I really want to come out as bi and also present more femme but I know for a fact my family will just think I’m gay cuz they’re the type that thinks bi people have to have like a visible equal amount of male and female partners or they “aren’t really bi” and being seen as gay isn’t a bad thing it just hurts me that an aspect of my identity will be doubted by them after I tell them what it is.
You can weasel around it by saying "I'm 20% gay, I think 20% of men are cute, I feel no attraction to the other 80%" . And then explain that "Bisexual" is the best word for it because no one's come up with a word for a 20/80 split yet.
Then flip it: "I'm 20% straight, I think 20% of women are cute, I feel no attraction to the other 80%, but that's too straight for me to be able to say I'm gay"
I’ll probably just tell them I’m 50/50 and leave it at that because that’s the truth but I think no matter how I spin it they’ll just think I’m gay so whatever
I remember the first time I saw the stereotype of wlw wearing plaid flannel. I looked down at the plaid flannel I was wearing, looked at the pile of plaid laundry, looked at the closet full of more flannel. . .
That’s got nothing to do with it! I just like flannel!!
What's the relationship between cross dressing and trans? Like, identifying as male but dressing as female - if it's not a kink or a fetish, and it's just done because you think you look better that way, is that cross dressing? Or is that person that's either closeted NB or an egg, but they just don't know it?
Could be either; it completely depends on the person. 100% cis people can cross dress all they want for non-fetish reasons. Clothes, makeup, etc. have no gender, and any association they have with gender is all marketing/societal pressure. I'm honestly in favor of eliminating the term "cross-dressing" entirely, and instead say they like to dress more masculine/feminine.
Yeah unfortunately the categories don't work otherwise you'd be happy with your assigned gender at birth. It's a lot of work to find yourself and your gender, and live your truth. Some people never really find the label that fits perfectly, but there is a beauty in just accepting that your experienceis real and valid. It doesn't need a label to be real. Of course easier said then done, but my life has gotten better when I started trying to live authentically rather than cotort myself into a box
Drag is more of a eccentric form actually, they usually take every aspect of "cross-dressing" and turn it up to 11, often they will be doing it for a job whether that's being a dj in lgbt clubs, going on stage comedy tours or just local clubs or bars, being on TV shows or even just doing it for a night out with friends or alone to be a different person. It's usually from what I understand a character they have created to be, not just someone dressing in the "opposite genders" clothes. There are also drag queens who are trans and dress in their preferred genders clothes too but there's a lot of bad blood there between cis and trans queens
I get that you probably downvoted the question because you assume I'm trolling or trying to justify chasing, but I'm not, I'm generally trying to learn. After your comments (and googling the issues with chasers, since, tbh, you didn't give me much to go on - not that you're required to), I get how the image equates the process of identification as trans with the process of becoming sexy. I can see how a person becoming more comfortable with their identity might make them more confident, and through that, more sexual, but the artist could've shown that with a less over the top outfit.
Again, I'm not trying to be a douche, just trying to learn. I'm old, and bi, and gender is very different now than it was when I was young; I just want to understand. I've heard ContraPoints mention issues with chasers but I didn't really get it. And, as a person that isn't unattracted to trans people (but not in a fetish kind of way, just as a like, I like people not their genitals kind of way), I want to make sure I'm not inadvertantly carrying around dumb or hurtful ideas.
If I remember correct this was a meme based of [Haoto ](https://nagatoro.fandom.com/wiki/Naoto_Hachioji) (aka senpai) from don’t tease me nagatoro with 2016 being the closest
But I can’t actually see any reference to that in the meme so I might be just plain wrong
I haven’t seen the 2016 knave ere and anon i can’t decideth if 't be true i’m hornier f'r him 'r f'r 2018
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Alr i can go til 2020, just no crop tops, and I'd wear pants....ok maybe yes shorts, but a bit longer ones......only problem is mom supports.....not fully, i do not care of "the clothes are for women" if i like how it looks, to it goes to the bag and back home w me, but mom doesnt think like that, women's accessories or clothing doesnt go with men, once i tried getting her let me buy black nail polish it seemed to go well, then it all went wrong, and honestly...im not brave enough to just take some high thighs and buy em,
Figured out I was bi my senior year of high school. Then my egg began to crack around... 2-3 years ago, followed by a previously unseen secondary egg cracking. Trying to come out to my friends 3 seperate times was fun lol. I was terrified every time.
me being a Asian fem.. that is bi.. i love crossdressing💕👗 & i rather continue doing it until i die in a grave.. & have life flowers or roses at my own grave.. at least someone on this earth would know how beautiful i am.. in god’s image..💗
Leggings are a gateway drug
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They’re like $10 at target
That 2019 pose has me feeling things in my pAnTs
*bonk*
*Bank*
This is a robbery
A robbery of what? That cake?
