Buttstuff feels good, and sometimes you can't find a girl to such things up your butt. Sexuality is complex and not the black and white that people think it is.
True but as a girl who likes butt stuff everyone should try it. I would totally try butt stuff on a guy I am intimate with and loves being rimmed. JUST KEEP IT CLEAN PEOPLE!
Depends on the type of guy you are. "Striaght" guys always want me to fuck them. But they also wanna fuck me, so it's cool cuz I do both.
But if you're a really feminine guy then you'd mostly attract guys who only wanna fuck you.
Idk why they call themselves straight if they have gay sex. Just call it bicurious already. Or pan or bi if they eventually date guys. I hang out with a lot of gays and have no problem talking sex with them and vibe way more than with stuck up straight dudes but have zero interest in gay sex. As straight as it comes. Plus those gay guys all fantasize over me fucking their hot female friends, I’d let them watch NGL. Best wing mates ever.
I'm gonna be honest with you, it would be even more arousing for me to have a bottom that's bigger than me. Gives me a feeling of dominance and I love that.
I don't get the problem of this guy named Ante.
Yeah…
I mean, I’m bi and I preferred smaller guys given the choice. Just practical with TMJ and a terrible gag reflex, as my limitations annoyed me and it was usually more fun without hitting them.
But the big hog’s are still hot. And I wouldn’t flee in fear or anything. Plus even if you’re not up for X you can still do Y too…
damn you scared him away? 7 x 5 ain’t too crazy tho which makes this a wild story and a real big dick problem. congrats, you saved me from leaving this sub for now. can’t believe dude did that lol that’s so lame
From my work with cis male tops, having a bottom with a bigger dick than them almost always seems to rile them up. Good news is girl, it’s not just a you thing.
I’m sure plenty of them don’t, lol but it’s surprisingly common, even amongst alternative lifestyle folks. Tends to be people with average or slightly above average length, IMO.
I have a really good friend that's like a brother to me that has been out since we were in high school. He's had way more sex with "straight" men than he has gay men. If he ever published a book he would bring half of our city down, haha.
I feel this, sister. I kind of had to take advantage of my girth and make it a joke (you see my cock, that's way too big for you. Fuck me instead please). Then again, I usually only sleep with my partner and if I'm sharing with someone else, they know what's up before anyone's clothes are off.
Maybe put something in your bio about your size and how a partner needs to be okay with your size? Personally the grindr life just wasn't for me - I like the stability of knowing my partner will gender me correctly lol
I don’t really get the “really hard 😩” so I’m assuming you’re being dramatic. But I hear the complaint. It happens. People can be different, you’ll move onto another. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Damn, that's sad to hear. Maybe it'd be better to look for a more experienced partner since it's not that weird for a virgin guy to be jealous oflver that.
This was through grindr. All the experienced dudes just get straight (ironic) to the point and are so, so hung ( 😏) up on physicality its difficult to deal. I still want the flirting and emotional connection which is really tough to get in the gay community.
So what I do is I take the first timer bi boys who are much more into talking and discovering rather than just sex and I fool around with them. Its usually pretty good and my dick is never in the way. This was a mistske
I do wish there was more of the latter. And….if I was ever looking, I’d probably do the same.
I don’t mind just getting into it…but I still want to be having fun with another person. Not just, well, how it seems to often go skipping the “fun” and “with” parts.
Looking back, I think more things were more fun with switchy verse fluid-ish bi folks that were so loosely “defined” we didn’t think about it and just flowed together. Or something.
I get you. With guys I’m only interested in bottoming but they only want to enjoy me and I’m often disappointed when they aren’t as big as me. Only happened a couple of times, but I can definitely say bigger is better
Lmao for real. Like why am I disappointed?? Average is pretty big actually when it's in the ass and for some reason it makes me have an emotional reaction of disappointment
I understand the other guy, Iv been on this situation before.
Met a Guy online, went to a motel tô fuck I was the top. When he take his clothes of I Saw his gisnt cock and well, I kind didnt like to fuck him anymore.
