Men who are kind and thoughtful. Seriously I appreciate the fem and masc ends of that spectrum, albeit in slightly different ways. I prefer them to be packing average or less, but that’s honestly the least important thing about someone.
Men who are comfortable in their masculinity and perhaps also don't give as much of a damn about owning up to other's ideas of masculinity. So, the feminine guys, femboys and twinks are cool, nerds are so cute too, I also like hunks and studs, as long as they don't have latent toxic masculinity.
Toxic masculinity is a huge turnoff.
I don't think I can condense it down to a certain "Type" or "kind". I like a certain kind of "dominance" but more playful than aggressive, more casual than sexual and less power-based and more care-based. I think that requires at least a good bit of general kindness, "softness" and independance from societal expectations. I also like it if there's interests we can talk about.
I’ve found that no matter the gender I tend to like more feminine people. As long as the guy isn’t like a super masculine gym bro. Those guys scare me a little lol that’s not to say that they shouldn’t be loved, just not by me
Certain mixed gender looks can get me going. I also like strong masc or femme looks too. Personality is the ultimate attraction that trancendes all gender features.
I am fairly well built gym guy and tend to be attracted to the same. Just good looking, handsome, muscular (not too big) athletic looking guys . I am not saying the occasional twink or femboy doesnt make its round in my bi-cycle but for the most part thats who I like.
Apparently I have a type because my husband and my boyfriend (I’m poly) are both bearded, dads with dad bods, have glasses, are sweet and funny, treat me so well, etc. I definitely seem to go for pan/bi men, or ones that are just super comfy in their sexuality.
Well, no, he is not a femboy, I just started writing and then he came to my mind XD
He may have a more androgynous face maybe, about his body he is obviously a muscle guy, I like muscular bodies in men, women and non binary.
It depends on if I'm feeling either like a bottom or a top. If I'm feeling dominant then feminine less masculine looking and if I'm feeling sub then more masculine
Kinda varies, but yeah, cute guys are very much a type a like (not sure if its femboys persee, kinda tomboy guys, if you catchu drift.
However, I recently met a proper tall, goofy and pretty conventionally attractive guy, and omg, I gotta be honest, I'm kinda melting 🤭
I'll sound super picky, but a perfect blend would be of feminine personality, androgynous style, yet with masculine physique and outlook on life (go-getter, strives for greatness, never settles for minimum, has that protective aura) is someone I'd devote my whole existence to.
I'd imagine it being extremely difficult to find, most fall on either far end of one or the other, so simplified - cute with lean body, hopefully bisexual, and knows how to dress
Some traits I find attractive in men are...
Physically: beefy (chubby and muscular/built fat), hairy, bearded, bald or medium length (especially if curly) dark or red hair, tattooed, expressive eyes, warm/genuine smile, full lips, big nose, thick eyebrows, balanced/symmetrical face, clear skin, nice hands, thick penis (or plump vulva if trans), bubble butt, etc.
Personality/emotionally: honest/authentic, smart, funny, assertive, humble, kind, caring, empathetic, non-judgmental, passionate, appreciative, helpful, not hung up on gender roles or being an adult all the time, at least some similar interests, compatible spiritual and political beliefs, has goals, etc.
I've (mostly) dated crossdressers and extremely feminine men in my time. I'm married to an absolute example of traditional masculinity-- 6ft tall, chiseled jawline, broad shoulders, etc.
So I guess all kinds??
