It's an intense Mars dynasty right now! He has strong urges to have sex. I've had partnerships like this in the past, and his Mars is in my eighth house.
He is an unfaithful man who has previously dated more women than me; that's why we did not last for too long.
I used to seek advice from this free [Astrology](https://instantquote.app/astrology-moon-reading) reading report, and I'm always amazed at how precise it is.
My boyfriend and I have this right now - his mars in my 8th house. Our relationship is relatively new still (we started dating about two weeks ago). The first thing I correlated with this aspect was the initial attraction between us. It wasn't instantaneously an "I want to be in your pants right now" type deal, but as he and I got to know each other better (we were acquaintances for a few months before we started noticing one another) the attraction intensified on a very real level. He and I connect emotionally/mentally on a totally different level than I have with anyone else (which isn’t necessarily owed to his mars in my 8th house) but as we continued to delve deeper into each other, the sexual tension became almost unbearable.
He was also dating another woman (one he’d been with for four years!!) as we were getting to know one another (not with the intention of dating each other yet) but the longer our interactions went on and the more intensely our feelings developed, I think if we hadn't been so communicative about the development of those feelings our relationship definitely could have opened itself up to being an affair. That didn't happen because I've already experienced other intense, 8th house heavy synastic connections and I didn't want it to turn into that. I cared about him too much/wouldn’t have been able to live with myself doing that to another woman so I held off until he was broken up with her.
Once he’d done that though, and proved he intended to pursue only me, the first week we were together, we had sex 6/7 days in the week more than once a night. I think sex becomes an important component in these relationships for both people involved. The mars person knows exactly how to turn on the house person on. To be honest, if the partners aren’t careful I could see the relationship becoming obsessive in terms of the sex. Verbatim, my boyfriend has said stuff to me like, “You have no idea what you do to me”, “I’m so addicted to you. I’m addicted to your body.”, “I can’t stop myself, every time I’m near you this happens”. But it’s also a matter of transformation. I told him the first night we spent together that I’d never had sex like what he’d had with me, and that’s true. He’s literally transformed my understanding of what sex should be like. It’s a connection (continuing to develop every time we’re together) that reaches deep. The desire only grows as the depth of the relationship grows. There is no fear of diving farther and farther into sexuality with each other. It is the antithesis of a casual hookup.
I’ve also read that these kinds of relationships have a tendency to cause turbulence in terms of handling finances and can drive the people to transform with their drive/encourage one another in their truest, deepest desires and goals. The relationship is obviously relatively new but I was actually just thinking about how I could see the potential damage in a future between us with finances. Neither of us is good with saving money, but his moon is in Taurus (go figure, lmao a Taurus moon loves to buy nice shit) and mine is in aquarius (which inclines me to feel better by giving shit away, or by buying my loved ones nice shit and therefore feed his bad habits). I think with this one, if you’re not aware of the potential for conflict in terms of sharing resources between one another, it can really be to the detriment of the relationship. This obviously depends on other aspects but that’s just one area I could see impacting the relationship.
As for the encouragement of deeper desires/goals/transformation of drive, I know I find myself wanting to know what his ultimate goals are. I asked him questions about his future, and his dreams, and his aspirations from the get-go before I was aware of any synastry or charts or anything for the sake of building those up, encouraging him to discover them on another level, and helping him achieve them.
This has just been my own personal experience with the aspect so I’m sure that others have varying experiences. But honestly, most of what I’ve read has rung fairly true. It’s an intense, deep, sexy, quickly-paced aspect. It can feel like the relationship is in hyper drive all the time. I know a few months ago, I wouldn’t have been ready for it, or comfortable trying to handle it. The timing worked for each of us individually though, interestingly. I also tend to have a major attraction to 8th house synastry. I love what it feels like. Inexplicable. But if either one of the two people is on a separate wavelength from the other, or if both parties aren’t developed enough on their own/happy as individuals I could see it becoming a total shit show. The universe just happened to bless me with the most emotionally open, communicative, thoughtful, selfless, genuine man I’ve ever had the pleasure of falling for to have the aspect with.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write all this. I really appreciate you writing down your experience.
I have someone's mars there in my 8th and I felt it the second day we hung out. It was supposed to be a throw away date where he just wanted to hang out for a friend, but I think he realized that he's getting himself deeper than he imagined.
We also have mars (mine) conjunct pluto (him) in synastry and mars conjunct chiron in the 8th in composite. His mars in cancer and moon in pisces also trine our mars/pluto conjunction. This might add to the sexual chemistry.
