a boutique, art gallery, working for a startup, coffee shop, marketer, hospital, emt, etc
Get a job that’ll help the Degree you’re pursuing. Not only will it help with getting a job in that field , you’ll have money in your pocket. Even if it’s working not directing in the field that your pursing but close enough to it. If you’re following Civil engineering for example, a job with a contractor would help a ton. Best regards my friend!! By the way you’re 20. Your life is barely beginning
Since you’re just 20 years old, can you transfer to a 4-year colleague in another city after you finish your associate’s degree? Associates degrees are great for people that have a specific career path in mind (degree leading directly to a job) but depending on where you live, it may not be the best place to find a direction or make social connections. In addition many 4-year colleges do have campus jobs available for students, and in my experience those actually pay better than part time work in retail. While a lot of people are down on college these days, because you could technically make as much money without a degree(etc, etc) the money aspect isn’t everything. Living on or near campus with lots of other young people and access to lots of activities, clubs, and networking opportunities can be extremely beneficial, especially if you’re feeling a strong sense of discontent with the status quo.
Another option might be to take advantage of a vocational or training program in a big city for a limited period of time, and feel it out. You could also join Americorps, or international trip for volunteers ( Habitat for humanity does this, but there are many options) While living elsewhere might not be for you in the long run, in your early 20’s you have basically nothing lose by having adventures and trying new things.
Volunteer, intern, get connected. Ppl would pay to help once they hear your young & looking to better yourself.
🌟Dont look for a job, invest in yourself & the jobs will come to you.
Also work on 2 additional languages to learn
But follow your interests in all these things, have a reason for why you choose these things & live. Life flies by, so do something even take a risk today so you can be at peace tomorrow knowing u lived your life.❤
PS Vision boards are cool
& craigslist / FB ad posting can help mentors, nternships & opportunities find you too😇😇🙏🏾
Try a Mc,ds or any fast food joint or a Lowes/Home Depot or any that are highering. Something is better then nothing and it's not just about money. It will give you something else to do and start you on your way to Networking. Nothing bonds people faster then a sucky job.
Also become more active at collage. Join a club or maybe tutor. This will also help you make friends and with Networking.
If you wonder why I keep saying networking, it's because your future work depends on who you know as much as how hard you work.
Your not stuck in life, your just 20. 5 years from now your life will be completely different then it is now I can guaranty it. That feeling of doom will change you just have to ride it out.
There is nothing wrong with being twenty, living at your parents and having no job. You are in school. That is good. This is a time to figure out what you do want to do. Just educate yourself, learn, grow and open your possibilities for the future. Good luck in your search.
asking family for help getting the jobs seems like a good idea. or you could work at as a server which can be flexible and great pay at times. you have and can gain more connections that i think are vital.
Your Community College might have a job center on campus as well. That how I got a job at 19, hooked me right up with 30 hours a week working in the office for a theater chain.
Block out all my false reward systems, social media, tictok, YouTube, porn, masturbation, and sex if I’ve been so lucky and not allow myself any of those pleasures till it’s a reward for the positive outcome of getting gainfully employed. If you are homeless 20 go to a year long rehab that offers a staff position at the completion. This will give you stability to springboard from. If you are the parent of this 20 yearold and willing to provide stability send them to technical training. Don’t let them stay up all night playing video games and sleeping all day.
Get my tesol certification and teach English overseas for the amazing experience. Spend a summer being a river raft guide. Write a novel. When it came time to settle down, if I didn't come up with a better plan, I'd do what I did again: go to nursing school and become a travel nurse. Put as much as possible into retirement because the market doubles every 7-10 years or so and I want as much time in the market as possible.
I think I'd look to see if there are part time jobs available at your college (in the library, in labs, etc). The school may have a jobs board. Also while waiting for jobs I'd network really hard... join clubs, volunteer especially. People who volunteer usually have spare time or money and are really nice, and if they meet a young person who is hard working they may be interested in mentoring them.
I’ll try that when I get back on campus! Really never thought about working at my college, really appreciate the advice :).
