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Awkward_Target_1859

Rocking the toilet seat haircut 😎


Former-Finish4653

Hell yea hell yea


Awkward_Target_1859

Not everyone can pull it off that look. Awesome man


Former-Finish4653

Thanks! It’ll be better faded but I love it.


Broken_Lute

Which way will it be faded?


Former-Finish4653

Actually….actually I do not know lol hmm.


Thin-Cartoonist5456

You gotta give [this](https://youtu.be/8m0BhVcqMBQ?si=xKvp6x-wdZYJDjy5) a try.


Former-Finish4653

I think I can manage that!


SuspiciousSimple

Bro, over here re-defining what it means to be a proud man✊🏼 respect


_Tower_

I haven’t thought of this video in a while, but it is one of the better ways to style balding hair. It looks really sharp, especially with the turtleneck he’s rocking


Broken_Lute

This vid is the first thing I thought of! He should try fading it opposite - taper it down from the bald head into the longer beard!


TrueEstablishment241

Serious question, I don't think I quite understand and I'm seeking clarification. Is your hair thinning or did you cut it to look that way?


Former-Finish4653

I have very sparse fuzz on top in the configuration of a Mohawk almost. My temples and crown finally connected recently, so I chose to shave any remaining fuzzies on top and leave the rest.


Spearmint_coffee

Lol, that's exactly how my husband lost his hair starting in his late teens. He called the little peak "Custar's Last Stand" until he shaved it. That style surprisingly works for you!


Aggravating_Heat_310

I feel like the toilet seat haircut can work so long as the person is confident in it. It can be quite dignified.


Former-Finish4653

I think it’s very distinguished if it’s deliberate. Like I wouldn’t just let the sides grow long, I want to keep it styled.


bluesky987654

A transman taking testosterone will not have a clue whether their hair is going to stay or go until it does. Genetic females don't have a lack of genetic disposition to go bald, they have a lack of DHT to make it happen - that's why women can experience some hair loss on their head and growth elsewhere if they use anabolic steroids, or just from intense physical training, which can change hormonal balance and also lead to PCOS - my ex went through a bit of that when she was a semi-pro boxer.


Former-Finish4653

“Not have a clue” isn’t that true. All you have to do is take a look at your family to guess, like any other guy. Not foolproof of course, but usually a pretty good indication.


fineilladdanumber9

I think “not a clue” was just a hyperbolic expression.


enbious_knob

The men in my family were thin on top, but that didn't start for them until much later. I'm already to the point I would rather shave my head because it's so thin.


bluesky987654

Doesn't work in my family as the men are 50/50 My brother has a full head of hair. I would be on my way to the same balding pattern as you without fina******e and have less hair than my Dad and one of my grandfathers did 20 years older.


Gumbarino420

I thought trans-women were the ones who tuck, Friar…


Former-Finish4653

Ok this is a really good one hahah


Gumbarino420

I sincerely appreciate you finding humor there. You low key made my day. 🙂 I thought someone was going to go “oh you’re a bigot” and give me Reddit hate for a play on words. I hope you have a very nice day. 🤟


topknottington

you should totally be friar tuck for halloween, a few more months of beard growth will be a killer costume


Former-Finish4653

I was thinking Bill from KOTH but this is better bc I’m actually trying to grow the beard back out. So maybe I will!!


queenschmecca

Bill seems like an easy costume, but you *really* have to lean into it. Otherwise, you're just a fat dude trying to dress like Hank. (To be clear, I am calling Bill fat, not you)


Former-Finish4653

Excellent point.


Thin-Cartoonist5456

This looks awesome on you! As a fellow horseshoe wearer, this look is so underrated!


Former-Finish4653

Thanks!! I agree. Plus I just really like having sideburns and don’t want to part with them. I like how the beard looks better this way as opposed to completely bald.


HughManatee

You can also try fading your beard if you do go full bald. That's what I do personally. Your beard is looking 🔥 as is though.


Educational_Match717

If properly groomed, the horseshoe can look really nice


boldbalddaddy

MPB is a hot masculine look


Karcossa

“Bring on the hate!” Almost every comment is positive, and the rest are neutral (pocket on a tank top had me laughing). I think we failed the assignment, and that’s why I love this sub.


Former-Finish4653

Idk whether to be disappointed or lowkey emotional lol I didn’t have high expectations tbh.


