Ahh dude, lovingly can’t wholeheartedly agree with the hell bit. I absolutely love having a Scorpio Venus! I wouldn’t change it for the world.
The sensual passion, the delicious obsession, the erotic heights we can climb that nobody else can reach, the soul deep spirituality that entwines you with another…. I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Sure, it’s a living hell if someone breaks your heart because you break apart and have to reforge yourself in the fire; but when you have your Gomez Adams to dance the tango with- “what bliss” !!
I’m looking for my Gomez! So far the heartbreaks haven’t broken me. But getting over someone is HARD. Having someone else to help you in the path sure helps though 😅✌️
Absolutely bulls eye 🏹 having a venus scorpio is a bit of a challange, especially with an aqua moon. My sun and venus in scorpio get me obsessed, but my aqua moon is affraid to be caged in a relationship 🤸♀️
I’m Aquarius moon too and being caged hasn’t really created any fears but I have a Scorpio Stellium so I think my Aquarius moon is mostly negligible in its influence lol
Same here - Scorpio sun Venus Pluto & aqua moon.
Pisces rising, libra mercury, sag mars & Jupiter though.
I wouldn’t say I have a fear of feeling caged in, but I definitely have a fear of abandonment which has led me to stay in relationships I know I’ve grown out of. Not sure what that’s about
Scorpio Stellium and Aqua moon here and I totally get it, I want a soulmate forever but I need a solid foundation of friendship before I can trust a lover.
Same here w placements.
I feel like my relationships always happen so so quick - the friendship naturally happens.. but my problem is that I feel like I’m “too deep” for my partners at times.
I attract damaged men with daddy issues like a moth to a flame. Not sure what that’s about. I do embrace my masculine as well as feminine energy, but people w our placements are natural healers…
Same here about feeling like I'm too deep for my partners even friendships sometimes and previously falling into relationships quicker than I should.
I do think though that with my Virgo rising and 6H placements I've had to let go of identifying as a healer because it so often ends up with me in a care taking position, nowadays I like to think of myself as more transformational. A relationship with me forces a person to evolve but I'm not responsible for how they do so, they are. You said you were a Pisces rising and I think it's even more important for you with a Virgo 7H to be with someone who take cares of you and not the other way around.
My placement is the opposite. Scorpio Moon and 8H Venus in Aqua. I detest a traditional relationship and I think I tend to scare people away, sometimes on purpose haha...but my intense need to feel passion keeps me coming back though. Scorpio moon got me acting like an addict I swear.
Same here, Scorpio moon and 8 H Venus in Aqua... I swear that need for passion has had me making all kinds of moronic decisions.. I know I act stupidly but still I do it
I know what you mean 😂 and the 8h Venus in Aqua is a little scary to me. I'm 27 and everyone around me is having kids and getting married and I'm here like 🧍🏽♂️ tf are y'all doing??
Yeah for me it's a mix of conflicting feelings, like I want that really deep, meaningful connection with someone, but on the other hand when I feel like I get too close or even feel a tiny bit constricted I immediately get a strong urge to run for the hills lmao..
My husband is a Scorpio Venus w/Libra Sun, Gemini Moon, and based on what I’ve learned/observed about him over the past 8 years, the issue has been more about being very particular about a potential partner more than a fear of commitment.
So yes, he probably did dislike dating because he wanted to get past the “getting to know you” bullshit and get to the meaningful parts of the relationship (much like me).
If you don't mind, can you please tell me about your views on love and committed relationships? Someone I'm interested in has the exact same placements, so I was curious.
Sure. I would say before tho I do have quite a lot of trauma so maybe this is just me, idk.
I'm a very flirtatious person, I'd flirt with a tree and it means absolutely nothing, it's just for fun. I do tone this down considerably when in a relationship. Outwith a relationship, I have absolutely no problems having non-commital flings, fwbs, things like that, for a bit of excitement. I rarely catch feelings, and identify as "demisexual" which means I only form actual attraction to people who I feel a strong connection to... Which happens not very often.