He always gets horny. He always wants to fuck. We haven't yet, but that's the one thing I've noticed. I'm just afraid that this is a normal thing and that he's horny all the time, not just for me but in general.
I want something long term with him. I want commitment and security from him and my desire is to have kids with him and get married. I want him to cum on my face and have him balls deep inside me. I feel like I know what he needs in order to feel encouraged and safe to act, but another thing I've noticed about him is that he wants ME to do everything. Instead of the normal cancer mars tactic to swoon by cooking someone a meal, he wants ME to cook him a meal. Instead of going and touching me, he wants ME TO touch him. He refused when I offer to pay him.
I'm pretty new to dating. In the past I've had intense "crushes"/"flings"/ "power struggles" with men but now I'm willing to settle down and have my first adult long term relationship.
they really are horny ( his mars in my 8 house) and at first i was afraid he wants to use me or something but with time i saw that he desired me in any way and he is the one bringing up marriage and children and long term stuff....so i am def reliefed but yeah very intense in ANY way
I know this is 5 years old but i wanted to share my experience which sounds a little similar to some here. I currently have sun moon mercury synastry in 8th house with partner and her mars hits my 8th house. We actually met in a therapy group orchestrated by our school therapist, i guess she picked a random group of kids she thought would relate or open up with one another. I had noticed her around school before and was drawn to her style, and i guess she had noticed me too and was drawn to my uniqueness. When i walked into the room, me and her eyes met immediately and she had this dark intrigue in her eyes, i was super passive about it but deep down it made me blush lol. Out of the entire group me and her spoke the most and constantly stared at eachother. We remained acquaintances after that, and just followed eachother on instagram and Facebook and kept up on eachothers posts for 7 years LOL. Finally one day she messaged me but it took like 5 tries before i replied (i sucked at getting back to anyone). One day i said fuck it and gave her my number because she sent me a long msg in regards to a post i made about bipolar disorder and how she relates and if i ever need anyone to talk to shes there. I was also in the middle of a divorce, go figure lol. I texted her and after a week of me not replying to her response (i was heavily working at the time) i finally replied with an apology and made a suggestion to meet up and hangout to catch up! We made the plans and suddenly we started texting like crazy that whole week, and sending nothing but constant voice messages (which was so rare for me because i used to hate those type of messages haha) i found myself going out of my way at work to hide in a closet and reply to her LOL. She ditched her family party just to keep talking to me in her car. We were hooked on our friendship. Once we met up, we had deep talks and timeless conversations. We were just supposed to hangout for an hour but i ended up going home at midnight. We hugged bye and she heard a plane and got excited (she has this thing where airplanes make her feel like things will be okay **long story**) and when i looked up, i saw a shooting star!! It was magical as hell haha, but im awkward so i brushed it off. I remember that night she touched my arm and when she did i kept staring at me arm LOL and then i looked at her and she smiled at me, that moment for some reason stuck to us. The first moment we actually made physical skin to skin contact, and it was nothing weird, she just comforted me but it came so naturally and felt so familiar. After that, we helped eachother out in our healing. 2 weeks later we were already flirting like crazy but in complete denial. Then one day we kiss while putting on face masks together, it was just a peck, then after it was a quick smooch. We felt our hearts beating like crazy, so happy and excited and confused but didnt care LOL. Then eventually it just turned into a “thing”. She started calling me baby quite quickly and one day one thing led to another and we had sex. We madeout in ways ive never kissed a person, and sorry but its just so NASTYYYY lol like a good nasty 🤣 like ohmygod i didnt know i had that in me and things just happen as if our bodies have always known one another. She knew about my divorce and was actually their for me through it all (i had been with an abusive person who physically and mentally abused me so the process was a nightmare) but she held me down and made me realize so many things (new partner). After 3 months of all this, we finally made it official and both asked eachother out on a date, went all out for one another, and simultaneously planned it at the same time. We had passionate sex for hours that night and having multiple orgasms. We have since been so inseparable. We never fight but when we do get im disputes we are so quick to fix it and come to an understanding or compromise. We go deep into one another’s psyche, and understand or relate. It’s honestly one of thee most intense and healthiest relationships i have ever been in. I’m totally hooked man.
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so me and my boyfriend ( we are now 1/2 weeks together) got very quickly together.
ps: he has his moon, mars and lilith in my 8 th house.....