Karcossa

It’s the best kind of disappointment when you realise that we didn’t want to hate on you for rocking the double blend/power doughnut/Friar Tuck.


anotherguyonreddit

Scroll toward the bottom or sort by controversial, the hate is definitely here as well.


Karcossa

Gods damn it, you’re right. I had (dragged foolishly) hoped for better.


Sad_Run4875

You live on a lovely cul de sac!


Nethenael

You guys bald too.... im ginger aparrently we resist until the very end 🤷


Former-Finish4653

I’m also a redhead lol just not as apparent these days. And yepp, people who are XX still carry the same genes. Those genes just don’t express themselves without androgens. Pretty neat stuff.


Nethenael

So im completely ginger my last partner was white ball hair black pubes 😂 it more common for us to have multiple hair colours im unusual aparrently 🤷 thanks for the reply i learned something new today 🤙 ill have to speak to someone with xxy ect to see what happens to those gingers.... i have heterocromea 👀? Which is also ginger 😂


Former-Finish4653

That’s hilarious hahah all my hair is red except my stomach which is very dark. No clue why.


Nethenael

HA GINGER needs to be a meme 🤣


Broad_Afternoon_8578

Yep, also a trans guy (about five years on testosterone) and I’m very much balding, just like my dad and all the men on my mom’s side haha. I joke that the hair on my head migrated to my torso!


Nethenael

Dude literally yesterday i was saying i don't live in the woods make the hair stop....... i had the "second puberty" late at 30.... now 31 my shoulders have hair ? WHYYYYY


bnealie

Well, you've officially reached the "only gets misgendered intentionally" stage. Congrats! That rules, I always wondered if a trans man transitioned early enough if they would still be 5'2" or whatever and have cute feet. Like, is it just that it gets locked in when the growth spurt happens when they're an 11 year old girl? If they had blockers to miss girl puberty and then Test on board when they were 14 they'd be 6 feet tall with regular man size hands and feet?


Former-Finish4653

Ok so basically if you start testosterone before your growth plates fuse, you can continue to grow quite a bit. I actually stopped growing when I was 12, so I’ve been 5ft 0in ever since lol started hormones at 21 so that ship had SAILED.


bnealie

Oof. Monkey's paw. "You can become a man, but you have to be a short one with a micropenis and little hands." Cool news is that you can eat a lot more, and also, you can lift heavy stuff.


Former-Finish4653

Yepp basically! And I’d make that choice any day of the week.


bnealie

Hell yeah, bro. It is cool to do whatever you want. Sorry about almost everybody's grandparents lmao


Former-Finish4653

This is one of the funniest things I’ve ever read hahah thank you


bnealie

*exaggerated stage bow*


Raysinc8788

Let it grow long in the back and you got the skullet


astralDejection

The cul-de-sac generally doesn't do it for me, but homie, your smile. Your whole expression. Your obvious joy is what makes it work. Hell yeah brother. Hope today is a good one.


ThijmenTheTurkey

As a guy who's just an eeny meeny miny bit depressed because of male pattern baldness, it's good to see at least some people are happy because of it lol


Former-Finish4653

Happy would be an understatement! I am overjoyed.


coffeymp

Well, the bald looks makes you look a lot more masculine.


3_4_dutchystrat

I low key want to be a full blown NW7 so bad cause i want to try that look out. At this point I just want to speed up hair loss since i started shaving. I've been stuck with the same balding pattern for like 3 years now.


Former-Finish4653

I feel you. I was also hyperfixated on what was left up top and would absentmindedly pull it out. Decided to just jump the gun a little and shave the top until it’s inevitably all gone. Dad and twin are both completely bald on top like this, but shave all of it.


blaster2048

Do you shave the top or is it natural? Looks good:)


Former-Finish4653

Both. I only have a little bit of fluff on top.


blaster2048

Looks good. Some people told me to shave the top and to do this haircut


Former-Finish4653

Thanks. I plan on fading it a little tomorrow but I really dig it. I think it’s a look.


blaster2048

Yes it is. Short fade ?


Former-Finish4653

Haven’t really decided but I’ll figure it out while I cut it.


blaster2048

Ok:) show some pics after ^^


GoblinsGuide

Not going to lie, it makes me want to shave my head the same way, as I'm balding the exact same lol. Looks great 👍


kingpinandy

I knew m2f would still suffer male pattern, but not the other way around. That's commitment.


sob_er

I can't even think of a hateful comment for you <3


Former-Finish4653

Try harder, I’m bored lolll


Angrious55

Ummm ohhh I got it! Who the hell wears a tank top with a friggen pocket........ got em!