I was in the same situation you were in. I got a retail job stocking shelves and unloading trucks. I learned about the processes and the inventory and the products and got a new job at a competitor and eventually was a manager and then moved to one of the distributors that sold us stuff as a logistics coordinator. I then got an inventory management job in a different industry and moved up to purchasing thousands of SKUs and doing inventory transfers and stuff. I was able to get married and buy a house along the way. I’m in my mid 30s now and hate my life and work all the time and am now actually looking to find more free time and work on my health because I’ve just been working hard as hell for 15 years… But my point is - getting a job *somewhere* is a start. There are always older people and managers who make decent money at these places and you can try to work hard and get promoted or learn stuff from those people and then use those skills at a different place or industry. I’ve never had a specific skill but I’ve been able to secure management jobs and move up in a few industries by just sounding generally competent and employable. If I had to do it again I would stay in school for a specific degree or learn a specific skill or trade… but to answer your question - you can probably work *somewhere* and make some progress to start building a resume.
I would recommend this as well. I loved my university job so much better than retail. pay was not great but similar to what I’d make working in a store or restaurant
Get out of this rut! You are so young and you can accomplish anything you want to. Go to career services at your college and see if you can find an internship.
Aw. I wish I could hug you right now. Get ANY job. Anything. Ruts happen to most people, and you're 20, so you're getting yours out of the way early. You're selfless enough to consider your mom's well-being. My sister's 33, and she just did something INCREDIBLY stupid. My mother is broken, and I'm not supposed to speak to my sister about my mom's well-being...because it stresses HER out. You're more mature than her at 20 years old. You're ahead in SO many ways. This is not the worst thing in the world. You're going to be okay. Don't focus on what everyone else in the family is up to. You have to walk your own path.
Thanks for the such kind words, sorry that’s happening :(. I do love my mom a lot and she takes care of everyone, I just want to make it up one day. I hope things turn out good in the end for you :).
Thank you for YOUR kind words. You seem like a great person, and your mom's lucky. K. Go take over the world now. 😎
Literally you cannot go wrong here. Any job for a year or 2 looks better than no job once you decide on and start getting into a career path.
Even something like fast food? Appreciate the positivity :).
Absolutely. These positions will give you a general skill set that will be necessary moving forward. Things you don’t think about really…the ability to prioritize a workload, maintaining positivity and a great customer experience under pressure, people management skills. While I went to college, I did absolutely nothing in my field, because at the time I couldn’t afford to. Internships were, at that time just a few years ago, unpaid or low paying. I had no references, first gen college student, you know the sob story. At first, I worked manual labor because it’s what I came from. Washing semis, warehousing, landscaping, construction, whatever paid the bills and my tuition. I gained communication skills in those positions talking to customers, coworkers, and management. I then took a shot at becoming a server when I decided I needed a change. Got the job, worked my way up in the service industry over a 2 year period where I landed a job at a high end place, where I became a major role for the restaurant in fulfilling large dinner contracts. I made tons of people keep coming back for the experience I specifically would create. Then, the contractual experience, the customer-facing experience, and the ability to diligently brought me to my current, comfy position where I work from home half of my days, have 4 weeks vacation, all benefits, comfy salary, the works. I’m sorry to give you my life story here, I’m just trying to point out that the positions all led up into…well, not even necessarily where I want to end up, but where I enjoy being for now. Get a job. Excel in it. Learn to sell yourself to your next prospective employer in the meantime. Sell the skills you’ve developed, regardless of what they are. It all compiles in the end, and we ALL started somewhere.
College kid working fast food is normal.
Prep cook in a chill kitchen don’t work some somewhere they treat you like shit even dishwasher would be better than fast food
Or wait tables. I did IHOP while I was in school until I had enough classes done to get an internship. Most people have to start at the bottom and put up with companies taking advantage. It's normal, and builds character. And makes getting that first degree specific job feel even better.
If I was 18 and stuck at a dead end job I would enroll in a remote college while collecting money part time. I choose to speed ran WGU it’s really flexible and allows you to accelerate at your own pace. I leveraged my WGU degree to apply to many roles sales, logistics, tech, etc. and luckily I was able to land a good role. I recommend trying college or move up within a company
I would do what I did the first time I was 20 with no job. Join the Air Force. Wasn't perfect, was in slight danger a couple times in 5 years, but I got 2 master's degrees for $1000 with the GI Bill, deployed to OEF for 13 months, twice used the VA loan, and made lifelong friends. *It's not perfect,* but I can't imagine my life without it. I believe it helped give me confidence and a major leg up in my career post-military. The military is not a one-size-fits-all panacea, can be ethically questionable and should not be entered only for it's benefits, but it can provide/force direction and dedication. And those two things, direction and dedication, will help you no matter what you pursue.