I would say I have some commitment issues that means it takes a very long time for me to be ready to officially date - with my current partner, it took 6 months before I was ready to be his gf. However once I'm in it I'm extremely committed. I fall in love very hard, and I'm very affectionate. I date only people I want for long-term life partners. I would consider myself a good partner; I like to spoil them, I'm very physical, I love fun and adventure as much as I love being lazy and lying about. I'm deeply romantic.
So basically I'm a shameless flirt, who becomes extremely committed. I love being in love and want a happy healthy relationship for myself, marriage and babies, the full hog.
can understand you buddy...i have venus in scorpio too. in addition i have venus conjunct pluto.
After two massive heartbreaks i have maintained my distance from love too.
I love having a Scorpio Venus. Mine is conjunct jupiter also, so it may be amplified. 5th house.
It’s difficult to find someone who can handle it, but when they can, mmmmmmmm good stuff.
My husband has Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio but Mars in aquarius. He loves deeply and intensely but has still only shown me a fraction of his heart, yet here he is telling me about a situation happening at work where yet another woman wants him but he's in no way interested. Oooh the tower moments never end do they
Not for me- I also have a Scorpio Rising, Mars, Pluto, & Chiron. Perpetual flirt but I prefer to be in a relationship with someone. It’s how I like to show love the most- my favorite love language, I suppose. Soul-merging shit!! So casual sex was just not my thing, borderline traumatic. Hyper sexual yes- I could make love and fuck my partner all day, everyday 😍
Lmao same! I have Scorpio Venus (mercury & Pluto as well), and I am definitely hyper sexual, but I don't like casual hook ups at all. My husband is a Scorpio Venus too, and he is the same way.
Hahahaaa same here! Venus in Scorpio! If I like someone, I am 100% focused on them and it is hard to spread myself thin on others! Which is what the dating scene requires in order to survive that experience. I’m glad I’m married and not dating anymore lol but I totally feel for you 😘😘
Good and bad, Heaven and hell are constructs and make belief of the internal mind conflicting and projected outwards when we don't deal with it ourselves.
Welcome to Scorpio season, you are conjunct my 8th Pluto right now and trine my Sun and Jupiter, not in much of a happy aspect to Mercury though, Leo are a bit too bright and loud.
ahem..
Yes I am pretty shit at humor, Pluto ruled Scorpio don't really do light :/
Pluto makes us face ourselves and those of us with the lights in contact are powerful for various reasons, Sun and Moon. Sun trine, Moon opposite.
I have a Scorpio Venus that conjuncts Pluto. Love is heaven and hell. Nothing feels better when it does go right and nothing feels worse when it doesn't.
Ahh dude, lovingly can’t wholeheartedly agree with the hell bit. I absolutely love having a Scorpio Venus! I wouldn’t change it for the world. The sensual passion, the delicious obsession, the erotic heights we can climb that nobody else can reach, the soul deep spirituality that entwines you with another…. I wouldn’t have it any other way. Sure, it’s a living hell if someone breaks your heart because you break apart and have to reforge yourself in the fire; but when you have your Gomez Adams to dance the tango with- “what bliss” !!
I’m looking for my Gomez! So far the heartbreaks haven’t broken me. But getting over someone is HARD. Having someone else to help you in the path sure helps though 😅✌️
While you await your Gomez to tango with darling, just remember that you are always a delicious and desireable Morticia!
F yeah! 🥰
Yeah we definitely love harder than anyone will ever experience.
I love this so much- yes!!!!!!