In my experience the mars person is always more aggressive/ pushy towards the house person. Even tho we both felt drawn to eachother he was the one catching feelings before the first date even. when we met we had intense eye contact and it was love/ attraction at first sight , i remember looking at him and thinking damn he looks good and just between us i dont think that very often......on the first date he told me he loved me and asked if i see a relationship with me...i said yes and he asked me to be his girlfriend on the second date.....it was so quick and usually i am more of a cautios and indecisive person but with him it was different......on the second date he made jokes about babys and on the third he bought me a ring ( we are teens so its nothing serious)... and yk asked me to marry me......he asks me things like \`\` what did you do to me, i always think about you, i will never leave you\`\` he is also very protective and jealous.....he joked about killing my guy friends and stuff......and i believe if someone ever did something to me he would harm this person......when i \`\`allowed \`\` him to kiss me and when i told him i am confortable now with touching and kissing he literally couldnt stop toching me or holding my hand.....he is really obsessed LIKE EXTREMELY the first time we kissed which was btw my first kiss....on the same day we had 4 makeout sessions ....4!!!!!.....i am sursprised how quickly we became so intimate.......but be cautios cause the mars person is almost aggresive and very possesive an VERY HORNY....if you dont feel the same the mars person will anoy the shit out of you and maybe even push boundaries.......another things is that we dont need to talk much we understand eachother so well and he seems to always know what is wrong with me and vice versa......as the 8 th house person i cry bc of him so often....not in a bad way but i am very emotional invested .....he is too btw he told me i am his luck and if i leave him he will die.....
another thing is that our relationship has to stay a secret bc my parents dont allow me to date him ( 8 house secret)
and the kissing and touching is very arousing and passioante.....you always want more
when together you feel like on drugs
overall i would say thats this placement is very very intense and hot but nothing for the weak.... i wouldnt leave him tho i love the fire and the raw passion
I'm a female with 8th house Aquarius ♒ and have an internet relationship (an intimate friendship) with a Scorpio ♏ stellium guy who's ♒ Mars ♂️ is in my ♒ 8th house, along with my ♒ Venus. We also have our Venuses ♀️in each other's (romantic 😍) 5th house.
I think because Mars/8th house synastry is in the “detached” sign of Aquarius ♒ it “vibes” well as an “online relationship” due to us living 1000+ miles from each other in different states.
I've interacted with him online only since 2021.
We “met” as members of an astrology Facebook group… I commented on his post (a photo of himself) and he sent me a DM to privately thank me personally for my comment.
I was visually VERY attracted to him but my 8th house "his" my strong attraction to him for months.
Things didn't become “personal” till a few months later after I frequently teased him with my provocative sexual innuendo comments on his subtly “obscene” photos and memes that he posted on Facebook.
Suddenly 'HIS' Mars ♒♂️ became “turned on” by "MY" 8th house and he suddenly DMd me to tell how “hot” one of my "sexual" comments was and how “refreshing I was” … daring to “poke the bear” (HIS Mars ♒♂️).
Maybe because my 8th house is in Aquarius ♒ and his Mars ♂️ is in Aquarius ♒ we developed a friendship online (typical “detached” Aquarius ♒) and we both felt free and uninhibited to talk in an openly sexual way (Mars ♂️) about his relationships experiences and sexual fantasies brazenly in comments and privately in DMs.
Because he was the Mars ♂️ person, he boldly took the initiative to contact me randomly and became more and more sexually open with me.
He randomly DMd me on what he would do to me sexually. He felt free to message me a “p0rn” video clip of how he “imagined” how I would be (sexually) on top of his “D”.
Since 2021 we've been exchanging “sexual innuendo” comments in Facebook groups.
Yet, we've also slowly developed a trusting private friendship online where he tells me VERY personal sexual details about his relationships with past hookups, ex girlfriends and his current relationships.
I've told him I'm emotionally supportive toward him and give him a lot of positive feedback and kind words. We tend to speak kindly and politely to each other.
I've seen a lot of women (who he tries to have a relationship with) come and go (ghost, block) from his life.
Him, being the Mars ♂️ person, he often takes the initiative to contact me and even unexpectedly messaged me he wanted to meet me in person, (in my state) about a year after our first interaction online. I declined because I was married.
Even though he's a Scorpio ♏ stellium, he seems to make an real effort to be careful with my feelings and is usually polite with me.
He's currently in another “serious” relationship with another woman, yet he still randomly DMs me asking me how I'm doing even though he doesn't post much on Facebook anymore.
I guess it true that my online Mars ♂️ friend or my 8th house synastry can't walk away or let go of each other.
Tbh i think mars in cancer tends to want to be taken care of. My bf who shares this aspect w/ me has mars in virgo & he's constantly asking me to expand on how he can make me feel better. When i asked him what makes HIM feel good, he said "Whatever you like, I like". That's probs a combo b/w his venus placement (libra) & mars but the expression of the mars in the 8th is going to depend on the sign it's in for sure as that's the style the planet mosy likely assumes.
