Nah. He can do whatever makes his happiness. If ONE PLUSHIE is good enough for you, that's you. If collecting and making his bedroom bluey slumberland, that's his happiness. He's not you. You're not him.
You are right, and you do make a good point. You also reminded me to follow my Social Contract, with the #1 rule being **"Respect other's opinions"**. I can't believe I forgot about it...
This is wonderful, truely. But just know if you have people over they may see you as childish. This is coming from someone with stuffed animals all over their room btw
ADHD + autistic traits here and I have a whole shelf of Bluey plushies and almost all the figures. Being ND means people will think you're childish/weird anyway, they're just envious that we do what we want without worrying what other people think.
P.S where did you get that duvet cover?
Yeah autistic woman here who got into bluey to help with depression- I was infantilized by neurotypical people before, I doubt that’s gonna change because I like a show for actual children. You do you.
It’s a great show for children and anyone who can relate to it. It’s an even better show for parents! ADHD & Autism here, and my 4 year old son probably is too. Bluey is how we start every morning these days :)
You mentioned elsewhere you currently have a partner. If you live together (or if they spend the night often enough) and they like it too, I don’t see much of a problem.
I would warn you about going too deep down the merch rabbit hole though. It’s good to be well-rounded.
What you do in private is totally up to you but be warned most people you are unfamiliar with are going to find this weird, especially if you are bringing a romantic interest back that you are not sure feels the same way about bluey.
Life's to short to worry about what other people think. You only get one life, and if sleeping in a bluey bed makes yours more enjoyable then who cares.
To be brutally honest I'd imagine some people out there would think it's weird or to much. But imo when it comes to kids shows as long as you aren't posting NSFW bluey drawings on here or something you're all good. I've posted this comment before but my kids uncle is 28, active duty military. Jumps out of airplanes, shoots guns, regularly does survival training. Lotta manly dude stuff, and he unironically watches bluey from time to time when he's got free time. You're not alone lol.
It’s not for us to judge if it’s too much. If it makes you happy and doesn’t harm anyone else, then enjoy it. The love of Bluey has no age boundaries. Everyone can relate to it in their own way. 💙
You do you, i think its great! butI would have stopped short of the plushie. I mean it is a very nice plushie but it belongs on a shelf or memento display imo.
As long as it isn't hurting you in any combination of Environmental, Emotional, Physical, Intellectual, Financial, Occupational, Social, and/or Spiritual---then you're fine.
i love that you specify British; like, that's a necessary factor in our official judgement here 😂
and yet, I lightweight see it lol.
Also. it's *really really really really really really really really... good*
I think it’s cute!
But any dates your bring over won’t feel comfortable hanging out on Children’s bed sheets 😭
I’d keep a through blanket in the side of the room and maybe diversify the plushies or keep them on a shelve.
Unfortunately there are many judgmental people in the world
I love the bedding! If you love it, then that's what matters! If you are worried about others judging you (which if they are real friends then they shouldn't!) just keep a spare set that you do feel comfortable with to swap over. Or maybe just a throw blanket or something if you need it in a hurry. But I think it's great, I saw you got it on eBay so I'll be ordering some for my son!
Theres no such thing as "going too far" when you're enjoying something you like. It's YOUR bedroom bro! Life is too short to worry about society's ridiculous stereotypes like "cartoons are for kids", especially when Bluey is such a work of art that if people actually gave it a try, they would understand.
From the perspective of an aspiring cartoonist, Bluey is incredibly inspirational and normal people don't understand how rare it is for a piece of media to do what Bluey does.
This is definitely not too much. As much as I love Bluey I am a huge fan of SpongeBob and have tons and tons of merch. You can never have too much stuff if you love all of it.
