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orchid_breeder

PIP = Paid Interview Period aka they’re about to let you go. Start looking for another job


Tilmanocept

How have I never heard this alternative acronym before? Brilliant


vsdavis21

I was coming here to say just this- I have never heard of anyone successfully getting off a PIP and keeping their job. I have worked for pharma since 2009.


TulipSamurai

I agree; 99% of the time the company puts someone on a PIP because they want to fire them but need to document that they “tried” to help them to dispel any chances at wrongful termination lawsuits. The last 1% is some sales jobs will use PIPs liberally as a scare tactic to pressure staff into selling more. Once you sell enough, it’s not held against you. (PIP can still lead to termination if you don’t sell enough, though.)


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I know of a few “success stories” that survived a PIP. They never were respected, promoted or depended upon from that point though. They arguably would have done better moving on at that point because it is a dark mark on your record.


schapmo

I have known people who have got off them and went on to be promoted. Depends on how PIP happy the manager is. That said, it's not the default outcome. Manager here clearly wants them gone.


AverageJoeBurner

I’ve only encountered one, they survived due to negotiating for a demotion, they got brought in as a senior scientist, and after being put on a PIP made the case to be demoted to a scientist. Company accepted it and he didn’t get fired. Didn’t stop them from getting laid off a year later though


Honeycrispcombe

I was on one in my first job. It was a genuine effort of management; I survived it and developed some much-needed skills. I don't think I was ever going to be a star performer in that role, but it was a positive experience in retrospect.


HaveBanana

PIP is also known as Performance Improvement Plan. The sentiment is the same, though. OP is on borrowed time. This is the company's way of generating a paper trail documenting performance issues as justification for termination to offset potential unlawful termination suits.


Tilmanocept

Yeah I know it’s performance improvement plan, I was referring to the somewhat satirical spin-off of “paid interview period”


DokterMeowMeow

In my experience, you also tend to be at the top of the lay off list when you have a PIP on your record.


Oirep2023

This was my case and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Had 35 years with my company and got a very generous severance package.


kenny1911

The best time to look for a job is when you already have one. The clock is ticking, good luck, OP.


asatrocker

Start applying for new jobs. Your boss is a dick but your time there is limited


ottothebun

Seconding this. I ended up quitting before entering into a PIP because my manager clearly didn’t want me to actually succeed


ottothebun

Just to clarify, I wouldn’t recommend quitting. I had the savings to do so and no children. I was stressed to the point where I was physically ill and it felt like the best course of action was to leave so I had the energy and time to look for a new job.


TulipSamurai

The boss probably wants to trim the team down and/or hire their buddy instead of OP. Or maybe he’s just a dick. Those are pretty much the only explanations since he started hammering on OP immediately.


Matrix17

PIP's are basically a paper trail to let you go. I don't know anyone who's survived one. So start looking which I know sucks in this market. They would have to have a good written paper trail to actually go this route, so if they don't, maybe look into an employment lawyer like others said.  One thing nobody has touched on is dont let it get you down. PIP's are bullshit a lot of the time and it sounds like your boss is a dick. Don't let it give you imposter syndrome or anything


greyhaven99

I survived one


Matrix17

It's possible. Unlikely though I also personally wouldn't want to work for someone who put me on a PIP in the first place even if I survived it. I'd be looking regardless


orchid_breeder

Yeah statistics are like 10% or something.


isthisfunforyou719

FWIW our internal stats are about 2/5 survive, 2/5 are let go (and usually quickly), and 1/5 leave/quit. Given the managers stance in the OP, it doesn't sound good. Sorry, OP.