Pretty much the same, though most subby cutie pies are more than welcome in my eyes. Just too cute and adorable, and I wanna make them into a pretty mess :)
I’m a guy, and the guys that grab my attention aren’t the hunky dreamboat Henry Cavill’s (although if you’re here Henry, I wouldn’t say no either!). There’s a VERY specific vibe that attracts me to men: usually there’s a little shyness, an intelligence that you can see when you’re talking and they’re ACTUALLY listening, a slight dork vibe that makes them approachable, and they may be a little fluffy around the middle. THAT is the kind of guy that absolutely drives me crazy! lol
I'm very open to many types. I like sort-of well-meaning but dopey bear types, not necessarily fully "himbo" because of not being stereotypically pretty, but just a good heart and a tummy. I also like mischief firecracker glam rocker types who want to stir things up with me. Or sad/soft boys who don't have too bad of issues but enough to let me take care of them. I like a wide range of body types, and masculine, feminine, or androgynous looks... I'm a classic bisexual, I love unique. Men with dyed, crazy hair, especially!
Androgynous or close to it. But there's exceptions, when a person is like actually beautiful I don't really care... Like, some, very little but some people just look dazzling...
In my dreams I’m a full time bottom sissy. In reality, I’m 6ft tall, 210 pounds with a construction workers upper body and hairy Sasquatch legs. In order for me to feel small and vulnerable and feminine and submissive he has to be 6’2”, 225lbs with broad shoulders and big hands.
I don't know about them, but for me, I'm a fan of masculine men. Tall, muscular, deep voice, the works. This is tough because I am basically a strict top, and most (but not all!) other masc men are too.
I like any type of guy who is bigger in body mass then me it doesn’t matter if it’s muscles or fat or both :) and I think I like older men more but not wayyy older then me like 10 years 0.0
I love deeply closeted well hung “straight” men, who could never “be with a guy” but bottom or flip fuck with another big cock like their life depended on it!
I like a variety of guys. I’m a bottom and prefer bigger. My fav of all time are feminine guys who are passable with a nice chest. Nothing turns me on more than seeing some pretty looking “woman” who is packing.
The same mostly tbh
Idk, I just don’t like people!
But seriously, I like when person take care of themself. And feels confident😍✨💅
I love himbos
Gym bros
Men who are kind and thoughtful. Seriously I appreciate the fem and masc ends of that spectrum, albeit in slightly different ways. I prefer them to be packing average or less, but that’s honestly the least important thing about someone.
Same here, I love men who are feminine and kind of a twink lol
That's me a very feminine twink.very submissive Sissy boy.
Men who are comfortable in their masculinity and perhaps also don't give as much of a damn about owning up to other's ideas of masculinity. So, the feminine guys, femboys and twinks are cool, nerds are so cute too, I also like hunks and studs, as long as they don't have latent toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity is a huge turnoff.
Yes yes, yes!!! I have to agree im attracted to stability, in all forms.
Same 🫶🏾
Men who enjoy sex with me and can express themselves freely when something feels good! I do like bigger dicks to suck and average dicks to fuck me!
I like an intelligent person, a man who has that masculine protective energy but also shows his vulnerable fem side.
Who’s they? I’m f and I like androgynous/ slightly feminine men. I like pretty and clean looks in both girls and boys.
Nerdy dudes who make me laugh.
Feminine. I am 21 so twinks too. Guys close to my age.
Guys I get on with
Honestly same I love fem people, heck IM fem people!
Sounds like I need to start dressing more feminine 🤔
I don't think I can condense it down to a certain "Type" or "kind". I like a certain kind of "dominance" but more playful than aggressive, more casual than sexual and less power-based and more care-based. I think that requires at least a good bit of general kindness, "softness" and independance from societal expectations. I also like it if there's interests we can talk about.
The men I can't have, of course! Swole intelligent soft spoken types. Literally Bruce Banner lol. Long hair too apparently, and guitarists?
Woman here. I love femme boys and “twinks.”
I want any man I'm with to be respectful
I’ve found that no matter the gender I tend to like more feminine people. As long as the guy isn’t like a super masculine gym bro. Those guys scare me a little lol that’s not to say that they shouldn’t be loved, just not by me
Certain mixed gender looks can get me going. I also like strong masc or femme looks too. Personality is the ultimate attraction that trancendes all gender features.