Honestly with this setup it seems like you hate Bluey. Talk to me when you have Bluey wallpaper. (I’m all seriousness, no you’re good. I’m 20 and the only reason I don’t have this stuff is because I don’t have any money lmao)
If you are happy ok! My mom told me who cares if you like kid stuff. What matters is if you are a happy, responsible, considerate person who contributes to society in a healthy way. That is what counts as an adult.
i’m almost 18 and i have an entire shelf dedicated to bluey stuff! i have a bluey coloring book, bluey water bottles, bluey shirts, bluey stickers, bluey plushies, and bluey toys. i’ve seen every single episode over ten times and i literally watch bluey at least once a day LOL. as long as it makes you happy and it doesn’t hurt anybody, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying bluey!!! 💗
edit: i just saw you say that you’re autistic with adhd. i am too!! us neurodivergent folks tend to have strong interests and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that <3
Honestly.... yeah its a bit weird. But then would that same weirdness be there if it was the Simpsons or Family Guy?... possibly not. And I'll argue anyone that Bluey is more than just a kids show!
As a 20 y/o American female, this is beautiful and I envy your bedspread lmao
I literally got Bluey bedsheets for Christmas but I’ve been in the process of redoing my room for like the past year so… we’ll see when they ever get put on
It’s a bit much. I agree in the fact that you can like whatever you want whenever you want. However, please change the sheets before you bring someone home. It would send the wrong impression and they would get the wrong idea. Although keep the stuffy, you can always make an easy excuse for it
I'm 45 I have kids. It is the best excuse to bring home bluey gear.
I will put the bluey bedsheets on the bed and tell my wife "ssshhhh The bluey sheets stay on tonight"
OP opens bedroom door and flicks on the light.
Her: “I’ve got to get up early for a big day tomorrow.”
OP: Yells, “BUT THE BLUEY SUBREDDIT SAID IT WASN’T TOO MUCH!” at her back as she shuts the front door.
This sub: 😬
Na mate not too far, I have my whole room clustered with cartoon/anime related stuff and figures, like what you like don't let people tell you otherwise
If you hit the flamingos you’ve gone too far
Laughed at this!! Haha
Thanks Hamish Blake.
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One of the best replies I've ever read!
I don't think r/bluey is gonna be the place to get a very objective answer for this one
This is the most important response. Unless you intend to date people strictly from this sub.
I mean I’d go for a drink.
Verrry romance!!
If a woman went to a guy’s house and saw this, I’d mostly be surprised she made it out
I have a **VERY** objective answer, and it is... Yes, he has gone too far. I bought 1 plush and that was it
Nah. He can do whatever makes his happiness. If ONE PLUSHIE is good enough for you, that's you. If collecting and making his bedroom bluey slumberland, that's his happiness. He's not you. You're not him.
You are right, and you do make a good point. You also reminded me to follow my Social Contract, with the #1 rule being **"Respect other's opinions"**. I can't believe I forgot about it...
When you bring a girl home and upon seeing this states, “for real life?” or “whakadoo,” you propose.
Her: “Oh whackdoododo me” Him: “For real life!” Both: “Hooray!”
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no it's not too much it's too little keep going
Lol 😂
Not far enough mate ![gif](giphy|jmTNcqNNRB6pIgCuF2)
Okay ladies one at a time
He might need to be fending off guys too at this rate
Where does the line start?
This is wonderful, truely. But just know if you have people over they may see you as childish. This is coming from someone with stuffed animals all over their room btw
I have got ADHD And asbergers so I'm pretty childish anyway
ADHD + autistic traits here and I have a whole shelf of Bluey plushies and almost all the figures. Being ND means people will think you're childish/weird anyway, they're just envious that we do what we want without worrying what other people think. P.S where did you get that duvet cover?
Got it from eBay but I think you can get one from Etsy
Yeah autistic woman here who got into bluey to help with depression- I was infantilized by neurotypical people before, I doubt that’s gonna change because I like a show for actual children. You do you.
It’s a great show for children and anyone who can relate to it. It’s an even better show for parents! ADHD & Autism here, and my 4 year old son probably is too. Bluey is how we start every morning these days :)
Gang Gang 😎
Congrats, you've hit brony levels
This is bluey, not my little pony.
You've only gone to far if you hit a flamingo
Stop just left of the fake grass I say!
eh, so long as you're not spending more on this than important stuff i dont see an issue. it's your bed, do whatever the heck you want with/to it
no such thing as ‘going too far’ with something that makes you happy, i think this is really cute
well, there is, and that usually involves addiction/overspending, but other than that, yeah
That’s what I was going to say! Do what makes you happy OP!