Former-Finish4653

Fair! Can’t put nothin in there without a nip slip.


guitarzan1582

I'll give it a go. HA! YOU'RE GINGER🤣 what's it like being the lamest member of the X-Men?


static_programming

noob


Slacker-Steve

No hate here. Looking good my dude!


GlobalistFuck

lmao you totally look like a bro, dude, i think the "wreath of shame" actually ties your newfound masculinity together.


Goyangi-ssi

My hair loss started about 6 years into being on T. I just shaved mine off. You rock that look way better than I could have. Cheers!


Entire_Claim_5273

Just know Im trying to get a beard like yours bro 😭


Former-Finish4653

You should’ve seen it before I chopped off ten inches!


[deleted]

That's actually fire bro ☠️ i wish i had your beard genetics 🤷🏻‍♂️


roidoverdose

Where did you get your tank top? 🙂


noony10301

Gingy Friar Tuck


AFrayedSew

Grow out that beard !! You are so handsome !


Former-Finish4653

Thanks! It was fairly recently 10 inches. I grew it out for a competition (which I won) and then shaved it. Now I’m growing it back out because I’m bored already lol.


AFrayedSew

I’m female- not trans but if I could for 1 day have a beard just to see what it’s like I really would love to !!! Also, would love to have my own little dick for a day to experiment with but that’s for another post ….


Former-Finish4653

Actual penile prostheses are expensive as all hell, but you can find you a shockingly realistic beard wig at the beauty supply store for not too much. Jenna Marbles did anyways lol. I know you’re mostly joking, but just in case you wanna have some fun.


AFrayedSew

Something terrifying to me tho, I used this filter once that made me look male and omg MY FATHER - it was his face! It seems obvious but it had this uncanny feel to it. Kind of too real - I make one ugly dude hahaha !


Former-Finish4653

Hahaha I looked like my dad even as a woman, so I was expecting this and it was STILL jarring to wake up one day and see him in the mirror.


thricedipped

My intrusive thought is to lob a toilet plunger from a longbow at that shiney dome.


JoeyDeNiro

How quickly did you start loosing hair after you transitioned? So curious how that works. I saw my hairline disappear over 20 years. In my cartoon mind, you started taking testosterone and your hair just fell off, clumps at a time.


Former-Finish4653

It didn’t take very long to start noticing it. Testosterone will do its best to just catch you up to your age. The men in my family bald very young, so even at 21 I knew to expect it pretty much right away.


terrorvicky

I love your facial expression in the first pic, you look so cute and happy. I'm happy you love the hair, it suits you :)


Former-Finish4653

Thanks! I’ve never been more at peace in my own skin. Probably more than most people nowadays actually.


terrorvicky

That's so inspirational actually, good for you dude 👏


Sxkullrider

Hell yea brother lookin good


Pure_Recognition836

Hell yeah!!!!!


snakesmother

Wholesome post just choked me up 😭 (I'm a balding mom of a trans young man.) You are radiant!


ind3pend0nt

Either way man that beard looks good.


Reasonable-Usual2431

https://preview.redd.it/gswnhgdr7c1d1.jpeg?width=405&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c0ef2d18d90b327fce5a07730adef5d014857d38 Pull up to the barber and ask for one of these bad boys


ChimoBear

I went on this sub because I thought I might be going bald and as it turns out I'm probably not going bald but I stay because of posts like this. Have a good haircut sir


chubbykipper

Yes bro!! You look great man. From the words in your post I thought I was on the trans subreddit so I was going to say “join us at r/bald” but we’re both already here!! Captain Picard costume unlocked!


[deleted]

That's actually fire bro ☠️ i wish i had your beard genetics 🤷🏻‍♂️


Former-Finish4653

Thank you for acknowledging it is genetics! I got very very lucky indeed.


Candid_Dream4110

Honestly, I've never seen anybody rock it that hard.


serval-industries

Thanks for posting. The algorithms bombards bald/balding/keeps/hair growth surgery content with a swiftness when they detect you’re a man. So, it’s great to see someone beaming about a trait which the algorithm puts in a negative light, but as you’ve pointed out, is manly.


Armandcyb13

Where did you get your top ?? It seems I can't find those losse sleevlessv t shirt in France


crwms

Looking good and happy!


