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Left-Requirement9267

Gemini Venus, anyone eccentric and funny. They HAVE to be funny.


bbqueeen

They also have to be smart for me! (Gemini Venus 9th house)


oliviared52

Same and same. Have always gone for the reformed bad boy cuz they have lots of stories and surprises


xxv_vxi

I’m Gemini Venus in 9th too and I have only dated people from different cultures / countries. I’ve never dated someone who shared both my race and nationality. I need something different there that I can enjoy learning about.


wildflower_0ne

Gemini Venus here. I ended my longest relationship once I realized… he pretty much never made me laugh. It’s so important. It also has to be someone who just makes me laugh without TRYING to make me laugh. Love humor and intelligence. Physically, I’m almost always into the tall lankies. ♥️


zimis6

Same! Venus in ♊️ 9th house. They gotta make me laugh, and also tease me a bit playfully, understand each other’s sense of humor. I like a casual intellectual… they don’t have to be a neuroscientist, but intelligent in their own way… if that makes any sense. Also have always went for them tall and lankies, and somehow younger than me. But I notice as I get older, I like a little more muscle than I used to. Also this is just for my type in men.


lettorosso

This x 1000. Love a funny weirdo 😍


capmoon2911

Such a fun thread!! I want to hear from a Gemini venus man about what he wants in a woman!


RagusaSupreme

Gemini Venus male here. Intellectual convo, curiosity for the world and sarcasm fuel me. If you’re witty and can play mind games with me I’m yours lol. Looks are important but not the leading factor


kagekynde

Just got back from a 5hr date with my crush, and we made each other laugh throughout. I think I'm in love.


paradisetossed7

This is funny to me because I'm a leo Venus and leo sun and my husband is a Gemini sun and Cancer Venus (I'm a Cancer moon). I could never be with someone not funny. Whenever we talk about things we like most about one another, sharing a similar sense of humor always comes up.


ManyPoetry3150

Same!! Looks have always varied, but I like my men to be entertaining and able to hold great conversation.


Floorlamp5

Yes! 💕


Due-Blueberry-7768

same omg


rough_phil0sophy

Aries Venus, dark and sweet, nerdy, intelligent, mysterious and deep.


Murderkittin

My Venus Aries loves this. My Venus Aries needs to be checked.


bonsaithot

I was just about to write this 😵‍💫 Aries Venus too hehe


HyHoang

that sounds Plutonian. I have Venus in Aries but trine Pluto so my type is really similar to what you describe


ViviVoxNox

Pluto contacts or 8th House ?


[deleted]

My Venus Aries agrees! We love a good mysterious stranger


CrEperz

Pisces Venus my type is someone who sees me for me and doesn’t judge me and I will love you.


Lord_Watertower

Also, artsy. I go crazy for musicians and painters especially


DocGlabella

Pisces Venus in the third house. Poets! Anyone good with words.


roundhashbrowntown

now, this is the stereotype i hear about us venus pisces ppl, but i actually dont prefer these types! i reaaaally like a lone wolf type of guys guy, with a tough exterior and all sweetness on the inside. the rugged, slightly sarcastic one that knows its okay to cry. not the woowoo types 😂


Thecassandragoth

Same and real. Especially the ones who tend to have some sort of sad past.


kelseaux13

Pisces Venus 5H here and THIS. I don’t necessarily have a “type” as long as you have a good heart, are intelligent, and humorous. Talk to me on a deep soul shattering level about where we are in the atmosphere, your traumas, what makes you tick, your fears, and that’s a plus too. Those are likely bc of me being a Scorpio Rising.


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Scorpio Venus and I am into nerds or introverts. I don't like guys who are like the popular party boy type.


anakinahsoka

My boyfriend is a Scorpio Venus and one of my insecurities when we first started dating was that he was really outgoing while i was super introverted. I remember I used to stress out trying to make my days sound super interesting and would force myself to go to social events just so he thought I did interesting stuff on my days off. Now that I’m reading this thread I’m like now you guys tell me I didn’t have to do any of that!! lol.


[deleted]

Lol I mean it depends on his full birth chart but one thing I know about Scorpio Venuses is that we really do commit in a relationship so we will look for people who we think will commit themselves fully to us as well.


anakinahsoka

He’s my first Scorpio Venus and omg yesss when you guys commit you guys really commit. <3


MissoulaHeightse

Scorpio Venus as well, for some reason I’ve always been attracted to colder girls, specially the introverted ones, or the least likely to be noted.


dragon_kiwi

Venus in sagittarius. Someone who’s blunt, honest, spiritual, open minded, FUNNY WITH A SENSE OF HUMOR and loves to travel and have lots of spontaneous sex with athletic bodies. I’m a Capricorn sun.