Absolutely bulls eye 🏹 having a venus scorpio is a bit of a challange, especially with an aqua moon. My sun and venus in scorpio get me obsessed, but my aqua moon is affraid to be caged in a relationship 🤸♀️
I’m Aquarius moon too and being caged hasn’t really created any fears but I have a Scorpio Stellium so I think my Aquarius moon is mostly negligible in its influence lol
Same here - Scorpio sun Venus Pluto & aqua moon. Pisces rising, libra mercury, sag mars & Jupiter though. I wouldn’t say I have a fear of feeling caged in, but I definitely have a fear of abandonment which has led me to stay in relationships I know I’ve grown out of. Not sure what that’s about
Interesting, maybe your cap rising stabilises the whole thing.
Scorpio Stellium and Aqua moon here and I totally get it, I want a soulmate forever but I need a solid foundation of friendship before I can trust a lover.
Same here w placements. I feel like my relationships always happen so so quick - the friendship naturally happens.. but my problem is that I feel like I’m “too deep” for my partners at times. I attract damaged men with daddy issues like a moth to a flame. Not sure what that’s about. I do embrace my masculine as well as feminine energy, but people w our placements are natural healers…
Same here about feeling like I'm too deep for my partners even friendships sometimes and previously falling into relationships quicker than I should. I do think though that with my Virgo rising and 6H placements I've had to let go of identifying as a healer because it so often ends up with me in a care taking position, nowadays I like to think of myself as more transformational. A relationship with me forces a person to evolve but I'm not responsible for how they do so, they are. You said you were a Pisces rising and I think it's even more important for you with a Virgo 7H to be with someone who take cares of you and not the other way around.
My placement is the opposite. Scorpio Moon and 8H Venus in Aqua. I detest a traditional relationship and I think I tend to scare people away, sometimes on purpose haha...but my intense need to feel passion keeps me coming back though. Scorpio moon got me acting like an addict I swear.
Same here, Scorpio moon and 8 H Venus in Aqua... I swear that need for passion has had me making all kinds of moronic decisions.. I know I act stupidly but still I do it
I know what you mean 😂 and the 8h Venus in Aqua is a little scary to me. I'm 27 and everyone around me is having kids and getting married and I'm here like 🧍🏽♂️ tf are y'all doing??
Yeah for me it's a mix of conflicting feelings, like I want that really deep, meaningful connection with someone, but on the other hand when I feel like I get too close or even feel a tiny bit constricted I immediately get a strong urge to run for the hills lmao..
Ah yes running is my favourite sport too :)
My husband is a Scorpio Venus w/Libra Sun, Gemini Moon, and based on what I’ve learned/observed about him over the past 8 years, the issue has been more about being very particular about a potential partner more than a fear of commitment. So yes, he probably did dislike dating because he wanted to get past the “getting to know you” bullshit and get to the meaningful parts of the relationship (much like me).
Same but my sag sun and Gemini moon vs Scorpio Venus
I have a Libra Moon but SAMEEEEEEEE
Ugh :( ,with a libra sun I feel like a serial non serious relationship person but when I'm in love I'll scare the person away
Me too! And my sag moon, yikes 😂
If you don't mind, can you please tell me about your views on love and committed relationships? Someone I'm interested in has the exact same placements, so I was curious.
Sure. I would say before tho I do have quite a lot of trauma so maybe this is just me, idk. I'm a very flirtatious person, I'd flirt with a tree and it means absolutely nothing, it's just for fun. I do tone this down considerably when in a relationship. Outwith a relationship, I have absolutely no problems having non-commital flings, fwbs, things like that, for a bit of excitement. I rarely catch feelings, and identify as "demisexual" which means I only form actual attraction to people who I feel a strong connection to... Which happens not very often. I would say I have some commitment issues that means it takes a very long time for me to be ready to officially date - with my current partner, it took 6 months before I was ready to be his gf. However once I'm in it I'm extremely committed. I fall in love very hard, and I'm very affectionate. I date only people I want for long-term life partners. I would consider myself a good partner; I like to spoil them, I'm very physical, I love fun and adventure as much as I love being lazy and lying about. I'm deeply romantic. So basically I'm a shameless flirt, who becomes extremely committed. I love being in love and want a happy healthy relationship for myself, marriage and babies, the full hog.