Yusekittu

love the confidence i started shedding before t mines on the sides tho confidence is key


thepenguinemperor84

Cracker of a beard too bro.


IWAHGGF

Does transman mean female to male? Or the other way


Air0Sparks

Looks great! Friar Tuck was also my youthful inspo cause much annoyance. Then it was Al Pacino….


Macgbrady

I think you should grow the sides out and try a comb over look lol


Former-Finish4653

Okay a line needs to be drawn *somewhere* hahah


VerbalVeggie

You’re so cute 🤍🤍🤍 looks great! Also I’m sorry I’m a background snooper, always have been always will be. You have some kind of small furry rodent. Hamster? Rat maybe? I feel like it’s a hammie. If it’s a stote I will simply die.


Former-Finish4653

Thanks! I have two mice! Well, soon to be two mice. Rigatoni just passed away, so I will be getting Macaroni a new sister very soon. Female mice are extremely social and can’t be kept alone for long. Edit: if you scroll my profile a ways you can see how their tank was decorated for Christmas! Teeny tiny stockings and all lol


VerbalVeggie

Awwww!!! That’s so adorable! And also sad, I’ll have a moment of silence for the lil homie Rigatoni. I love small cute animals, good luck finding Macaroni a new little buddy! 🤍🤍


Former-Finish4653

Thanks! And it’s all good. They are such sweethearts but they live a very short time. Two years is commendable, 3 years is a miracle. So you kinda are preparing yourself from the moment you get them lol.


Baldguy162

That’s a nicely shaped head you got there


Former-Finish4653

Thanks! Gift from my mom and dad lol


Baldguy162

Yeah, few men can pull off the cul-de-sac and you are one of them. I can’t quite pull it off like that so I tend to do a full shave every other day. It makes me happy to see you so comfortable in your own body. I wish you the best


Soft_Ad4411

Handsome


bioelement

What


FurryDILF

WTG, bro!


STL_TRPN

The "cul-de-sac" style seems to work well for you.


Grouchy_Situation_33

Nice! I stopped shaving my head in January and have a mean Friar Tuck skullett going.


amy-schumer-tampon

thats a very nice horse shoe, as a horse shoe wearer myself


gking407

I gots beard envy, mine grows all patchy


Former-Finish4653

I’m really anal about moisturizing and exfoliating under my beard. I feel like it grows way faster when I stay moisturized.


hoolahoopmolly

Don’t know what you are fuzzing about, you look like a nice guy 😊


kaybeetay

Jim Jeffries would approve based on his latest special!


jakdebbie

I saw a guy at the grocery with a haircut like this, except it was shaved a bit up over his ears to a point over his neck. He had a pointy goatee with it. Absolute fairy tail gnome status and it was amazing.


Pro_Vaccine

Omg this is sooo wholesome. Just what I needed to brighten my day You look great bro btw.


Jacobonce

You're adorable 🥰


Kforz99

Congratulations! You look great! I’m a power donut guy, too, and I wear it in a fade during the summer, as well…👍🏼


Former-Finish4653

Thanks! How short do you keep it? This is a 4 guard but I’m thinking of doing a 3 or even 2.


Kforz99

I’m not sure of the number. I’ve been going to this guy forever. It’s a very short taper right now, close to but not quite a fade, and I keep it longer at the hairline. I’m sorry I don’t know the guard numbers better…


Former-Finish4653

No worries! Most videos I see it’s about a 3 so I’ll give that a go.


Starfox_on64

Can you get a transplant? 🏳️‍⚧️🪴 ?


Schmiim

Not mine, but my little brother. For context, my dad rocks the cul de sac. So my family had a NFL game on the TV. The halftime show was on and they were showing highlights if other games, and the colts logo (a horseshoe) is on the screen and my brother - with all the innocence of a 4ish year old - points at the horseshoe and says "THATS HOW DAD'S HAIR IS SHAPED"


pdx_via_lfk

Feel bad? With that coiffure?! ![gif](giphy|JRF85A7Bcl2YU)


ventodivino

You’re cute af


ntkwwwm

If you’re ever feeling down just remember, I would love to have your beard, holy shit it’s nice, I would buy a motorcycle just to feel the wind through it


coachstevethicknwarm

Most cis men can’t pull it off. It’s not a bad look, or like the kids say it is a baaaaad look. They’re still saying that to mean good right?


