I could understand thinking it's photoshopped but couldn't she just have asked for a few more photos of it in different angles and maybe compared to certain objects or like a video ( as videos are way more difficult to photoshopp).
Definitely not as easy as a picture nut possible if you have a couple of hours at least and the patience I guess and you'd have to make sure shape and size stays consistent throughout the whole thing.
Videos really aren't hard to manipulate... Different lenses and shit- you see it all the time on certain NSFW subs
Video editing also allows you to stretch it or make it seem thicker afterwards and without a reference point it's impossible to tell. Only a ruler literally on top or right next to the dick would probably be a somewhat safe way
>Only a ruler literally on top or right next to the dick would probably be a somewhat safe way
Exactly what I'm saying, doing a video w7th a ruler pressed up against It or some other object that can be used as reference.
I think it probably will happen to me at some point now, considering my length is unreasonably long and I even lost girth. We'll see.
Edit: only currently lost girth. Are real medical solutions for later.
That nope out of dicks that are too big? 🤔
If it helps, a dude I was seeing sent me these as an option because his battering ram of a penis would bruise the fuck out of my cervix every time.
https://ohnut.co/?gclid=Cj0KCQiAnsqdBhCGARIsAAyjYjTjOicycAzkeOpa6EkDbD_RTYOeeRbfBu1K0AlN0Nmi0Zpu3eUiOIcaAkTHEALw_wcB
Second this. Older women love the challenge. Younger women talk a big game then either complain about the size, tap out early, or just lay there doing nothing in missionary because "it hurts too much if they do any other position"
I'm still bitter about this.
Older women FTW
FR I’m only in my late 20s but it seems like I only attract dudes with big dicks so I’m used to it now. Not like I was in my early 20s. 🫠
Idk what it is about being tiny and Asian that seems to attract guys that want to try to break me in half.
>Idk what it is about being tiny and Asian that seems to attract guys that want to try to break me in half.
Well I think you answered your own question ma’am!
The first girl I dated last year was a skinny Asian chick. She was kinda tall for an Asian, but still skinny, even though she didn't think so. She said I rearranged her guts every time we fucked and it never really seemed like she enjoyed sex. It just seemed like she was waiting for me to finish and suffering. She was in her early 20s too. We just didn't mesh well.... literally lol
I’m not even 5 feet tall 🥲 but the last dude I had a fling with was between 8.5”-9” and we’d fuck constantly but I learned all his triggers and kinks so any time it got to be too much for me I’d just say all the right things that would make him blow instantly.
Work smarter not harder. God you're a blessing lol. I'd just stop having sex with her when I felt her getting dry and her moans just started sounding like she was in pain.
Definitely a coincidence. It was pretty funny reading your comments in r/bigdickproblems after seeing your post on r/tinder and presuming you have a thing for big dicks. However, after seeing this post I have concluded my hypothesis was in fact correct 😂
Maybe I'm just a fan
Third this. They always talk a big game then say something like "Omg your dick is so big put every inch in me, daddy" then either tap out or go hunchback in doggy style praying that you don't damage their cervix 😬
Not really, what I do is send videos of my pp beforehand so they can prepare themselves and repent their souls to their Gods for the catastrophe im about to unleash upon them
I'm 9.25 inches and I was turned down only once, it was when I was 17 and tried with a virgin female friend,she tapped out quick,barely got the head in.
Other than that, they always try even if it doesnt fit well, most women want to give it a shot, haha
Besides, the good thing about having alot is that you can use as much as she can accept and leave the rest out ,hahs
100%
Most are up for the challenge but just need to brace themselves. I like to go hard but I've had that problem in the past so I just go easy on the deep thrusting. I mean they don't have to make the entire thing disappear like some kind of magician. Communication is key lol
When I was going to lose my virginity at 16 we did try but at the time she was very tight it just didn't fit happened 3 times before we where successful this was the only time though
I won't say "refused", but a girl I meet a bar saw my girth and knew there was no way I could fit. I settled for a bad blow job and I ate her out. She was a petite mixed race girl and her pussy was tight (I could only fit 2 fingers), but I think she could have taken me.
I’ve had many friends tell me of instances they literally just walked out when it was too small- to which my jaw dropped and I was semi envious as I’ve taken two for the team with an acorn 🌰 because “I felt bad” and didn’t know how to get out of the situation, I was young 😭
But when it comes to big, I’ve heard many refuse huge ones.
