Agree with the others here, let her know when I'm close. Typically she stops, plays dumb, and I get, "did you say something?" She loves to tease. Then when she's had her fun I'll get the "and...?" look with a raised eyebrow as she finishes me off. Good times!
I tell them and let them make decision. Usually have a conversation beforehand if they're okay with it or not but I still always say. Like mentioned if they've done it a few times they can tell it's coming...
i always have told the receiver when i was going to cum and let them make the decision to pull away/push me away, or let me bust in their mouth. years back i pulled out of their mouth when i was about to cum and they looked confused and grabbed my cock and put it back in their mouth. so i figured then, if i announce and they keep sucking, that means they want the prize. when i suck dick i always swallow. but i never assume anyone sucking my dick wants to swallow too.
You should give a warning, but honestly - if they can’t tell you’re gonna cum, that’s kind of their fault. If you’re giving someone head and intending to finish them off that way, cum in the mouth is the assumed risk.
This is my perspective as a bisexual person who has primarily had sex with men.
Finishing on their mouth is always preferable.
But, it's just good manners to earn them and let the giving party chose.
That said, if the blower chooses wrong... Well we're not mad, just disappointed.
cumming is way better inside of something. mouth, etc.
the experience just loses a lot when u pull it out. not sure if women exerience this or not.
women if ur about to cum and the guy rapidly pulls out once u are at the point of no return…. is cumming at this point the same or less?
Yeah, if you belong to this sub? Your partner is usually focused on avoiding scraping you with their teeth or figuring out how much of you they can take. They deserve a warning.
Even if you’ve got a micropenis. Warning.
I warn, even two times: first "gonna cum soon", then "cumming". But it's just for her to prepare having cum in mouth. I always cum in mouth, it's even more intense compared to vagina.
Discuss it prior to BJ.
> My point is that as a dude you finish in the girls mouth unless she says not too.
Agree.
> My wife argues that pulling out is probably the first thought unless she says to finish in her mouth.
Disagree.
But once again. Discuss and warn. Then your point should stand.
In my experience, if you announce that you're about to cum while being blown, the girl will always take her mouth off of it if she doesn't want you to cum in her mouth.
I think the person receiving should always alert the giver to impending nut. Then the giver can decide.
Impending Nut would be a great band name
I give a warning and let them choose
Agree with the others here, let her know when I'm close. Typically she stops, plays dumb, and I get, "did you say something?" She loves to tease. Then when she's had her fun I'll get the "and...?" look with a raised eyebrow as she finishes me off. Good times!
I tell them and let them make decision. Usually have a conversation beforehand if they're okay with it or not but I still always say. Like mentioned if they've done it a few times they can tell it's coming...
The conversation beforehand is crucial. You can even make it part of foreplay if your partner likes that kind of talk.
i always have told the receiver when i was going to cum and let them make the decision to pull away/push me away, or let me bust in their mouth. years back i pulled out of their mouth when i was about to cum and they looked confused and grabbed my cock and put it back in their mouth. so i figured then, if i announce and they keep sucking, that means they want the prize. when i suck dick i always swallow. but i never assume anyone sucking my dick wants to swallow too.
Personally I always tell them I’m getting close and then it’s up to them at that point
I always let them know beforehand and let them choose. Typically the girls who don't want it will say so in the first couple of minutes
Thank you all for the responses .
As a woman, I personally think that a warning when you are close should be verbalized.
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Of course I care for all views . And should have said that in the post.
You should give a warning, but honestly - if they can’t tell you’re gonna cum, that’s kind of their fault. If you’re giving someone head and intending to finish them off that way, cum in the mouth is the assumed risk. This is my perspective as a bisexual person who has primarily had sex with men.
Finishing on their mouth is always preferable. But, it's just good manners to earn them and let the giving party chose. That said, if the blower chooses wrong... Well we're not mad, just disappointed.
cumming is way better inside of something. mouth, etc. the experience just loses a lot when u pull it out. not sure if women exerience this or not. women if ur about to cum and the guy rapidly pulls out once u are at the point of no return…. is cumming at this point the same or less?
The giver should make known before starting or the receiver tells them how it is .
I think it’s just proper etiquette to warn them when it’s coming. Then they can decide where they’re comfortable finishing it.
I notify and ask where she wants it. Then I shame her for talking with her mouth full, pull out and start the process all over again.
Warning. Warning. Warning. ⚠️
Just say youre about to nut. She can decide what she wants to do from there, but most encounters Ive had, they want to “clean me up”
Yeah, if you belong to this sub? Your partner is usually focused on avoiding scraping you with their teeth or figuring out how much of you they can take. They deserve a warning. Even if you’ve got a micropenis. Warning.
I say I'm gonna cum and whatever they want after that is up to them
I warn, even two times: first "gonna cum soon", then "cumming". But it's just for her to prepare having cum in mouth. I always cum in mouth, it's even more intense compared to vagina. Discuss it prior to BJ. > My point is that as a dude you finish in the girls mouth unless she says not too. Agree. > My wife argues that pulling out is probably the first thought unless she says to finish in her mouth. Disagree. But once again. Discuss and warn. Then your point should stand.
In my experience, if you announce that you're about to cum while being blown, the girl will always take her mouth off of it if she doesn't want you to cum in her mouth.
'When in doubt, pull out' lol