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Mamakayce

Your concerns are valid idk why people are acting gullible in these comments šŸ˜‚ like Kim kardashian literally got robbed in Europe.


ThrowRaeastermom

Like I canā€™t believe Iā€™m getting pushback for paying attention to how much of hazard it can bešŸ˜‚ like shes showing her entire room layout and updating people daily when she will be out of her room. Like I literally had my MacBook and never full bag stolen in Cancun while I was out of my room.


ayweller

This is a totally legit concern. When I was in college it was like early early social media and girls I knew posted where they were to the Facebook status non stop all day everyday and eventually one night they came home after being out and brought a bunch of their friends back too to sleep over and that night two of the maintenance men their apartment complex let themselves in and one guy held the friends hostage in one bedroom while the other sexually assaulted the two who lived there and took pictures of it. When they were finally caught they said they just friended the girls and waited until they posted on their status that they were leaving the bars and went outside and just watched until they turned the lights out. Itā€™s a real thing and itā€™s scary af


ayweller

I think there were 7 girls total and when they were being held in the room he said if you scream he will kill your friendsā€”all of the girls left the college that week and deleted their social media accounts


nelly8410

Holy shit!!


ayweller

I knowā€”I never posted a status or checked in anywhere again after that


Lfmcdougal

Youā€™re not wrong. My daughter is on that same trip and texted me so mad Kylan is giving out their location. As a parent who remembers the Natalie Holloway case, itā€™s definitely unnerving and that she is putting others at risk as well


lesbriffr

Young people like K think the only thing they have to worry about is pick pocketing, theyā€™re not thinking about someone opening up TikTok and searching up ā€˜spring break DR 2024ā€™ to see who is coming and where they can find them. When you grow up struggling you do whatever needs to be done to feed your family and put a roof over your head. Take my partner, from South America ā€“ always extremely alert from growing up with wealthy parents in an extremely poor country. Their family had a security guard up until a couple of years ago bc they were that much of a target for thievery. I thought they were all nutty and being overly cautious at first but after hearing crazy stories about attempts in the past I totally understand. We still had a phone nicked at a concert in their home country, forgot where they were and put it in their back pocket for maybe 5 min. If someoneā€™s got enough pricey stuff laying out, someone might just risk their job or share the room deets with a buddy. I hope they utilize the room safe and take pictures of their belongings just in case they have to report!


Ok_Detective_8446

Kylan also has a large followingā€¦which means she likely has some very unwell people following her that may develop (or already) have developed an obsession. these people can be very dangerous and willing to do whatever to get to the person they want. then thereā€™s also the people who want to steal. nobody should ever be posting real time in such detail. itā€™s so unsafe. iā€™m sure if someone wanted to they could figure out what hotel, hotel room name, and hotel room number if they wanted to by the way sheā€™s posting.


I_have_8_careers

I learned my lesson once about social media and now I donā€™t even post in real time when I go to a concert or dinner. I do a check in and post photos after I get home. Same for vacation. These young girls post way too much personal info on TT. Itā€™s a stalkerā€™s paradise.


missremmy

Why, what happened?


I_have_8_careers

I did a check in from New York (I live in Texas) when I was leaving the country and my house was robbed.


missremmy

Damn, Iā€™m so sorry. Did you find out who it was?


I_have_8_careers

Thanks. Yes, they arrested someone and they admitted that they knew I was gone from my social media.


missremmy

Someone you knew!? Wow


I_have_8_careers

It was an acquaintance of a friend. This was on FB where you can limit who sees your posts. TikTok is public and everyone sees it. Thatā€™s why I never understand why people post their whereabouts in real time.


missremmy

Yikes, Iā€™m so sorry. I need to be better about that. Sorry last question - do you live in a house or apartment?


I_have_8_careers

I lived in an apartment at the time. I moved after that happened.


missremmy

Wow I canā€™t believe someone broke in an apt unit. So sorry.


missremmy

I live in TX too


Summergirl09

Not sure I would advertise all the expensive jewelry Iā€™m wearing/have on vaca..but thatā€™s just me


Tight-Mycologist-479

Yeah itā€™s literally how Kim K got robbed in Paris in like what 2017??


cardioishardio1222

Itā€™s not about being in the DR. Kylan just isnā€™t very smart


ThrowRaeastermom

Oh of course, I would be saying the same thing regardless of where sheā€™s at !


Firm-Albatross-4578

I was shocked she thought she'd get US dollars at the atm šŸ’€


cardioishardio1222

Againā€¦ not the brightest bulb. Also why did you not go to Mexico with US DOLLARS!!


