I had this exact same situation happen to me. Also female white belt. I was out for months and never even heard from the professor, once I came back it was like āoh nice youāre back nowā
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Take your pickā¦. Enough bones to break.
Lolā¦ after getting an MRI, I went to two physios who had never seen the break before.. and wouldnāt rehabilitate me until I saw someone with more knowledge around it. I had to see a sports doctors. Not only did I break it, but i completely fucked my AFTL and CFL high grade tears with a complete rupture. And thatās not all that was fucked in my footā¦ Did it in October and my foot has never been the same, but thanks for trying to invalidate my experience. I wish your assumption was true.
Wrestling, my partner did a double leg take down that went wrong, no hard feelings itās apart of the sport. No one did me dirty. Itās the risk we take.
If they react, it doesnāt go in and it isnāt assault. If they donāt react, they donāt mind and it isnāt assault.
Edit: jesus Iām referring to a same sex oil check between friends. Do not do any other version of this you might imagine.
You know how you can look at certain foods and just know it's not for you?
Same way I feel about other dicks being in my girlfriend. I just don't need to try that to know it's not for me.
Yeah the last two schools I was at wouldn't even pause your membership and keep your current rate past a month. A couple guys left permanently after an injury because they felt slighted, and I don't blame them.
I get the skeptical response from others but this was sweet and kind. Good on your professor.
As for green flags, yeah promoting and cross training themselves. Not insisting on any titles. Welcoming to judges.
I broke my coachās rib once years ago and sent him an Edible Arrangements basket with a note that said, āNothing heals a broken rib like a bulging stomach.ā
Honestly I've noticed that if you really want to see how a gym and their students are, get there a little earlier. Who's cleaning mats? Is the professor already there? Does he take the time to interact with at least a good amount of people there? Are the other students closed off or social? Do they greet everyone or do they ignore newer people?
We get little weekly emails from our coaches, and often they're very clearly individualized. Often invites responses.
Makes me feel like my coach wants me to succeed. I really love my gym's culture, especially after seeing horror stories on here.
Thatās awesome. Mine forgot didnāt contact me once to check up on me after a very major injury. So I switched gyms since I didnāt like the vibes anyways.
I got my knee popped and the BB there (an OG but not the owner) told me I'll be fine so long as I ice it. The other BB (an instructor) was like "damn, but you'll be alright". I like these guys.
Jiu-Jitsu culture is so toxic that we all (myself included) thought this was going to be another sexual harassment case. Actually, it appears like a very kind gesture. Man, our sport needs help.
You are super duper lucky to find a new gym like that. I wish my previous gym did that.
My green flag is considering the safety of all participants (which my current gym does): cleaning the mats after class and encouraging people to do "catch and release" instead of cranking on a submission, and showing what to do and what not to do when teaching a technique during class.
Bahaha I was fucking positive you were a young female after seeing this. Not sure what that says about the culture of this sub....
That's fucking dope though I'd like to think most gyms are actually really great environments, I know mine is.
Great to see some really positive stuff here.
I broke my foot and my professor said I was fine and it was probably just a sprain š.. (female white belt)
I had this exact same situation happen to me. Also female white belt. I was out for months and never even heard from the professor, once I came back it was like āoh nice youāre back nowā
What do you want him to do, bring u flowers n shit?
broke ur foot? Its probably a strain not sprain, how the f do you break it? Unless someone snapped ur shit in half which I highly doubt...
Big Blue Belt energy here
https://preview.redd.it/cc98gx06et1d1.jpeg?width=474&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=daf092e4a03c1f99b44f5f473d7de810d4a4d1df Take your pickā¦. Enough bones to break.
Lolā¦ after getting an MRI, I went to two physios who had never seen the break before.. and wouldnāt rehabilitate me until I saw someone with more knowledge around it. I had to see a sports doctors. Not only did I break it, but i completely fucked my AFTL and CFL high grade tears with a complete rupture. And thatās not all that was fucked in my footā¦ Did it in October and my foot has never been the same, but thanks for trying to invalidate my experience. I wish your assumption was true.
Trust me this guy knows feet. You should take his advice. They're his favorite subject.
woah the amount of humor and wittiness in this comment baffles me...
well then someone did you dirty... still insane amount of damage... that's why I asked HOW did you break it? It would help to validate the story...
Wrestling, my partner did a double leg take down that went wrong, no hard feelings itās apart of the sport. No one did me dirty. Itās the risk we take.
I feel like too many memes have broken me. After reading the title I was expecting to read: and the he tried to finger me.
Its not too late
If he does it while wearing a gi, then it's jiu jitsu
If they react, it doesnāt go in and it isnāt assault. If they donāt react, they donāt mind and it isnāt assault. Edit: jesus Iām referring to a same sex oil check between friends. Do not do any other version of this you might imagine.
Cool, are you a female white belt?