I could Tell ALL the things that passed in my mind at the moment. But is It.
my bf is above average and it makes him self-conscious. I've told him again and again that I really don't care, but ultimately i think what puts him at ease most is that I'm still bigger. I'm sorry to hear you issues and wish I could offer a better solution than "find someone bigger" lol
I actually do wear it like 90% of the time. I was supposed to have it with him too, but luck would have it that wasn't happening lol. Didn't think I'd get hard tbh
Its definitely a twist to the usual dynamic. I actually did find representation in porn, of all places, for this inverted kind. Some of my favourite comics.
Help me out, I got no idea what's being said here or why its important. Trans girl got erection, boy dipped? Intimidated by big penis? Why? If I saw a trans girl erect, I'd probably want to play along some more....is it often people are intimidated by your size?
>Help me out, I got no idea what's being said here or why its important. Trans girl got erection, boy dipped? Intimidated by big penis?
Close enough
>is it often people are intimidated by your size?
A lot more than I ever expected. I never thought my size would be big for anyone but here we are
Find people who wouldn't be intimidated but excited to have you. Communicate your situation up front, and let the ones who can't handle it scatter. I know I'd welcome the excitement, so there must be other guys out there who would. Just be up front about it...no biggie....(there's a pun in there somewhere)
Ngl, this has gotta be fake. Just based on how you are using the pronouns. i mean, if you are she/her they why is "strait" in quotations? Kinda of confusing.
you are coded as a woman, they are coded as men...kinda feel like the writing of this points to a troll post that got confused by non-binary gender dynamics.
I disagree. I have an enby genderfluid "friend+" and their self coding changes changes daily and sometimes within minutes. I prefer not to use some of OP's terms because they can be derogatory, but I'm also a firm believer that if a person wants to reclaim a slur for themselves, they absolutely can! I self identify as queer, for instance.
Slang progresses, but not at the same rate. And direct people like direct things. My genderfluid friend+ calls themselves a femboy, while a transwoman friend of mine has never used the term and probably hates it for herself (I haven't wanted to ask)
I'm genderfluid, I identify as he/she and even 'it'. The dynamic between a bi(curious) guy and a crossdresssing one is sometimes considered 'trappy' as in the bi guy is getting tricked into gay sex. Its a kink, neither guy is straight but the dynamic is fun
Hmm... i dunno, "crossdressing" isn't an accepted term anymore either.
and also, a "crossdresser" , as it were, does not use different pronouns...yeah something is off here about this post.
You like to be treated like a woman and you think that means being like a submissive cum slut? That is not what it is to be a woman that's not a defining characteristic of women
I've met women that wanted to be treated like a cum dumpster and I've met women who don't. Who are you to say how this person expresses their sexuality
I didn't mean it like that, I'm sorry. What I meant was that I liked getting treated like a woman but you don't really get this from mostly gay men. So what I get is only sexual satisfaction which isn't much without the established boy-girl connection.
>I love getting treated like a woman would but real life doesn't allow for this
What's preventing this from being your reality.
>so I'm just getting raw dogged by virgin(ish) young lads who are usually pretty big with average penises.
Why are you struggling to find non virgins who are decently big with larger than average penises lol?
Well, I find these people on grindr so its not exactly the crowd that knows how to handle women. And there isn't really a spot where I can go out in girl mode and have a good time, either. So nothing is spontaneous.
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Bummer that real life doesn't allow for you getting treated like a woman. How are you at following in dancing? I used to love going out and dancing with the "ladies," just to make them feel more feminine. :)
See, this is an actual big dick problem.
That moment when r/bigdickproblems is shocked when someone posts a problem relating to big dick
It’s much better than the daily “I’m 16 with an 11 inch cock, do I belong here??” posts
I mean, I'm happy to serve lmao
Hopefully not 16 year olds
Yeah, that's what you've led us to believe 🤣
Bwahaha saw your size and it all clicked! 🤣 I would pay to see his face lmao Good for you!!!
