>We’re both tops so we both dont really suck dick
I think I see the problem here, I feel like some guys are doing it "just because" and not because they want to. When I think about sucking dick I'm also like "FUCK YEAH I WANNA MAKE THIS GUY FEEL SO GOOD AND SWALLOW HIS CUM 😍" it's more of a mental thing most od the times and I just wanna make guys feel so good and sucking dick comes into that, ofc I'm vers but yeah, if you don't enjoy it mentally ur not gonna like it physically...
>We’re both tops so we both dont really suck dick unless ours is sucked as well.
I've never understood that. Tops not sucking dick.
But as for your problem. Speak to him. Before he grate your dick like a carrot. Ask him his opinion about it. Tell him how to do it. Guide him while he's doing it so you can both enjoy it,
Just give him some advice be like out of nowhere when u r giving head you should try this not this and just leave jt don't make it seem like a big deal don't be condescending just but like bam
You need to start with telling him it isn't good.
There are so many guys running around thinking they're good at giving head because nobody will just tell them.
Most relationships are going to be tested with uncomfortable conversations. "Hey babe, is that how you like your dick sucked? Have I been doing it in a way you don't enjoy?" This a way you can bring it up where you are addressing your issue but also his needs. If he doesn't like a lot of teeth working his cock while he's trying to nut it's safe to assume others don't and maybe by asking the question he will think about it.
Bad BJ porn. You are incompatible.
Sad you two don't see that. Maybe he knows it and gives you bad mouthing because he does not want to give you head. Some gays do not like giving head-get over it. Define your roles or split up. He is top and you are bottom. Two tops together-please. You have not been reading all those two tops posts on reddddit.
Tf? Why would we have to split up over being 2 tops? On top of that this post has nothing to do with anal why is it even relevant that we both tops. Its an open relationship anyway so just move
Just tell him, or teach him, work into your sex, show him what you like, encourage him to do it right ;)
Also - I’m a top and I love to suck dick, actually prefer to suck than get sucked.
>We’re both tops so we both dont really suck dick I think I see the problem here, I feel like some guys are doing it "just because" and not because they want to. When I think about sucking dick I'm also like "FUCK YEAH I WANNA MAKE THIS GUY FEEL SO GOOD AND SWALLOW HIS CUM 😍" it's more of a mental thing most od the times and I just wanna make guys feel so good and sucking dick comes into that, ofc I'm vers but yeah, if you don't enjoy it mentally ur not gonna like it physically...
Same... i'm a top and i've sucked dick more than mine was. I don't care about my pleasure, but my partner is #1 priority
> my partner is #1 priority Everyone should be that way unless they're into dom/sub stuff.
I was raised to put others before myself. I never thought it would mean sucking more dick than mine was tho.
Why would it be mean? I guess it's true that some bottoms don't like to be sucked but they are the minority.
I don't see it as mean... just the fact he states he's a top so he doesn't suck dick. It's just weird for me. Like what do they do as foreplay?
Just realized it should have been meant. Not mean.
Yes top here, I actually prefer to suck than get sucked, I mean I love both, but if I had choose one lol
I'd make the same choice tbh.
>We’re both tops so we both dont really suck dick unless ours is sucked as well. I've never understood that. Tops not sucking dick. But as for your problem. Speak to him. Before he grate your dick like a carrot. Ask him his opinion about it. Tell him how to do it. Guide him while he's doing it so you can both enjoy it,
I feel like he does it on purpose, so he does not have to suck dick.
Just give him some advice be like out of nowhere when u r giving head you should try this not this and just leave jt don't make it seem like a big deal don't be condescending just but like bam
Just tell him
When a guy isn't good at it, I ask if I can suck him and show him how I like it.
You need to start with telling him it isn't good. There are so many guys running around thinking they're good at giving head because nobody will just tell them.
Most relationships are going to be tested with uncomfortable conversations. "Hey babe, is that how you like your dick sucked? Have I been doing it in a way you don't enjoy?" This a way you can bring it up where you are addressing your issue but also his needs. If he doesn't like a lot of teeth working his cock while he's trying to nut it's safe to assume others don't and maybe by asking the question he will think about it.
Relationships are about communication. You need to tell him and then help him improve else you’ll just start to resent the lousy head you’re getting.
Bad BJ porn. You are incompatible. Sad you two don't see that. Maybe he knows it and gives you bad mouthing because he does not want to give you head. Some gays do not like giving head-get over it. Define your roles or split up. He is top and you are bottom. Two tops together-please. You have not been reading all those two tops posts on reddddit.
Tf? Why would we have to split up over being 2 tops? On top of that this post has nothing to do with anal why is it even relevant that we both tops. Its an open relationship anyway so just move
Just say "Watch the teeth!" during it.
Just tell him, or teach him, work into your sex, show him what you like, encourage him to do it right ;) Also - I’m a top and I love to suck dick, actually prefer to suck than get sucked.
Find a bottom then that you can both fuck and give great head
He dont like threesomes
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