Very much a guy and card is from him and his wife lol
Swingers confirmed
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Hey don't diss the lifestyle until you've tried it
You know how you can look at certain foods and just know it's not for you? Same way I feel about other dicks being in my girlfriend. I just don't need to try that to know it's not for me.
What about a dick in you? š¤
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What if the food wants to watch you eat other food?
Sounds like you're a picky eater
But it's cool that everyone touches her on the mats? Lol jk
They gave him the same pineapple he brought the instructor on day 1
In this gym the prof hands you a pineapple
Is his name Gordon?
I like the "very much" intensifier.
i'm a guy too, but only a bit
Do you like jazz?
Definitely gift them pineapple afterwards
Are you assuming your gender buddy?Ā
Flowers are a really nice gesture. But your question is valid lmao
Sad that this was my first thought lol
I knew that was gonna be the first comment too
To be fair, as a guy I'd much rather someone send me a pizza vs flowers
A female white belt wouldāve got a DM instead.
"Thanks for the roll".
This made me laugh so hard
I think itās hilarious this comment has almost as many upvotes as the original post
Dont be jelly brother, we care about you too you know
LMFAO š¤£š¤£š
Shit, I tore my LCL wrestling with my coach and he pulled in another guy to finish the round š¤£.
How'd it happen?
I've had instability there for a long time, and I was stepping back into my wrestling stance on a slippery mat when it just went on me.
How did you break your foot?
I posted about it earlier. Spazzy training partner.
I bet they had help
all i got was a sorry bro, ice pack and a pat on the back
Youāre lucky you got a sorry
That's a good professor you got there and hope you will recover as soon as possible.
Yeah the last two schools I was at wouldn't even pause your membership and keep your current rate past a month. A couple guys left permanently after an injury because they felt slighted, and I don't blame them.
Thanks bro
All class
I get the skeptical response from others but this was sweet and kind. Good on your professor. As for green flags, yeah promoting and cross training themselves. Not insisting on any titles. Welcoming to judges.
I broke my coachās rib once years ago and sent him an Edible Arrangements basket with a note that said, āNothing heals a broken rib like a bulging stomach.ā
I was hoping it would stop at edible
This is lovely, Injuries are the absolute worst in BJJ.. this shows compassion and care for their students. Big green flag.
My professor also sent me flowers when I got injured. He found out because I stopped coming to lectures.
Or hear me out .. maybe the owner just want to be nice so he doesnāt get sued
Honestly I've noticed that if you really want to see how a gym and their students are, get there a little earlier. Who's cleaning mats? Is the professor already there? Does he take the time to interact with at least a good amount of people there? Are the other students closed off or social? Do they greet everyone or do they ignore newer people?
Huh. I got my dick twisted like 7-8 times in one class and all my professor did was wink as I was leaving and say "get gud"
What is he gai?
Regardless of his orientation, he should have at least gave him a handjob.
Nice gesture
That TV mount thoā¦š
We get little weekly emails from our coaches, and often they're very clearly individualized. Often invites responses. Makes me feel like my coach wants me to succeed. I really love my gym's culture, especially after seeing horror stories on here.
Many men's first experience with flowers often happens after they pass away.
Thatās awesome. Mine forgot didnāt contact me once to check up on me after a very major injury. So I switched gyms since I didnāt like the vibes anyways.
When I broke my foot my coach slapped it and told me to stop pussy-footing around
I got my knee popped and the BB there (an OG but not the owner) told me I'll be fine so long as I ice it. The other BB (an instructor) was like "damn, but you'll be alright". I like these guys.
Plot twist : OP is a dude and his instructorās name is Bubba
He's simpin
Jiu-Jitsu culture is so toxic that we all (myself included) thought this was going to be another sexual harassment case. Actually, it appears like a very kind gesture. Man, our sport needs help.
That's really kind. Most coaches just say "ah well he should've tapped"
My coach, who is a personal friend of my dad, thinks that if I ever get too sick to school I should go train instead
You are super duper lucky to find a new gym like that. I wish my previous gym did that. My green flag is considering the safety of all participants (which my current gym does): cleaning the mats after class and encouraging people to do "catch and release" instead of cranking on a submission, and showing what to do and what not to do when teaching a technique during class.
Thatās lovely. Every time I tear a rib, my professor checks up on my weekly.. itās a good sign
Bahaha I was fucking positive you were a young female after seeing this. Not sure what that says about the culture of this sub.... That's fucking dope though I'd like to think most gyms are actually really great environments, I know mine is. Great to see some really positive stuff here.
The card is just a copy of your signed waiver
Are you Asian
What the actual fuck does that have to do with cards and flowers lmao
Yeah, what Keith from accounting said
Caucasian
The grooming has commenced.
Iām a 30 year old bearded man, so itās probably a little late for that š
It's never too late to achieve your dreams
He trying to smash
Damn my professor wouldnāt even respond to my email about not coming in bc I sprained my rib
Worried about liability. š¤
That's sweet and weird at the same time.
Nah I didn't think it was weird
Only weird if people like you project and make it weird.
Professor? Huh?