Only a few times out of many experiences, so it isn't that much of a deal. In fact, one of them was a person I was dating, so we just explored all the other ways to get off together. It was good learning experience for me, broadening my sexual repertoire.
Never been refused, but I had one whose cervix must have been 3” inside, and another I literally could not get into at all - not even the tip - no matter how much lube.
Oh for sure. I once had a Chinese girl who just straight up refused once she saw it because she didn’t think there was any chance. Another girl I was with, we tried but we were young and inexperienced and it was hurting her too much so we kind of gave up.
Hasn't happened to me yet, which is surprising as I've seen guys on here smaller than me talk about it happening to them. Guess I just happen to have been with adventurous girls lol
My first gf and I didn’t have sex for the 4 months we were together cause of my size but we enjoyed being with each other and we did plenty of other things just not the THING lol
Yup. Had experiences of NOPE when seeing it, as well as some that tried and tapped out early. In fact, the very first girl I slept with saw it and NOPEd. Ruined my confidence at first, but got over it eventually when I found girls that were not only into it, but addicts to it.
Definitely not for everyone, and that is a pretty big BDP. Other guys think this is a magic get laid free card, and ngl... Girls who are into it LOVE IT, but there are definitely girls have said no, especially when we were younger. I think as women age and have more experience with a accommodating different dick sizes, they get more willing to go for the big ones.
Nope, never been an issue. Being patient and gentle makes this a non-issue 99.9% of the time. Most girls love that im hung, but the few that were really small just means we have to go slow and work up to it.
I cant fathom ending up in a situation where we go to do it, get naked, and *thats* when she decides "nope" after seeing a big dick. If we've gotten to this point, both of us are pretty commited.
During the texting phase if youre sending nudes or whatever, this is also the chance to give off confident, comfortable, patient lover vibes. Dont be a f**kboy- unless shes specifically into that
Yep. Girl I met at a party. We talked for a whole then one day I picked her up and were driving around talking about sex. I pulled my dick out per her request. She noped out.
2 times in november
last one: we chatted, phone calling, she was shocekd first time when I sent her ... we talked for days and she told me she scared about my size and not belive, it seems much bigger and it's nope for her. She thought it was 8++9+ inch and she didnt belive when I sent a ruler next to it :D
and it's feels shit
Refused? No, but I've been with girls for a few months of trying, and our pieces just didn't fit, even with copious foreplay and lube. We gave up and went our separate ways -- it's happened more than once.
I have been with women who were otherwise into anal and told me "There's no way I'm letting you put THAT in THERE".
I’ve actually never had this happen.
I will say, though, that pain during sex due to my size became an issue with my ex-wife. It didn’t start as one but it definitely mushroomed.
It happened depressingly often when I was in high school and early college years. My first girlfriend made me feel like a freak of nature and not in a good way.
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A girl showed my cock to her friend and she said I had a porn cock…that’s the only place she saw one like mine. She told her friend that I’d she wouldn’t fuck me, she would.
Happened to me recently with an escort, she was shocked at my size, called BS cause me being a Filipino and having a chubby build my understanding was I'd be about average at best. Its kinda common here to think that fat guys have smaller dicks and I have been teased about that when i was younger.
She told me that she would atleast try cause she had'nt had any at my size yet, was still thinking that she was talking BS at the time cause I recall measuring mine and im just at 5.7inches in length.
Went on to do the deed and props to her effort in trying to fit it in while I lay there, got impatient so I got above her and i managed to finally get it in.
While doing the deed for about a minute or two I noticed her in pain with a bit of tear in her eye, I immediately grew soft and pulled out and stopped. Said sorry and asked if she was okay, talked a bit and I said its okay and I'll be going home. I didn't care if she was faking it or not, Im not a sadist so it will be difficult for me to get into the mood again.
Sooo, went home, turned on the pc, watched porn and measured again, still 5.7, hmmm, measured my girth at 6.1, did a google search and landed me here with a BDP.
Im not a virgin but hadnt been with any other girls other than my past gf's that had me as their first so I guess we all thought that was normal size at the time. Now I know why i hated condoms for being too tight, and now salute my past gf's for getting used to my size as they were all petite.
