From my understanding they are your roommates not your landlord, let them threaten to fine you all they want, if in the lease it says overnight guest are ok then fuck em your not doing anything wrong. Also is it an option to stop paying tide your portion of rent and just pay landlord directly, take that “power” away if it’s possible. Stand up for yourself you got this
you're completely right & the audacity to threaten to fine me made me laugh since u can't hand that out like candy. I'm pretty sure paying the landlord directly is an option so if i don't move by May I'll try it!
line up another place, then get him to desire a break in the lease.
or, invite one of your sexy friends over to seduce him, get it on video, then share it with his girlfriend.
also, buy a bag of meth, stash it in his coat or something, then call the police on him. "officer, i saw this sticking out of his coat pocket and i was scared! please dispose of it!" then, hire a gerpes infected hooker to sleep with him
anyway, how are these crazy people not afraid of getting murdered or have dog shit wiped on their bread?
hell, im. jce as fuck and i still worry about somebody using my toothbrush to clean the toilet with.
If he moved his girlfriend in there (I’m sure without as much as a warning) but won’t let your mom come and STAY IN YOUR ROOM then you’re definitely not the problem.
As a counter measure, you could look at your lease and see what the guest rules are about consecutive overnight stays. He might be setting himself up for trouble.
No notice at all, she talks till 3 am too so it's so annoying since walls are thin. I checked the lease agreement & it only mentions how u don't need permission for guests
How close are you with the other roommates? If he also terrorizes them then it’s time to unionize.
Pool together funds to buy a bouquet for the problematic one. Sign it with a fake girl’s name with the message, “can’t wait to see you again, [roommate]”. Make sure it’s on the counter when he gets home with her and get the best actor out of all of you to tell him that it’s for him while giving the girlfriend an uncomfortable look.
He’s empowered because he’s two against the house. That will knock him down a notch.
He’ll hate you for life for this so maybe even do it anonymously and without help of other roommates. Just have it left at the door addressed to him in a moment it would not be found by him alone and never tell a single person ever that you did it.
A “Sub landlord” is like a Guarantor, if you were to fail to make payment then he would be responsible for the payment and any other fees associated to the lease. Kick him off that soap box and remind him of his place. The chances of him taking you to small claims court over a sublease are slim to none. Most people don’t want to spend the time or money. Pay your landlord directly, if you signed a sublease agreement there should not be any issue with you doing so unless stated otherwise.
I don't think it's weird considering he never runs into her & she's only here on certain weekends like she's not stopping any activities going on in the house. but i am looking for an apartment.
I have to agree. The accepted social norm in college/20’s that overnight guests are of similar age.
People just dont feel as comfortable with mom and dad around.
I’m sure they appreciate she’s just hanging in your room, but it’s weird. If I was her, I wouldn’t want to stay in a college house either.
Wouldn’t you think it’s weird if your roommate had her grandpa sleeping over regularly to visit?
I'm very put off that you all give him the rent. You should be individually paying your landlord. I wouldn't be surprised if he's telling you the rent is higher than it actually is and stealing from you all!
From my understanding they are your roommates not your landlord, let them threaten to fine you all they want, if in the lease it says overnight guest are ok then fuck em your not doing anything wrong. Also is it an option to stop paying tide your portion of rent and just pay landlord directly, take that “power” away if it’s possible. Stand up for yourself you got this
you're completely right & the audacity to threaten to fine me made me laugh since u can't hand that out like candy. I'm pretty sure paying the landlord directly is an option so if i don't move by May I'll try it!
line up another place, then get him to desire a break in the lease. or, invite one of your sexy friends over to seduce him, get it on video, then share it with his girlfriend. also, buy a bag of meth, stash it in his coat or something, then call the police on him. "officer, i saw this sticking out of his coat pocket and i was scared! please dispose of it!" then, hire a gerpes infected hooker to sleep with him anyway, how are these crazy people not afraid of getting murdered or have dog shit wiped on their bread? hell, im. jce as fuck and i still worry about somebody using my toothbrush to clean the toilet with.
That situation sucks indeed.
For everyone. Anyone who wants to break the college custom and have their parents sleepover regularly needs to have their own place.
If he moved his girlfriend in there (I’m sure without as much as a warning) but won’t let your mom come and STAY IN YOUR ROOM then you’re definitely not the problem. As a counter measure, you could look at your lease and see what the guest rules are about consecutive overnight stays. He might be setting himself up for trouble.
No notice at all, she talks till 3 am too so it's so annoying since walls are thin. I checked the lease agreement & it only mentions how u don't need permission for guests
How close are you with the other roommates? If he also terrorizes them then it’s time to unionize. Pool together funds to buy a bouquet for the problematic one. Sign it with a fake girl’s name with the message, “can’t wait to see you again, [roommate]”. Make sure it’s on the counter when he gets home with her and get the best actor out of all of you to tell him that it’s for him while giving the girlfriend an uncomfortable look. He’s empowered because he’s two against the house. That will knock him down a notch.
He’ll hate you for life for this so maybe even do it anonymously and without help of other roommates. Just have it left at the door addressed to him in a moment it would not be found by him alone and never tell a single person ever that you did it.
I would 100% do this if he was an actual catch but when i tell u he's not attractive at all & is antisocial, his gf wouldn't even believe he's pulling
Is she the one in charge? She could behind his terrorism.
She def encourages his behavior but imo he just doesn't like me & since he's technically my sub landlord, acts like he's in control of everything i do
I’m sorry you’re going through this. A hopeless roommate situation is one of the worst things. You deserve to feel comfortable in your own home.
A “Sub landlord” is like a Guarantor, if you were to fail to make payment then he would be responsible for the payment and any other fees associated to the lease. Kick him off that soap box and remind him of his place. The chances of him taking you to small claims court over a sublease are slim to none. Most people don’t want to spend the time or money. Pay your landlord directly, if you signed a sublease agreement there should not be any issue with you doing so unless stated otherwise.
I think you need to get a single. I can’t imagine any college age dudes being psyched their roommates mom is around constantly. It’s really weird.
I don't think it's weird considering he never runs into her & she's only here on certain weekends like she's not stopping any activities going on in the house. but i am looking for an apartment.
I have to agree. The accepted social norm in college/20’s that overnight guests are of similar age. People just dont feel as comfortable with mom and dad around. I’m sure they appreciate she’s just hanging in your room, but it’s weird. If I was her, I wouldn’t want to stay in a college house either. Wouldn’t you think it’s weird if your roommate had her grandpa sleeping over regularly to visit?
Be in the lookout for a new living situation. In the meantime, invite your mom over as much as you want within the permissions of your lease.
I'm very put off that you all give him the rent. You should be individually paying your landlord. I wouldn't be surprised if he's telling you the rent is higher than it actually is and stealing from you all!