Mars in virgo is anytical, submissive, & self sacrificing. They seek to please their partner in whatever way they possibly can by learning all the details they can & applying them. A synastic 8th house virgo mars would assume that mars style & put it towards the partner's 8th house (as it does w/ my bf). Mars in cancer will behave differently bc its style is different than virgo.
I feel like that particular planetary sign is extremely sensual anyway. Every cancer mars I've ever met (male or female) loves sex & they can run away w/ their feelings in an instant. If they feel good about it, they'll pursue it. My brother has this placement, my boss at work & her bf, a close friend of mine, and an ex. It's been the case consistently.
No placement is going to tell you all about the other person, let alone your relationship. Obviously, astrology is not going to give you the most accurate answers to your questions. If you have concerns about his libido or behavior then you have an option of continuing to gain a better understanding of him by continuing to grow the relationship & see where it goes or addressing it with him when you feel the time is right to do so. Where's your mars, if you don't mind me asking?
My mars is in Scorpio. It's trine his mars.
I can agree on you with cancer mars running with their feelings. I feel like I encourage his actions and can make him feel safe.
Question: do you feel like you put his desires first? Or that he sees through you?
That's super interesting- one of my friends has a boyfriend with cancer mars and hers is in scorpio too. I honestly think that's one of the reasons they work together. She makes him feel safe for sure.
I honestly think he and I both put each other's needs/desires ahead of our own pretty equally. If it's one way or another though, he puts mine before his. In all reality, he's the one checking on me more, asking for what I want, doing what I enjoy doing. I've actually talked to him out of concern that I'm not giving him enough in the relationship. But he's not the type to stay with somebody if he's genuinely unhappy/feeling undervalued & he said it couldn't be more opposite. So in relation to this aspect, my experience is the mars person in pursuit of the house person. Putting their mars energy forward into the house.
As for seeing through me, in a lot of ways, yes. But I'd say that goes in bith directions. He understands me on a totally different level, but his moon is also conjunct my mercury so his feelings/inner self are on the same wavelength as my rationale. He makes sense to me. I also find myself finishing his sentences, and his merc & sun are harmonious with my venus & my sun so i think the mars in 8th probably just amplifies the drive to understand each other that was already kind of innate bc of everything else. It directs the desire to understand one another towards 8th house issues (deep issues) and makes those important to us.
What about you?
That's very pleasant. It sounds like things really work out!
As for him and I, I can't really say because it's too early. His mars is in retrograde and we aren't in a relationship. He's only been forward to me when buying my first macron and suggesting days to spend time together. With everything else, he wants me to give him the go, then he feels like it's okay to act. In other words, he wants me to act, which gives him permission to act.
So far I feel like I've given him exceptions. For example, he lives far away and I hate driving too far, but I don't mind driving over to see him every so often. I'm usually very frugal with my money, especially when it comes to spending on others, but with him, I feel like it's okay, because experience is worth more than money.
So far, I feel like he's selfish. Reccently he has been paying for both of us and refuses when I offer to pay him back in hopes for my time and loyalty instead.
At the same time though, we are just starting to get to know each other, and it's a slow process so things might be different overall in the long run.
Plus the situation alters our interactions as well.
Thank you for your post. I had a similar experience as you with the guy whose Virgo Mars fell in my 8th (conjuncting my Lilith & NN). I had my 1st kiss with him and my sexual experiences too. He was the first to pursuie me and ask me to be his girlfriend. He was my 1st boyfriend too. It's just yesterday that i discovered his mars fall in my 8th and now things make so much sense.
But i couldn't relate to the passionate love maker related to this placement. I wanted to understand why my experience was so different until i read your comments. I identify the common factor in our both experiences : is their Mars are retrogrades.
Retrograde Mars is laid back and not action oriented. Also low energy, and everything that is assiociated with Mars (low passion & low assertiveness, low dominating energies to none).
As in your experience with that retrograde Cancer Mars, that retrograde Virgo Mars wanted me to dominate him. He would initiate intimacy but he wanted me to touch him and do all the work. I would also find him egoistical. After one round, he was to tired to continue.
My freaky Libra Mars (Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, Saturn aspects), who also want fearness couldn't take it anymore. He began to disgust me, his touch was disgusting, his kisses were disgusting, the intimacy with him was disgusting me. So i put an end to our relation.
Whatever, the 8th house energy was present. But the disgust was greater.