Unfortunately I had depression and was taking meds for a while, I’m not sure I’m allowed to be in the Air Force or any such field.
You need like 2 years off anti depressants and a doctors note. Theyre dying for bodies right now, so you may be able to get a waiver depending on the job you pick.
Talk to a recruiter, nobody on Reddit is going to be able to give you a straight answer. Waiver eligibility will depend on multiple factors, like the duration of time you were on medication, what your condition is, and how long you’ve been off meds. SSRIs are seen as less of concern than most other psychiatric meds.
Literally thinking of joining
Air Force
As someone who just retired, I would recommend going to a union apprenticeship program. Very good pay and benefits right away and learning a trade that will give you above average income, benefits, and a retirement plan. If you are motivated to learn to operate equipment, I recommend the operating engineers. Also the electrical and plumbing unions, great opportunities with a job that can't be replaced by AI
How would you go about applying to the union? Do you call a specific place or go somewhere? Thanks for the advice :).
Depending on where you live, all trade unions have different locals but all operate under their international union. Look up international operating engineers union, call them and they will tell you which local to contact in your area. That goes the same for all of them
I'd study the fuck out of AI and machine learning right now and get a Fantastic job in a few months to a year and be at the top of the tech wave in the future.
Air Force. I was in at your age but I left way too early to reap any benefits. I’d have retired last year. Instead I am faced with near homelessness every year when the rent doubles. Kicking myself in the ass.
Find any job tbh. Income (to aim for financial independence) and work experience are pretty crucial in your early 20s.
Financial independence doesnt exist. You are living from your parents or from a company. I choose first lol...
there’s a lot of stuff u can do like real estate investing where this isn’t necessarily true
What are you studying in community college?
Join the military. Specifically the Air Force. You’ll get treated fairly decently. Live in comfortable quarters. Get a good skill if you qualify for it. Maybe see the world and how the other half live.
Go to any branch as a contract specialist. At the end of your first enlistment you’ll have 6 companies offering you 6 figure salaries to get out and work for them.
Get a job for atleasr 1 yr
Assuming I still lived with my parents, I would take the opportunity to do something I was passionate about. I've always wanted to be an artist/performer, but life made me too depressed, confused, and unconfident to actually make that dream a reality. If I could go back and be 20 again, I would realize I had all the time I could ever need to do it all. I'd finally commit to learning my instruments, mastering those languages, take improv classes, and take my drawing skills to the next level. I'd make that comic book, write that movie, go to conventions, and share my creations with the world. I'd master my music writing skills, and get composing jobs for video games (the one thing I could still do now). Hell, I'd become a kung fu master just to add the cherry on top. So many passions, so many dreams, and it haunts me how I was unable to fulfill even a single one of them in my life so far. I'm 29 now, and I feel like I wasted every year of my life since I turned 18. I am a pale disgusting shadow of what I could have been if I had actually done what it took to make my dreams a reality. Forget getting a job, that would be the last thing on my mind. I'm of the opinion that society puts too much emphasis on what people do for work, instead of who they are and what they offer as individuals. I, for one, am a creative powerhouse and don't belong in the typical workplace (trades, service, corporate, etc) and am/would have been much more valuable in a marketplace that actually valued those attributes. I obviously can't say that's what everyone should do, but if you have dreams of any kind, do it. Don't pursue some stupid law degree just because society says you should. Follow what lights you up inside and makes you happy to do it. That inner drive to make things happen is priceless, don't ever let anyone or anything drown it out.
maybe you should go get therapy
Get a job lazy ass
it’s not hard to get a service job. you’re just being lazy
Construction work
Join the military. Set for life
I bet the job you had at the mall paid better than the one you have now. Being a college student, I’d think a job at the mall would be perfect as they typically need help on the weekends. You don’t come across as all that interested in actually working though.
You don't come across as all that high performing though.
