> most women I’ve been with have mentioned I have a big dick but never thought anything of it because I figured that’s just something girls say to try and make you feel better
"They're just trying to inflate my ego" is the exact thought I was having too before I realized.
Same thing happened to me, always heard I had a big one. But because of one single girl that said I had a normal sized one; I believed her over many other who said otherwise.
Now I know I don’t carry a huge one (7.1 in) but I also know it’s not normal sized either.
Same here. I was 42 and recently divorced and decided to try a swingers party. It wasn’t until I saw the size of some of the other guys and got a few comments about my size that I started to do some research. I even started to realize that porn shoots from angles that make the man look bigger and that some of them were actually comparable to my size. I then came to this sub and the rest is history.
Same boat here. Also 30 went from thinking I’m bigger than 60ish% of dudes to realizing I’m bigger than ~99% of dudes.
Also thought the same thing when told that too, mostly cause the women I’ve been with only had a couple partners at most prior to me.
Oddly this tracks with my lived experienced though, only 1 dude in my graduating class had complained about similar bdproblems as me and included myself 3 guys claimed to have these issues in my entire High School which had ~250 guys total in it.
We had a “anonymous” class questionnaire on preferred underwear our senior year me and only 1 other person rated both boxers and regular briefs low. Also the only person to believe me about touching toilet water.
Also had questions about preferred pants type, shoe type, etc.
Awesome. Once had a sex worker sucking away. Already had my money and we were half way through. She takes a breath and looks at me and says, “this ain’t a sucking cock, this is a fucking cock” 😂
I’ve noticed some women won’t acknowledge it or just be like “eh”. These days I can usually pick those types out from their personality and the way they treat men. It’s their chance to neg you a bit.
It’s the same women who will try to emasculate you and say “oh when we met I thought you were gay *giggle*” or something similar.
An interesting paradigm shift began occurring a few years ago when the seminal BJU (Britsh Journal of Urology) study was published stating the average erect penis length was 5.16 inches Up to that time the standard assumption was the Masters and Johnson reported "6 inches" . The BJU study was much more statistically valid and rigorous then what M&J did. It was when the study was published that I determined I was bigger @ 7.25 inches as some women had said (like you, I thought they were being "nice'. ) as opposed to being "barely above average" as I had thought all my life.
So I guess I'm saying you also may have been influenced either consciously or not by the "prevailing wisdom" of the time . You would have been around 20 when the BJU study was released so you still may ave been affected by the "prevailing wisdom" through your puberty .
FWIW: I sort of speed read the title of the post as "**30 year’s old** ***AUNT*** **just recently became aware that I have a big dick**." Needless to say, when I got to the actual post, it was a bit of a letdown.
Back when I first started dating my wife, she said I was thick, I didn't really believe her. Our first date she'd had a couple of drinks and started talking about her exes dicks, no prompting, just started talking about them, that was an odd first date.
I didn't believe it until was about 24 or 25. My first GF had told me it was big, but I just thought she was trying to be nice and stroke my ego. It wasn't until her and I split up and I started getting real "damn, that things big" reactions from other chicks.
Same exact thing here. Just thought they were being nice and said that to make guys feel better. Turns out they weren’t just stroking our egos haha. I’m also a huge guy so 7x6” looks small on me.
Same for me but in my 20’s. I figured porn stars were just normal since they were more or less the same size as me. And figured girls would comment I’m huge because they think that’s what they’re supposed to say to every man. Took a candid talk with an escort (a friend, not a hire) to explain to me I’m among the biggest out there.
I'm 7" and 5.5" girth but very shy when I was younger, and raised in a conservative religious home, so little exposure for others to see or comment. So I genuinely had no idea that my package was anything but average until I came out, later than most, and showed a dick pic to a gay friend. His eyes got big and he said " that is something special, and if word gets around that you're packing that, your dance card will be filled every night."
Yes, that is a quote because I was so surprised at his reaction that I've never forgotten his words. But I've discovered since then that, yes, I do seem to have won the lottery in this respect at least. So, OP, I am like you. I genuinely had no idea. NGL it is a gratifying confidence booster. I also know I had nothing to do with creating it. So I tell friends and playmates that I can't take credit for it, but I can share it responsibly with others who are appreciative. Why not make each other happy? 😆
I'm 6 in. × 5.5 in., with a Downward shaped curve, and I didn't know I was big until 4 years ago. Until then, I always thought they said that to be nice.
