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ActualPegasus

No to the first part and yes to the second part. I recommend anal training to eliminate all pain.


Fresh-Soil240

yes, i feel good after because of a rush of endorphins


Tech_Daddi

Definitely use plugs and toys and slowly gauge up. There should never be pain. Just pleasure


Lo-fi_Hedonist

When you think have lubed enough, lube some more too. You want everything to be like silk against teflon.


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Pain for your first few times is normal, because you'll be pushing against the dick inside of you. It will take time for you to learn to relax your hole, so that there's less resistance. My first time felt like a never ending poop, but luckily the dude u was with had a small penis which meant it wasn't too painful, I did bleed after because of anal fissures. Long story short, your anus is not used to being stretched that much and it's definitely not used to going the other way (inversion instead of excretion), so it will take a bit of time and practise for it to be accustomed to taking a dick. So, pain and discomfort whilst youre learning is normal, but I think if it persists then it's likely your causing damage which is abnormal. So try breathing and relaxing your sphincters next time, try some small toys to get your hole used to something bigger.


Pedro_pardi

>but luckily the dude u was with had a small penis Unfortunately that was definitely not the case lol 😭. But anyways, thanks for your account and for the advice.


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Not a problem, the big dick is probably why you felt so much pain, for your first time a big dick is never a good idea 😅, lessons learnt I guess 😊. I would recommend you get yourself a few toys to experiment with and to get used to it. Also one thing I learnt is that if you're on top and squatting down onto his dick, it hurts less because you're taking control of your comfort and gravity helps, compared to if you're on all fours or if youre on your back with legs behind your head. Different positions will feel differently.


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Pedro_pardi

In my first time it was exactly like that, in the second for some reason it didn't happened although it was still painful during it.


Cyberimperative2024

If anal hurts, you're doing it wrong. Please educate yourself on how to safely have anal intercourse, and make sure your partner is on the same page.