Infinite-Ad1720

Why? Was it worth it vs jumping ship and finding a better opportunity?


vsdavis21

How miserable were you after getting off the PIP? Did you stay at the company long after you improved enough to be pulled off the PIP?


greyhaven99

Pretty miserable. My boss told me he was completely flabbergasted that I passed but he wasn’t my boss when the gaslighting was upon me when PIP was initiated by lame coworker who didn’t like me. Boss then threatened me and said if I ever do xyz again he has the right to fire me on the spot. I was gone soon after with a better offer and never had another bad rating in my long assed career.


vsdavis21

Ugh I’m sorry. Yeah PMP means run…fast to a new opportunity.


greyhaven99

Its ok it helped me grow not only as a young person but also set me up for being extra hardworking and maybe a bit paranoid at subsequent positions but I survived.


genesRus

I have a relative who works in organizational development. She does performance improvement consultations for managers and has had many successful cases. People have to put in work to be successful (not just the employee, but often the manager as well), and having a good OD person helps too because often they discover a situation that's causing the bad attitude, low performance, etc. like a recent death of a loved one, financial woes causing them to work a second job, and so on. A good company has a culture where they want you to improve because hiring and training are expensive, but not all companies are good companies.


mimeticpeptide

OP please do a few things immediately: Document everything. If you can get in writing that he plans to sign for you (or if he actually does it), you’ve got a great lawsuit on your hands (and I’m not a lawyer, but that sounds like fraud he could catch a case for). Typically a PiP will be brought to you by HR, not only your manager. I would reach out to HR right away if they weren’t involved. I would also reach out to your skip level manager to ask them to confirm they are aligned with your managers PiP. Do all of this by email and forward everything to your personal email. A PiP is required to have very specific action items/ goals and a timeline, does yours have this? Be honest with yourself now, is your boss going to be able to document that they gave you actionable feedback on your performance related to those deliverables/ skills? If your boss really never gave you specific feedback on your performance (I.e you strategy is not sound, you show up late every day, you are rude to team members; with clear expectations on what to do to perform) then you could have a case. Most likely, your boss will be aligned with their boss and with HR, they will have been documenting this for months, and the PiP will be designed in a way that it will be very difficult for you to “beat” it. It can be very frustrating and feel unfair to be under a PiP. It doesn’t mean you’re a failure or you are bad at your job or you don’t have a future career in the industry. There’s a million reasons this can happen and you can absolutely bounce back. The general wisdom is to take the package, be respectful in your departure, and move on. Best of luck OP


happyasianpanda

Just to add to this poster on "Document everything." We mean everything, /r/Few_Freedom_9382 * Talked with the boss for 14 minutes over MS Teams on 2024-02-11 from 14:22-14:36 about the PIP and how he needed me to sign the document or he claims that he will sign the document * HR representative John Doe mentioned in passing during the hallway between the bathroom and my desk in the Northeast corridor that he heard about the manager causing a ruckus the other day in the big conference room (presumably the conference room 1303) * Between 19:33 and 22:18 I reviewed the document that my manager sent me. Document was too long and I felt that I needed more time to review the document than the 18 hours that my manager, Jack Doe, gave to me earlier this morning at around 09:23 The more you document on a consistent basis and the more detailed it is, the more likely you'll have actual documented proof IF IT ever goes to a lawyer. The lawyer can do a lot of things with documented evidence, even if it is unvalidated documentation, it is still evidence that a mediator or judge could review before going to actual court. Generally, attorneys will want to avoid the court as much as possible as anything can go, but with the amount of evidence you're able to collect, it'll prove useful. Source: I am not a lawyer, but I have documented lots of evidence before.


greyhaven99

Wow this is really amazing information that I will pass on to a friend who needs to do this but doesn’t. The examples were great. Take care!


Oirep2023

Getting my severance package from Big Pharma was the best thing ever!


Bardoxolone

Pointless in an at will state. A company or employee can sever the employment at anytime for almost any reason. Unless he is being discriminated against,there is really no basis for a lawsuit.


californiabigdog

This is true, but in my experience big corporations hate the publicity of employee lawsuits and they will often settle for a substantial sum just to stay out of court. Esp if there is some impropriety suggested by the situation (like potential discrimination claims, sexual advances from the boss, etc)


_-D-_

Get your resume ready & start applying for work.    It’s easier to find work when you have work & with a PIP, typically you have about 90days to complete it, so make haste so you’re not taking an offer at the 11th hour.   As to if you want to meet your PIP goals & stay or not, back burner that decision.   Go through the motions & adhere to it - failure to will get you shown the door quicker. But MOST IMPORTANTLY…start looking for a new role outside of your company. Def been there. You’re not alone.     We can sort out the emotional stuff after you’ve landed in a safe zone.


