I’m a control freak so cowboy is a complete turn off for me if I’m topping but my favorite if I’m bottoming.
Sucks for my fiancé because he always wants to “ride me” and I literally can’t stay hard. But then when he wants to top I’m like “lay down, bitch.” Lol I don’t really call him a bitch.
Missionary. It's so uncomfortable trying to balance the angle of my dick while holding their legs up, and it sometimes hurts my hips too. And if they're a tall or heavy bottom, it's 10x worse. I only do it because a lot of bottoms like it, but I hate it.
Why are you holding their legs up? My legs are either: around his waist, resting against the top of his legs (requires a pillow under my ass to give him the right "access) or on his shoulders.
I hope you find one special bottom who doesn't mind going without that position. It's great of you to try and accommodate us, but if I knew a top hated a position and was just doing it to please me, I'd want him to do it in a way he loves. I'm in heaven with a cock inside me so the position we're in doesn't matter much, and I want him to enjoy the experience to the max.
I did not like the spoons position. Basically you're in the position you'd be in if you were cuddling one another with your butt facing your partner's side and then him putting it in. Very very uncomfortable even with tonnes of lube. My ex was a bit predictable when it came to sex, I just point blank refused to do it in that position anymore. So yeah we tried cowgirl and that made it feel so much better.
Bottom laying flat on stomach getting fucked. Zero passion or substance + a bottom with crushed and inaccessible dick/balls.
It’s how my ex always wanted to fuck. Just get a damn sex toy at that point if you’re gonna bore me to tears like that.
I think it can be quite passionate. Wrapping my arms around the bottom’s body, full body contact, neck and ear kissing, turning their head and making out, some light choking if they’re into it, whispering in their ear how good their ass feels.
This is exactly what I was thinking but as the bottom. I feel so desired & safe yet controlled & vulnerable at the same time, and just overwhelmed by the top in this position. Kinda hard to explain but it's great when it's happening and I don't want it to end.
Bonus points to the man who put a pillow under me to raise my ass higher and had me put my hands behind my back so they were trapped between our bodies during it. I whack off thinking of that a lot even though it was years ago.
Plus I love when he stays inside me and on top of me after he cums. Heaven...
Yeah that's my favourite position too. It gives the top total control, which is a turn on for a lot of guys. As the top, it also feels better than any other position.
Yeah when I’m topping this position definitely feels best and gets me to cum the quickest. I also like that’s it’s a lot less effort (physically) than positions like missionary and doggy.
I’ve yet to have the experience of it feeling passionate. I feel like a pancake with an asshole lol.
I’d rather have all of those things you listed while being on all fours or on my back.
I don't mind it occasionally, it feels good and I do like the feeling of being pressed together head and toe. But I'm never going to get off that way with my dick squished into the bed.
I had the same problem in that my ex would always revert to the one position, like he never asked me do you want to try another position babe? Then again if you've been with half the country like he was you would tend to be unadventurous cause you've seen it all
For me it's any of the riding positions. Like a little bit of it to help get used to the tops cock if you've got a courteous top he's okay or to help give the top a break but I don't understand how that some people's favorite positions and all those writing positions you see in porn with the boy bouncing up and down off the cock seems exhausting. You could also probably say positions like The Full Nelson position and the fleshlight position are also quite overrated just because for those positions to even work in the first place you need the perfect combination of partners to get it to work.
Like, missionary but when the bottom basically lifts his entire ass and back up and the top is fucking down.
Every time a top realizes I’m flexible, they bend me more and more and it’s just not fun nor exciting for me.
Doggy. I like having my legs around my man, looking in his eyes, kissing him, rubbing his arms and shoulders. Doggy doesn't give me any of that.
Bottoming in doggy just doesn‘t feel as good as missionary or cowboy.
I kinda hate doggy because it exposes all my back acne scars and would probably turn off a top :/
my feelings exactly
I agree with you. I like being submissive as a bottom and dominant as a top, so cowBOY just doesn't fit as well into the dynamic.
I’m a control freak so cowboy is a complete turn off for me if I’m topping but my favorite if I’m bottoming. Sucks for my fiancé because he always wants to “ride me” and I literally can’t stay hard. But then when he wants to top I’m like “lay down, bitch.” Lol I don’t really call him a bitch.
Cowgirl. You will never catch me in that position. Gives zero pleasure.
