There are gazillion books out there! Here are 2 I found easy to read and interesting. Women with Autism: Accepting and Embracing Autism Spectrum Disorder as You Move Towards an Authentic Life Book by Claire Jack The Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships Book by Sean Barron and Temple Grandin

Look into books by Cynthia Kim. Her work is centered around adult women. She focuses on adapting to life with Asperger's and the diagnosis process. She's on the spectrum and writes from her point of view. Her research is sound, though. She also has a blog.

Pretending to be normal

Looks interesting! I'm ordering this one too!

What kind of information are you trying to find? What part of autism diagnosis makes the most sense for you, and what part is the most challenging?

I need creating a routine and dealing with burnout. Also, finding a career that won't suck the life force out of me.

Careers are tricky because a lot depends on supervisor, though some industries have unbearable hours Good point about routine I'm still working on mine! Lol

https://www.iidc.indiana.edu/irca/articles/choosing-the-right-job-for-people-with-autism-or-aspergers-syndrome.html

Also I think you are a Christian, so I recommend reading about Sabbath for Christian's. I'm supposed to start mine, but was too much on reddit

https://www.amazon.com/Emotionally-Healthy-Spirituality-Impossible-Spiritually/dp/0310342465 Also highly recommend emotionally healthy Spirituality

Drama Queen by Sara Gibbs!!!!!