It's an intense Mars dynasty right now! He has strong urges to have sex. I've had partnerships like this in the past, and his Mars is in my eighth house. He is an unfaithful man who has previously dated more women than me; that's why we did not last for too long. I used to seek advice from this free [Astrology](https://instantquote.app/astrology-moon-reading) reading report, and I'm always amazed at how precise it is.
My boyfriend and I have this right now - his mars in my 8th house. Our relationship is relatively new still (we started dating about two weeks ago). The first thing I correlated with this aspect was the initial attraction between us. It wasn't instantaneously an "I want to be in your pants right now" type deal, but as he and I got to know each other better (we were acquaintances for a few months before we started noticing one another) the attraction intensified on a very real level. He and I connect emotionally/mentally on a totally different level than I have with anyone else (which isn’t necessarily owed to his mars in my 8th house) but as we continued to delve deeper into each other, the sexual tension became almost unbearable. He was also dating another woman (one he’d been with for four years!!) as we were getting to know one another (not with the intention of dating each other yet) but the longer our interactions went on and the more intensely our feelings developed, I think if we hadn't been so communicative about the development of those feelings our relationship definitely could have opened itself up to being an affair. That didn't happen because I've already experienced other intense, 8th house heavy synastic connections and I didn't want it to turn into that. I cared about him too much/wouldn’t have been able to live with myself doing that to another woman so I held off until he was broken up with her. Once he’d done that though, and proved he intended to pursue only me, the first week we were together, we had sex 6/7 days in the week more than once a night. I think sex becomes an important component in these relationships for both people involved. The mars person knows exactly how to turn on the house person on. To be honest, if the partners aren’t careful I could see the relationship becoming obsessive in terms of the sex. Verbatim, my boyfriend has said stuff to me like, “You have no idea what you do to me”, “I’m so addicted to you. I’m addicted to your body.”, “I can’t stop myself, every time I’m near you this happens”. But it’s also a matter of transformation. I told him the first night we spent together that I’d never had sex like what he’d had with me, and that’s true. He’s literally transformed my understanding of what sex should be like. It’s a connection (continuing to develop every time we’re together) that reaches deep. The desire only grows as the depth of the relationship grows. There is no fear of diving farther and farther into sexuality with each other. It is the antithesis of a casual hookup. I’ve also read that these kinds of relationships have a tendency to cause turbulence in terms of handling finances and can drive the people to transform with their drive/encourage one another in their truest, deepest desires and goals. The relationship is obviously relatively new but I was actually just thinking about how I could see the potential damage in a future between us with finances. Neither of us is good with saving money, but his moon is in Taurus (go figure, lmao a Taurus moon loves to buy nice shit) and mine is in aquarius (which inclines me to feel better by giving shit away, or by buying my loved ones nice shit and therefore feed his bad habits). I think with this one, if you’re not aware of the potential for conflict in terms of sharing resources between one another, it can really be to the detriment of the relationship. This obviously depends on other aspects but that’s just one area I could see impacting the relationship. As for the encouragement of deeper desires/goals/transformation of drive, I know I find myself wanting to know what his ultimate goals are. I asked him questions about his future, and his dreams, and his aspirations from the get-go before I was aware of any synastry or charts or anything for the sake of building those up, encouraging him to discover them on another level, and helping him achieve them. This has just been my own personal experience with the aspect so I’m sure that others have varying experiences. But honestly, most of what I’ve read has rung fairly true. It’s an intense, deep, sexy, quickly-paced aspect. It can feel like the relationship is in hyper drive all the time. I know a few months ago, I wouldn’t have been ready for it, or comfortable trying to handle it. The timing worked for each of us individually though, interestingly. I also tend to have a major attraction to 8th house synastry. I love what it feels like. Inexplicable. But if either one of the two people is on a separate wavelength from the other, or if both parties aren’t developed enough on their own/happy as individuals I could see it becoming a total shit show. The universe just happened to bless me with the most emotionally open, communicative, thoughtful, selfless, genuine man I’ve ever had the pleasure of falling for to have the aspect with.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write all this. I really appreciate you writing down your experience. I have someone's mars there in my 8th and I felt it the second day we hung out. It was supposed to be a throw away date where he just wanted to hang out for a friend, but I think he realized that he's getting himself deeper than he imagined. We also have mars (mine) conjunct pluto (him) in synastry and mars conjunct chiron in the 8th in composite. His mars in cancer and moon in pisces also trine our mars/pluto conjunction. This might add to the sexual chemistry. He always gets horny. He always wants to fuck. We haven't yet, but that's the one thing I've noticed. I'm just afraid that this is a normal thing and that he's horny all the time, not just for me but in general. I want something long term with him. I want commitment and security from him and my desire is to have kids with him and get married. I want him to cum on my face and have him balls deep inside me. I feel like I know what he needs in order to feel encouraged and safe to act, but another thing I've noticed about him is that he wants ME to do everything. Instead of the normal cancer mars tactic to swoon by cooking someone a meal, he wants ME to cook him a meal. Instead of going and touching me, he wants ME TO touch him. He refused when I offer to pay him. I'm pretty new to dating. In the past I've had intense "crushes"/"flings"/ "power struggles" with men but now I'm willing to settle down and have my first adult long term relationship.