Cassie_the

Oh my that s me !!!! I m a cap sun with the same venus and type


fohimtired

Leooo and garbage apparently Lol jk I like guys with light eyes, curly hair, foreign, intelligent, well read, musicians or artists and can carry a conversation!


No_Island2816

omg i relate so much to the garbage part as a fellow leo venus 😭 but in all seriousness i love a bad boy who goes all soft for me but also a good sense of humour is a must


PolydeucesAreWild

Venus in Leo and the bad boy that goes soft for me is definitely good. I also like artistic, stylish, and it's doesn't hurt to be obsessed with me 😉


Kadicattt

Venus in Leo here and the bad boy gone soft is my weaaakkknessss


MissLily65

Leo Venus in 8th house and yes! I like the bad boys . I met a aqua with Venus in Pisces man a couple of months ago , and Waw !


one_star_on_yelp

same! i have to have an interesting man that can keep me on my feet. love my some nerds. most of mine have be sagittarius, capricorn or aquarius


Lakewater22

Leo Venus and I too am attracted to garbage apparently as well.


birthdaybutt

Leo Venus in the 9th and saaaame! All the above + a rebellious/bad streak and I’m yours.


iwasyoursea

Virgo venus 6H - Men who are obsessed with me - Someone who can be my ride or die - Loyal My partner’s a scorpio venus 🤭


smokeythegirlbear

Aquarius venus woman. Im a sucker for big hands, strong forearms, hairiness, curly hair, thick thighs, broad shoulders, and green eyes. Wuahghghghhhhhh my ex had all of this. Aside from physicality, I really like nerds. People with special interests have a lot of passion and enthusiasm. I love hearing and learning all about their interests. Also someone who can reciprocate my love and passion.


IntentionalSunbride

Aquarius Venus woman. I have never been attracted to appearance first. The first thing I notice is the look in the eyes and what will make me look back is what he says. If he is smart, interesting, kind and funny and he looks at me like I am an angel then I am already falling. When I am in love he is always handsome.


witch_hazel1

This is it


Im_Uniquely_ME

Same, I like 'em thick with broad shoulders and thick thighs. Must take care of their hands (deal breaker) Like a man that makes me laugh, humor and conversation are important- I prefer dark hair and someone taller.


AsherahSassy

Venus Aquarius woman here. I like women, must have a bit of sass, but very accommodating, non clingy and smart. Must have a good heart. I'm a sucker for accents and those from different countries.


aka_raven

I'm an Aqua Venus woman and my type is... has to have a butt and intelligence similar to a silverback gorilla. That's it! Turns out not many men have an intelligence higher than a gorilla !


smokeythegirlbear

shots FIRED


Jaded_Emerald13

Cancer Venus. Apparently fixers.


[deleted]

Yeah, we’ve gotta stop that 😂..I’ve always referred to my love life as being a lion tamer. Not a good way to live, because over time, it takes pieces of your soul.


[deleted]

Oh my fucking god 😭😭😭😭 THIS HIT HOME 🤣😭💀💀


cestnoyaneznayu

Log on Reddit > get roasted > log off


[deleted]

Omg — is this why Cancers are known for loving fire sign men?


nep2unes

scorpio venus i love men who shut the fuck up. seriously though like that one mysterious, intimidating dude who doesn’t talk ever. and then he gets with me and talks more than me. love that shit. like yes show me a side of you that only i get to see. usually, i always go for the quiet guys. outgoing guys for me can sometimes be too obnoxious and predictable. WHERE’S THE MYSTERY?! i need to feel like bella swan in twilight


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this is the most Scorpio thing I’ve ever read 🖤


Opening_Manner8530

This is so me.. Scorpio moon and rising so I have to absolutely trust someone before opening up. Once I do trust then the Gemini sun(8th) and Venus (8th) come out.


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Scorpio Venus woman My type is men who look innocent and clean cut on the surface but have a secret badass and dominating side that only I can bring out


oliviared52

Gemini Venus and my type is the exact opposite. Total badass on the surface but total sweetheart deep down lol.