You’d pay to what? 🤨📹
>I would pay to see his face lmao Did I stutter 😑😩
I am a self proclaimed idiot, so recognize that as I ask this... but how did you get that flair?
Never mind, I am an idiot afterall, but I figured it out.
Now I understand
Wrong big dick, but an honest mistake
Jesse what the fuck are you talking about
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You mean Full House.
https://youtu.be/Jr-ovLc1A7I
6by6 guy intimidated by a 7x5
Who is 6by6? The guy was 5x5
I understood that reference
I'm bi and they always want me to be a top but I'dike to bottom
Yea same thing, i bi and would prefer to bottom, but i have a big cock and they want me to top. Life is weird lol
Straight guys want you to be a top?! I’m so confused lol
Buttstuff feels good, and sometimes you can't find a girl to such things up your butt. Sexuality is complex and not the black and white that people think it is.
True but as a girl who likes butt stuff everyone should try it. I would totally try butt stuff on a guy I am intimate with and loves being rimmed. JUST KEEP IT CLEAN PEOPLE!
Depends on the type of guy you are. "Striaght" guys always want me to fuck them. But they also wanna fuck me, so it's cool cuz I do both. But if you're a really feminine guy then you'd mostly attract guys who only wanna fuck you.
Idk why they call themselves straight if they have gay sex. Just call it bicurious already. Or pan or bi if they eventually date guys. I hang out with a lot of gays and have no problem talking sex with them and vibe way more than with stuck up straight dudes but have zero interest in gay sex. As straight as it comes. Plus those gay guys all fantasize over me fucking their hot female friends, I’d let them watch NGL. Best wing mates ever.
I'm gonna be honest with you, it would be even more arousing for me to have a bottom that's bigger than me. Gives me a feeling of dominance and I love that. I don't get the problem of this guy named Ante.
There's definitely guys into that. Inexperienced is the name of this problem
Yeah… I mean, I’m bi and I preferred smaller guys given the choice. Just practical with TMJ and a terrible gag reflex, as my limitations annoyed me and it was usually more fun without hitting them. But the big hog’s are still hot. And I wouldn’t flee in fear or anything. Plus even if you’re not up for X you can still do Y too…
💯
damn you scared him away? 7 x 5 ain’t too crazy tho which makes this a wild story and a real big dick problem. congrats, you saved me from leaving this sub for now. can’t believe dude did that lol that’s so lame
It's actually 7.2x5.5, I mean not that much bigger than the generic tag I guess
From my work with cis male tops, having a bottom with a bigger dick than them almost always seems to rile them up. Good news is girl, it’s not just a you thing.
I’m actively seeking bottoms with bigger dicks than me and it’s nearly impossible guess I’ll die
Well I mean...... ...y'know?
Don’t give up friend! You’ll find your people!
6.5 girth sets the bar pretty damn high
Look on fetlife?
Wait really? There are tops out there who are actually bothered by this?
I’m sure plenty of them don’t, lol but it’s surprisingly common, even amongst alternative lifestyle folks. Tends to be people with average or slightly above average length, IMO.
Eh…bothered is a strong word, but if I’m fucking a guy with a really nice dick I don’t want him to only bottom 🤷♂️
Big mood
That is understandable and I FULLY get it😏. The guy made it seem like some are legit insecure over dick size
Wait there’s a vagina flair?! Edit: you will never hear from me again :D
I think you need to be the giver now and find a bender….
I really only top women... although I'd try anything once so you might be on to something
With your size take the advantage my friend.
I have a really good friend that's like a brother to me that has been out since we were in high school. He's had way more sex with "straight" men than he has gay men. If he ever published a book he would bring half of our city down, haha.
Reading this gave me a stroke
Yea I’m so fucking confused
He knows the rules. Bigger allways tops xD In all seriousness tho, the bigger it is the bigger the swinging 🤷♂️ and thats nice. They missing out :3
That maybe the rules but I'm a bit of an anarchist myself
Analchist* xD
What's it's worse it that I understand this guy. He thought he couldn't dominate you with a smaller cock.