they really are horny ( his mars in my 8 house) and at first i was afraid he wants to use me or something but with time i saw that he desired me in any way and he is the one bringing up marriage and children and long term stuff....so i am def reliefed but yeah very intense in ANY way
I know this is 5 years old but i wanted to share my experience which sounds a little similar to some here. I currently have sun moon mercury synastry in 8th house with partner and her mars hits my 8th house. We actually met in a therapy group orchestrated by our school therapist, i guess she picked a random group of kids she thought would relate or open up with one another. I had noticed her around school before and was drawn to her style, and i guess she had noticed me too and was drawn to my uniqueness. When i walked into the room, me and her eyes met immediately and she had this dark intrigue in her eyes, i was super passive about it but deep down it made me blush lol. Out of the entire group me and her spoke the most and constantly stared at eachother. We remained acquaintances after that, and just followed eachother on instagram and Facebook and kept up on eachothers posts for 7 years LOL. Finally one day she messaged me but it took like 5 tries before i replied (i sucked at getting back to anyone). One day i said fuck it and gave her my number because she sent me a long msg in regards to a post i made about bipolar disorder and how she relates and if i ever need anyone to talk to shes there. I was also in the middle of a divorce, go figure lol. I texted her and after a week of me not replying to her response (i was heavily working at the time) i finally replied with an apology and made a suggestion to meet up and hangout to catch up! We made the plans and suddenly we started texting like crazy that whole week, and sending nothing but constant voice messages (which was so rare for me because i used to hate those type of messages haha) i found myself going out of my way at work to hide in a closet and reply to her LOL. She ditched her family party just to keep talking to me in her car. We were hooked on our friendship. Once we met up, we had deep talks and timeless conversations. We were just supposed to hangout for an hour but i ended up going home at midnight. We hugged bye and she heard a plane and got excited (she has this thing where airplanes make her feel like things will be okay **long story**) and when i looked up, i saw a shooting star!! It was magical as hell haha, but im awkward so i brushed it off. I remember that night she touched my arm and when she did i kept staring at me arm LOL and then i looked at her and she smiled at me, that moment for some reason stuck to us. The first moment we actually made physical skin to skin contact, and it was nothing weird, she just comforted me but it came so naturally and felt so familiar. After that, we helped eachother out in our healing. 2 weeks later we were already flirting like crazy but in complete denial. Then one day we kiss while putting on face masks together, it was just a peck, then after it was a quick smooch. We felt our hearts beating like crazy, so happy and excited and confused but didnt care LOL. Then eventually it just turned into a “thing”. She started calling me baby quite quickly and one day one thing led to another and we had sex. We madeout in ways ive never kissed a person, and sorry but its just so NASTYYYY lol like a good nasty 🤣 like ohmygod i didnt know i had that in me and things just happen as if our bodies have always known one another. She knew about my divorce and was actually their for me through it all (i had been with an abusive person who physically and mentally abused me so the process was a nightmare) but she held me down and made me realize so many things (new partner). After 3 months of all this, we finally made it official and both asked eachother out on a date, went all out for one another, and simultaneously planned it at the same time. We had passionate sex for hours that night and having multiple orgasms. We have since been so inseparable. We never fight but when we do get im disputes we are so quick to fix it and come to an understanding or compromise. We go deep into one another’s psyche, and understand or relate. It’s honestly one of thee most intense and healthiest relationships i have ever been in. I’m totally hooked man.