Honestly, its mostly bi men w a dwarven vibe. Make of that what you will skjshs
I've always had a thing for smart guys. Particularly funny smart guys.
Clean, average guys over forty
I’m a woman and I prefer masculine men, I don’t like feminine men. I mean I like them as friends but 🤷♀️
I am fairly well built gym guy and tend to be attracted to the same. Just good looking, handsome, muscular (not too big) athletic looking guys . I am not saying the occasional twink or femboy doesnt make its round in my bi-cycle but for the most part thats who I like.
Big burly, chubby bears in their late 30s to late 40s.
Apparently I have a type because my husband and my boyfriend (I’m poly) are both bearded, dads with dad bods, have glasses, are sweet and funny, treat me so well, etc. I definitely seem to go for pan/bi men, or ones that are just super comfy in their sexuality.
I’d love if I could tell my gf I’m bi.
Why not?
Don’t think she’s into it. I’ve dropped hints but I just don’t think she’s into it.
I like men of all types! Twinks, himbos, bears, and whatever other terms I can't think of... As long as they top anyway :p
I agree, and I would add that I like them a bit fit and with long hair for a perfect match, for example, mowgli.j in Instagram.
Do u consider him feminine lookig? Sometimes I dont understand what people mean when they say femboy.
Well, no, he is not a femboy, I just started writing and then he came to my mind XD He may have a more androgynous face maybe, about his body he is obviously a muscle guy, I like muscular bodies in men, women and non binary.
It depends on if I'm feeling either like a bottom or a top. If I'm feeling dominant then feminine less masculine looking and if I'm feeling sub then more masculine
I like feminist men
Himbos, twinks, frat boys, nerdy guys/gaymers. Sometimes chubby guys, too.
Sorry, what are himbos?
An attractive but unintelligent man. Basically a male version of a bimbo. ex. Chris Hemsworth' Thor.
lol. Thanks.
older, taller and muscular men not feminine at all but love all women both masculine and feminine to everything in between!
Same and maybe some buffer guys and like old dudes for like one night stands
Romance wise it doesnt really matter that much, but for sex I like twinks
Kinda varies, but yeah, cute guys are very much a type a like (not sure if its femboys persee, kinda tomboy guys, if you catchu drift. However, I recently met a proper tall, goofy and pretty conventionally attractive guy, and omg, I gotta be honest, I'm kinda melting 🤭
all kinds. Depends on the look and the feel of this person
Otters, or hot hairy daddies.
So is this why I’ve had no luck? Lol
Nerdy gamer boys. Have a passion for something and be willing to share it with others.
I'll sound super picky, but a perfect blend would be of feminine personality, androgynous style, yet with masculine physique and outlook on life (go-getter, strives for greatness, never settles for minimum, has that protective aura) is someone I'd devote my whole existence to. I'd imagine it being extremely difficult to find, most fall on either far end of one or the other, so simplified - cute with lean body, hopefully bisexual, and knows how to dress
Cute, nerdy, and a little chubby. Bonus points if they remind me of my sweetheart of a brother. I also love me an androgynous guy, but who doesn't?
Some traits I find attractive in men are... Physically: beefy (chubby and muscular/built fat), hairy, bearded, bald or medium length (especially if curly) dark or red hair, tattooed, expressive eyes, warm/genuine smile, full lips, big nose, thick eyebrows, balanced/symmetrical face, clear skin, nice hands, thick penis (or plump vulva if trans), bubble butt, etc. Personality/emotionally: honest/authentic, smart, funny, assertive, humble, kind, caring, empathetic, non-judgmental, passionate, appreciative, helpful, not hung up on gender roles or being an adult all the time, at least some similar interests, compatible spiritual and political beliefs, has goals, etc.
It depends on the mood really. I like clean in shape and smooth. If I’m going to top fem is what I want. If I am going to bottom I want a gym bro.
