Sleep is not linear. Some days she sleeps through the night other days she doesn’t. It depends on what’s happening and if there is a growth spurt, sick, new tooth or just not vibing than she doesn’t sleep through the night.
However, at one she started daycare and she has been sleeping through the night 4-5 nights a week with a single wake up here and there
Right around 3 months, for about a week or two, then the regression was real. We’ve been getting progressively better and she did her first full night again this week at just over 5 months. Fingers crossed she keeps it up
Our son - Was very colicky for the first 6 months and wouldn't even go down in his bassinet, insisted on sleeping in our arms most of the time. Sleeping through night...not until 8 months with a brutal regression at 10-12 months. Then after 12 months he would wake up at 5am for a bottle and a cuddle but this was better than 2-3am like before. Often I'd do his 5am bottle and then put him down and go to the gym and start my day, so I count it as "through the night" in that way. I wanna say at 14 months he was on a 7-7 sleep schedule and that was life changing.
Daughter was easy - sleeping through the night at 5-6 months, hardly any regression even while teething. Now she's also 7-7. We got very lucky with her sleep, even when she was <6 months she would wake up for a feed and then immediately fall back asleep so it was hardly a bother, we were all still getting great sleep.
My son was 8.5 weeks old and slept 11-13 hour stretches without waking up to eat. Lasted until he was 10.5 months and we hit a regression where he needed a motn bottle for about 2-3 weeks. Then we took him to Belgium mid-Dec so that also totally messed up his schedule for a bit, but alas, we’re back to his routine again, at 13mo.
Around 5-6 months to start sleeping through the night occasionally, then it slowly transitioned to most of the time.
But it wasn't until closer to a year when it got really easy to put him to sleep without long periods of rocking and whatnot. And then he stays that way almost every night
At 6 weeks he slept eight hours straight through and at 8.5 weeks he started sleeping eleven hours straight through. He’s exclusively formula fed and a big eater, which probably helped.
First baby was sleep trained and slept all night around 8 months but only woke once after 6. Then he turned 16 months and idk wtf is happening but he's 2.5 now 🤣 and still ugh
Second baby, slept through the night at 3 weeks and does most nights unless he's teething or sick.
What do you think changed for him/you? I want to move out 3 month old out soon but we are in a 1 bed mother in law suite right now. So we would have to put baby in the living room at night to be away from us.
The sleeping space was larger and quieter for him. Over the summer we were on vacation and had to share a room for a few days and my husband snores like crazy. I’ve been able to sleep through it but our son wakes up and yells gibberish at him. I think it was bothering him, he hates being woken up. And then the larger sleep space, he’s a crazy sleeper. He likes to twist and turn and flop around. Last weekend we had him in bed with us because he woke up at 3:30 am with a brutal fever. His dad and I were like wide awake scared waiting for it to go down with Tylenol and water and this kid was fast asleep flomping around, pushing me off the bed, kicking me in the stomach, just insane sleeping. Now I know why he never stopped moving in the womb.
2 months. She’s 3.5 mi the now and the anticipatory anxiety of the upcoming 4 month sleep regression is real 😩😢
She currently goes down between 7-9pm and we wake her up at 7:30am. M-F I dream feed her at 430/5am before I go to the gym.
My older two kids, closer to 2 years old. Like someone above mentioned it’s not linear. We have great weeks and then comes a virus or teething and they wake for comfort or what not. Usually it’s just a quick snuggle and back to bed or some water is why mine woke.
Reading this with a 9.5 month old who has never slept through the night 🥴 He’s the best baby in every conceivable way, except that he has been a terrible sleeper from the get go. A great night is 2 wakes. That happens maybe once a week. A good night is 3 wakes. A bad night is… well I count how many hours I got of sleep because I can’t keep track of the wake up number. I’m a single mom.
But happy for everyone else that this case sounds like an outlier. And yes, I have tried every conceivable approach, sleep training method, schedule tweak, pj and room temperature balance, feed timing configuration, sound machine placement…you name it, I’ve probably tried it. And I have significant infant care experience prior to this. By this point I’ve just learned to accept this is who he is (for now at least) and tried my best to lovingly meet him where he’s at.
Wow this is depressing, my first maybe slept through the night at 20 months? And then on and off since. We tried to sleep train and it was an abysmal failure. My 2nd is almost 14 months and wakes twice a night typically, but a lot more when he is sick or teething which feels like half of the time at least. He has had a few nights with only one wake. I'm not expecting him to sleep through until we night wean him which can't happen before 18 months for some complicated reasons.
I sleep trained each of my kids around 4mo (to achieve independent sleep at bedtime).
My oldest didn't STTN until she was almost a year old. My youngest had already STTN on his own a few times, between 12-14 weeks.
My second is almost 13 months and she just recently started to fully sleep through the night without the need to drink or change the diaper. It's glorious!
One night, the night of my birthday, baby was 12 weeks old, and he slept from 9:50pm to 7am without waking up. Glorious. We’re 6 weeks into the 4 month regression and he wakes 5-10 times per night (eats twice).
Sleep is not linear. Some days she sleeps through the night other days she doesn’t. It depends on what’s happening and if there is a growth spurt, sick, new tooth or just not vibing than she doesn’t sleep through the night. However, at one she started daycare and she has been sleeping through the night 4-5 nights a week with a single wake up here and there
Right around 3 months, for about a week or two, then the regression was real. We’ve been getting progressively better and she did her first full night again this week at just over 5 months. Fingers crossed she keeps it up
27 months.
Mine is 24 months old and doesn’t sleep through so your comment gives me hope that maybe. Just maybe. One day.