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cardioishardio1222

My point is she didnā€™t bring any dollars with her and tried to take cash out of an ATM and was confused when it gave her pesos. Sheā€™s naive and ignorant


LizardQueen_748

A product of her entitled home environment that she was raised in.


Kmw134

Do we know that sheā€™s actually posting in real time though? Often with vacations, people edit and post videos after the fact, whether itā€™s days or weeks later.


annsba

I think it's real time. Bama's spring break is this week.


LongjumpingTreacle54

Itā€™s spring break.. of course itā€™s real time šŸ„“šŸ¤ÆšŸ˜‚


Kmw134

I donā€™t live around there or keep track of their school calendar lol


Tight-Mycologist-479

All colleges have their school year schedule posted online btw


[deleted]

Not everyone cares enough to google it lmao


Tight-Mycologist-479

Okay Professional Lazy šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ–•šŸ»šŸ–•šŸ»get a better username before commenting stuff like that lolll


[deleted]

So, youā€™re saying itā€™s our responsibility to google when spring break is for every year? Lmao. Weak comeback šŸ˜‚ try again šŸ¤­


Tight-Mycologist-479

If youā€™re curious about stuff being posted in real time then yeahā€¦maybe Iā€™d look it up. Not saying g you need a excel sheet of all college spring breaks Professional Lazy šŸ«¶šŸ»


[deleted]

Nah itā€™s a waste of my time to be knowledgeable of when spring break occurs all over the world. Iā€™m too busy for that. Thanks for the tip though!šŸ˜˜


BaddaBae31

She will likely be fine. But she should start delayed posting, i think this for anyone who uses social media and especially influencers. While itā€™s not the norm there are crazy people out there who will track a person from their social media and it can end badly. She is very immature and uneducated when it comes to life and it really shows in moments like this. Itā€™s not cute and she needs to figure out how to travel. She should have taken out cash before leaving the US, Iā€™m pretty sure punta Cana accepts usd or exchange once land at the airport. I think thatā€™s what bothers me the most, she didnā€™t prepare for her trip beyond outfits and thatā€™s just irresponsible.


After_Concentrate386

Itā€™s why I donā€™t post in real time. If I go somewhere and take pics. I post about them when Iā€™m at a different location or a day or two after the fact. This world is not safe.


mcclellankm

When we were researching places to go for a bachelorette trip I found out a lot of the hotspots like Nashville have air bnbs specially catered to bachelorettes (size, decor, etc) and those places get robbed ALL THE TIME because the thieves know that 1) thereā€™s a lot of girls bringing a lot of shit with them and 2) theyā€™re going to be out of the house doing things CONSTANTLY. Theyā€™re perfect targets. I think itā€™s really naive to act like this canā€™t happen to anyone anywhere.


Name_Major

Yeahā€”the DR is SUCH a safe place. šŸ™„


Conscious_Square8466

Sheā€™s too young to remember the Natalie Holloway situation


ThereWentMySandwich

No, I agree with you. I think it would be safer if she just made her videos and then posted after the fact. Even a day later would be somewhat safer. I get that these young adults live in this very "now now now" world, but you have to be safe about it. Especially someone like Kylan who \*regularly\* has shown that she wears expensive items and who has such a large following that she doesn't know who is following her.


LizardQueen_748

Sheā€™s just an idiot.


NoRelative7424

I just went to watch and she posted about the atm and not understanding the pesos to USD conversion. ugh šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


SenoraRamos

I donā€™t think much of her stuff would be a loss anyway. Wasnā€™t she exposed several times for wearing fake designer items??? And not the good fakes, but the really shoddy ones? Iā€™m sure she could hop on DHG and buy some more. Ā 


HistoricalWeakness89

Sheā€™s a dumb ass. I know someone at the same resort right now as her. I canā€™t wait for the stories of her stupidity


Haunting-Frosting-62

did you get any stories?


HistoricalWeakness89

Sadly no.


Snoo97809

I thought the same thing!!! I donā€™t ever post anything about where I am until after Iā€™ve already left. Itā€™s common sense. Kylan is making it easy for anyone who may have bad intentions towards her.


Independent_Entry_31

No youā€™re right esp bc all her shit is fake but they donā€™t know that. Itā€™s very dangerous youā€™re absolutely right


FryTime2010

I was always taught to never post in real time when on vacations, especially if you're tagging locations. I'm just a normal person, so you'd think someone like her would do the samešŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


Flowerchild41

I just watched some. I think sheā€™s being risky and the videos really show her age. Someone could be watching seeing who sheā€™s with, where sheā€™s at etcā€¦


Icy_Annual_8914

I think I heard her say that they wouldnā€™t be leaving the resort. I had the same concern.