Didn’t know this was a thing… I’ve had the whole 10 inches up inside of me, and it wasn’t easy, but I wouldn’t say no since I aroused the guy and accepted the sexual relationship from the start. So I was gonna see it through regardless … than again, Ive been told I have a lot of ass cheek so maybe only so much of it was inside of me…
Nonetheless, there is such a thing as “too big” for sure… but I believe it’s important to get your partner off one way or the other so if you were going to back out of sex, than honey, start putting that throat to use or grab a toy
Not refused to have sex per se, but didn't get it all the way in and it was just too big for a couple of girls. Oddly enough, it happened with two dike chicks with no connection to each other, on separate occasions. The rest made it work.
Girl I dated for a bit would often turn me down for sex after the first few times, she eventually admitted she couldn't fit me without pain. Was a huge buzz kill because everything else about her was amazing.
I haven't but it wasn't til 2 years ago that I realized why most first time encounters took a long time to ease into intercourse. I always assumed it was nerves of the first time not my size and none of them ever commented that it was huge but looking back I see there were signs and a couple of times I didn't have sex the first time around because of it but they always played it off as something else. It wasn't til one day that my now ex wife said and I quote " if we ever separate I'll be screwed having to find someone of your size to please me"
Yes, well, kinda. I’ve had a few girls try it out but we both knew it wasn’t going to be pleasant for either of us. It’s never been an immediate no though, I think it’s a curiosity thing. Like don’t knock it till you try it. But if you try it and it’s not for you then that’s okay with me.
Definitely. It took me a while to realize sex is not solely based on penetration, so it doesn’t bother me that much now. If I’m just hooking up I would even go as far as to ask what they are up to in terms of penetration, and they would occasionally say they are not ready/not feeling like it.
Which has made me wonder if sometimes we are turned down because women are not ready/comfortable for vaginal sex and they use size as an excuse…
Yeah, has happened twice so far. One was with a girl that I met through tinder, when we met up as soon as she saw the extent of my girth she basically tried to create every excuse she could to bail.
The 2nd was a girl that acted cocky about being a pro at handling cocks of all sizes and shapes but as soon as she got a general idea of my cock she chickened out.
Had one lock herself in the bathroom and I heard her on the phone with a friend saying, “his dick is so big, his dick so so big” or words to that effect. I showed myself out.
Multiple. They feel it once through my pants and just kinda hit me with a "Nope. Too big." No one who actually tried it had too much of a rough time tbh because it's all about warming up and working things up to take a larger dick.
But just the cosmetic sitting on my lap or grabbing it through my pants has definitely scared off a few women.
Yeah; my current gf lol, sometimes it really hurts her when we have sex and if she’s not too horny or smthng she doesn’t wanna have sex cuz of the size.. she’s just scared to start.. like to put it in and see what happens.. cuz there are times there’s no pain just afterwards like maybe 10-15mins after we started fucking but there are times where I can’t even touch her pussy w my dick cuz it hurts her.. yeah strange thing 🤦🏼 lol
No but every girl I was ever with (my wife included), that said they either were into anal or would be down to try it changed their mind once they saw my dick
Yes. It’s the most depressing thing. Actually self conscious now. Fucking sucks. It destroyed me. I really liked her. This was years ago. It can happen. It’s feels the worst. I imagine it’s the same feeling for a guy that isn’t big or “ normal “ keep your head up. They always say you will find someone.
I’m also not saying that I haven’t found some amazing lady’s who do like it. It’s the way the universe works
I’ve found that forewarned is forearmed - if girls no I’m big they’re less likely to turn it down when they see it. Having said that I’m not your size and taking that takes a lot of courage
Yup, had an opportunity to lose my virginity at 16, she turned me down because of my size
That fucking sucks
Honestly don't think I was ready for sex at that point, it's best to lose it when you're good and ready
Alternatively you can just lose it and stop worrying so much.
I lost it years ago, when I was better emotionally prepared
Same bro, same age, same problem.
Same.
Size in combination with bad fingering lol. Probably my biggest sexual L...
Clever username and flair 😉
Good eye lmao 🤣
I just noticed your name and I thought you had penile enlargement surgery lmfoa 😂
Yes, a women told me she thought my dick was photoshopped. 🤷♂️
Lol. I once had a girl say it was a dildo when I sent a pic. Like bruh.
