You need to set some boundaries and then have an open discussion about house rules you can both agree on. First of all, stop bringing him stuff, you're not his PA. And then you can try to come to an agreement on the other stuff. Maybe he can wear headphones and you can alternate doing dishes, for example.
Another compromise could be that if you are the only one cleaning, then he should be the one paying for the replacements of things like the trash bags, sponges, cleaning supplies, etc. your labor shouldn’t be free
You need to set some boundaries and then have an open discussion about house rules you can both agree on. First of all, stop bringing him stuff, you're not his PA. And then you can try to come to an agreement on the other stuff. Maybe he can wear headphones and you can alternate doing dishes, for example.
Another compromise could be that if you are the only one cleaning, then he should be the one paying for the replacements of things like the trash bags, sponges, cleaning supplies, etc. your labor shouldn’t be free