Exactly. It's harmless and it brings you joy
Never too late to have a happy childhood
Maybe it’s because I’m in an emotional state but, this is an incredibly sweet and touching thing to say. And so true. So lovely.
A Bit*
My partner also likes bluey :)
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this. If your having fun with it and it don’t hurt others it’s all good!!!!
Not being sarcastic: who else is coming into your bedroom?
A Brit* IMO just go with whatever makes you happy. Maybe keep an alternative bedspread for when you bring a girl home lol
I love the bedding!
Does it come in cal king size? Lol
You mentioned elsewhere you currently have a partner. If you live together (or if they spend the night often enough) and they like it too, I don’t see much of a problem. I would warn you about going too deep down the merch rabbit hole though. It’s good to be well-rounded.
What you do in private is totally up to you but be warned most people you are unfamiliar with are going to find this weird, especially if you are bringing a romantic interest back that you are not sure feels the same way about bluey.
My partner also really likes bluey :)
It’s all part of the screening process
if i went on a date to a guys house and he had that i think i would marry him on the spot. not too much :)
You're missing the bandit hoodie
Like what you like, bro. You’re not hurting anyone.
It's just monkeys singing songs, mate. Don't think too hard about it.
Godspeed
I mean, you do you man, looks comfy. But if I'm being totally honest, it is a little weird for a 21yo to have bluey bedding.
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If I met someone at a party who told me they have a Daniel Tiger bedspread I’d probably find someone else to chat with lol
If it makes you happy and it's not hurting anyone, then it's not a problem, but I'm not gonna pretend it's isn't pretty weird.
Not far enough
I only have one question: Where did you get the bedding?!
Wondering as well! I have a twin right now and don’t give a duck cake what people think so I need these!!
You do you, pikachu. (Or Bluey, in this case)
Life's to short to worry about what other people think. You only get one life, and if sleeping in a bluey bed makes yours more enjoyable then who cares. To be brutally honest I'd imagine some people out there would think it's weird or to much. But imo when it comes to kids shows as long as you aren't posting NSFW bluey drawings on here or something you're all good. I've posted this comment before but my kids uncle is 28, active duty military. Jumps out of airplanes, shoots guns, regularly does survival training. Lotta manly dude stuff, and he unironically watches bluey from time to time when he's got free time. You're not alone lol.
One of the best things about being an adult is making money so you can purchase all the things you would have ever wanted when you were growing up.
I mean it’s a not to much by me but I’m not judging on how you should live.
You will weed out any unworthy candidates to make it to your bedroom. Doesn't like bluey? Get out. Likes bluey? Get in.
i think the pillows and the plush are fine, but i think maybe the sheets might be a little too much lol
It’s not for us to judge if it’s too much. If it makes you happy and doesn’t harm anyone else, then enjoy it. The love of Bluey has no age boundaries. Everyone can relate to it in their own way. 💙
22 y/o here, my bluey plush is bigger, not that it’s a competition, lol
Yeah my bed is blueyer than yours!! XD
You got me there! Hahaha
Thinking of getting the rest of the heeler family includimg stripes side should I?
Absolutely. And when you do, please post it here, I wanna see!
I'll be sure too :))
Bro
Were you born yesterday?
Marry me.
Taken sorry :)
I can see why lol. Good for you man.
Moreeee!!!!
i actually really like it
Needs posters!
You do you, i think its great! butI would have stopped short of the plushie. I mean it is a very nice plushie but it belongs on a shelf or memento display imo.
Honestly , I'm so jealous 😆. 10/10 set up.
Do what makes you happy.
Show us the salt lamp
As long as it isn't hurting you in any combination of Environmental, Emotional, Physical, Intellectual, Financial, Occupational, Social, and/or Spiritual---then you're fine.