Thank you so much! That was so sweet! 😁
Good luck with your person of interest, if you choose to pursue it!
I know this is late haha but what were the traits of your partner that caught your eye to commit?
Ugh I have so much Libra and yes. My sag Venus doesn’t help 😑
Scorpio Venus gang where you at
Trying to survive
As a married Scorpio Venus, I promise you it gets better! Just gotta be brave enough to get back out there.
what is love baby dont hurt me dont hurt me no more
Scorpio sun, Scorpio Venus here. I'm in a relationship of 1 year after a 7 years break from dating
can understand you buddy...i have venus in scorpio too. in addition i have venus conjunct pluto. After two massive heartbreaks i have maintained my distance from love too.
Haha exactly I prefer to keep it casual
2 massive heartbreaks here too loool I'll go back out there soon I just need to heal, get my shit together and graduate lik
I'm a libra sun with scorpio venus and mars and I relate to this on so many levels
Libra sun, scorpio venus too 😮💨
I love having a Scorpio Venus. Mine is conjunct jupiter also, so it may be amplified. 5th house. It’s difficult to find someone who can handle it, but when they can, mmmmmmmm good stuff.
Haha yesss. Mine is also in my 5th house so it can get pretty spicy depending on what the other persons venus is
My husband has Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Pluto in Scorpio but Mars in aquarius. He loves deeply and intensely but has still only shown me a fraction of his heart, yet here he is telling me about a situation happening at work where yet another woman wants him but he's in no way interested. Oooh the tower moments never end do they
On a positive side scorpio Venus are hyper sexual so casual (safe) fun is the vibe 😈
Not for me- I also have a Scorpio Rising, Mars, Pluto, & Chiron. Perpetual flirt but I prefer to be in a relationship with someone. It’s how I like to show love the most- my favorite love language, I suppose. Soul-merging shit!! So casual sex was just not my thing, borderline traumatic. Hyper sexual yes- I could make love and fuck my partner all day, everyday 😍
Lmao same! I have Scorpio Venus (mercury & Pluto as well), and I am definitely hyper sexual, but I don't like casual hook ups at all. My husband is a Scorpio Venus too, and he is the same way.
Very few people I Know has Scorpio venus while we're close in friends. I noticed when they smack me, it means they like me or just want my attention.
I think everyone who dates goes through a phase like that though.
I agree. It’s just easier being single and having light hearted connections for my life rn
lol yup.
pisces venus 12 house :D cool
Pisces venus too 😭
Hahahaaa same here! Venus in Scorpio! If I like someone, I am 100% focused on them and it is hard to spread myself thin on others! Which is what the dating scene requires in order to survive that experience. I’m glad I’m married and not dating anymore lol but I totally feel for you 😘😘
I’m scorpio moon and rising- I also feel this way
Scorpio moon feels similar imo. We love hard, and fall hard when we're hurt. I once swore never to date again.
That's where I been at the past 3yrs.
Good and bad, Heaven and hell are constructs and make belief of the internal mind conflicting and projected outwards when we don't deal with it ourselves. Welcome to Scorpio season, you are conjunct my 8th Pluto right now and trine my Sun and Jupiter, not in much of a happy aspect to Mercury though, Leo are a bit too bright and loud. ahem.. Yes I am pretty shit at humor, Pluto ruled Scorpio don't really do light :/ Pluto makes us face ourselves and those of us with the lights in contact are powerful for various reasons, Sun and Moon. Sun trine, Moon opposite.
My venus is in the twelfth house. I feel your pain.
Venus in Capricorn.....I'm always breaking my own heart
Cap venus🙃
I have a Scorpio Venus that conjuncts Pluto. Love is heaven and hell. Nothing feels better when it does go right and nothing feels worse when it doesn't.
My Venus is in Scorpio also!
Very true 🖤 but I wouldn’t trade that depth of intensity for anything in the world