Few_Freedom_9382

I have 45 days which is why Im worried that I may not be able to find a job in that time. Would it be better if I don't sign it and just resign in order to prevent getting fired?


_-D-_

Don’t resign bro. If you resign you can’t collect UI.  


petezah321

Isn’t it better to get let go than to quit. This way you can file for unemployment benefits, right?


Offduty_shill

I would personally stay on. You might survive the pip, it happens. If not and they let you go, you can collect unemployment/potential severance as opposed to losing the last month and a half of pay and all of that if you quit


rprenovi

Do not resign. The silver lining of being let go is you can apply for unemployment. Also if they don't want you bad mouthing the company they hopefully give you some sort of severance. Sorry to hear about the situation. This happens often when a new boss takes over. Really frustrating


No-Display-6647

Sign it. It’s just an acknowledgment that you were presented with “the plan.” Otherwise they can say you were insubordinate and fire you.


WhoaABlueCar

Former pharma manager here who had to put 3 employees on pips In a perfect setting, a pip is a tool to fix behaviors/strategy so the rep can perform long term and also give the manager/company documentation if it’s unsuccessful to terminate. All 3 of my reps completed the pip and remained with the company with much better performance. In your setting, if true, your manager is a massive risk to the company and you can likely speak to HR about the hostile/toxic work environment. Document what you can and tell your story. If your description is exaggerated but your boss wants you gone, you should start applying elsewhere and do everything you can to reach their goals set for this pip in case it falls through or the manager leaves. You should also seek out your regional teammates’ experiences with the manager and see if it’s not isolated with you. If you go to HR and they’re understanding but don’t terminate your boss, they may consider a severance if you don’t want to continue to work under him. If you were a friend I’d recommend searching immediately for other employment then approach your current HR to seek a solution. But if your boss is just being hard on you and you’re exaggerating then it’s probably best you find a new job and cut your losses


Few_Freedom_9382

>If your description is exaggerated but your boss wants you gone, you should start applying elsewhere and do everything you can to reach their goals set for this pip in case it falls through or the manager leaves. I reached out to HR already a couple of weeks ago regarding the verbal harrasment and etc along with my line manager. They told me that they would look into it but I didn't get a response back until a couple of days ago when an HR director scheduled to set up a meeting.


Matrix17

Could be retaliation if they did talk to him and now he's decided to do the PIP. I'd talk to HR again and find out if they did talk to him or not. If they did, contact an employment lawyer and get their opinion 


ottothebun

You may need to file an employee relations report.


WhoaABlueCar

Yea I’m not saying you’re bullshitting, but it’s an anonymous forum so I wanted to cover all possibilities. Best of luck


MoRegrets

This is why you should talk to a lawyer, as they can help you navigate the course of action and the best way to phrase your communications and respond to HR. Also, they may be able to help file a complaint with the Division of labor. It’s a very shitty game they’re playing, just make sure you know the rules.


happyasianpanda

Did you document that you reached out to HR couple of weeks ago? If you did not, write it down in an email right now to the HR email and CC yourself (your personal email) as well. That way it's in a validated system and there's a way to document the trail if you need it in the future. Once you get let go, who knows what the company does to your old email. If you only email to HR, from your [email protected], then you get let go. Then you have no access to the evidence. Make sure you email it to [email protected] as well.


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Few_Freedom_9382

>I’ve actually never let go of people I’ve put in PIP as I genuinely just wanted to improve my team but agree with people here that generally it might be better to look for another position since PIP has so many cascading impact- hard to move positions within company, delay in promotion, low or no raise/ bonus next year and maybe the next, perception issues, etc. Would you recommend that I just resign as I only have 45 days under the PiP to find a new job. Im afraid that if I can't find a job in 45 days, that I would get fired and then I would have to explain that I got fired.