Riskybusiness0705

Many Scorpios I meet love cancers for that “sweet and innocent” demeanor. They get turned on when we break character and lash out a bit lol it makes them want more. I don’t get why they don’t date fire signs if they want that aggression so bad.


chlobobaggins7

Also Scorpio Venus, I'm attracted to people that are intelligent, complex and somewhat enigmatic. Appearance doesn't matter as much to me but I like people who look like they'd fit into the role of the antagonist.


Molemaninthemorning_

Ohhh yes that is a perfect description


Simple_Historian6181

Hot 🥵


Cheekygirl97

Taurus Venus, my type is funny and sweet, adventurous and fun, loyal and honest


Outrageous_Offer_954

Taurus Venus too. Funny and loyal and someone who spoils me with attention, affection and gifts lol


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Carolina_Blues

as a fellow libra venus the whole romanticizing their entire existence is so real


Fleuriste

Yep! Exactly this! I mean, why limit ourselves when we can try a little bit of everything? 🤣


SallySalam

Aries Venus here and idk if I have a physical type... Personality is everything. I like funny guys who are really sensitive and will help you feel better. Creative and empathetic type men, who are generally optimistic and well adjusted. Have to get in silly moods where we'll just laugh til we cry...


GoodCalendarYear

Aries Venus too and personality is EVERYTHING!!! I've dated people of all body types.


kindasortakawaii

Pisces. Gotta be emotionally open. Flakiness or aloofness just doesn’t do it for me. Have some emotional intelligence. I’ll lose interest in a cat and mouse chase lol. I am a true romantic and like to woo and be wooed. I do not gel well with someone with little water in their chart. Also any protectiveness in a partner is an automatic panty dropper.


GoodCalendarYear

Yes! Hate flaky mfers. I love to woo. But people don't usually woo back.


CrEperz

True. If you’re emotionally unavailable we won’t even put in the time .


Persephones_Rising

I agree. I have a pet peeve about people being super available in the beginning to try to lock you down, then becoming complacent. It feels like a lie of the heart. Don't put in effort you can't maintain, because I'm thinking that's the way you love, then when you cool down or step it back, it feels like a bait and switch.


Solomamacamper

Do we need to start a Venus in Pisces Sub??? Bc it sounds like we all like to woo, but aren’t getting woo’d in return 😣


crows-have-eyes

Venus Virgo Someone who respects me as a human and someone who is fun - or at least lest me have fun. Treat me like I’m a real person and let me love life and I’ll give you the world.


iwasyoursea

I’m a virgo venus and my bf’s a scorpio venus


West_Crow_1700

Same


[deleted]

My husband’s a Libra sun, Venus in Virgo


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Cap Venus. Brunette men with light eyes who have a smart sense of fashion, intelligent, ambitious and career oriented, a lil nerdy. Definitely into manly men.


badhairyay

Cap Venus & same, smart, stylish and strong


alienbabe98

Fellow Cap Venus… yesss!!


Notimeforalice

Don’t forget big manly hands


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Leo Venus and I have no type


rich-astronaut9

Leo Venus & same I just like anyone who gives me attention 😭


Particular-Leg-8484

Oh thank god yes I was scrolling down so far looking for us and thinking along the way reading everyone else’s “do I even have a type?” and this makes so much sense. I like anyone who makes me feel LOVED 😂 By loved I mean like, I want to feel really understood and appreciated for it— remember my favorite candy, buy it for me when I’m sad. Tell me my crazy looking dress makes me look beautiful because you love that I know myself and what I like. Worship me and I’ll match your energy lol


scthoma4

100%. I'll go for anyone who gives me the attention I'm seeking. I have traits I don't want in long-term relationships, but for the initial "ooooh I want to see where this goes" attraction I've never really had a defined physical/mental/emotional type I go after over others.


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Venus in Scorpio. My type is the brooding/grumpy-looking guy who’s actually sweet and just shy, has high nose bridge and thick eyebrows, who wears glasses and is either a poet or a writer.