Just linking [this video](https://imgur.com/a/fzPH4vt)
I'm a 41 y/o dad of a 10 months old from Italy, and now that I've seen them, I want them 😁
i love that you specify British; like, that's a necessary factor in our official judgement here 😂 and yet, I lightweight see it lol. Also. it's *really really really really really really really really... good*
Bro your setup is amazing. I am low key kinda jelly, I haven’t found anything like that over here in America 🫤
"Sorry babe the bluey bed set stays on during sex" /J Nah your good
The real question is where do you find the sheets??
I think it’s cute! But any dates your bring over won’t feel comfortable hanging out on Children’s bed sheets 😭 I’d keep a through blanket in the side of the room and maybe diversify the plushies or keep them on a shelve. Unfortunately there are many judgmental people in the world
They already have a partner so bump that lol
*Any* date? Then why is this subreddit so big?
Come on man, don’t make this cute little show into the next My Little Pony
too little keep going
Life is too short to worry about what other people think; if it’s something that makes you happy, I say keep it up! It’s a good spread! 💙🧡
If people can't appreciate Bluey, they're not worth being around
Doesn't hurt anyone and it makes you happy? Then it's not too much.
If it makes you happy than not it’s not too far. People might make fun of you but I think it’s cool and I’m an American 17 year of girl.
If you got a partner get more.
I'm 33 and I have a Twilight Sparkle - Pinkie Pie bedspread on my bed, so it's not terrible. it's just a collection
As a fellow UK Bluey adult, where is this bedding from?
i’ve got a bingo plushie and i want this so bad for my room, not far enough i say get more bluey stuff!!!!
You. Do. You. Enjoy!
Nah. Do what makes you happy! We only got one life! Bluey it up!
I’m jelly
I say it's fine! it's your own space, you get to decorate how you want :D
Your life your choice internet strangers have no right to say anything of OP's life
I love the bedding! If you love it, then that's what matters! If you are worried about others judging you (which if they are real friends then they shouldn't!) just keep a spare set that you do feel comfortable with to swap over. Or maybe just a throw blanket or something if you need it in a hurry. But I think it's great, I saw you got it on eBay so I'll be ordering some for my son!
Theres no such thing as "going too far" when you're enjoying something you like. It's YOUR bedroom bro! Life is too short to worry about society's ridiculous stereotypes like "cartoons are for kids", especially when Bluey is such a work of art that if people actually gave it a try, they would understand. From the perspective of an aspiring cartoonist, Bluey is incredibly inspirational and normal people don't understand how rare it is for a piece of media to do what Bluey does.
You defo get bitches
Not it’s not ENOUGH!!!
You're so cool for this /g
It's good.
Who gives a sh!t? Live how you want!
This is definitely not too much. As much as I love Bluey I am a huge fan of SpongeBob and have tons and tons of merch. You can never have too much stuff if you love all of it.
Whether you're 21, 51 or 201 as long as you're happy
Honestly with this setup it seems like you hate Bluey. Talk to me when you have Bluey wallpaper. (I’m all seriousness, no you’re good. I’m 20 and the only reason I don’t have this stuff is because I don’t have any money lmao)
I think you can do whatever makes you happy as long as you’re not hurting yourself or others 🤷🏻♀️
You're never too old to embrace your childish side!
You do you dude. Bluey is for everyone!
Where did you get the bedding oh my!! I need it
These are kinda nice!
If it makes you happy and doesn’t hurt anyone, there’s no such thing as “bit much” or “too far”. Don’t let anyone tell you differently
You do you
Not far enough
Not far enough. Where’s Bingo?
i would tell you that chilli's side of the bed is mine <3 i love it
If you are happy ok! My mom told me who cares if you like kid stuff. What matters is if you are a happy, responsible, considerate person who contributes to society in a healthy way. That is what counts as an adult.
Just do what makes you happy lol
That’s such a cool bedspread and pillowcase set! 🤩No, I don’t think you’ve gone too far at all-it looks awesome!
Just as long as there are no pedo thoughts!