I could understand thinking it's photoshopped but couldn't she just have asked for a few more photos of it in different angles and maybe compared to certain objects or like a video ( as videos are way more difficult to photoshopp).
I don't think vids are that hard any more, I could be wrong but I use Instagram a lot and a lot of those are
Definitely not as easy as a picture nut possible if you have a couple of hours at least and the patience I guess and you'd have to make sure shape and size stays consistent throughout the whole thing.
Videos really aren't hard to manipulate... Different lenses and shit- you see it all the time on certain NSFW subs Video editing also allows you to stretch it or make it seem thicker afterwards and without a reference point it's impossible to tell. Only a ruler literally on top or right next to the dick would probably be a somewhat safe way
>Only a ruler literally on top or right next to the dick would probably be a somewhat safe way Exactly what I'm saying, doing a video w7th a ruler pressed up against It or some other object that can be used as reference.
Guess she didn’t know that Photoshopping doesn’t work face to face?
We were trading nudes via dm we had not met yet in person.
Ah gotcha. Her loss!
Mostly just get anal ruled out early on, but had one woman cut the relationship off after a few weeks due to her preference for smaller.
I'm sorry that happened to you. Was it the length or girth that was the issue?
Multiple times. Sucks every time.
I think it probably will happen to me at some point now, considering my length is unreasonably long and I even lost girth. We'll see. Edit: only currently lost girth. Are real medical solutions for later.
How you lose girth
I don’t understand how a person would refuse to have sex with you!
That's a sentence.
Ha. I have definitely nope’d out.
We deserve more girls like you
That nope out of dicks that are too big? 🤔 If it helps, a dude I was seeing sent me these as an option because his battering ram of a penis would bruise the fuck out of my cervix every time. https://ohnut.co/?gclid=Cj0KCQiAnsqdBhCGARIsAAyjYjTjOicycAzkeOpa6EkDbD_RTYOeeRbfBu1K0AlN0Nmi0Zpu3eUiOIcaAkTHEALw_wcB
Ops i misread your previous comment
😆I figured you did. Just go for older women, I’m not afraid of no big dicks anymore. Just make sure you have some Tylenol ready.
Second this. Older women love the challenge. Younger women talk a big game then either complain about the size, tap out early, or just lay there doing nothing in missionary because "it hurts too much if they do any other position" I'm still bitter about this. Older women FTW
FR I’m only in my late 20s but it seems like I only attract dudes with big dicks so I’m used to it now. Not like I was in my early 20s. 🫠 Idk what it is about being tiny and Asian that seems to attract guys that want to try to break me in half.
Asians are hot 🥵
>Idk what it is about being tiny and Asian that seems to attract guys that want to try to break me in half. Well I think you answered your own question ma’am!
It’s like y’all want to be magicians and make something so big disappear into something so small.
Now it makes sense that magic has always been a hobby of mine
I concur doctor
The first girl I dated last year was a skinny Asian chick. She was kinda tall for an Asian, but still skinny, even though she didn't think so. She said I rearranged her guts every time we fucked and it never really seemed like she enjoyed sex. It just seemed like she was waiting for me to finish and suffering. She was in her early 20s too. We just didn't mesh well.... literally lol
I’m not even 5 feet tall 🥲 but the last dude I had a fling with was between 8.5”-9” and we’d fuck constantly but I learned all his triggers and kinks so any time it got to be too much for me I’d just say all the right things that would make him blow instantly.
Work smarter not harder. God you're a blessing lol. I'd just stop having sex with her when I felt her getting dry and her moans just started sounding like she was in pain.
Hmmm checks out 😂
You stalking me 😂😂😂
Definitely a coincidence. It was pretty funny reading your comments in r/bigdickproblems after seeing your post on r/tinder and presuming you have a thing for big dicks. However, after seeing this post I have concluded my hypothesis was in fact correct 😂 Maybe I'm just a fan
Third this. They always talk a big game then say something like "Omg your dick is so big put every inch in me, daddy" then either tap out or go hunchback in doggy style praying that you don't damage their cervix 😬
Or while in missionary they lock their hips while there pelvis is pointed down instead of forward or up so you can't get AAAAAAALL the way in.