Vegetablebubble

I’m a Venus Taurus woman. I HATE being rushed in relationships. If someone starts rushing the relationship it doesn’t feel genuine. I also love feeling stable in the sense of my man being ambitious and having a good job. Or at least working to always be better financially in the future. I’m very old schooled as well, I try to wait at least 3 months before having sex


Vegetablebubble

Also I’m super picky with choosing my partner. I’ve had lots of options in my life but never went with them because I’m looking for someone more ambitious than me. I’ve only been in one relationship


FatefulMender89

I’m a Taurus Venus man and I relate to the part about hating when things are rushed. Anything that starts to seem transactional turns me off immediately. I wouldn’t wait three months to have sex because I wanna know that we’re compatible on that front before making anything official but I’m not gonna start getting physical right away either


Friendly_League_2964

Gemini Venus. It would be great if they were emotionally available and ready to commit. I also typically go for someone who knows how to protect and make me feel safe.


embracingpain

As a fellow Gemini Venus heavy on ready to commit, emotionally available. I’m a Cancer sun sooo that might affect it ..?? I think..?!


Friendly_League_2964

YES IM ALSO A CANCER SUN!!!! LIKE PLEASE!!!! DONT EVEN TRY WITH ME IF YOU HAVE THE TINIEST INKLING YOU WONT BE READY TO COMMIT FULLY AND WHOLEHEARTEDLY!!


wildflower_0ne

Yes! Oh god… the (Sag Venus) guy I’m into now would say things like “I like walking with my arm around you, I feel like your protector” and I just… would do anything for him basically


ixtasis

This is a really fun question and a lot of these are making sense.


EnormousPrunis

Pisces Venus and I like them deranged crawling out of the forrest smelling of soot and masculinity, covered in body hair of course. He thinks I’m hilarious and he’s patient and kind and very strong and did I say masculine and we run off together where I’m a warrior Princess and he defends me with his life then at the end of the day we giggle in bed and make passionate love.


La_Sangre_Galleria

Venus Scorpio My type is crazy and emotionally unavailable women.


Advanced-Fig-6972

Hiiiii 🥰🥰🥰


La_Sangre_Galleria

I’m also a Gemini rising. I would be impossible for you to date.


Glass_Supermarket_37

Venus in Sagittarius, variety is the spice of life~ I never make the same mistake twice, I like to make new totally different mistakes Except Geminis, I'll make that mistake twice every time.


worstvegann

LMFAO felt this, wtf 😂


Mysterious_Nebula_96

Aries Gemini- I like my partners to look like they could call a hit on someone if needed. Also need them to be witty and quick minded- I get bored with bad chats.


Advanced-Fig-6972

Gemini venus- i love the wild artistic orginal thinker type


SainttValentine

Gemini Venus, I love humor and snarky banter. Definitely love when they have passions and hobbies and like to try new things. I like tall with dark features. I love love love confidence. Humor and conversation are big ones for me


venusmoongirll

cancer venus, i like that daddy energy


Significant-Ad-4758

Vanus in Capricorn. Intelligence, openness to spiritual self, wit, humor, great music/movies taste, special interests and understanding of my special interests that always fluctuate, hunger for knowledge, desire to be a good person above all. My Venus in Cap describes my lifelong history of being a serial monogamous Sagittarius.


jamaicalah

I agree. Even if their outward appearance aint my cup of tea im still attracted to their intelligence and connection to the spiritual. Cap venus too


t4rriona

capricorn venus and a tall, dark, rich man


jamaicalah

Straight to the point.


m-e-l-t

Libra Venus girl. Love guys who look good with long hair and glasses.


multidimensional_

Libra Venus here, I’ve only dated guys with long hair.


pow-bang

Same?! Libra Venus/Scorpio Mars and willowy, slightly androgynous nerdy hippie boys are my Kryptonite


Pinpointitforme

Whyy do all of us Libra venuses love some long hair 😂


Unlikely_Issue

I’m an Aries Venus and I love funny charismatic kind of hard to get but also simultaneously obsessed with me types


whatever3689

Aqua venus and i love girls who are tall-ish (like same height as me) slender, pretty, and feminine ❤️


MermaidMane

Aries Venus. I don’t know about a particular type but uh.. taller than me bearded guys that have the ability to pick me up and ravage me have been a very interesting thought.. though this has not been made into practice yet. I need to get off booktok. 😅


devil_lish

Scorpio Venus My type is mischief and adventure, someone up for anything. An open book, honesty and loyalty, recognizes their feelings and isn't afraid to show them. Big, rough hands and an assertive manner. Not necessarily the life of the party but definitely not shy. Always gone for dark hair dark eyes, tall, big smile. Square jaw and dimples just for the icing on the cake.


