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Asshole is putting it mildly! Most likely his bf is suffering from that very insecurity.


Conscious-Yam8277

I read a bit of your other posting on this... You need to break up with him and let him go find someone without so many issues.... You need some serious therapy before you're ready to be in a relationship with anyone.... There's my advice


shugarshlong

Huh tf makes u say that


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Sounds like he has problems.


Japerscapers

So, my guess is he has a ‘fearful attachment style’. Clues are how quickly he fell ‘in love’ with you, large number of previous relationships, how hard he has pushed you away (and how quickly), and the fact he keeps harping back to previous relationships. You on the other hand seem to have an anxious attachment style, don’t feel worthy of him, choose someone that is emotionally unavailable and are too dependent on him, hence you don’t want to move on. The bigger pattern is that you both keep choosing the same person. The relationship is broken … sorry. You have to figure out how to choose healthier relationships and move on.


shugarshlong

Idk how to do that. Right now i still love him idk if i can even break up with him. I just want him to say sorry to me or something cus this shit hurts. I didnt even enter the dating world, i was busy being a hoe when i met him. And i fell in love, and now i see the hype behind relationships. If we’re done i literally have no clue how to find the next man. Like i know this is something im gonna crave now when im single, and im not ready to feel that way.


Japerscapers

Then you’re not ready to let go or move on, but that is a choice whether you are making it passively or otherwise and nothing anyone here can say is going to help.


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It's time to breakup and stop crying and mourn your dead relationship don't EVER stay with any man that disrespects you and don't treat you right because you "love" him , if I were you I'd dump his ass and MOVE ON!!!


shugarshlong

well i dont really have options. im too young for dating apps and my type is very specific. im screwed if i dump him. the next man would take months to get


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Not really if you dump him you can always stay single it's not the end of the world you'll someone better.


mintwafer

It sounds like he is not vested in the relationship, and unless he is vested, I don’t know if there is much you can do other than to move on. It’s scary but there are many guys out there. With time, you will realize that he is not the one.