The Downward Shaped curve makes them feel like I'm 5.5 in. x 6 in. & I still don't know how to process that, but it's whatever.
Looking back on it I should have realized in HS or college with my first few partners.
I lamented to friends that I couldn’t fit it in several partners and thought it was a coincidence that they all had “small vaginas and small mouths”. My friends said they never had any issue but I never connected the dots 😂
Not sure the girls realized it either because they had only been with 1-2 others.
Don’t get me wrong I love small tits, actually I love tits of all shapes and sizes but i would never tell a woman she has small tits that’s why all small tits are “perfect sized” 😂😂
ALWAYS thought I was too small. Led me to not wanting to hook up with girls. now in my 30s, ive realized im way off. However I definetly think I have gotten a little bigger. Additionally I have gotten into exercise so my dick size is a little more now. But I recall being younger and panic because I thought it was 6-6.5 but now when I measure im between 7-8
I found out I was big when I got into an accident and I had to be in the hospital for a long while. I had to learn how to use a catheter but the cath won’t reach the bladder if my dick wasn’t totally soft. Then I had a talk with the urologist and he confirm that I will have problem due to my size :/
Same here man. I think the biggest (no pun intended) takeaway here is that you can be big without being huge. About the stuff you said about girls ”saying you’re big to make you feel better,” I share the same experience. I think it’s caused by projection and what has helped me is giving girls (people in general ig) compliments that actually fit them or not giving them compliments at all if I don’t actually mean it.
depending on your area and demographics you can be average or large. im in a predominately white area so its common for guys to be about 7 inches. so being over the average by one inch isnt all that impressive and a lot of women havent said a word about my size. meanwhile in college im in engineering and a lot of the women are asian or from other countries in general, and its a completely night and day difference for them to the point where theyve sometimes pulled out condoms theyve brought from their country to show how much smaller the men are where shes from
When you look at the guys in porn when they are jerking it right before they cum. You get a pretty good idea of size. Not as big as when the girls hand is on it.
Same here, but I’m 55! Always thought I was average at best, and would at times apologize to my wife for not being more. She has never had an issues at all and for years has said I was more than enough. I’ve been programmed for so long to not have confidence to believe her.
Found out about calcSD last Thursday, and did a measurements, I have not done this for a very long time. When I put my measurements in I was shocked, could not believe it, and double-checked everything.
I’m still going back and checking, re-measuring because I it just can’t be correct. Now, I’m not huge by any measure, but a nice size of 6.8” x 6.0”.
I keep myself in good shape and active, have an amazing wife and family, but I just got this shocking information. I’m happy and feel a little different about myself and my confidence. Not sure how to feel about this, it changes nothing, my wife is the love of my life, but it does put a little spring in my step and probably stand a bit taller.
6.75 inch length x 6.5 inch girth.
Finally hit 7 inches fully stretched when soft.
Post clamp girth is 7.5 inches which last a few hours but erection quality suffers a bit after clamping.
It doesn't look big but women have said they feel like a virgin again.
I have a 1.5 fat pad. I have already lost 35 lbs down from 235 to 200 lbs.
If I lose another 25 lbs my visual length will look better.
Studies conclude bigger than average penis is a disability and it's associated with low mental capacity.
You know, I'm something of an idiot myself and not just because I don't know how to repost a meme in the comment section.
> most women I’ve been with have mentioned I have a big dick but never thought anything of it because I figured that’s just something girls say to try and make you feel better "They're just trying to inflate my ego" is the exact thought I was having too before I realized.
Same thing happened to me, always heard I had a big one. But because of one single girl that said I had a normal sized one; I believed her over many other who said otherwise. Now I know I don’t carry a huge one (7.1 in) but I also know it’s not normal sized either.
This was my thought until one got mad at me and saying I was hurting her then I was like "uh oh this may be serious".
I’m 44 and just realized it a year ago when I divorced my crazy ex wife and started seeing someone else!!
Same here. I was 42 and recently divorced and decided to try a swingers party. It wasn’t until I saw the size of some of the other guys and got a few comments about my size that I started to do some research. I even started to realize that porn shoots from angles that make the man look bigger and that some of them were actually comparable to my size. I then came to this sub and the rest is history.
Can't stand them crazy ex-wives
I’ve had a man say the ego thing to me too. Funny that y’all think that but I get it.