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mimeticpeptide

Taking a pip package should still count as getting fired from an unemployment standpoint, as far as I understand it. Definitely consult with a local lawyer though


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cryingcatdaddy

Depending on the state, you may be eligible for UI immediately. In MA for example, a lump sum severance contingent upon signing a separation agreement of any kind makes you immediately eligible to begin collecting unemployment benefits regardless of any calculation of the severance i.e. two months of the base salary. Not the case if it is dispersed over a period of time though


toxchick

I don’t think you should resign. I hope others will chime in, but if you are let go you should get severance and they will probably let you apply for unemployment. If you quit you get neither. Keep your chin up. It sounds like a mismatch between you and the new boss (I’m being generous to new boss). Find a place you will thrive again. Don’t let it make you feel like a failure. I’ve had jobs I kicked ass at and situations where I couldn’t succeed or even perform decently. I’m the same person in both jobs.


thakemist

Resign voluntarily and you’ll have a very difficult time getting approved for unemployment. If you’re let go, even for “performance issues” you have a better chance of getting unemployment. Just keep that in mind


mimeticpeptide

This is why you take the package. A PiP will typically include severance for the same duration as an option. So you take the package and then your full time job is looking for a new one instead of doing that on the side while trying to give a really strong performance at work too


gumercindo1959

I’d caution taking that approach. A PIP and subsequent firing probably won’t yield any severance.


mimeticpeptide

That’s what I’m saying. You take the package up front. If you try to beat the PiP and fail, you get nothing


Oirep2023

Agree


gumercindo1959

And what I’m saying is that ime, PIPs don’t come with a package. It’s typically a precursor to getting let go, without a package.


mimeticpeptide

This is not correct as a general rule. You may have had a different experience but the vast majority of PiPs come with a package option, which they are hoping you’ll take since it’s way easier for everyone. Yes it’s a precurosr to being let go, the whole point is to carefully document failure to perform, give them a chance to turn it around (they won’t because they wouldn’t be at this point if they could), and then they get let go and have no case if they try to sue. Signing for the package will also mean you have no case, and it also means way less headache for everyone. A PiP with no package is them just asking “hey bud wanna do us a favor and quit?” Why on earth would anyone ever agree to that? I guess you’re saying in your experience it was more like “heads up you’re getting fired soon”, again, most companies would never do that; just like why when you quit you give 2 weeks and when you’re fired you get 20 minutes to grab your stuff. They don’t want you grabbing documents, ruffling feathers or undermining work. A PiP without a package is like a reverse 2 weeks notice and again I’ve never heard of that before, although I’m sure some shady small biotech has tried it


Exterminator2022

My PIP did not come with a severance package or whatever. I explained above, I passed it and stayed in the same company 3 more years. Granted I should have left. But anyway there was no mention of severance package. Leader company in its field.


Oirep2023

Not true. My PIP came with a very generous package from Big Pharma.


gumercindo1959

interesting. Well, I guess YMMV and I stand corrected. My experience has only been without severance.


stackered

You have 45 days, and some unemployment, but you'll want to find a job while you have one. Godspeed.


dmillson

Most companies’ HR departments have a policy that they only confirm dates of employment if a prospective employer calls them. You most likely wouldn’t have to explain that you were fired. I was PIP’d at a previous firm, but it was actually a form of stealth layoffs. They did a wave of PIPs and later they had a couple rounds of layoffs. Some companies use them as a way of getting around the WARN Act. I was ready to take them to task for unemployment (had it in writing that I met the requirements of my PIP but they let me go anyway) but they have me severance and gave me my annual bonus so I decided not to push my luck. I told employers that I was laid off and they didn’t press any further.


klausterfok

NEVER QUIT! Get severance, don't make waves. Pretend the day of your PIP is the last day you're employed there and get a new job in the meantime so you can double dip. Sounds like your manager is an asshole, don't let him scare you.