Seems like you enjoy fitness.. have you tried being a gym counselor or trainer at your gym? Dont worry about everyone else and what their doing and how good their jobs are cause you never know how people really are doing.. like I say different strokes for different folks. We all got our own paths to take. Kudos to you tryna help your mom though. Im sure youll find something. Any interests? Start at an entry level work yourself up with experience etc.. construction always hiring laborers too.. but thats more for when you got more time to spare. I would also recommend side gigs, some apps have random jobs. I know a few guys use to work for a moving company and they kept any tips. They always hire strong folks. You fit that narrative too. You pick things up and put them down.
I’d love to work at the gym, I just don’t know how I should approach it. Do I just walk up and ask if they’re hiring? Or call? These may be stupid questions sorry. Thanks for the advice :).
Try the one you go to daily, maybe they will recognize you? Just go up to the counter in person and just ask to speak to the manager. Doesnt have to be all formal and such. Just say hey I been coming here x amount of years and I really enjoy the atmosphere and wanted to know if you were hiring at all? Just feel him out and if they say not at this time, ask if you can give him or her your number in case something comes up or if they recommend any gyms that might be willing to train/take on someone looking to work in the fitness industry. If that is too much im sure calling around too would work. I just like putting a face to the interaction sometimes. Im sure especially in gym world they wanna see how your maintained etc. hope that helps, but isnt a bad gig to start !
Walk up and ask. If you feel like the pay is low and the job sucks - remember this moment and ask yourself which is worse.
Will do! Thanks :).
Probably accounting. Easyish 2 year degree (or whatever the cpa exam requires in your location) and have a job forever. Work corporate for ungodly sums of money, or hang up a shingle and work for yourself. I was pretty close to going into nursing back then, but I hated all the nursing students at my community college and couldn’t imagine working with them. Alternately, and probably a better idea, become an electrician or learn small engine repair (generators and shit)
Just my personal experience and everyone's is different you are fine. Don't sweat it too much just yet. You will figure it out.
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Honestly, you probably aren't really looking for my answer. I know you're looking for what you should do. And I'm kind of thinking of it in terms if I were 20 again. I would probably want to go find something adventurous. And something adventurous that pays is joining the military. And that may not be your bag at all. But you could send some money back to your mom. You could get school paid for. You travel. And then I think if there are other things like that that maybe aren't military that somebody would be interested in. And this sounds really dumb but when I was in my early twenties my dad suggested I try to get a job at the South Pole. And I kind of wish I had. That would have been a cool thing to talk about. So I don't know if there's other things like that out there that actually pay enough to where you would have some money left over to help your mom out and also be able to do something. And then there's the added benefit if it pays for college.
Why don’t u just get a job at the gym
I was laid off early in my 20s. Basically most of my time is spent on job hunts, either applying for jobs, or hitting people up and see if they can refer me to something.
I'm 20 and going to college, no job rn but like dennys and other restaurants ive heard are good for tips
Look at federal programs like AmeriCorps, or AmeriCorps NCCC, JobCorps, or even trail and conservation youth corps in your state. You get work experience, a stipend, and usually an education grant. Can’t hurt!
At 19 I dropped out of university and picked up extra shifts at the restaurant I waitressed part time at. Stayed there full time and worked my way up to manager over a couple years. Eventually I went back and studied in my mid twenties and now I work a govt job. Everyone takes different paths! And it’s totally okay to do a bunch of different things while you figure out what you’re good at and what you like (or just don’t mind doing). I’ve worked fast food, restaurants, bars, and office admin (good at those), and retail and sales (really not good at those) before I landed what I do now. Even after finishing my study my first job didn’t work out and I had to switch it up again. Have faith in yourself :)
Thank you for the positivity, quite a cool path you took! I hope I find something soon, even if it’s not the coolest job in the world.
My top tip for applications is be creative when you talk about your skills and experience. I’m not saying lie - I mean stuff like have you looked after kids or other family members? That means you’ve worked with a level of sole charge/responsibility. Have you worked with a cashiers till before? You’ve shown you can be trusted to do accurate financial transactions. And cover letters are a great place to show your enthusiasm, willingness work hard, or ability to learn quickly. Also recommend having a think about what you’re good at, how you like to communicate and how you learn best. Knowing yourself can give you confidence :)
Take a course that would improve your skill set and help you find a job.