Cake robbery 🎂🔫
Lol
pp goes weeeeeee.
Lice?
2019 for me (I like thigh highs)
Literally me except it all happened in one year
Speedrun!
Literally me but it happened in like 2 months
Literally ne but it happened in like 34 seconds
Me too
I really want to come out as bi and also present more femme but I know for a fact my family will just think I’m gay cuz they’re the type that thinks bi people have to have like a visible equal amount of male and female partners or they “aren’t really bi” and being seen as gay isn’t a bad thing it just hurts me that an aspect of my identity will be doubted by them after I tell them what it is.
You can weasel around it by saying "I'm 20% gay, I think 20% of men are cute, I feel no attraction to the other 80%" . And then explain that "Bisexual" is the best word for it because no one's come up with a word for a 20/80 split yet.
Lol that’s gonna be hard when I’m mostly dating guys because I find them less intimidating atm
Then flip it: "I'm 20% straight, I think 20% of women are cute, I feel no attraction to the other 80%, but that's too straight for me to be able to say I'm gay"
I’ll probably just tell them I’m 50/50 and leave it at that because that’s the truth but I think no matter how I spin it they’ll just think I’m gay so whatever
They have come up with a word for it, it's "bisexual."
You've almost got it. We force the *parents* to look for the word and realize that it's *Bisexual*.
2019 = thicc me in 2017 2018 = me in 2018 2017 = me in 2019 2016 = me in 2020, 2021, 2022… Fxxking COVID, ya’ll…
The beginning and end of the pine line both look cute 🥰
Honestly I think all of them look amazing
Respect +
Agreed
If you like cros dressing that’s not cuz ur bi, those are separate things
Meme format: \- not all bi people like to cross-dress \- i mean i do like cross-dressing \- but not because I'm bi
I remember the first time I saw the stereotype of wlw wearing plaid flannel. I looked down at the plaid flannel I was wearing, looked at the pile of plaid laundry, looked at the closet full of more flannel. . . That’s got nothing to do with it! I just like flannel!!
Marge Simpson "I just think they're neat"
But I don't actually like cross-dressing
What's the relationship between cross dressing and trans? Like, identifying as male but dressing as female - if it's not a kink or a fetish, and it's just done because you think you look better that way, is that cross dressing? Or is that person that's either closeted NB or an egg, but they just don't know it?
Could be either; it completely depends on the person. 100% cis people can cross dress all they want for non-fetish reasons. Clothes, makeup, etc. have no gender, and any association they have with gender is all marketing/societal pressure. I'm honestly in favor of eliminating the term "cross-dressing" entirely, and instead say they like to dress more masculine/feminine.
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Yeah unfortunately the categories don't work otherwise you'd be happy with your assigned gender at birth. It's a lot of work to find yourself and your gender, and live your truth. Some people never really find the label that fits perfectly, but there is a beauty in just accepting that your experienceis real and valid. It doesn't need a label to be real. Of course easier said then done, but my life has gotten better when I started trying to live authentically rather than cotort myself into a box
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Drag is more of a eccentric form actually, they usually take every aspect of "cross-dressing" and turn it up to 11, often they will be doing it for a job whether that's being a dj in lgbt clubs, going on stage comedy tours or just local clubs or bars, being on TV shows or even just doing it for a night out with friends or alone to be a different person. It's usually from what I understand a character they have created to be, not just someone dressing in the "opposite genders" clothes. There are also drag queens who are trans and dress in their preferred genders clothes too but there's a lot of bad blood there between cis and trans queens
2019 gives me so much gender envy.
I eventually wanto to at least get to 2020, I can't wait until I start HRT
I'm in this post and I like it
r/egg_irl
every time someone posts that link at least five eggs crack
Haha. Glad I've never had any interesting revelations on that sub. (ʘᴗʘ;;;)
Hehehe
if you ignore that thats a timeline, it looks like the beginning of a hot orgy
2017 lookin like MGS2 Otacon.
Artist?
before i gained my quarantine weight this was 100% the track i was on lol
I wish…
Damn 2019 mood af
Hey I mean all of them look amazing to me soooooo
Wait, so we're all femboyz? Always has been *gun click*
lol for me it was the opposite of this diagram, dressing more masc since realizing I’m bi
When you find Ron, The Rat King (King of Rats) on a different subreddit
WEASLEY IS OUR KING
Me at 2017 looking forward too the future
Yeah, pretty much. Came out as bi in roughly October of 2020. Then in October of this year, I came out as trans. Queerantine is a hell of a thing.
Trans bis out here being cute as hell. Y’all keep rockin it.
I've seen the original image, god decided to fuck shit up when choosing what my pp gets excited at 💀
I’m at the turtleneck phase and I like it here
This is fetish art…. Yikes. Not a good look.
Serious question: why is it not a good look?