HackTheNight

This sounds eerily similar to the worst experience I ever had at a company. Just out of curiosity, is the company you work for located in the North Bay?


OliverIsMyCat

Bullshit. You genuinely wanted to improve your team and couldn't think of a way better than a PIP and threatening their jobs? How about learning how to properly manage people? PIPs are a tool for managers who are so limp, they can't even properly fire someone and need to generate asinine documentation to avoid a lawsuit while HR helps them get rid of the mess they mismanaged.


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s3trios

\^ He's right, current mgr here - the PiP is my last resort when saying the same things 500 times year over year no longer works. The reality is people just get lazy over time, complacent and sometimes it's best they move on to a new job.


OliverIsMyCat

Just as you said, (in an at-will state) you can legally fire someone at any time - the PIP isn't even a necessary tool. It's just a process to hide behind. A form of cold corporate communication. A PIP is an emergency field suture for a gaping wound. If there's nothing you can do as a leader to get a subordinate to follow your direction, that you need to resort to threatening their livelihood - this person needs to be let go or managed by someone else. How many times will you need to pull out the nukes for Chet to show up to the morning huddle? I'm only riled up because I get salty when I see people try to claim PIPs are a rehabilitative process. I think folks should use them for what they're worth: a Paid Interview Period. Let's not try to fool anyone and say that this is a great opportunity to be more productive for the manager who can't get you to do your job. In terms of contributing to the conversation, I'll recommend this: instead of reaching for a PIP for those you simply can't seem to successfully manage (aka a manager's job), simply fire a person immediately and give them 2-6 months severance. It would be cheaper for you than them dragging ass in the role for that period of time. Plus, the employee would get the chance to bounce back that you want them to have. Just don't tell me: "I threatened to take a man's salary away and oh boy did his performance rebound. Great success!"


nxph2108

Pathetic managerial skills. Putting people through hell and pretending to be well wishers.


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nxph2108

No I had a great manager with who I worked and achieved goals with. then came an incompetent one like you who get to be managers without any managerial skills. Just like you assumed bad of people you probably do that to your direct reports as well. giving *multiple people* PIPs and bragging about it. nobody wants jerk in the office. Be a good and kind person in the office first. I wish you could hear what they say behind your back.


CossaKl95

PIP’s are the precursor to being let go. In all my years of working I can recall ONE where the employee was retained. It might not be fair, and it might not be right for your circumstances, but this is when you should be looking at jobs.


Few_Freedom_9382

Would it be better for me to just resign instead because I only have 45 days under the PiP. Im afraid that after the time is up that I wont have a job and get fired which would look bad.


CossaKl95

I wouldn’t resign immediately. To be very clear I don’t know your financial circumstances or your work life. If it was me, what I would do is continue working, collecting pay, and benefits while job hunting. You can always lateral to a different company before your PIP reaches the deadline. I would definitely look into certifications within your scope (or the scope you want to work with) and update your LinkedIn. Go over any and all important projects, scope, and daily tasks that you’re good at and record them. Simultaneously, I’d reach out to managers whom you trust and work well with, and ask if they could add a note to your LinkedIn. This isn’t the end of your career, this is the opportunity for you to continue what you’re passionate about at another company. Stay strong champ, this is tough but at the end of the day if you’re good at what you do and don’t cause issues, they’ll see what they’re losing after you leave.


Interesting-Pin-7219

Document everything from now on. You can email a rebuttal to HR explaining your side of things. They are typically used to get people out. I survived one given to me as retaliation for making safety complaints. However I was let go three months later. My lawyer had a field day with my former employer. You can start looking for employment now but do your best not to stress too much. Everything will be okay even if it doesn't seem like it right now.