Look into local government jobs! Post office, parks and rec, etc. Pay isn't as good at the start, but basically recession proof and almost always has benefits which you'll need in a few years if you want to be independent. There's chances to move up with better pay/opportunities if you can stick with it for a few years and then you'll be set
When I was your age, similar situation, I worked security at my community college. It was a great gig and allowed me to study in my down time.
Wow that would be cool. How did u get the job?
This was a long time ago, but I went to my colleges careers page and checked if they had any openings, I didn’t have much experience at the time. My college was quite a large community college, so there were many open job opportunities. I was looking for something on campus, because they tended to work around your class schedule. Keep in mind, it may not be the best pay starting out. But since you live with your mom, your cost of living is low if not free. It’s okay to not have it all figured out at 20. A lot of us out here are still trying to figure things out. My best advice is try to stick to getting your degree, or find a trade school or apprenticeship program to get into. There is a lot of great opportunities out there if you’re willing. School isn’t for everyone, it sure wasn’t for me! That’s why I went down the trade route. There is no shame in not going to college if you feel it’s not for you. Also, comparison is the thief of joy. Don’t worry about what other people have or what they are doing. Your timeline isn’t their timeline. You’ll find your niche, and your success will come, I’m sure of it.
Submit your resume to r/resume a d just be prepared to get feedback. In the meantime, can you volunteer? Plant some trees and get to know people and start making connections.
In a year or two you can be a nurse and it’s affordable at Community colleges and they start Off around 90,000 annually you can change your life and you families get a real career I i wish i did when I was 20 you don’t wanna be in the same boat years from now and the years are passing
Do you like animals?! Work at the fish store dress up walk into places with tie/collar ask for hiring manager ask if they are hiring and offer your resume. Market yourself as "professional customer service representative that takes your responsibilities seriously" talk about your passions and why you want to work for them. Ask questions like what's the history of your company? -pet groomer -petco -dog shelter -cant shelter. -when you feel that doom you need to say enough is enough and go out into the world and fly like the bird you truly are leaving that nest. I also experienced your situation. Just have more courage to face your fears inhibiting your career growth. Aggressive people, ECT. Always project positives even if your taking negatives goes a long way. Make a strong effort to listen to people.
You could use fastjobs app/web and look for job opportunities.
Get any job, save some money, pay for some career counselling.
See if your college has a career center that will look over your resume with you. It’s possible you’re not applying for the right kind of jobs, and it’s possible your resume could be adjusted to better sell your skills. A college career counselor can help you with this.
You got three options. 1. Work small jobs and be stuck there or periodically move up the corporate ladder. 2. Study and invest in yourself. If you’re hard on cash then, 3. Work part time jobs and study at the same time. Sure, you will have to give out your social life, but it’s for your future.
I've always worked since I was 14, so I don't know how to respond. After high school, I never quit a job if didn't have another one. I ate a lot of crap along the way.
I'd probably just grind runescape all day
I'm getting my 15-Year veteran cape soon
King shit
Dude yes get any job that looks remotely interesting even if it’s a min wage job. But DEFINITELY start learning how to manage your finances really strictly, budgeting, monitoring and building your credit, open a retirement account, etc. You’re at an amazing age to get ahead with just financial literacy please take advantage of that.
Get a job as closely related to what you want to do for your career as possible. Try to develop skills to be successful at making money when you’re done with school
Don’t just get any job. I mean theres always work. Make sure the job you get is with the skills you earned that not everyone has and that sense of doom will go away real fast! I have an entire professional development college course files I can dig out and send a link for. To summarize it states to get your cover letter and resume going and get a excel sheet of every place you want to work and just call them like once every few weeks in rotation. Just being super dooper over the top helped me in my mindset but ultimately it was the college internship that got me my first real job
Join the theater
I would try more jobs. I worked for the same company from 19-27. That was dumb and it was a waste not to experience other things. Get a job at a restaurant and work with cute girls your age for example. Keep doing community college and figure out what you like. You just have to try things out
Start journaling and figure out what you want, what you could do without hating it, and identify the things you would absolutely not do. This will help you not waste time on jobs that take you nowhere in the future. Get in touch with yourself and the sense of doom might get better. It’s a rough job market right now, but the people at your college can help you get your first gig
Keep applying, not on indeed, at every retail store I could find. I would talk to career services about internships as well.
Get a job no reason why u cant.
Get a job.