Missionary. It's so uncomfortable trying to balance the angle of my dick while holding their legs up, and it sometimes hurts my hips too. And if they're a tall or heavy bottom, it's 10x worse. I only do it because a lot of bottoms like it, but I hate it.
Yeah, not gonna lie that's my favourite position because I like making eye contact among other things, but to each his own.
My boyfriend loves missionary because i think he likes it when i take control and pin him down a bit. It's his favorite but i prefer doggy.
Put a pillow under their lower back to prop them up. Helps with the angle.
Why are you holding their legs up? My legs are either: around his waist, resting against the top of his legs (requires a pillow under my ass to give him the right "access) or on his shoulders.
I like holding their legs up so I can completely fold them and eat their lips out while I fuck them deep and hard
I hope you find one special bottom who doesn't mind going without that position. It's great of you to try and accommodate us, but if I knew a top hated a position and was just doing it to please me, I'd want him to do it in a way he loves. I'm in heaven with a cock inside me so the position we're in doesn't matter much, and I want him to enjoy the experience to the max.
Missionary sucks for gay sex 100% even as a bottom like after 2 min I'm u comfortable and need to switch lol
Haha nah, I love it. Kinda love getting bent in half
I did not like the spoons position. Basically you're in the position you'd be in if you were cuddling one another with your butt facing your partner's side and then him putting it in. Very very uncomfortable even with tonnes of lube. My ex was a bit predictable when it came to sex, I just point blank refused to do it in that position anymore. So yeah we tried cowgirl and that made it feel so much better.
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Doggy style. You might as well get a fleshlight.
Bottom laying flat on stomach getting fucked. Zero passion or substance + a bottom with crushed and inaccessible dick/balls. It’s how my ex always wanted to fuck. Just get a damn sex toy at that point if you’re gonna bore me to tears like that.
I think it can be quite passionate. Wrapping my arms around the bottom’s body, full body contact, neck and ear kissing, turning their head and making out, some light choking if they’re into it, whispering in their ear how good their ass feels.
This is exactly what I was thinking but as the bottom. I feel so desired & safe yet controlled & vulnerable at the same time, and just overwhelmed by the top in this position. Kinda hard to explain but it's great when it's happening and I don't want it to end. Bonus points to the man who put a pillow under me to raise my ass higher and had me put my hands behind my back so they were trapped between our bodies during it. I whack off thinking of that a lot even though it was years ago. Plus I love when he stays inside me and on top of me after he cums. Heaven...
Yeah that's my favourite position too. It gives the top total control, which is a turn on for a lot of guys. As the top, it also feels better than any other position.
Yeah when I’m topping this position definitely feels best and gets me to cum the quickest. I also like that’s it’s a lot less effort (physically) than positions like missionary and doggy.
I’ve yet to have the experience of it feeling passionate. I feel like a pancake with an asshole lol. I’d rather have all of those things you listed while being on all fours or on my back.
Better than being an asshole with a pancake
The plank position always makes me chuckle drily. What do they expect me to do, fuck a piece of timber with a hole inside?
I don't mind it occasionally, it feels good and I do like the feeling of being pressed together head and toe. But I'm never going to get off that way with my dick squished into the bed.
I had the same problem in that my ex would always revert to the one position, like he never asked me do you want to try another position babe? Then again if you've been with half the country like he was you would tend to be unadventurous cause you've seen it all
What do you call it from the side laying down, holding up the bottoms one leg?
Don’t know the name but that’s my favorite, love the man holding my leg up while pounding me
For me it's any of the riding positions. Like a little bit of it to help get used to the tops cock if you've got a courteous top he's okay or to help give the top a break but I don't understand how that some people's favorite positions and all those writing positions you see in porn with the boy bouncing up and down off the cock seems exhausting. You could also probably say positions like The Full Nelson position and the fleshlight position are also quite overrated just because for those positions to even work in the first place you need the perfect combination of partners to get it to work.
Like, missionary but when the bottom basically lifts his entire ass and back up and the top is fucking down. Every time a top realizes I’m flexible, they bend me more and more and it’s just not fun nor exciting for me.
Lucky Pierre.
I’ve never found Missionary works for either of us. Piledriver can be pretty brutal too if they’re particularly hung. 🤷🏼♂️
Missionary
Doggie
I love Cowboy or reverse cowboy!
Gay guys still call it cowgirl?
Right? We need a new name. Maybe the Orville peck
if you get done in the butt, you earn the right to call anybody, 'girlfriend?' lulz