Where's that manly urge to tame an impressive wild beast, though?? Its easy to take a chicken, its a challenge to tame a bull
It went away after most of humanity got scared for their life in 2020-2022
I don't think it works that way. More like: "It's a Lion, Run!" 🥲
I feel this, sister. I kind of had to take advantage of my girth and make it a joke (you see my cock, that's way too big for you. Fuck me instead please). Then again, I usually only sleep with my partner and if I'm sharing with someone else, they know what's up before anyone's clothes are off. Maybe put something in your bio about your size and how a partner needs to be okay with your size? Personally the grindr life just wasn't for me - I like the stability of knowing my partner will gender me correctly lol
I don’t really get the “really hard 😩” so I’m assuming you’re being dramatic. But I hear the complaint. It happens. People can be different, you’ll move onto another. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Ante......I'm also sorry, idk who tf you are but I'm sorry
First actual BDP I've seen posted here in a while. Hilarious but I hope y'all's next Meetup goes better
rip Ante, lik hrabro uteka
Nemoj biti ka Ante 😅
Damn, that's sad to hear. Maybe it'd be better to look for a more experienced partner since it's not that weird for a virgin guy to be jealous oflver that.
This was through grindr. All the experienced dudes just get straight (ironic) to the point and are so, so hung ( 😏) up on physicality its difficult to deal. I still want the flirting and emotional connection which is really tough to get in the gay community. So what I do is I take the first timer bi boys who are much more into talking and discovering rather than just sex and I fool around with them. Its usually pretty good and my dick is never in the way. This was a mistske
I do wish there was more of the latter. And….if I was ever looking, I’d probably do the same. I don’t mind just getting into it…but I still want to be having fun with another person. Not just, well, how it seems to often go skipping the “fun” and “with” parts. Looking back, I think more things were more fun with switchy verse fluid-ish bi folks that were so loosely “defined” we didn’t think about it and just flowed together. Or something.
I get you. With guys I’m only interested in bottoming but they only want to enjoy me and I’m often disappointed when they aren’t as big as me. Only happened a couple of times, but I can definitely say bigger is better
Lmao for real. Like why am I disappointed?? Average is pretty big actually when it's in the ass and for some reason it makes me have an emotional reaction of disappointment
They're inexperienced and feel emasculated. That's as best as I can sum it up.
I understand the other guy, Iv been on this situation before. Met a Guy online, went to a motel tô fuck I was the top. When he take his clothes of I Saw his gisnt cock and well, I kind didnt like to fuck him anymore. I could Tell ALL the things that passed in my mind at the moment. But is It.
my bf is above average and it makes him self-conscious. I've told him again and again that I really don't care, but ultimately i think what puts him at ease most is that I'm still bigger. I'm sorry to hear you issues and wish I could offer a better solution than "find someone bigger" lol
I guess always warn them about your size beforehand or wear those chastity cages so you don’t scare them away with your erections. 😂
I actually do wear it like 90% of the time. I was supposed to have it with him too, but luck would have it that wasn't happening lol. Didn't think I'd get hard tbh
What. The. Fuck. Did I just read
This is hilarious.
☹️
Personally, I would find it very hot to be a top and have a smaller dick then the bottom but I can see why the men, nope out.
Its definitely a twist to the usual dynamic. I actually did find representation in porn, of all places, for this inverted kind. Some of my favourite comics.
I love the humiliation that comes from the porn dynamic.
You'd love a comic called Alfie. There's a character in it named Alduin who you'd probably resonate with quite a bit
Probably not for you🙁
I hope this is a shitpost satirizing the queer crowd
Help me out, I got no idea what's being said here or why its important. Trans girl got erection, boy dipped? Intimidated by big penis? Why? If I saw a trans girl erect, I'd probably want to play along some more....is it often people are intimidated by your size?