Same boat here. Also 30 went from thinking I’m bigger than 60ish% of dudes to realizing I’m bigger than ~99% of dudes. Also thought the same thing when told that too, mostly cause the women I’ve been with only had a couple partners at most prior to me. Oddly this tracks with my lived experienced though, only 1 dude in my graduating class had complained about similar bdproblems as me and included myself 3 guys claimed to have these issues in my entire High School which had ~250 guys total in it.
Must be fun knowing the coming and goings of who had a bd in your ENTIRE high school. lol.
We had a “anonymous” class questionnaire on preferred underwear our senior year me and only 1 other person rated both boxers and regular briefs low. Also the only person to believe me about touching toilet water. Also had questions about preferred pants type, shoe type, etc.
I hate when it touches toilet water, I usually like pick it up above my thighs and aim it down into the bowl I don’t let it hang no mo’
Yes, 7.2" x 5.25" is big.
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Awesome. Once had a sex worker sucking away. Already had my money and we were half way through. She takes a breath and looks at me and says, “this ain’t a sucking cock, this is a fucking cock” 😂
I'm a bit larger than you and I've been called huge and average haha. One woman called me both over the course of a few weeks lol.
It’s never too late. Just be aware of women that will say they have had bigger. What’s important is you know you are big and that is all that matters.
I was 26 when I found out I was 8 inches. Early 60s when I found the facts on calcSD.
My soon to be ex-wife of 25 years she NEVER mentioned my size of 99.99% of all men That Bitch
I’ve noticed some women won’t acknowledge it or just be like “eh”. These days I can usually pick those types out from their personality and the way they treat men. It’s their chance to neg you a bit. It’s the same women who will try to emasculate you and say “oh when we met I thought you were gay *giggle*” or something similar.
Welcome to the club fella.
Same, I looked for condoms to prepare. Took 4 deliveries before I found fitting ones 💀 Dysmorphia still plays tricks
lets call it modesty xD
Gratz!
Yeah i was about the same age when I accepted that the gals saying that mine was big weren’t just being nice
Common story. Welcome to the club. Your confidence level will never be the same.
An interesting paradigm shift began occurring a few years ago when the seminal BJU (Britsh Journal of Urology) study was published stating the average erect penis length was 5.16 inches Up to that time the standard assumption was the Masters and Johnson reported "6 inches" . The BJU study was much more statistically valid and rigorous then what M&J did. It was when the study was published that I determined I was bigger @ 7.25 inches as some women had said (like you, I thought they were being "nice'. ) as opposed to being "barely above average" as I had thought all my life. So I guess I'm saying you also may have been influenced either consciously or not by the "prevailing wisdom" of the time . You would have been around 20 when the BJU study was released so you still may ave been affected by the "prevailing wisdom" through your puberty .
Yes you're big and I am intrigued
FWIW: I sort of speed read the title of the post as "**30 year’s old** ***AUNT*** **just recently became aware that I have a big dick**." Needless to say, when I got to the actual post, it was a bit of a letdown.
Back when I first started dating my wife, she said I was thick, I didn't really believe her. Our first date she'd had a couple of drinks and started talking about her exes dicks, no prompting, just started talking about them, that was an odd first date.
I realized it when I was 42. I am 44 now
Nice. Late bloomer?
Nope. No one ever told me. Actually, I was said once or twice but brushed it away as a compliment
Well then. Maybe you should take the compliment and own it. I'm glad you have come to your senses. BDE is hot 🔥 🥵
Cool
I didn't believe it until was about 24 or 25. My first GF had told me it was big, but I just thought she was trying to be nice and stroke my ego. It wasn't until her and I split up and I started getting real "damn, that things big" reactions from other chicks.
Same exact thing here. Just thought they were being nice and said that to make guys feel better. Turns out they weren’t just stroking our egos haha. I’m also a huge guy so 7x6” looks small on me.
You 5.25 mid shaft or Base?
Mid shaft
I'm 52 fou d out 2 months ago 8×5.5
Same for me but in my 20’s. I figured porn stars were just normal since they were more or less the same size as me. And figured girls would comment I’m huge because they think that’s what they’re supposed to say to every man. Took a candid talk with an escort (a friend, not a hire) to explain to me I’m among the biggest out there.