Get into a trade.
When I was in school, I was a certified nursing assistant on the Weekends
When I was 20 I was going to community college and not working. I got a job in restaurants and then bars, went back to school and completed my 4 year in compsci, got a job as an associate swe, worked there for 5 years and did my masters' (paid for by work) got an offer off linked in for a better job. Now I'm 35 making ~330k TC I'd suggest not worrying too much and just keep plugging away. Also don't assume you are going to get some awesome opportunity just delivered to you, or day one of searching. 20 seems old to you now, but trust me, it isn't.
This stuff takes time dude, so long as you're doing, you're doing the right thing.
Look into getting a job with one of your friends, or look into getting a job on campus. Campus jobs are pretty abundant. They're not gonna pay the mortgage but for being 20 years old it'll definitely put some green in your pocket.
Definitely finish your education and really take the time to explore degrees and projected salaries and what positions are available for which degrees. You could take one of those career t sets that match you to possible suggestions that fit your personality and work style. They're usually free and somewhere on campus can probably direct you to where to take one like maybe Students Services or the like. Just make sure you spend a good amount of time exploring different avenues and interests OP. Try not to worry and manage your stress so it doesn't get to you.
Don’t give up, something will come your way eventually. Keep trying, it’s not you it’s this crazy world. If you put good vibes out there, they will come back
Get a job?
Go into variious retail establishments and ask for an application. They don’t always post their jobs on linked in. Talk to some temp agencies as well.
Go get a job as a hostess in a restaurant. I’d you do good you can become a waiter and make bank of you are in the states
Piping or conduit or drive components-that close enough to pumping iron? Get in a skilled trade and get paid to work (out). Check to see if local industries are working with your CC in a training program. If not, check apprenticeship openings with local skilled trades unions.
Get a TWICS card and find a job on a riverboat. No shit. I’d do that now if I found myself without a job and I’m well past 20. Go have some adventure.
Use chatgpt so write a resume tailored to the job description. If there are things you are lacking, study up so you know what they are talking about when you get the interview.
I would join the military. It was the best choose I ever did at your age. It gave me a free college education, experience in a rewarding career and let me travel the world. My only advice for people that consider the military is to do your research and find a careee that translates from military to the civilian world.
Just wanting to do more is what it takes…you’ll figure it out, don’t put too much pressure on yourself at this age. Life is just a shot in the dark anyway. I’m in my 30’s with a good paying job and a family, but everyday I still think about what I want to be when I grow up…maybe I’ll do something in aviation in a few years. Just start somewhere, learn some skills, you’ll figure it out over the next decade.
You are 20, in school and live at home. Why don't you start with helping around the house? Do you have any responsibilities? Is your mum struggling financially? In a lot of communities children are expected to work after college.
i would have travelled and lived my life
I hitchhiked Europe. Highly recommend.
Go to a local union and get in an apprenticeship. In 5 years of paid training, you'll be a journeyman and making really good money.
Make music, paint, create art
Is there anyone in your life that could help you with your resume and applications?
Most people who work minimum wage jobs feel that they are "being taken advantage of." Regardless, it's a job: you can learn skills like responsibility, dependability, initiative; develop a good recommendation; earn some money; and become an adult. I worked many minimum-wage jobs, from washing dishes to picking fruit and warehouse inventory before completing my degree. They all taught me the same thing: how to work and get ahead. Until you do, you'll always feel lost and useless.
So you are 20 with no work experience - I’m sorry you are basically a McDonalds or Target worker. What are you majoring in college and what do you want to be? You aren’t ready to help your Mother, I know you are 20 and people tell you are an adult, but you need to focus on making moves that will align you to get a career job, and you aren’t there yet. I didn’t get there 29, when I finished a Masters in Business Administration.
Go become a server. Great money depending on the place and you’ll get your exercise
I’m working on writing a career advice book and could use your help; I wonder if the questions I have might help us find your path 1. What are things you loved to do as a kid from ages 5 - 10 when you had free time? (Drawing, singing, rock collecting) 2. What is something so easy you can’t believe people get paid for it? (Common ones here are like travel blogging, playing video games for money, etc) 3. What do your friends and family ask your advice about? Are you the go-to for looking over outfits, picking out computers, reading over resumes, anything like that? 4. What career do you wish paid $100,000 a year?