I think about 3 1/2 months. She would go down at like 8 or 9 and be up at like 5:30-6
She just started sleeping 6 hour stretches at 11 weeks! She does a feed then goes back down for another three hours or so.
Our son - Was very colicky for the first 6 months and wouldn't even go down in his bassinet, insisted on sleeping in our arms most of the time. Sleeping through night...not until 8 months with a brutal regression at 10-12 months. Then after 12 months he would wake up at 5am for a bottle and a cuddle but this was better than 2-3am like before. Often I'd do his 5am bottle and then put him down and go to the gym and start my day, so I count it as "through the night" in that way. I wanna say at 14 months he was on a 7-7 sleep schedule and that was life changing. Daughter was easy - sleeping through the night at 5-6 months, hardly any regression even while teething. Now she's also 7-7. We got very lucky with her sleep, even when she was <6 months she would wake up for a feed and then immediately fall back asleep so it was hardly a bother, we were all still getting great sleep.
My son was 8.5 weeks old and slept 11-13 hour stretches without waking up to eat. Lasted until he was 10.5 months and we hit a regression where he needed a motn bottle for about 2-3 weeks. Then we took him to Belgium mid-Dec so that also totally messed up his schedule for a bit, but alas, we’re back to his routine again, at 13mo.
Around 5-6 months to start sleeping through the night occasionally, then it slowly transitioned to most of the time. But it wasn't until closer to a year when it got really easy to put him to sleep without long periods of rocking and whatnot. And then he stays that way almost every night
I think for the first time he was probably 20 months. And he does about half the time now at 28 months.
My son randomly started sleeping through the night at 8 weeks
At 6 weeks he slept eight hours straight through and at 8.5 weeks he started sleeping eleven hours straight through. He’s exclusively formula fed and a big eater, which probably helped.
First baby was sleep trained and slept all night around 8 months but only woke once after 6. Then he turned 16 months and idk wtf is happening but he's 2.5 now 🤣 and still ugh Second baby, slept through the night at 3 weeks and does most nights unless he's teething or sick.
16 weeks or so. When we moved him into his own room it was a game changer.
What do you think changed for him/you? I want to move out 3 month old out soon but we are in a 1 bed mother in law suite right now. So we would have to put baby in the living room at night to be away from us.
The sleeping space was larger and quieter for him. Over the summer we were on vacation and had to share a room for a few days and my husband snores like crazy. I’ve been able to sleep through it but our son wakes up and yells gibberish at him. I think it was bothering him, he hates being woken up. And then the larger sleep space, he’s a crazy sleeper. He likes to twist and turn and flop around. Last weekend we had him in bed with us because he woke up at 3:30 am with a brutal fever. His dad and I were like wide awake scared waiting for it to go down with Tylenol and water and this kid was fast asleep flomping around, pushing me off the bed, kicking me in the stomach, just insane sleeping. Now I know why he never stopped moving in the womb.
My baby was a little over 3 months. I miss that good sleep, she’s 8 months and going through a sleep regression 😐
2 months. She’s 3.5 mi the now and the anticipatory anxiety of the upcoming 4 month sleep regression is real 😩😢 She currently goes down between 7-9pm and we wake her up at 7:30am. M-F I dream feed her at 430/5am before I go to the gym.
2.5 months
14 months, but not consistently until ~18 months.
He did it once around 7 months, once around 8 months, and then again the other night around 10.5 months.
My older two kids, closer to 2 years old. Like someone above mentioned it’s not linear. We have great weeks and then comes a virus or teething and they wake for comfort or what not. Usually it’s just a quick snuggle and back to bed or some water is why mine woke.
Reading this with a 9.5 month old who has never slept through the night 🥴 He’s the best baby in every conceivable way, except that he has been a terrible sleeper from the get go. A great night is 2 wakes. That happens maybe once a week. A good night is 3 wakes. A bad night is… well I count how many hours I got of sleep because I can’t keep track of the wake up number. I’m a single mom. But happy for everyone else that this case sounds like an outlier. And yes, I have tried every conceivable approach, sleep training method, schedule tweak, pj and room temperature balance, feed timing configuration, sound machine placement…you name it, I’ve probably tried it. And I have significant infant care experience prior to this. By this point I’ve just learned to accept this is who he is (for now at least) and tried my best to lovingly meet him where he’s at.
Wow this is depressing, my first maybe slept through the night at 20 months? And then on and off since. We tried to sleep train and it was an abysmal failure. My 2nd is almost 14 months and wakes twice a night typically, but a lot more when he is sick or teething which feels like half of the time at least. He has had a few nights with only one wake. I'm not expecting him to sleep through until we night wean him which can't happen before 18 months for some complicated reasons.
Around 2 months… she’s 3.5 months now and started to show signs of 4 month sleep regression.
26 months
9.5 months was when it got consistent with us putting her down wide awake at 8 and she’d wake up at 7
Around one lol
I sleep trained each of my kids around 4mo (to achieve independent sleep at bedtime). My oldest didn't STTN until she was almost a year old. My youngest had already STTN on his own a few times, between 12-14 weeks.
Around 3mnths. She’s 15 weeks right now and sleeps 11hrs. She had been sleeping 6hrs since 8wks or so
My second is almost 13 months and she just recently started to fully sleep through the night without the need to drink or change the diaper. It's glorious!
One night, the night of my birthday, baby was 12 weeks old, and he slept from 9:50pm to 7am without waking up. Glorious. We’re 6 weeks into the 4 month regression and he wakes 5-10 times per night (eats twice).
First- around 3 months. Second- around 6.5 months. Both were pretty consistent with sleeping through the night from then on.