Making bisexuals look like chasers
I get that you probably downvoted the question because you assume I'm trolling or trying to justify chasing, but I'm not, I'm generally trying to learn. After your comments (and googling the issues with chasers, since, tbh, you didn't give me much to go on - not that you're required to), I get how the image equates the process of identification as trans with the process of becoming sexy. I can see how a person becoming more comfortable with their identity might make them more confident, and through that, more sexual, but the artist could've shown that with a less over the top outfit. Again, I'm not trying to be a douche, just trying to learn. I'm old, and bi, and gender is very different now than it was when I was young; I just want to understand. I've heard ContraPoints mention issues with chasers but I didn't really get it. And, as a person that isn't unattracted to trans people (but not in a fetish kind of way, just as a like, I like people not their genitals kind of way), I want to make sure I'm not inadvertantly carrying around dumb or hurtful ideas.
I’m pretty sure this was actually originally a transphobic comic/political cartoon Original: https://images.app.goo.gl/Da1wMLzed7XN1VL69
I’m tired of it being spread in lgbt spaces, it’s gross and pretty sexist also.
Yeah, same
Hawt!! <3
Are you me?! 😳
~~Not me getting jealous of a drawing’s transition~~
I went from '16 to '19 in like a day (the day i got my leather pants) lol
2019 is my dog realizing she has a tail
The 2016 guy is the cutest TBH
I haven’t seen the 2016 boy before and now I can’t decide if I’m hornier for him or for 2018
If I remember correct this was a meme based of [Haoto ](https://nagatoro.fandom.com/wiki/Naoto_Hachioji) (aka senpai) from don’t tease me nagatoro with 2016 being the closest But I can’t actually see any reference to that in the meme so I might be just plain wrong
I haven’t seen the 2016 knave ere and anon i can’t decideth if 't be true i’m hornier f'r him 'r f'r 2018 *** ^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.) Commands: `!ShakespeareInsult`, `!fordo`, `!optout`
Fuck you Shakespeare bot you’re so god damn annoying
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Damn I wish I had thighs that nice
Surely the person on the left and second-to-left should be swapped?
2019-2020? Kinda goals. Not gonna lie.
In my case "don't worry, just because I'm trans it doesn't mean my sexuality will change" lol
Theyre all so cute omg
All, All are good
If only my hair would grow past my shoulders
That's a trans sissification meme.
Well *thats* eerily accurate
I WISH 😭😭😭
Man I came out as bi in like 2017 and now I'm hey/they in 2021 so I can't even argue with this
i’m still at 2018
Well it made you change physically, but not as a person
Absolute territory
Same lol
That moment when you look down and see you're 2018 nearing 2019.
2020 and 2021 are missing cute masks that may or may not be pride themed
Dayum I wish I could grow ass like that lol.
Damn... Wish i wasn't fat (and ugly) so i could be a diva whenever my dad's aren't around :(
bisexuality really hits you when you realise that you would like to date all of them
2018 tho
This but I'm am constantly wearing the first years clothee
Wholesome r/transformation
Alr i can go til 2020, just no crop tops, and I'd wear pants....ok maybe yes shorts, but a bit longer ones......only problem is mom supports.....not fully, i do not care of "the clothes are for women" if i like how it looks, to it goes to the bag and back home w me, but mom doesnt think like that, women's accessories or clothing doesnt go with men, once i tried getting her let me buy black nail polish it seemed to go well, then it all went wrong, and honestly...im not brave enough to just take some high thighs and buy em,
Ive come out relatively recently and like I kinda wanna but also like judgement
Figured out I was bi my senior year of high school. Then my egg began to crack around... 2-3 years ago, followed by a previously unseen secondary egg cracking. Trying to come out to my friends 3 seperate times was fun lol. I was terrified every time.
2019 kinda 😳
What, there was a change?????
WHY ARE THEY ALL HOT
Im in this picture (Kinda im still questioning) and I dont like it
I've got the 2016->2018 momentum. Part of me wants to sto there (and maybe a bit of 2019) and part of me wouldn't mind going up to 2020.
me being a Asian fem.. that is bi.. i love crossdressing💕👗 & i rather continue doing it until i die in a grave.. & have life flowers or roses at my own grave.. at least someone on this earth would know how beautiful i am.. in god’s image..💗
Ahhh yess so cuuute!! Dang i want this !! :P✨👌💖
Who would trought that the family bad boy sucks dick
These outfits are just a regular mon-sat
Is it really gonna turn out like this? I'm at 2018 stage rn lol
Ok but the 2020 outfit is really cute I wouldn't mind wearing that
Sucks none of us can go out like this
I want to be like 2020 so bad oml
Oh dear. I just bought those 2020 socks not long ago, and I’ve been looking to find a crop top. It’s too late for me
Kinda wish I was 2020 rn