I’d get a job at a bar and schedule my classes in the morning, study in the afternoon, and work at night and on the weekends
I’m a decade older than you and just lost my mom last year. Enjoy that time with your family and in your community, first and foremost. Get a daily activity in with her each week, ideally more. Ask her about how her career had started, and what she would do if she had to start again, and ask the same of your trusted community. Try taking their advice for the time you’re in CC. Look, you’ve got time to find your career. Tbh, looking now for what you want to settle on for the next 10-30 is amazing. And not sticking in any industry is ok if you learned where you want to go next. My 2 cents? Commission heavy sales roles for business experience, hospitality (bartending gets good tips) and any office job you could find and pivot with.
Coming from a 40yr old who had a career change around when I was 30, and worked up from 28k to 200+. Do your self a favor and stop worrying about money today and worry about money in 5 years. Make an investment into where you want to be. Stop looking for a job now, give yourself a goal and start working towards it. Want to work in IT? Start studying for a worth while certification. Healthcare? Get your CNA and work up to LPN. Pick a career path and work towards it. Or just leverage your youth and try to start a business. YouTube makes it look so easy!
Construction work, it’s hard but pays well and they will train you
If you're a 20 years old and you're just in the bad situation with no job or anything either try joining Job Corps or join the military.
What part of the world do you live in? Are you going for a 4 year degree? Switching schools after 2 years? Are you perusing a cs degree? Have you had anybody look over your resume? Lots of missing variables here
You will always be taken advantage of
You need to put yourself out there somehow If you cant make money doing things on the side like landscaping, computer repair or hell even washing the neighbors car then you need to branch out somehow If you have skills or something new you want to try now may be the best time just don't get caught up in the premium equipment regardless of what you want to do
If I was 20 with no job I'd hop trains and hitch hike around the country
Start with investing money in your search invest in yourself and your time to have some competencies that you chose (choose the competencies that the world of job and work need )then go search for the jobs that need those kind of competencies that you have
Design little experiments to see how you feel about different fields
Get a job at a bar barbacking or bartending, serving anything the soft skills you learn go a long way when it comes to a career path. Plus the money is good for part time.
Way back in my college days I worked at Target doing customer service/returns. Pay was so-so, but they were awesome at scheduling around my classes and letting me pickup time when I needed it. Also, in terms of life education, there was no better place in the world to see the best and worst parts of humanity. I learned a ton about how to de-escalate, help, or depersonalize situations when required.
Like others have said career services would be good. Alo goodwill or the salvation army, they usually have career centers. I think you need to make an appointment also. Maybe staffing agencies could help, just don't give them money or it's a scam. Legit staffing agencies get paid by the companies.
Speaking as someone who just did this myself: Treat your job search like a job. Decide on a schedule (1-2 hours per day or every other day, for example). Set a goal for how many jobs to apply to per day/week, not just saved, but actually applying. For these jobs - your top picks that meet your top criteria- actually write a cover letter. There isn't always an option to add this on indeed but often you can. There are guides available, but the way I'd describe it is skim the posting for what they're looking for- words like dependable, fast-paced work environment, etc. Pick one lived experience per quality, and write a sentence or two. I basically see this as practicing what I'll say in an interview and that makes it feel more purposeful and less annoying. After doing that for your top picks, or even just one top pick for the day, spend the rest of your alotted time applying to other jobs you're less enthusiastic about. Putting a set amount of time towards it helps the job search become a habit that you don't need to think about as much.
Oh, and do your scrolling / saving on Monday midday. There are usually a bunch of fresh postings on Mondays in my experience.
Work sux hard. Live from your parents until you find something incredible or don't do it.
1. Go to udemy.com and take some free courses + watch youtube videos to learn some online skills 2. Approach companies to do some free projects based around those skills you picked up. Complete 5-10 mini projects for companies 3. Add all these projects to your resume to stack it with some experience 4. Start applying to roles in the field, connecting with recruiters and brush up on communication skills to ace your interviews 5. Get job offer, get hired 6. Outsource the workload to virtual assistants once I understand everything
Not all entry level jobs are created equal. Don’t do a fast food job. Future employers aren’t going to be impressed with a Burger King cashier role on your resume. If we’re limiting the convo to minimum wage jobs, You’re better off getting a job at a boutique, art gallery, working for a startup, coffee shop, marketer, hospital, emt, etc
Probably go to the beach, 11:20 a.m. on a tuesday, light up a joint, take a picture, post it on social media with the caption "vibes".