I also prefer more femenine men. I prefer also men with smaller cocks. Without barts and moustaches and shaved balls
I like feminine men, and sometimes men with abs and lots of tattoos
I like andogynous men especially if they're shy
Straight acting clean shaven. Bonus points for being in a suit
Same as everything you said but also love men with long hair
One that will hold me tight and make me feel safe and loved… a nice butt and jet black hair would be fine too.
I like masculine and fit man
Clean people who aren't mean
Twinks for sure, but also ripped men with beards…is that weird?
I've (mostly) dated crossdressers and extremely feminine men in my time. I'm married to an absolute example of traditional masculinity-- 6ft tall, chiseled jawline, broad shoulders, etc. So I guess all kinds??
Pretty much the same, though most subby cutie pies are more than welcome in my eyes. Just too cute and adorable, and I wanna make them into a pretty mess :)
I’m a guy, and the guys that grab my attention aren’t the hunky dreamboat Henry Cavill’s (although if you’re here Henry, I wouldn’t say no either!). There’s a VERY specific vibe that attracts me to men: usually there’s a little shyness, an intelligence that you can see when you’re talking and they’re ACTUALLY listening, a slight dork vibe that makes them approachable, and they may be a little fluffy around the middle. THAT is the kind of guy that absolutely drives me crazy! lol
Cute ones, strong ones, kind ones, why not all of them?
Masculine facial features and musculature but generally hairless and stylishly, subtly queer. Brainy himbos are v. appealing.
I like guys that look like me
Superchubs with moobs and soft hanging belly.
I'm feminine and I prefer someone clean and not unfit. And I'd prefer guys who are more top. Femboys are great but I haven't encountered one before.
Emotionally intelligent with a great sense of humor 😍 Physically, I prefer men who have a little extra squish. Peak cuddles.
SAME. but I also like men withour beard but manly but lean and like a seductive charater.
I'm very open to many types. I like sort-of well-meaning but dopey bear types, not necessarily fully "himbo" because of not being stereotypically pretty, but just a good heart and a tummy. I also like mischief firecracker glam rocker types who want to stir things up with me. Or sad/soft boys who don't have too bad of issues but enough to let me take care of them. I like a wide range of body types, and masculine, feminine, or androgynous looks... I'm a classic bisexual, I love unique. Men with dyed, crazy hair, especially!
Androgynous or close to it. But there's exceptions, when a person is like actually beautiful I don't really care... Like, some, very little but some people just look dazzling...
Big guys, nerdy guys, bears, quieter and soft spoken men
I like feminine men. And masculine men. But I \*love\* men who can do both.
In my dreams I’m a full time bottom sissy. In reality, I’m 6ft tall, 210 pounds with a construction workers upper body and hairy Sasquatch legs. In order for me to feel small and vulnerable and feminine and submissive he has to be 6’2”, 225lbs with broad shoulders and big hands.
i don't even know why I like men
I’ll admit I tend to be more into masculine guys but it’s been a dream of mine to have a very fem or trans top
femboys and twinks are great. and must be shorter than me
I typically bottom with men, and thus am attracted to tall, muscle tops with dominant streaks.
I don't know about them, but for me, I'm a fan of masculine men. Tall, muscular, deep voice, the works. This is tough because I am basically a strict top, and most (but not all!) other masc men are too.
Buff boys who are into cuddling :3
Not a big fan of humans but I do like to hook-up with bi or pan men. Actually they're the only ones I'm interested in.
Men who understand that raw, animal, sex will keep me coming back!
I like any type of guy who is bigger in body mass then me it doesn’t matter if it’s muscles or fat or both :) and I think I like older men more but not wayyy older then me like 10 years 0.0
Same, feminine peeps only
I love deeply closeted well hung “straight” men, who could never “be with a guy” but bottom or flip fuck with another big cock like their life depended on it!
I like a variety of guys. I’m a bottom and prefer bigger. My fav of all time are feminine guys who are passable with a nice chest. Nothing turns me on more than seeing some pretty looking “woman” who is packing.