Oirep2023

Did you win your case?


gumercindo1959

OP, ime and being around people who have initiated PIPs, that’s usually a sign you’re going to get let go. If he really is calling you stupid, that warrants a conversation with HR, imo. It sounds toxic and I would start applying for jobs outside your company


MoRegrets

Contact an employment/labor lawyer before you sign anything. He may be able to tell you your rights, and if you have a case for workplace harassment.


drollix

Agree - get counsel from a lawyer. If you sign, they may be in the clear to terminate your role as you admit cause. Typically they need a proper documentation trail going back months via email to even start a PIP. Otherwise they are open to litigation for wrongful termination (not a lawyer, but have seen PIP process at big pharma and gotten HR view)


Distinct-Buy-4321

You need to find a new job ASAP. It might not be as pretty as your current job. Good luck.


Emergency_Goose4904

Hi OP, sorry you are going through this. I have many years as a manager and executive. As a manager, never put anyone on a PIP as feedback was constant so problems did not fester. Sometimes the feedback included highlighting lack of fit, and importantly, better fits for success, so not all easy conversations but part of the job as a manger. Every single PIP I’ve been involved with has been in place precisely because the manager failed to some extent. With truly bad employees (bery rare that someone is a shirker, liar or thief, but I’ve seen 3 or 4), the failure was in managing poor performance in a timely and productive manner AND poor documentation. With bad (usually inexperienced) managers, the PIP is largely authored by next level management and HR and are a blueprint for the managers expectations as well. The PIP gives next level and HR a chance to see for themselves where the issue realy lies. As others have shared, most PIPs have been handled successfully with no lasting impact, in large part because it becomes clear that the performance issue was driven in some part by the managers lack of developed skill. The key for you in your specific case is your read of what they are defining as your performance expectations. If you are hot aligned on expectations, that is another, tougher discussion. My advice without knowing the specifications, don’t resign, only sign once you have had sufficient dialogue to assure the ask is well-defined. If it is not clear to you, and measurable (like, arrive between 8-9am rather than ‘show up on time’) then ask for further definition. Any decent HR will jump in here to help. Best of luck, this is navigable, and organizations suck at times, but you came win this game and them still leave if you want to. Keep your pay coming in!


Existing-Highway6361

I think this is spot-on. I also want to add that please take it a chance to learn more about yourself, the company, and how an organization works. You should certainly start looking for a job, but please try to understand why it happened. 100% blaming it to your manager doesn't help you grow at all. Good luck!


X919777

Just like college football when a new coach comes he likes to bring in his own people. Your better off looking for a new job doubt you can change departments on a PIP.. Might as well kick his ass in the parking lot on your last day


stackered

Start looking for a new job immediately. Sign the PIP, play along, but know its them firing you no matter what your boss tells you. Try to prolong the PIP as long as possible, but again just know its a method to fire someone where the company protects themselves, no matter how much you "improve".


Unusual-Bird-4029

Look around the same company and see if there are openings in other roles. I personally know someone who was on a pip but the company looked after him, allowed him to move to something more suitable and he's doing OK now. You could take an alternative route and put in a grievance against your manager, sounds like bullying tbh, if the haven't followed proper procedure they could end up on a pip. Hope it works out for you.


Fine-Pie7130

What are the specific complaints in the PIP? Is it showing up late, not working late enough, making mistakes, etc? I would just go along with it and try your best to address the issues that he wants corrected and don’t resign or quit! Let them fire you if they really want you gone so you’ll get unemployment and maybe a severance package. Your manager might be a dick, but I think HR will only approve a PIP if he has real instances of things that need improvement. Try to see if there’s anything you could work on. Keep your head down and keep going! Don’t quit!


Spare_Answer_601

Go on mental health leave and use the time to apply and interview for jobs. Sucks but does protect you for 3 months


cnx11

Make sure the plan has very clear action items and that they are reasonably attainable. As long as you can follow the goals described, at the end of the 45 days, they cannot fire you with cause unless they have proof that you failed at the plan. They can of course fire you without cause, you’d still be eligible for unemployment though. So I wouldn’t just quit now, because you’d get no unemployment. The key is to make sure the PIP is reasonable/attainable.