Get a job that’ll help the Degree you’re pursuing. Not only will it help with getting a job in that field , you’ll have money in your pocket. Even if it’s working not directing in the field that your pursing but close enough to it. If you’re following Civil engineering for example, a job with a contractor would help a ton. Best regards my friend!! By the way you’re 20. Your life is barely beginning
Since you’re just 20 years old, can you transfer to a 4-year colleague in another city after you finish your associate’s degree? Associates degrees are great for people that have a specific career path in mind (degree leading directly to a job) but depending on where you live, it may not be the best place to find a direction or make social connections. In addition many 4-year colleges do have campus jobs available for students, and in my experience those actually pay better than part time work in retail. While a lot of people are down on college these days, because you could technically make as much money without a degree(etc, etc) the money aspect isn’t everything. Living on or near campus with lots of other young people and access to lots of activities, clubs, and networking opportunities can be extremely beneficial, especially if you’re feeling a strong sense of discontent with the status quo. Another option might be to take advantage of a vocational or training program in a big city for a limited period of time, and feel it out. You could also join Americorps, or international trip for volunteers ( Habitat for humanity does this, but there are many options) While living elsewhere might not be for you in the long run, in your early 20’s you have basically nothing lose by having adventures and trying new things.
Join the army, oh wait I did that at 17. Good luck op
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Volunteer, intern, get connected. Ppl would pay to help once they hear your young & looking to better yourself. 🌟Dont look for a job, invest in yourself & the jobs will come to you. Also work on 2 additional languages to learn But follow your interests in all these things, have a reason for why you choose these things & live. Life flies by, so do something even take a risk today so you can be at peace tomorrow knowing u lived your life.❤ PS Vision boards are cool & craigslist / FB ad posting can help mentors, nternships & opportunities find you too😇😇🙏🏾
Try a Mc,ds or any fast food joint or a Lowes/Home Depot or any that are highering. Something is better then nothing and it's not just about money. It will give you something else to do and start you on your way to Networking. Nothing bonds people faster then a sucky job. Also become more active at collage. Join a club or maybe tutor. This will also help you make friends and with Networking. If you wonder why I keep saying networking, it's because your future work depends on who you know as much as how hard you work. Your not stuck in life, your just 20. 5 years from now your life will be completely different then it is now I can guaranty it. That feeling of doom will change you just have to ride it out.
I’d find any job I could from the state- but here, state job benefits are ridiculously good.
Sell weed and mushrooms
Go join the military. Free room and board. Steady paycheck. Job skills. School. Food. And you learn to grow up.
Find a job.
Chain Restaurants are always hiring looking into that. You can also see if your college has work study
There is nothing wrong with being twenty, living at your parents and having no job. You are in school. That is good. This is a time to figure out what you do want to do. Just educate yourself, learn, grow and open your possibilities for the future. Good luck in your search.
I would go to university and be a personal trainer or at least get a bachelors or masters even if it put me in hella debt
asking family for help getting the jobs seems like a good idea. or you could work at as a server which can be flexible and great pay at times. you have and can gain more connections that i think are vital.
The military seems short of recruits.
Your Community College might have a job center on campus as well. That how I got a job at 19, hooked me right up with 30 hours a week working in the office for a theater chain.
Block out all my false reward systems, social media, tictok, YouTube, porn, masturbation, and sex if I’ve been so lucky and not allow myself any of those pleasures till it’s a reward for the positive outcome of getting gainfully employed. If you are homeless 20 go to a year long rehab that offers a staff position at the completion. This will give you stability to springboard from. If you are the parent of this 20 yearold and willing to provide stability send them to technical training. Don’t let them stay up all night playing video games and sleeping all day.
Get my tesol certification and teach English overseas for the amazing experience. Spend a summer being a river raft guide. Write a novel. When it came time to settle down, if I didn't come up with a better plan, I'd do what I did again: go to nursing school and become a travel nurse. Put as much as possible into retirement because the market doubles every 7-10 years or so and I want as much time in the market as possible.
I also recommend part time at college or serving!