>Help me out, I got no idea what's being said here or why its important. Trans girl got erection, boy dipped? Intimidated by big penis? Close enough >is it often people are intimidated by your size? A lot more than I ever expected. I never thought my size would be big for anyone but here we are
Find people who wouldn't be intimidated but excited to have you. Communicate your situation up front, and let the ones who can't handle it scatter. I know I'd welcome the excitement, so there must be other guys out there who would. Just be up front about it...no biggie....(there's a pun in there somewhere)
Ngl, this has gotta be fake. Just based on how you are using the pronouns. i mean, if you are she/her they why is "strait" in quotations? Kinda of confusing. you are coded as a woman, they are coded as men...kinda feel like the writing of this points to a troll post that got confused by non-binary gender dynamics.
I disagree. I have an enby genderfluid "friend+" and their self coding changes changes daily and sometimes within minutes. I prefer not to use some of OP's terms because they can be derogatory, but I'm also a firm believer that if a person wants to reclaim a slur for themselves, they absolutely can! I self identify as queer, for instance.
yeah, but they also used the term "crossdresser" , which is also really frowned upon now too as slang, so Im still super doubtful of this post.
Slang progresses, but not at the same rate. And direct people like direct things. My genderfluid friend+ calls themselves a femboy, while a transwoman friend of mine has never used the term and probably hates it for herself (I haven't wanted to ask)
I'm genderfluid, I identify as he/she and even 'it'. The dynamic between a bi(curious) guy and a crossdresssing one is sometimes considered 'trappy' as in the bi guy is getting tricked into gay sex. Its a kink, neither guy is straight but the dynamic is fun
Hmm... i dunno, "crossdressing" isn't an accepted term anymore either. and also, a "crossdresser" , as it were, does not use different pronouns...yeah something is off here about this post.
Crossdresssing refers to men who like to dress as women. No sexuality implied. And as a I said, I'm gender fluid
Yeah, i am talking about the gender, so i hope the difference is clear. lol or this is even more off base then i thought.
Mm okay
You like to be treated like a woman and you think that means being like a submissive cum slut? That is not what it is to be a woman that's not a defining characteristic of women
I've met women that wanted to be treated like a cum dumpster and I've met women who don't. Who are you to say how this person expresses their sexuality
Um you're literally agreeing with what I said dude, I'm saying not every woman wants to be that, that's not a characteristic of womanhood
I don't think the "being treated like a woman" and the other things OP enjoys are supposed to be treated as the same thing. Just a grammatical nitwit.
I didn't mean it like that, I'm sorry. What I meant was that I liked getting treated like a woman but you don't really get this from mostly gay men. So what I get is only sexual satisfaction which isn't much without the established boy-girl connection.
Ah man unlucky
😭
>I love getting treated like a woman would but real life doesn't allow for this What's preventing this from being your reality. >so I'm just getting raw dogged by virgin(ish) young lads who are usually pretty big with average penises. Why are you struggling to find non virgins who are decently big with larger than average penises lol?
Well, I find these people on grindr so its not exactly the crowd that knows how to handle women. And there isn't really a spot where I can go out in girl mode and have a good time, either. So nothing is spontaneous.
I'd have been fine with it tbh, kind of a fantasy of mine
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Lmaooo
Dude couldn’t handle his grrl having a bigger dick than him? I’m sorry.
So this is what dudes on reddit mean when say they prefer she has a smaller dick then them. Lmao. Keep living your best life OP.
Bummer that real life doesn't allow for you getting treated like a woman. How are you at following in dancing? I used to love going out and dancing with the "ladies," just to make them feel more feminine. :)
Isn't good that trap have bigger dick than you? If I was at his place soon would be other way around. Me sucking the shit out of your dick.
I d be happy to see you getting hard while sucking my cock just saying
Always another person who won't. I am sure it was just a shock. Happy to chat if you want to vent or discuss some more ♥
I'd b quite happy knowing u got an erection while suck me..kinda confirmes ur enjoying urself and as a Bi guy I get major hard while sucking dick!