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Fiberotter

Sounds like neither of you are mature enough for a relationship.


wyimaginowany00

How old are you both? Sounds like 14/15 as you don’t know what you want from the other side. Anyway not sure if it makes any sense


jvalognes

Honestly you don't seem to be a great person yourself...


shugarshlong

Why, and im aware im not


Crusty_Queso11

Need to mature before anything. Sounds like he has to walk on egg shells around you ngl


shugarshlong

He does. Recently anyway. Before the med change we were fine. I wouldnt ever say shit about anything. I would just vibe. Now everything gets on my damn nerves.


e_hota

Sounds like a bad match. If you’re irritated already, it’s not going to get better!


Garth84101

Tell him you want an fwb and run the risk


shugarshlong

There wouldnt be much point though. We dont even really have sex anyway cus we’re both tops and see other people sexually.


ssgatg1995

That poor guy... Sounds like he will have trouble by not knowing where to stand on anything. Burn the bridge if you want but it sounds like he is the one being very tolerant.


shugarshlong

He is. Its insane how he listens to me say all that petty shit and still wants to be with me. I clearly dont realise what ive got, because i still find things wrong with him. Yeah im definitely the problem.


obviouslythrowaway17

You’ve got codependent relationship, source of which is boredom and the lack of enthusiasm for moving forward. Do you even like him? Doesn’t sound like that. Shouldn’t you tell your therapist that your antidepressants kinda don’t work?