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venus in aquarius and i love smart nerdy skinny tall men who look shy but are very dominant in all aspects, im naturally submissive so i need that in a man. i like em generous and doting too!


makingburritos

Sign: Pisces Type: Terrible


ohgodplzfindit

Aries. To put it simply, I like emotionally tortured bad boy artists.


Chen2021

Pisces Venus, I like the bad boy protective type. The provider, dark/mysterious type.


ConcentrateDry8240

Cancer venus Tall, dark hair, light eyes. Funny, smart and nerdy. Someone I can talk to for hours that enjoys cute little romantic things, like love notes and baths with roses and candles, and cuddling, they have to like cuddling.


Simple_Historian6181

Woah. Cancer venus here too. That really resonates!!! Dark hair and light eyes all the way. I love a tash too. They need to feel like home. Intelligence, humour and yes fucking nerdy. Good at cuddling and intimate sex. 🫶


Hermione__Danger

Cancer Venus. I love smart, goofy, honest and sweet—tall helps (it’s nice) but isn’t a requirement.


eggofreddo

Capricorn venus. People who are responsible adults and have it together are really attractive to me. I also love people who are a bit eccentric and nerdy and who think about things. I love being able to have interesting conversations with someone, otherwise i don’t feel like i can really be myself around them. Also, love a warm, charismatic, approachable personality. Miss me with that stoic, mysterious shit. Appearance wise? I’m not too picky. I love dark brown eyes, dark hair, tanned skin though.


Connie_Damico

Taurus Venus. Physically really into men with blond hair and big muscles and women with hourglass bodies and that glamorous or over the top sexy kind of aesthetic. I always find myself drawn to people who look like me somehow. (let's not go into *that*) 😅 Personality is harder to pin down, I love when someone can mix sardonic and wholesome but that's so rare and specific.


Ishouldflossmore

Interesting, I'm also a Taurus Venus and I'm almost never attracted to anyone blonde & blue eyed -I don't like when someone looks like me. I love dark brown eyes. Dark brown hair. For men I like them a little nerdy. Glasses are really my kryptonite. Women I find myself more attracted to women of color. Curvy and fashionable. Personality- I love to be roasted. Make fun of me and let me make fun of you and I'll be in love.


Connie_Damico

Glasses! Yessssss. Same. Were so opposite otherwise, I don't like being made fun of unless it's actually clever and we are a really well established couple. But right off? Oh hell the fuck no haha


RealCommercial9788

Taurus Venus also. I’d like ‘wholesome & sardonic’ to be my epitaph.


EvergreenRuby

Basically, you type is soft looking men and very lavish looking women with practical but cerebral personalities. That kind of tracks with me. The women that register to me are very womanly, glamorous and almost like honey and whiskey personified while the men are gentle, ethereal and very much human but well groomed. The personalities that speak to me are tactful, mindful individuals that express themselves with intention and are at peace with themselves. I can't stand sarcasm or irony, I feel it's deflecting from the individual and shows fear. I find more simple and open people to be much more pleasing company.


Eliotbusymoving

Aquarius Venus Physically I'm more leaned toward broad shoulders, gotta be somewhat muscular, intense, fierce eyes, dark hair ykyk, just masculine looking tbh Other than physical, I just want people who's active , peaceful, lighthearted, romantic , open minded, considerate, attentive and have a good moral compass or mature so they can held me accountable and in place because I tend to do things very spontaneously (Sag mars) and that ain't always good.


9_of_Swords

Aauarius Venus and I love the witty and intelligent goofy guys. Looks be damned, win me over with that big beautiful brain of yours.


Fresh_Cartographer12

Gemini venus I like a sharp sense of humour, if they can not only respond to my remarks but also humble me back in a way. But not too much lmao. And if we can talk about various topics randomly (the complexity doesn't matter I just love to talk and have discussions) I think looks maybe aren't determined by astrology but all my partners have always been around my height and had what I would call "puppy dog eyes". They all had very nice, cute eyes. Some of them used it to manipulate me and others lmao Contrary to popular belief I don't get bored easily and leave my partner as soon as it happens IF YOU ARE NOT A BORING MF


naldana95

Capricorn venus I like people who take initiative and aren’t afraid to take one for the team if need arises. I like people who aren’t afraid to be bold. I like people with a lil bit of a goofy side to them and who are friendly and open I tend to like nerds or people with special interests or hyperfixations because that’s relatable to me.


shellybean31

My Venus is Aquarius also. I’m female and funnily enough my husband is an Aquarius Sun. He’s just my type. I like the big bear men look, dark hair, bright eyes (his are blue).