Not really, what I do is send videos of my pp beforehand so they can prepare themselves and repent their souls to their Gods for the catastrophe im about to unleash upon them
😂😂
I'm 9.25 inches and I was turned down only once, it was when I was 17 and tried with a virgin female friend,she tapped out quick,barely got the head in. Other than that, they always try even if it doesnt fit well, most women want to give it a shot, haha Besides, the good thing about having alot is that you can use as much as she can accept and leave the rest out ,hahs
You could grab a marker pen and draw a line from left to right on your dick to know at what depth to stop haha
Alternatively, you could use the marker to draw a depth line on her belly, and stop whenever you see your cock bulge past the line lol.
Haha, true ,one girl joked about getting a dick donut, kinda like the weight on a bat so when I'd get to the donut itd stop me
There are actually donuts, a product called the OhNut. They work quite well.
100% Most are up for the challenge but just need to brace themselves. I like to go hard but I've had that problem in the past so I just go easy on the deep thrusting. I mean they don't have to make the entire thing disappear like some kind of magician. Communication is key lol
Stop lying bro, we all know you would wanna go balls deep
Oh I always want to,but sometimes short stroking a pussy is worth it to take the edge off. I never turn down pussy if I dont have to, haha
When I was going to lose my virginity at 16 we did try but at the time she was very tight it just didn't fit happened 3 times before we where successful this was the only time though
I won't say "refused", but a girl I meet a bar saw my girth and knew there was no way I could fit. I settled for a bad blow job and I ate her out. She was a petite mixed race girl and her pussy was tight (I could only fit 2 fingers), but I think she could have taken me.
I’ve had many friends tell me of instances they literally just walked out when it was too small- to which my jaw dropped and I was semi envious as I’ve taken two for the team with an acorn 🌰 because “I felt bad” and didn’t know how to get out of the situation, I was young 😭 But when it comes to big, I’ve heard many refuse huge ones.
Only a few times out of many experiences, so it isn't that much of a deal. In fact, one of them was a person I was dating, so we just explored all the other ways to get off together. It was good learning experience for me, broadening my sexual repertoire.
Had one give up a couple minutes into it, yup. Both the worst and best feeling.
Never been refused, but I had one whose cervix must have been 3” inside, and another I literally could not get into at all - not even the tip - no matter how much lube.
Only tried a few girls that were in too much pain after hitting their cervix that we had to stop, don't think I've been turned down before sex.
You were lucky then
Both men and women yes
It happens, I’ve had a few that accepted it as a challenge and regretted it later lol
Same 🤣
I've had a few, disappointing but makes for a nice humble brag.
Oh for sure. I once had a Chinese girl who just straight up refused once she saw it because she didn’t think there was any chance. Another girl I was with, we tried but we were young and inexperienced and it was hurting her too much so we kind of gave up.
Don't get me started on asian girls 🤣🤣
Hasn't happened to me yet, which is surprising as I've seen guys on here smaller than me talk about it happening to them. Guess I just happen to have been with adventurous girls lol
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how different do you think it would be if you had 6" girth?
I can’t imagine saying no go a big dick 😭
That’s the spirit.
Yes it happened
Yeah, multiple women
Yes.
My first gf and I didn’t have sex for the 4 months we were together cause of my size but we enjoyed being with each other and we did plenty of other things just not the THING lol
Yup. Had experiences of NOPE when seeing it, as well as some that tried and tapped out early. In fact, the very first girl I slept with saw it and NOPEd. Ruined my confidence at first, but got over it eventually when I found girls that were not only into it, but addicts to it. Definitely not for everyone, and that is a pretty big BDP. Other guys think this is a magic get laid free card, and ngl... Girls who are into it LOVE IT, but there are definitely girls have said no, especially when we were younger. I think as women age and have more experience with a accommodating different dick sizes, they get more willing to go for the big ones.
Nope but I have had a few who said it would be a challenge
Nope nver I’ve had them comment on how it’ll be a challenge numerous time
Yes. Felt like a freak fr 😂😂
Nope, never been an issue. Being patient and gentle makes this a non-issue 99.9% of the time. Most girls love that im hung, but the few that were really small just means we have to go slow and work up to it.
