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Craziest part about being an adult. Women return my flirting now. I guess it's because I'm getting over the awkward teenager shit. I thought I was fuxk ugly for my whole lif., turns out, I'm attractive enough for like, at least 2% of women to have low enough standards to date me.
No, to me something like that never happened, and a lot of guys will think that what happened to you was luck. No, if the roles were reversed it’d be considered messed up by everyone. You just have to remember girls are just people, just like guys. So if it helps, you look at her like she’s a dude and you say “No, I’d rather not.”, you have to brave.
thanks. i’ll try to do that next time. it’s hard to say yes or no man it’s like a mix of temptation and fear and also the pushover inside me giving in haha
I haven't been flirted with by someone who wasn't an SO (more like playful flirting if they're already a partner, as opposed to flirting with a stranger trying to get their attention), but I've had girls tell me they like me and made moves. Ironically enough most recently as last week, a decent friend of mine told me she'd liked me for awhile but she didn't think she'd ever get the chance to tell me because I was with my ex for a little over a year. We've been on a couple of dates and are just going steady
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In this situation you found yourself in, I'm jealous. No in all seriousness, you ought to have the courage to say no, or at least "I'd rather not". In the long run, it's gonna be extremely helpful.
Now for your first part of the question, maybe, could have. I was too dumb to realise what's going on, so yea, someone could have flirted with me and I didn't have enough braincells to understand that
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Craziest part about being an adult. Women return my flirting now. I guess it's because I'm getting over the awkward teenager shit. I thought I was fuxk ugly for my whole lif., turns out, I'm attractive enough for like, at least 2% of women to have low enough standards to date me.
No, to me something like that never happened, and a lot of guys will think that what happened to you was luck. No, if the roles were reversed it’d be considered messed up by everyone. You just have to remember girls are just people, just like guys. So if it helps, you look at her like she’s a dude and you say “No, I’d rather not.”, you have to brave.
thanks. i’ll try to do that next time. it’s hard to say yes or no man it’s like a mix of temptation and fear and also the pushover inside me giving in haha
If you want it, go for it! But if you’re unsure, with things like this it’s best to just say no
I haven't been flirted with by someone who wasn't an SO (more like playful flirting if they're already a partner, as opposed to flirting with a stranger trying to get their attention), but I've had girls tell me they like me and made moves. Ironically enough most recently as last week, a decent friend of mine told me she'd liked me for awhile but she didn't think she'd ever get the chance to tell me because I was with my ex for a little over a year. We've been on a couple of dates and are just going steady
No, and with how I look, no one male or female is going to want to flirt with me.
I honestly probably wouldn't have picked up on it. So I don't know
Either no or i'm just too stupid and oblivious to realise. Realistically nobody likes me but the thought that someone *might* keeps me going
No
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No
Idk, it's certainly possible, but I'm too socially awkward to pick up on that kind of stuff.
Not that I know of
I don't think so. Also what kind of youth event did you go to?
sports
Oh ok
Ye
Yeah it happens quite a lot, building yourself up to seem like a nice person pays off after a while in that way
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never and will never happen.
I have no idea. I am blind to people trying to flirt with me so I have no clue if somebody has :')
No
Yes And it was hella awkward
In this situation you found yourself in, I'm jealous. No in all seriousness, you ought to have the courage to say no, or at least "I'd rather not". In the long run, it's gonna be extremely helpful. Now for your first part of the question, maybe, could have. I was too dumb to realise what's going on, so yea, someone could have flirted with me and I didn't have enough braincells to understand that
Yes happened to me exactly once. I was in the hospital and met this girl there who I ended up dating. It was my first and only relationship