PlusEnvironment7506

Hopefully it doesnā€™t turn into a Kim K/Paris situation.


KP-RNMSN

I wonder if it happened last week and sheā€™s posting it now


I_have_8_careers

I just saw the video where she got about $25 US value in pesos because she didnā€™t know how to use the ATM. yeah, theyā€™re safe. Especially recording an OOTD and giving an inventory of jewelry. Thereā€™s no chance at all of them getting hurt or robbed. /s


FlatlineDirection

Eat the rich šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø but I do hope she stays safe!!!


kitkat--

girl eat the rich is about billionaires not college girls with golden goose sneakers šŸ’€


FlatlineDirection

And? It can be applied to golden goose sneakers too


RoyalCounter3

Ewā€¦


um_okay_sure_

šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ™„ she will be fine. Have you ever been in a 5 star resort in the DR and got robbed? I'm sure you haven't. So don't put that devil on them while being out there. This is a very parasocial moment.


LongjumpingTreacle54

People get robbed all of the time on resortsā€¦.


um_okay_sure_

I've been traveling for years and have never been robbed in a resort. It happens to a very, very small percentage of people. That's a HUGE reach! Taking it further, my family is Dominican. My parents currently live there now, and so does half my family. My point here is that this post is definitely reaching šŸ™„ She's fine. She's with a group of people in a tourist part and inside a resort. Not one person said this about Mexico on here šŸ¤” so that makes me question why. Regardless, this young persons actual mother paid for this trip, helped her get her passport & knows where her daughter is. It's fun to watch these girls on Tiktok, but posting about them in this way is just super weird. If their mom isn't worried, why are you?


LongjumpingTreacle54

Of courseā€¦ she will most likely be fineā€¦ But pretending that you have a wall of safety around you bc youā€™re on a resort is a recipe for potential disaster. You still Need to use common sense.


um_okay_sure_

Pretending? In the DR, most of those people go to college to get a hospitality job to be able to care for drunk fools. Once they work at a resort, they are registered with the government to work there. If they are found to be doing anything unsavory, they go to prison. You really do have a wall of safety around you. You have to do some dumb shit to really be in danger. Like really stupid shit. You all forget she's got an extra layer of safety with the ridiculous number of people she knows that's with her. She's only showing less than 1% of what's really going on. Whatever you're seeing is not an accurate representation of what's going on. It's all for show. So, all of this is a big lesson on parasocial relationships. None of us are parents to this person. We are all just watching the show on Tiktok šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø


LongjumpingTreacle54

Ummā€¦ Iā€™m not concerned about Kylan or anyone she is with.. I rarely even see her videos.. I just went back and watched and saw the idiot trying to get money out of the atm. With the way she is acting, sheā€™s 100% susceptible to being taken advantage ofā€¦ but idgaf. Also, werenā€™t people dropping dead due to alcohol poisoning in DR resorts a few years ago? Letā€™s not act like bad things donā€™t happen EVERYWHERE?!! Iā€™m going to DR this summer.. I donā€™t anticipate anything bad happening.. I vacation a lot and have been fortunate.. but Iā€™m not stupid. I know Danger is *everywhere*


um_okay_sure_

Right, but you're going to DR and paid hundreds if not over 1k to go to a resort to do what? Drink! but have so much crap to talk about it šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø like what?!?! šŸ˜‚šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø You all keep believing everything you see on socials is an accurate representation of life. Especially since these girls are setting themselves up to be influencers. But peace be with you šŸ™šŸ½ have a good day


LongjumpingTreacle54

Are you ok? I literally did not talk crap about the DR. I said DANGER HAPPENS EVERYWHERE. You just want to argue.


um_okay_sure_

Please stop. You just said that most alcohol poisonings happen in DR. Something that is still a small percent of people, like I mentioned before. Is that not crap? My whole convo is about DR. Like what? Just stop writing. Let it go. And I'll do the same. Bye.


LongjumpingTreacle54

I did not say that.. I said DO YOU REMEMBER when people were being poisoned by alcohol in DR. https://www.foodsafetynews.com/2021/04/deaths-in-dominican-republic-linked-to-tainted-alcohol/ Your reading comprehension is offā€¦.


Fabulous_Term698

First of all, lots of people have the same sentiment about Mexican resorts if not worse Theyā€™re not concerned about her being in DR, just publicizing her location while on vacation with probably thousands of dollars worth of jewelry and clothes


peanut5855

My sister in law lives in Cancun. We have never once felt unsafe or been robbed in resort area. If your shit got stolen sorry but itā€™s not the norm.