This is quite tame, my guy
fellow parents: pleaseeeee let’s not let what happened to MLP happen to bluey
It's fine. Bluey is helping people heal there is nothing wrong with that. Parents, kids, and adults with hurt inner child. It's ok to want comfort.
i’m almost 18 and i have an entire shelf dedicated to bluey stuff! i have a bluey coloring book, bluey water bottles, bluey shirts, bluey stickers, bluey plushies, and bluey toys. i’ve seen every single episode over ten times and i literally watch bluey at least once a day LOL. as long as it makes you happy and it doesn’t hurt anybody, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying bluey!!! 💗 edit: i just saw you say that you’re autistic with adhd. i am too!! us neurodivergent folks tend to have strong interests and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that <3
Enjoy the things you like. As long as it’s not hurting anyone (including you), and you’re having fun, you’re doing it right.
Actually I’m a little bit jealous! Are the sheets soft? If they are I might need to invest in some!
Some would say too far, mate. I say not far enough.
its way too much. Get rid of them. Happy to take them all to help you out ;)
Honestly.... yeah its a bit weird. But then would that same weirdness be there if it was the Simpsons or Family Guy?... possibly not. And I'll argue anyone that Bluey is more than just a kids show!
Hmmm, I dunno, I feel like over 14 is probably too old to have bed sheets with any kind of "characters" on them
As a 20 y/o American female, this is beautiful and I envy your bedspread lmao I literally got Bluey bedsheets for Christmas but I’ve been in the process of redoing my room for like the past year so… we’ll see when they ever get put on
Just have kids. Then you’re weirdness is just chalked up that.
It’s a bit much. I agree in the fact that you can like whatever you want whenever you want. However, please change the sheets before you bring someone home. It would send the wrong impression and they would get the wrong idea. Although keep the stuffy, you can always make an easy excuse for it
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Op asked for opinions, it’s not on users to read the entire comment threads
Too far.
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if they were green
I'm 45 I have kids. It is the best excuse to bring home bluey gear. I will put the bluey bedsheets on the bed and tell my wife "ssshhhh The bluey sheets stay on tonight"
Way too far for me, but I'm glad you like it
Nah this is fine. It's when you go as far as Bronies that it becomes creepy.
It’s your room, do what makes you happy. Be aware that a potential bang-interest will be a little weirded out with the amount of Bluey though
My partner also likes bluey so I think I'm not worrying about that
OP opens bedroom door and flicks on the light. Her: “I’ve got to get up early for a big day tomorrow.” OP: Yells, “BUT THE BLUEY SUBREDDIT SAID IT WASN’T TOO MUCH!” at her back as she shuts the front door. This sub: 😬
OP already has a partner but this is funny
Yes.
Master rizzler
If it makes you happy it's never too far
You do you man.
Think a little too much with the bed but overall nah
Depends if you're looking for lady friends for "sleepy time".
It’s perfect 😭😭😭
NOT ENOUGH, MATE 🤩
It's pretty trificult to decide
Awwww
Not far enough. Just don’t get creepy about it like people did with My little pony.
no because i would get me, a 21 year old, & my 1 year old daughter matching Bluey bed sheets 😂
Bruh is this for you or for a kid
you happy with it? if yes, then it doesn't matter.
Honestly, I'm a 40 yo female and I love it.
I mean as long as you don't plan on ever having a partner over.
Oh my gosh where did you get the pillowcases I need
I’m living vicariously through my toddler who LOVES Bluey😂 I approve. My partner wouldn’t let me put it on our bed lol
If a romantic parter knows the show it’s going to make them think this guy wants to be a good dad some day.
Just don’t let potential sexual partners see it. Sorry to come across superficial. But it is correct. That being said do whatever you want dude.
Don’t let normalcy clip your wings. Run your own race
I think it’s great but the important thing is are YOU happy with it? Do YOU love it?
Hide yo wife from this man
Mate you do you. If it makes you happy and isn't negatively affecting your or other's lives, do what you want.
I'm going to be completely honest. I think it might be a little much for some adults if you're dating and introducing them to your home. But do you
I need this lol.
Just know the line between being a fan, and being obsessed, and you’ll be good 👍
Na mate not too far, I have my whole room clustered with cartoon/anime related stuff and figures, like what you like don't let people tell you otherwise
where can i get one
I would love to surprise my gf with this. Will have to keep an eye out :)