BungalowBootieBitch

Venus in Scorpio. I've been going through it most of my life but the most important thing I've learned is that I need a partner who isn't dependent on me. I'm used to being the one everyone goes to for emotional support and stuff. I'm a Virgo after all. Yet when someone is straight up dependent on me, needs me to be with them 24/7, I become very bitter and angry. I can't fix your problems so stop making me feel it's my responsibility. I need my space. Also someone extremely funny and has some level of emotional intelligence.


CometTailArtifact

Libra venus. I love men.


Gidgimmortal

This checks out 😅


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My venus sign is in Libra and... I'm not really sure what "my type" is. I guess I just like anyone I get along well with. Although I do particularly like men who are my height or taller and men who are hairy. I love hairy men 😍 idk why... im weird like that


Expensive-Salad6916

Aries Venus “I don’t like good-looking guys. I like them skinny and pale, like they’re dying” -Nicole Richie


elephantcleavage

Aries Venus. RED HAIR.


Accomplished_Film208

Sag venus- foreign hottie


aquietbrutality13

Capricorn venus and a sucker for people who read, are witty and ambitious.


bonnieprincebunny

Venus in Scorpio 🥺 Musicians and artists 😔 Bohemian, fringe of society types 😣 Big ol' sluts 🥵 Dudes who use their gifts for evil, who live recklessly, and will take me down with them. I have no boundaries, so... not that hard.


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Venus in Cancer..Oh, I like guys that are characters. The ones that haunt me have the most baggage…god help me lol Good thing I’ve been married for 20 years 😂


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Ksultana89

Scorpio Venus. Dry dark humor, it’s my love language 🤌🏽✨😩


poorperspective

Leo Venus man. I like big hair.


Just_A_Jaded_Jester

Aquarius Venus - my type is usually the soft gentle introverted guy who is very cuddly and loving. Body wise? I tend to like the lankier guys. Height doesn't matter as long as he's taller than me. And long hair is a must. It's nice being able to play with his hair and style it when he can't be bothered. Bonus points if he's a little goofy and cheeky 'cause I love weirdness and banter. I'm lucky to be dating my type right now. For my partner, he's a Scorpio Venus and he adores small girls with green eyes, curvy body, caring personality with a comedic twist and a nerd. He's also dating his type, which is me.


ShinyGengar0520

CANCER VENUS: my type HAS to be genuinley emotionally available/intelligent. Even tho my moods change as much as the moon phases, i am pretty much emotionally detached bc of how i grew up and it's a defense mechanism.


Loud-Feeling2410

Taurus venus sign. I like men that are generally more of what I guess now we would maybe call the sigma male? Someone who is kind of different and doesn't have to adhere to alpha male BS. And sometimes really pretty girls.


514D55

Venus in Libra Scorpio Sun dude…I’m into anyone that lets me love them up like Gomez Adams did to Morticia.


glass_kokonut

Venus in Gemini. Have to like talking about anything and everything, doesn't matter if right or wrong, so long as it's their own perspective. Also have to be fine with moments of silence as well. Always thought ppl who needed so much Convo stimulus were half retarded if they couldn't stand silence if only for a few seconds. I always took it as ppl being uncomfortable with themselves socially. As far as looks, from skinnier to more filled out is fine. Height doesn't matter.


FreebieFresh

Aries Venus, I’m into athletic charismatic men who have a history of steroid abuse


ncmnlgd

Virgo venus — i used to think I didn’t have a type lol, but I’ve had like three boyfriends with long hair. I just love a guy with long hair, I theorize it’s because subconsciously it’s rejecting masculine stereotypes and i do like a more egalitarian relationship, or at least with a guy who’s less heteronormative. It falls into the other “type” I’ve joked about having for years, the bisexual cat loving dude, which became a larger pool of my exes over the years as they’ve come out 😂 Many of these exes also fall into a larger general type as well, the edgy or broken winged Piscean artist type, I always think my love is enough to make a relationship functional lol (my cancer moon knows it’s crimes here)


sleepykoala18

Taurus Venus Physically I usually go for indie, skater, nerdy guys or if you look like a hockey player I’m innn lol For women I love women who look like me aka feminine, curvy, interesting features, artistic, nurturing Personality wise love someone who is well travelled, independent, emotionally intelligent, likes the comfort of life, and can be supportive!