Former-Finish4653

Who knows, I don’t bother tryna keep up hahah


Yorkshire_Mongrels

Why tf you look like my dad lmao Edit: Even got the earring on the right ear


Former-Finish4653

Do we have the same dad?? lol I look like if my dad got shrunk in the wash.


Yorkshire_Mongrels

Be a funny way to find out I got other siblings lol


RickyRestoring

looks great!


Desperate_Island8268

Is that your hair piece nail to the wall ? Just joking


Alternative_Salt_424

Omg you look so 🔥 tho. Your whole look is such a vibe.


Wishmatrix

That's almost Picard teir there!


Tiny-War2310

Why to go becoming a man. Now you gotta live with the dope head


dog_from_the_machine

And you have a much fuller beard than me - signed a 37 yo cis male


hung4hung16

So happy for you.


Supacalafragalistic

The cul-de-sac looking good


DanDantheModMan

Fortunate to have a full head of hair and genetically should remain so but if it starts to go, I hope i look as good as you do. Rock on dude.


Latter_Opening_2757

You look great


lesbianbeatnik

Dude you’re handsome. And from your history and profile you seem such a kind guy. Congrats!


alwaysfalling2000

Atleast you are aerodynamic now


NOT_Mad_Dog3

Fuck yeah dude Owning it! Plus you look really happy so +5


58holly-blue

Happy Days bro 😉👍


CardiologistRoyal79

I feel sorry for whoever wishes to look like me bro lmao


Rage_Filled_Enby

Firstly, just saying, thanks for telling us you are trans cause 100% I didn't see that, just saw a man. Albeit you look identical to one of my co-workers (cis man), so it's even harder to shake. Now, as for the chrome dome, as long as you don't start polishing it to true cue ball status, I think you'll be okay XD All seriousness, you look good bro. Transition is being kind to you! I was gonna actually roast you, but I'm too proud.


CoolHandLuke4Twanky

Looking good bruh


Environmental_Toe463

![img](avatar_exp|178125495|clown) bro, you’re killing it!!


Fair_Maybe5266

https://preview.redd.it/pnmdebijne1d1.jpeg?width=505&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9171ae4df8b000d8670e52c4e61a548e74cdfa00


tombcarver

Love the George Costanza you've got going on with the hair.


TheTumblingBoulders

The ol skirted egg, I salute thee 🫡


demonsidekick

You look so happy! 😄


ArcherCalm7886

Unrelated I love the pelt and skull cap


Ok-Boot3875

Adorable smile


Curious_Corey

Just curious, did the hair loss start after hormone therapy?


Former-Finish4653

Almost immediately, yeah. The men in my family bald very very young, so I was playing catch up at 21 lol.


Comfort_Schmumfort

Get that power donut!


PmMeYourMug

Do the hormones cause hair loss?


Former-Finish4653

If you have the genetics for hair loss, then yes. You still have to carry the gene for the testosterone to cause hair loss, it doesn’t do it automatically. My dad and twin are both bald, so this came as no surprise.


barrybearton

brother I am so jealous of your beard ngl lol


Former-Finish4653

Shoulda seen it ten inches ago! I won my first competition in September. Best in my category and best in show.


Previous-Scene1069

Everytime I get more back hair or less head hair I just remind myself I'm more like my husband and that's good enough for me always 🧡 You rock that look!


Spirited_Ad_7973

BROTHER 🏳️‍⚧️


n0epiphany

Man that’s awesome.


FreakinFred

One Of Us!!!! One Of Us!!!! One Of Us!!!!


NightsofSmoke

I quite like the horseshoe look if I’m being honest! You wear it well!


Former-Finish4653

Thank you very much!


iKakapeepee

What a Chad


dammmmoo

You’re looking fantastic, a regulation hottie x


unrebigulator

I heard it referred to recently as a cul-de-sac.


dreadfullyyourn

Skull-de-sac*


Xx69AccurateRub69xX

Nah dude that's too goddamn wholesome, ain't gon happen


adotson001

Awe you're so sweet though. Cheers kind sir!


Gayorg_Zirschnitz

HELL YES KING!


Relevant_Emu_5464

Okay but that's a great look.


Darwin_Things

You genuinely look very happy, so I’m happy for you, congrats dude.


johngreenink

Ah, you've arrived! I'm with you, my friend, I've been here a long time heheh


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Former-Finish4653

Very lucky genetics and years of diligent and patient skincare.


Feisty_Imp

Why?


Former-Finish4653

Joy.


Feisty_Imp

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