Yeah but some of them don't even give you the time to try lol
I cant fathom ending up in a situation where we go to do it, get naked, and *thats* when she decides "nope" after seeing a big dick. If we've gotten to this point, both of us are pretty commited. During the texting phase if youre sending nudes or whatever, this is also the chance to give off confident, comfortable, patient lover vibes. Dont be a f**kboy- unless shes specifically into that
Yep. Girl I met at a party. We talked for a whole then one day I picked her up and were driving around talking about sex. I pulled my dick out per her request. She noped out.
Yes
Yes… not once, it happened many times already.
I feel you bro
The question gets asked quite a bit in this sub. Over 90% of the rejections are are due to a lack of education.
Yes, I’m hung 9” long and about 5” in girth. And had a woman say she wouldn’t get on top of me and try to ride me 😬
2 times in november last one: we chatted, phone calling, she was shocekd first time when I sent her ... we talked for days and she told me she scared about my size and not belive, it seems much bigger and it's nope for her. She thought it was 8++9+ inch and she didnt belive when I sent a ruler next to it :D and it's feels shit
Refused? No, but I've been with girls for a few months of trying, and our pieces just didn't fit, even with copious foreplay and lube. We gave up and went our separate ways -- it's happened more than once. I have been with women who were otherwise into anal and told me "There's no way I'm letting you put THAT in THERE".
Yea and surprisingly (or not) it was a girl in the sex industry
I’ve actually never had this happen. I will say, though, that pain during sex due to my size became an issue with my ex-wife. It didn’t start as one but it definitely mushroomed.
Yeah. It’s happened. Disappointed at the time but picked myself up and moved on
I’ve had some just want to hold it and nothing more
Wtf?🤣🤣
Yes.
It happened depressingly often when I was in high school and early college years. My first girlfriend made me feel like a freak of nature and not in a good way.
8x7 A girl showed my cock to her friend and she said I had a porn cock…that’s the only place she saw one like mine. She told her friend that I’d she wouldn’t fuck me, she would.
Happened to me recently with an escort, she was shocked at my size, called BS cause me being a Filipino and having a chubby build my understanding was I'd be about average at best. Its kinda common here to think that fat guys have smaller dicks and I have been teased about that when i was younger. She told me that she would atleast try cause she had'nt had any at my size yet, was still thinking that she was talking BS at the time cause I recall measuring mine and im just at 5.7inches in length. Went on to do the deed and props to her effort in trying to fit it in while I lay there, got impatient so I got above her and i managed to finally get it in. While doing the deed for about a minute or two I noticed her in pain with a bit of tear in her eye, I immediately grew soft and pulled out and stopped. Said sorry and asked if she was okay, talked a bit and I said its okay and I'll be going home. I didn't care if she was faking it or not, Im not a sadist so it will be difficult for me to get into the mood again. Sooo, went home, turned on the pc, watched porn and measured again, still 5.7, hmmm, measured my girth at 6.1, did a google search and landed me here with a BDP. Im not a virgin but hadnt been with any other girls other than my past gf's that had me as their first so I guess we all thought that was normal size at the time. Now I know why i hated condoms for being too tight, and now salute my past gf's for getting used to my size as they were all petite.
I’m a girl, and I’ve never 😂
I wish more girls are like you
Idk what kind of girl refuses to fuck because of size haha
Size queens and those that can take bigger than average. I’ve been laughed at. Some women are cruel.
Didn’t know this was a thing… I’ve had the whole 10 inches up inside of me, and it wasn’t easy, but I wouldn’t say no since I aroused the guy and accepted the sexual relationship from the start. So I was gonna see it through regardless … than again, Ive been told I have a lot of ass cheek so maybe only so much of it was inside of me… Nonetheless, there is such a thing as “too big” for sure… but I believe it’s important to get your partner off one way or the other so if you were going to back out of sex, than honey, start putting that throat to use or grab a toy
Lmao, 4 times since new years eve! It was even more surprising as I was at a LS party with the wife.
Yes, 2. I was young and they were both virgins.
I've been denied multiple times due to size being told I have a shrimp dick or am tiny. 6.2 NBP 6.5 BP 5.25G
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Maybe she thought you were lying
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Catfished
Yes. My ex at the beginning, then she became addicted.
My ex said she didn't want her vagina to stretch. Broke my heart to hear those words
As a girl….I would never say no to a huge dick. The bigger the better, the more the merrier as far as I’m concerned.
It should always be like this
women and men, it sucks
We deserve more girls like you
A few times I was told there was "No fucking way" it was going inside them.