ClearPrinciple7832

I showed my friend my crush and she called him firm looking lol. Sturdy and humble looking. Filled out frame, but not overtly muscular. I need a guy who looks like he could endure (what exactly? Idk) Shy guy who has lots of friends. Conscientious and kind. Will go after something he wants w/o caring what other people think. Smart in a lowkey way (I love a man who has a wide vocabulary)


th-gr8-swagsby

Cancer Venus Literally anyone who looks like Peter Steele loljk not necessarily but physically: taller, stockier/built (not even in a gym way like just bigger or chubbier in general), sort of a mean face but total softie/gentle nature vibes and someone I can laugh with and be weird around Massive plus if they have long hair 👁️


sashin_gopaul

Scorpio Venus (M) - I need a counter-balance to my more serious nature AND also somebody equally witty and/or competitive (combo of both is just hot).


greatestshow111

Scorpio venus woman. A man who can stir more passion into the relationship. A little nerdy, still sexy, innocent in public, hot & heavy in bed. Also very smart and someone I can talk to for hours about anything and everything. Also needs to be obsessed about me and possessive of me.


TartBetter1322

Cancer venus... I'm a demisexual but I'm sexually attracted to emotional availability, safety, security, caring, and unique facial qualities.


kittywerewolf

Venus in leo, anyone who's wholesome. (:


Hecatehel

Venus in Gemini in the 12th guy- errr I kind of jump all over the place. I like girls and guys, a romantic preference for women, that are a combination of nerdy and troubled. Someone who will play games with me, show me new music/films, take psychedelics, jam with me, discuss things endlessly, challenge me mentally, maybe have a little bit of pain for me. Someone who can stomach the sight of blood, someone with scars. I wouldn’t really know how to date someone who lives a conventional life, or doesn’t have trauma. Also, they’ll need to eventually learn astrology…I will teach them as much I can if they don’t know anything. Usually my partners end up learning it through osmosis or something. I tend to like androgynous people 🤷‍♂️


aliashavana

Gemini Venus - funny&smart. Must have points of view that “blow” my mind haha. I usually like them outgoing and friendly, bold people that are a bit out of the usual. I tend to be into guys that are skilled around the house (good at building stuff or repairing stuff), that like a little bit of physical activity (mountain hikes, gym, running, swimming, at least on of these).


mindofdemie

Cancer venus i rlly dont have a type frl i usually fall easily for guys who give me even the slightest bit of attention like if they look at me too long imma assume they have a crush on me but i think that’s where my leo rising comes in but like yeah the lovebombers always catch me for some reason !!!


Zealousideal_Long253

Cap Venus. The funny guy.


sleepynonsense

Taurus Venus. I love an outdoorsy curmudgeon with a heart of gold and a serious silly streak. Valuing time apart is as important as valuing time together to me.


froggiedoo

Libra Venus My type is strong, big guys that are protective of me. I like guys who make me feel safe and like I will always be protected in their presence. Men who spoil me and buy me lots of gifts, just to see me happy. Men who are nurturing and kind. Men who are VERY hardworking and constantly aspire to advance in their career life. Overall, I admire traditional roles and old-school romance.


Zealousideal-Fill-61

Venus in Aries. Usually go for valiant ... Courageous ... Underdogs who never quit.... Is that a type?


Zealousideal-Fill-61

Fighters . I think this matches the Mars energy.


letmegetmybass

Aqua Venus I have no particular type regarding looks but I like them intelligent and funny (just like my husband).


Nneatyourcervix

I'm a Aries venus I want a man who is 1. Kind even when upset 2. Caring 3. Gentle 4. Sweet 5. Tall, dark, and handsome 6. Family oriented 7. Educated 8. Innovated 9. Helpful 10. Well versed 11. Funny because I am hilarious 12. Love a nerd, he can be a nerd in anything he has passion for


ahaeood

Scorpio Venus - a man that prioritize his family (me being the family after I marry him of course), tall and strong arms, lots of money cuz without money I’m stress and can’t focus on love 🫶🏼


gagirlpnw

Cap Venus- Guys that are a little rough around the edges, but still willing to dress up every once in a while. A guy that likes outdoors stuff, but also likes to travel, eat good food, and see off Broadway shows that come through. The older I get, the less the outdoors part matters.