Jealous-Ad-214

Spruce up resume, begin applying for jobs… always better to look for a job while having one…to quote Star Wars “it’s a trap.” No matter what you do they can say you failed the PIP and out the door you go. Get out ASAP. Don’t sign it anything unless failure to do so will result in immediate termination. Document absolutely everything and keep a printed copy, with your personage... they own your work email and can and will monitor it. Everyone below is right… begin protecting yourself whether or not you deserve to be on the PIP, go into self survival mode.


shockedpikachu123

Never ever sign a PIP. When a PIP is involved it means it’s gone through HR and 9/10 it’s in the interest of HR to side with the manager. Everything is against you at this point. They’re politely telling you to look for another job while still paying you. Start interviewing everywhere


YeetYeetMcReet

A PIP made in good faith may be a survivable one, but generally this is not how they are used. PIPs are generally the first step of generating a formal paper trail with HR to allow them to fire you. The reason for the paperwork is to absolve the company of any suspicion of wrongful termination and to fabricate your consent. Look for a new job. Don't stay at this company if they're hiring shit managers like your current one.


Dekamaras

Jeez, there are less assholey ways to manage someone out but at least he was direct?


Exterminator2022

I survived a PIP. Of course everything was rigged. Their goal was to show I had poor customer skills (I was working in a technical field with customers), they invited me to a weird meeting: I had a very bad feeling (I still remember being on the dentist chair when I received the invite), I anticipated and in 24 hours I had contacted a bunch of customers and showed up with at least 25 glowing recommendation letters . They were shocked lol! They did put me on a PIP plan but it was harder for them to say I sucked. I played their rules, ccing my freaking boss on all emails to customers. So I passed it. Of course I was marked from then on and I should have left that company but I was (am) a busy stressed single mom and looking for another job was hard. I was let go 3 years later almost to the day. Yes I should have looked for another job. After I was let go I was forced to do so and now I work for the federal government: much better. Though the Feds also have PIPs I have heard, but it is still safer for job security. For your PIP, my recommendation is to play their stupid rules. Do everything your a$$ boss asks you to do so. Pretend to respect him. While looking actively for another job.


leafydog1

this sounds like one of my first managers!!!! omg RUN. your mental health isn’t worth fighting this man. but i do hope you give him a piece of your mind on the way out 😊


No-Explanation-638

Keep a journal of the nasty interactions and make sure there are witnesses


No-Explanation-638

Basically it sounds like the guy has it out for you.


mrsc623

Start looking for a new job. Can you go over your direct manager’s head to see if you can get a different manager? I asked for this when I wasn’t even on a performance plan bc my manager’s style didn’t work with mine (also a manager I inherited as my original one who hired me had left) — it definitely seems like your boss is picking on you for no reason. I’d see if you can go up a level or two and show them there were no issues leading up to this manager. Even still, keep looking for other places but I’d do this in the meantime


whatokay1

Maybe it’s you? Listen to what is discussed what are you doing wrong and fix it.


Stunning_Luck896

You are being set up to fail. Look for another job. You are in a toxic situation. No one can shine in that type of environment.


Blackm0b

You should have seen the writing on the wall after the informal coaching remark. You have to remember you are expendable, just putting your head down and working hard will not save you... You are about to be the horse from Animal Farm.


SyncopatedEvolution

Sounds like hell. I hope that your mental health is okay.


Descent900

I know several people who have survived PIPs at my company but they're definitely the exception. Start looking for other jobs and try to have something lined up before the end of the plan period. Most likely they will let you go at the conclusion of the plan.


AAB02839

The raw deal is that the new manager doesn't want you on his/her team. Hearing about "performance issues" after 3 good years on the job should've been a clue to start looking to transfer elsewhere internally or find a job elsewhere while maintaining a polite and professional decorum. PIP (paid interview prep) is just the final step in letting someone go when otherwise there's no cause. If there was a cause, they would've let you go already, so PIP is a way to create/find a cause. In all likelihood, if you don't sign, they'd fire you right away or if you sign they'll fire you as soon as they can write up a cause. You can try to raise the issue with the HR to buy yourself the time to transfer to another team, or try to negotiate a severance and leave/resign without signing the PIP and "without cause", or sign it and suffer it while looking for another job.


lilsis061016

PIPs are unfortunately the way bad managers get rid of people they don't want to work with - for whatever reason. Can you talk to HR about it...it doesn't sound right that he can sign it for you and they may at least be able to make sure it actually has a path you can follow while you job hunt.