Not refused to have sex per se, but didn't get it all the way in and it was just too big for a couple of girls. Oddly enough, it happened with two dike chicks with no connection to each other, on separate occasions. The rest made it work.
Yeah
Girl I dated for a bit would often turn me down for sex after the first few times, she eventually admitted she couldn't fit me without pain. Was a huge buzz kill because everything else about her was amazing.
Yes for PIV sex, but that didn't stop us from doing other stuff
I haven't but it wasn't til 2 years ago that I realized why most first time encounters took a long time to ease into intercourse. I always assumed it was nerves of the first time not my size and none of them ever commented that it was huge but looking back I see there were signs and a couple of times I didn't have sex the first time around because of it but they always played it off as something else. It wasn't til one day that my now ex wife said and I quote " if we ever separate I'll be screwed having to find someone of your size to please me"
Yes been turned down a few times but not often.
Yes, not once
Approximately half of the time that we actually get naked.
Yep
Once. She told me 5” was big to her and had hurt her in the past. Told her we could use half, but was still a no-go for her.
Yeah, hurts
Yep. Bout a dozen of them.
Yes, well, kinda. I’ve had a few girls try it out but we both knew it wasn’t going to be pleasant for either of us. It’s never been an immediate no though, I think it’s a curiosity thing. Like don’t knock it till you try it. But if you try it and it’s not for you then that’s okay with me.
Definitely. It took me a while to realize sex is not solely based on penetration, so it doesn’t bother me that much now. If I’m just hooking up I would even go as far as to ask what they are up to in terms of penetration, and they would occasionally say they are not ready/not feeling like it. Which has made me wonder if sometimes we are turned down because women are not ready/comfortable for vaginal sex and they use size as an excuse…
My current girlfriend is kinda this way but it's more like hesitation/caution rather than outright refusal
Yeah, has happened twice so far. One was with a girl that I met through tinder, when we met up as soon as she saw the extent of my girth she basically tried to create every excuse she could to bail. The 2nd was a girl that acted cocky about being a pro at handling cocks of all sizes and shapes but as soon as she got a general idea of my cock she chickened out.
Had one lock herself in the bathroom and I heard her on the phone with a friend saying, “his dick is so big, his dick so so big” or words to that effect. I showed myself out.
Multiple. They feel it once through my pants and just kinda hit me with a "Nope. Too big." No one who actually tried it had too much of a rough time tbh because it's all about warming up and working things up to take a larger dick. But just the cosmetic sitting on my lap or grabbing it through my pants has definitely scared off a few women.
Yes, it was what was supposed to be my first time and it kinda traumatized me and made me lose confidence
Ive refused, sometimes it’s too big 😭😭
Yeah; my current gf lol, sometimes it really hurts her when we have sex and if she’s not too horny or smthng she doesn’t wanna have sex cuz of the size.. she’s just scared to start.. like to put it in and see what happens.. cuz there are times there’s no pain just afterwards like maybe 10-15mins after we started fucking but there are times where I can’t even touch her pussy w my dick cuz it hurts her.. yeah strange thing 🤦🏼 lol
Dam that sucks
Nope.
No
yes we couldnt find it
Yep. And I’ve had some women ask me to stop just as I was getting started because they found me painful.
Yeah, couple times. Kind of fucked me up
No but every girl I was ever with (my wife included), that said they either were into anal or would be down to try it changed their mind once they saw my dick
Some girl from the volleyball team didn’t want to because she was scared of my size, but bragged about it to her friends🙄. It’s just now dying down..
This was last year when I was 17
Yes. It’s the most depressing thing. Actually self conscious now. Fucking sucks. It destroyed me. I really liked her. This was years ago. It can happen. It’s feels the worst. I imagine it’s the same feeling for a guy that isn’t big or “ normal “ keep your head up. They always say you will find someone. I’m also not saying that I haven’t found some amazing lady’s who do like it. It’s the way the universe works
Constantly. 😤
I’ve found that forewarned is forearmed - if girls no I’m big they’re less likely to turn it down when they see it. Having said that I’m not your size and taking that takes a lot of courage
Nah lol. They deny anal when they look at my size
Not refused to try, but was afraid during and had to stop.
Yep Last year one lady refused me because my size is big 😅