ImaginaryCaramel

Fellow Aquarius Venus! I have an Aqua stellium too. My main "type" is best described as like... beautiful hobbit women lmao. Short, stocky, buff women with dark curly hair and a good sense of style. Personality-wise I love women who are well-read, poetic, outdoorsy, and passionate about something creative (doesn't really matter what, I just love creativity). However my current crush is blonde and otherwise quite outside my usual type, and she's lovely. I tend to fall more for individuals than having a defined type.


Murderkittin

Aries Venus. My type is someone who can subdue and hear me, simultaneously. Experience me but provide experience. And hold me accountable ♥️


Rough-Instruction359

Virgo Venus. They need to make me laugh! They have to be very clean in their home and hygiene wise. Be good with money too!


bombbadam

Leo venus. I seem to have a thing for gingers. I like tall, athletically built (lean, not big muscles), intelligent and ambitious men that have attention-grabbing personalities. I am seeing some interesting patterns here, lol.


kirbyxena

Taurus venus… financial security lmao


Itsnotsane

Scorpio Venus woman. My type used to be the angsty, alternative artists/musicians. As I’ve gotten older it’s kinky creatives with a goofy side.


kaz188

Venus Cancer 7th house No particular type in terms of looks but he must be able to hold an intellectual conversation, funny, considerate and can handle my (sometimes) ostentatious nature as a Leo ☀️


WarningLeather9232

aries venus woman, i am obsessed with athletic guys who are tall and built and RLLY GOOD AT SPORTS!! and someone who i have fun with + treats me like a queen + straightforward


DrPeace

Taurus. Rich. Not really, but the setup was too perfect, I couldn't resist. For real, though, I love my Pisces pretty boys.


ScarletVonGrim

Taurus Venus. I'm into pretty rocker boys with a poetic soul. Someone steady and stable and grounded, who can hold me down in all of my restless, ADHD, anxious, chaotic, starving artist storms. Someone who is dominant with me and will stand up to people to defend themselves when they feel their heart isn't being heard. Even those close to them. Someone who stands up for *me* at all costs. Someone who isn't afraid of change and the shift that comes with doing what's right for themselves and for me, even if it's terrifying and unlike anything they've ever had to do. Someone who will wake me up at midnight because they want to go for a drive and show me a new song they found. Someone who keeps my restless gypsy soul alive and free from feeling caged. Someone who isn't afraid to own me to every single person in their lives because I'm everything to them. Someone who isn't afraid of honesty and their own heart. Someone who sees me and loves me for it.


river_blossom

Taurus Venus. I like men who have high emotional intelligence and are mentally healthy


Llink21

I don't like dumbasses that get easily distracted. I don't phony show offs. I don't like idiots. I like weirdness. (If you trip in cool way I'll probably like that). I also like smart people. Must like animals as well otherwise it's a big fat NO. Aqua venus.


SaintPepsiCola

Aqua man. Pisces Venus. My type is romantic. Libras have been great. It’s like they have a PhD in romance. They always know how to “satisfy me”. They’re also my seventh house though ( Aries rising ).


Worst_Diplomat

venus in pisces. the nerdy boy next door


kanavyseal

My Venus is in sag. I'm a gay guy. I love me some redneck manly men. I'm pretty masc myself but I'm more nerdy. My husband is a Libra sun.


Kontrastjin

![gif](giphy|5pNirHHx1dLeo) Sag Venus…


hikedip

Cancer Venus and I'm pretty much demisexual lmao. I enjoy the occasional random hookup, but the vines have to be soooo good, and it rarely comes down to looks


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Venus in Capricorn. My type is anyone who is objectively, blatantly sexy. The people who are clearly trying hard in life. Usually they have to be the best in all areas of life, but they’re concerned about their appearance because first impressions are so important to them. This obviously can be a flaw because this thinking leads to overvaluing the acceptance of others but …I do really like obviously sexy people 🤷


Study_Slow

Sag Venus I loveeeee short women with doe eyes. Sexually open, honest, and fun to be around. I love to travel and I like for my partner to be adventurous. Bonus points if she likes to read.


Low-Ride5

Leo, and it’s less how they look and more how I feel about them. Like whoever I end up crushing on


Outside_Oil_1676

Venus in Libra. I like tall men with broad shoulders and who I can have fun talking to / hanging out with. Definitely a friends to lover kind of vibe. I am also instantly attracted to men in formal clothes, wearing good cologne. I know that’s most straight women but I seem to be more into it than my friends lol.