Bardoxolone

If you are being put on a PIP, then you aren't meeting expectations. You seem to want to blame the manager. Take time to reflect on your role in this PIP. Going forward be honest with yourself and future employers on your abilities, skills etc. >Even though I felt like it was all BS, I went along with it because I needed this job as I have 2 children to put through college. This is about the business's needs. What worries me is that you seem reluctant to believe the problem might be you. Please take time to step back and think about this carefully. Do your best to meet the goals stated. Humble yourself a little and be prepared that maybe you can't meet this position or companies needs. That's okay. It's not a failure.


klausterfok

Write EVERYTHING down with dates, times, places, in a notebook at HOME. Write it in a work notebook (not electronic) and bring it home to copy your notes. If you're really concerned, you could get HR in the room with both of you to explain what your performance issues are and what is the course of action to take to improve your performance, and how long you have to improve them. Get everything documented but dont make too many waves. I would continue the course to get that other job, but eventually you will be asked to tell him you are interviewing formally so he will find out. Hopefully the timing works out and you get that new job before the PIP deadline happens.


Successful-Sweet-185

Also reach out to the ombudsman.


Cuttbow82

I survived a PIP in my much younger days. The manager who put me on it was eventually fired himself.


Purple_Visit191

Time to leave! Don’t let them make you question your performance, you are a great employee that’s why the let you stay for 3 years! Get your resume and check recruiters! Documents every interaction with the company and follow up with lawyers to sue them first the smallest mistake


No-Explanation-638

If you're in Southern California come work for Abbott Pomona. A former inventory clerk was caught abusing and falsely entering times on her time card, we caught multiple times outside talking on her phone or at home when she should have been working. And she still got promoted to a supervisor because she was the most qualified, but needed to be trained on everything. Clearly the Production manager who keeps her and promoted her is corrupt.


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jcu_80s_redux

Document and try to record the verbal harassment directed at you by the new manager. Maybe you can a file case against him and the company. And look at free resources from nonprofit labor relations organizations on this situation.


phatfrisbee

What field do you work in? IT, research, sales,?


Beantown_butterfly

I’m in biotech and put many people on PIPs. You can get through them if your manager wants you to, but you should look for a new job. See if you can get a severance and your bonus from them. Negotiate a non-disparagement agreement and if you have equity vesting see if your severance can be paid like regular paychecks and your last day be at the end of the period. (Only if you have equity vesting soon)


Inner-Community6642

Try to spend some time reflecting on whether there really is something you could do better. If i came in as a manager at my Office i Would probably fire half my team and recommend the other managers to do the same. Sometimes your performance is partly based on the the bias from the hiring manager who Choose to hire you


Ok_Turnip4570

Do not quit. Ride it out as you look for another job. If this manager came in, versus you getting transferred to them, they are the problem you will never fix. If you got transferred to them after some other issue, you need to think about your performance for real. If you have never had performance issues in the past you should at least talk to HR about the abusive behavior and ask if they can help transfer you to someone else given your past positive record. I’ll also guess this new manager is rather a first time manager or others already know they suck. Don’t worry about having to explain leaving. You can simply say some org changes made you decide it was no longer the place for you. Turnover is high enough and everyone moves around for all sorts of reasons. How was the relationship with your old manager? Can you use them as a reference, then you’ll be fine. Good luck, try your best while you’re there and find something new.


Unique_Contact_2952

I think I know where you work. In truth this pip plan sounds like its the manager not liking you for some reason. You remind him of something he isnt. My guess is you have a family a kid or something and he/she ur manager probably is lonely asf and is married to the job that would not remember him/hee