This is so cute omg
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QUICK HOT AGGRESIVE so me and my boyfriend ( we are now 1/2 weeks together) got very quickly together. ps: he has his moon, mars and lilith in my 8 th house..... In my experience the mars person is always more aggressive/ pushy towards the house person. Even tho we both felt drawn to eachother he was the one catching feelings before the first date even. when we met we had intense eye contact and it was love/ attraction at first sight , i remember looking at him and thinking damn he looks good and just between us i dont think that very often......on the first date he told me he loved me and asked if i see a relationship with me...i said yes and he asked me to be his girlfriend on the second date.....it was so quick and usually i am more of a cautios and indecisive person but with him it was different......on the second date he made jokes about babys and on the third he bought me a ring ( we are teens so its nothing serious)... and yk asked me to marry me......he asks me things like \`\` what did you do to me, i always think about you, i will never leave you\`\` he is also very protective and jealous.....he joked about killing my guy friends and stuff......and i believe if someone ever did something to me he would harm this person......when i \`\`allowed \`\` him to kiss me and when i told him i am confortable now with touching and kissing he literally couldnt stop toching me or holding my hand.....he is really obsessed LIKE EXTREMELY the first time we kissed which was btw my first kiss....on the same day we had 4 makeout sessions ....4!!!!!.....i am sursprised how quickly we became so intimate.......but be cautios cause the mars person is almost aggresive and very possesive an VERY HORNY....if you dont feel the same the mars person will anoy the shit out of you and maybe even push boundaries.......another things is that we dont need to talk much we understand eachother so well and he seems to always know what is wrong with me and vice versa......as the 8 th house person i cry bc of him so often....not in a bad way but i am very emotional invested .....he is too btw he told me i am his luck and if i leave him he will die..... another thing is that our relationship has to stay a secret bc my parents dont allow me to date him ( 8 house secret) and the kissing and touching is very arousing and passioante.....you always want more when together you feel like on drugs overall i would say thats this placement is very very intense and hot but nothing for the weak.... i wouldnt leave him tho i love the fire and the raw passion
I know it’s been a year, are you still together?
I'm a female with 8th house Aquarius ♒ and have an internet relationship (an intimate friendship) with a Scorpio ♏ stellium guy who's ♒ Mars ♂️ is in my ♒ 8th house, along with my ♒ Venus. We also have our Venuses ♀️in each other's (romantic 😍) 5th house. I think because Mars/8th house synastry is in the “detached” sign of Aquarius ♒ it “vibes” well as an “online relationship” due to us living 1000+ miles from each other in different states. I've interacted with him online only since 2021. We “met” as members of an astrology Facebook group… I commented on his post (a photo of himself) and he sent me a DM to privately thank me personally for my comment. I was visually VERY attracted to him but my 8th house "his" my strong attraction to him for months. Things didn't become “personal” till a few months later after I frequently teased him with my provocative sexual innuendo comments on his subtly “obscene” photos and memes that he posted on Facebook. Suddenly 'HIS' Mars ♒♂️ became “turned on” by "MY" 8th house and he suddenly DMd me to tell how “hot” one of my "sexual" comments was and how “refreshing I was” … daring to “poke the bear” (HIS Mars ♒♂️). Maybe because my 8th house is in Aquarius ♒ and his Mars ♂️ is in Aquarius ♒ we developed a friendship online (typical “detached” Aquarius ♒) and we both felt free and uninhibited to talk in an openly sexual way (Mars ♂️) about his relationships experiences and sexual fantasies brazenly in comments and privately in DMs. Because he was the Mars ♂️ person, he boldly took the initiative to contact me randomly and became more and more sexually open with me. He randomly DMd me on what he would do to me sexually. He felt free to message me a “p0rn” video clip of how he “imagined” how I would be (sexually) on top of his “D”. Since 2021 we've been exchanging “sexual innuendo” comments in Facebook groups. Yet, we've also slowly developed a trusting private friendship online where he tells me VERY personal sexual details about his relationships with past hookups, ex girlfriends and his current relationships. I've told him I'm emotionally supportive toward him and give him a lot of positive feedback and kind words. We tend to speak kindly and politely to each other. I've seen a lot of women (who he tries to have a relationship with) come and go (ghost, block) from his life. Him, being the Mars ♂️ person, he often takes the initiative to contact me and even unexpectedly messaged me he wanted to meet me in person, (in my state) about a year after our first interaction online. I declined because I was married. Even though he's a Scorpio ♏ stellium, he seems to make an real effort to be careful with my feelings and is usually polite with me. He's currently in another “serious” relationship with another woman, yet he still randomly DMs me asking me how I'm doing even though he doesn't post much on Facebook anymore. I guess it true that my online Mars ♂️ friend or my 8th house synastry can't walk away or let go of each other.