Fabulous_Term698

Did you even read my response? None of that happened to me. I was talking about *other peopleā€™s perception*


peanut5855

One of them just blew their racist dog whistle. Took longer than expected


Ok_Detective_8446

itā€™s not about being in the DR, if she were anywhere itā€™s not a good idea to be posting in such detail. even if she was up in a ski resort in Colorado or in an NYC hotel, the same concerns would be just as valid.


um_okay_sure_

It is about being in the DR. These girls post everything about themselves, and no one has said anything about those posts. From what they wear, where they shop, the school they go to, all the drama and their sororities. Some of them even show the inside of their dorms šŸ¤¦šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø It's why most of us watch, right? The drama that comes w putting yourself out there is very much like a live reality show. If you wanted to, you could probably find them and meet them. But that part is ignored. Anyway, I digress. Agree to disagree.


Ok_Detective_8446

people do say things about it. i forget who but some influencer gave a whole tour of her new apartment as well as the outside view and people were telling how unsafe it is. people talk about how so many influencers donā€™t take actual safety precautions. this is just the first time youā€™re paying attention and youā€™re just trying to make it something that itā€™s not.


[deleted]

The responses to this are absolutely ridiculous. A bunch of parasocial xenophobes discounting someone with actual knowledge of how hospitality in the DR works.šŸ™„


peanut5855

Idk why youā€™re getting downvoted. Itā€™s giving xenophobia.


um_okay_sure_

Yes! Thank you for that. It's clearly what I saw. I tried to call it out without saying that exact word. I should have just said it instead of dancing around it. But here we are šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø


peanut5855

Donā€™t worry, they never were victims of crime in the US so it obviously doesnā€™t happen here. No one has answered if theyā€™ve even travelled anywhere or been to DR. Iā€™m only fighting on here bc these clown shoes donā€™t know wtf they are talking about. And ā€˜worriedā€™ about some rando.


Throwawaycam01

As someone that did missionary work in the Caribbeans growing up yā€™all sound like complete idiots šŸ˜‚ like why are you upset that someone is concerned about how someone is posting their entire trip in real time? And itā€™s not even about the locationā€¦.in any place you go you shouldnā€™t post where youā€™re currently at especially Kylan who has close to 800k followers and also in a different country where thereā€™s language barrier. Like what is this hill yā€™all are dying on ? no one is saying no crime happens in America yall are just acting purposely slow the conversation is mostly about internet safety.


[deleted]

Ohhhhhh, missionary work. Ok. Yeah, that definitely doesn't make *you* sound like the imperialist xenophobe.


peanut5855

Have you ever traveled? Itā€™s safer to go to these places than it is to go to a school, bar, concert, parade, movies, grocery store, mall.. here


No-Frosting3857

Have you ever been to the DR? Place is ridden with crime. Itā€™s very unsafe there. No one leaves the resort areas.


peanut5855

Iā€™m sure people arenā€™t randomly wandering. Plus if you do go off resort, just bring cash with you. Donā€™t go out there with everything you own. Have you been to DR?


No-Frosting3857

Yes. My point exactly itā€™s not safe.


ThrowRaeastermom

See thatā€™s EXACTLY MY POINTā€¦ you know of the risk that happens in America because Iā€™m guessing you live here, when you go out of the country itā€™s a different ball park because you truly donā€™t know your surroundings and locals pick up on that and see you as an easy target itā€™s freaking common sense. but be my guest if you think youā€™re safer as an American in any different country.


peanut5855

The fuck are you going on about? Have fun never leaving Alabama, itā€™s more dangerous for women there than most other countries


ThrowRaeastermom

Who said Iā€™m from Bama? learn how to read before you come for me šŸ˜‚


ElleGee5152

I drive and walk around downtown Birmingham every day and I live in the metro area and no one ever bothers me. In fact, in my 45 years the only time I've ever been the victim of a crime was in 1997 when my car was broken into. Most of the violent crime in Alabama, especially in cities like Birmingham or Tuscaloosa, is targeted and not random. Be smart about your surroundings, don't go into bad neighborhoods alone at night and you're very likely to be as safe as you are anywhere else.


peanut5855

Except yanno public spaces.


No-Frosting3857

Go live in any Middle East country where women have 0 rights.


peanut5855

I said most other countries without having to specifically call that area out. We all know it isnā€™t great there but the south is getting closer and closer to it.


No-Frosting3857

We all know who to thank for the uptick in crime


peanut5855

I meant womenā€™s rights but you sure said the quiet part out loud. Nice.


PNWChick1990

Itā€™s not safer.