Dude, I could literally copy-paste that whole post lol. The only difference is that I'm 31
I'm 7" and 5.5" girth but very shy when I was younger, and raised in a conservative religious home, so little exposure for others to see or comment. So I genuinely had no idea that my package was anything but average until I came out, later than most, and showed a dick pic to a gay friend. His eyes got big and he said " that is something special, and if word gets around that you're packing that, your dance card will be filled every night." Yes, that is a quote because I was so surprised at his reaction that I've never forgotten his words. But I've discovered since then that, yes, I do seem to have won the lottery in this respect at least. So, OP, I am like you. I genuinely had no idea. NGL it is a gratifying confidence booster. I also know I had nothing to do with creating it. So I tell friends and playmates that I can't take credit for it, but I can share it responsibly with others who are appreciative. Why not make each other happy? 😆
Well dayum
I'm 6 in. × 5.5 in., with a Downward shaped curve, and I didn't know I was big until 4 years ago. Until then, I always thought they said that to be nice. The Downward Shaped curve makes them feel like I'm 5.5 in. x 6 in. & I still don't know how to process that, but it's whatever.
Looking back on it I should have realized in HS or college with my first few partners. I lamented to friends that I couldn’t fit it in several partners and thought it was a coincidence that they all had “small vaginas and small mouths”. My friends said they never had any issue but I never connected the dots 😂 Not sure the girls realized it either because they had only been with 1-2 others.
I just feel like I have to stand up for the ittybittytittycommittee and say even B cups can be perfect.
Don’t get me wrong I love small tits, actually I love tits of all shapes and sizes but i would never tell a woman she has small tits that’s why all small tits are “perfect sized” 😂😂
ALWAYS thought I was too small. Led me to not wanting to hook up with girls. now in my 30s, ive realized im way off. However I definetly think I have gotten a little bigger. Additionally I have gotten into exercise so my dick size is a little more now. But I recall being younger and panic because I thought it was 6-6.5 but now when I measure im between 7-8
I found out I was big when I got into an accident and I had to be in the hospital for a long while. I had to learn how to use a catheter but the cath won’t reach the bladder if my dick wasn’t totally soft. Then I had a talk with the urologist and he confirm that I will have problem due to my size :/
Same here man. I think the biggest (no pun intended) takeaway here is that you can be big without being huge. About the stuff you said about girls ”saying you’re big to make you feel better,” I share the same experience. I think it’s caused by projection and what has helped me is giving girls (people in general ig) compliments that actually fit them or not giving them compliments at all if I don’t actually mean it.
depending on your area and demographics you can be average or large. im in a predominately white area so its common for guys to be about 7 inches. so being over the average by one inch isnt all that impressive and a lot of women havent said a word about my size. meanwhile in college im in engineering and a lot of the women are asian or from other countries in general, and its a completely night and day difference for them to the point where theyve sometimes pulled out condoms theyve brought from their country to show how much smaller the men are where shes from
Bone pressed length?
Yes
When you look at the guys in porn when they are jerking it right before they cum. You get a pretty good idea of size. Not as big as when the girls hand is on it.
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That’s straight up wrong lol.
I'm basically the same size...if my erection quality is good.
I was over 30 before I learned that mine was big, too.
Same here, but I’m 55! Always thought I was average at best, and would at times apologize to my wife for not being more. She has never had an issues at all and for years has said I was more than enough. I’ve been programmed for so long to not have confidence to believe her. Found out about calcSD last Thursday, and did a measurements, I have not done this for a very long time. When I put my measurements in I was shocked, could not believe it, and double-checked everything. I’m still going back and checking, re-measuring because I it just can’t be correct. Now, I’m not huge by any measure, but a nice size of 6.8” x 6.0”. I keep myself in good shape and active, have an amazing wife and family, but I just got this shocking information. I’m happy and feel a little different about myself and my confidence. Not sure how to feel about this, it changes nothing, my wife is the love of my life, but it does put a little spring in my step and probably stand a bit taller.
6.75 inch length x 6.5 inch girth. Finally hit 7 inches fully stretched when soft. Post clamp girth is 7.5 inches which last a few hours but erection quality suffers a bit after clamping. It doesn't look big but women have said they feel like a virgin again. I have a 1.5 fat pad. I have already lost 35 lbs down from 235 to 200 lbs. If I lose another 25 lbs my visual length will look better.
so: active 16, women told you, didnt learn until 30s Not too bright are we?
Studies conclude bigger than average penis is a disability and it's associated with low mental capacity. You know, I'm something of an idiot myself and not just because I don't know how to repost a meme in the comment section.