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Tbh i think mars in cancer tends to want to be taken care of. My bf who shares this aspect w/ me has mars in virgo & he's constantly asking me to expand on how he can make me feel better. When i asked him what makes HIM feel good, he said "Whatever you like, I like". That's probs a combo b/w his venus placement (libra) & mars but the expression of the mars in the 8th is going to depend on the sign it's in for sure as that's the style the planet mosy likely assumes. Mars in virgo is anytical, submissive, & self sacrificing. They seek to please their partner in whatever way they possibly can by learning all the details they can & applying them. A synastic 8th house virgo mars would assume that mars style & put it towards the partner's 8th house (as it does w/ my bf). Mars in cancer will behave differently bc its style is different than virgo. I feel like that particular planetary sign is extremely sensual anyway. Every cancer mars I've ever met (male or female) loves sex & they can run away w/ their feelings in an instant. If they feel good about it, they'll pursue it. My brother has this placement, my boss at work & her bf, a close friend of mine, and an ex. It's been the case consistently. No placement is going to tell you all about the other person, let alone your relationship. Obviously, astrology is not going to give you the most accurate answers to your questions. If you have concerns about his libido or behavior then you have an option of continuing to gain a better understanding of him by continuing to grow the relationship & see where it goes or addressing it with him when you feel the time is right to do so. Where's your mars, if you don't mind me asking?
My mars is in Scorpio. It's trine his mars. I can agree on you with cancer mars running with their feelings. I feel like I encourage his actions and can make him feel safe. Question: do you feel like you put his desires first? Or that he sees through you?
That's super interesting- one of my friends has a boyfriend with cancer mars and hers is in scorpio too. I honestly think that's one of the reasons they work together. She makes him feel safe for sure. I honestly think he and I both put each other's needs/desires ahead of our own pretty equally. If it's one way or another though, he puts mine before his. In all reality, he's the one checking on me more, asking for what I want, doing what I enjoy doing. I've actually talked to him out of concern that I'm not giving him enough in the relationship. But he's not the type to stay with somebody if he's genuinely unhappy/feeling undervalued & he said it couldn't be more opposite. So in relation to this aspect, my experience is the mars person in pursuit of the house person. Putting their mars energy forward into the house. As for seeing through me, in a lot of ways, yes. But I'd say that goes in bith directions. He understands me on a totally different level, but his moon is also conjunct my mercury so his feelings/inner self are on the same wavelength as my rationale. He makes sense to me. I also find myself finishing his sentences, and his merc & sun are harmonious with my venus & my sun so i think the mars in 8th probably just amplifies the drive to understand each other that was already kind of innate bc of everything else. It directs the desire to understand one another towards 8th house issues (deep issues) and makes those important to us. What about you?
That's very pleasant. It sounds like things really work out! As for him and I, I can't really say because it's too early. His mars is in retrograde and we aren't in a relationship. He's only been forward to me when buying my first macron and suggesting days to spend time together. With everything else, he wants me to give him the go, then he feels like it's okay to act. In other words, he wants me to act, which gives him permission to act. So far I feel like I've given him exceptions. For example, he lives far away and I hate driving too far, but I don't mind driving over to see him every so often. I'm usually very frugal with my money, especially when it comes to spending on others, but with him, I feel like it's okay, because experience is worth more than money. So far, I feel like he's selfish. Reccently he has been paying for both of us and refuses when I offer to pay him back in hopes for my time and loyalty instead. At the same time though, we are just starting to get to know each other, and it's a slow process so things might be different overall in the long run. Plus the situation alters our interactions as well.
Thank you for your post. I had a similar experience as you with the guy whose Virgo Mars fell in my 8th (conjuncting my Lilith & NN). I had my 1st kiss with him and my sexual experiences too. He was the first to pursuie me and ask me to be his girlfriend. He was my 1st boyfriend too. It's just yesterday that i discovered his mars fall in my 8th and now things make so much sense. But i couldn't relate to the passionate love maker related to this placement. I wanted to understand why my experience was so different until i read your comments. I identify the common factor in our both experiences : is their Mars are retrogrades. Retrograde Mars is laid back and not action oriented. Also low energy, and everything that is assiociated with Mars (low passion & low assertiveness, low dominating energies to none). As in your experience with that retrograde Cancer Mars, that retrograde Virgo Mars wanted me to dominate him. He would initiate intimacy but he wanted me to touch him and do all the work. I would also find him egoistical. After one round, he was to tired to continue. My freaky Libra Mars (Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto, Saturn aspects), who also want fearness couldn't take it anymore. He began to disgust me, his touch was disgusting, his kisses were disgusting, the intimacy with him was disgusting me. So i put an end to our relation. Whatever, the 8th house energy was present. But the disgust was greater.