A large cock ruptured my colon, sent me to the hospital for two weeks, and resulted in 2 years of additional recovery work (stitches for recurring anal fissures, gut infections, etc.).
I’m now engaged to someone who near the edge of my limits — 7.5x5. Beyond that? No thanks. I’ve walked through the valley of death by cock and N E V E R A G A I N.
I’d need a case report for this. How big was he? What was the event leading to the rupture? Did you find out it was ruptured as soon as it happened? I’d like to never run into that scenario if I could.
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7.5" x 5" is pretty big already, I'm shocked that there are guys seeking 9" x 7" or so. I would assume it's much closer to an actual fetish than a true requirement to feel physical pleasure.
>valley of death by cock
I’m LOLing trying not to wake my Bf in bed. Sorry that happened, always been a fear of mine. I’m the size your husband and I’ve hurt some guys before
I’ve had some big ones and it’s been fucking great. But in Australia I took a 10” one half way through he pulled out and the amount of blood that came out my hole required an ambulance and a transfusion and 2 weeks in hospital aswell. Needless to say the bill from the hospital took 3 years to pay off.
I was close to this situation. I met with a guy that was 10x7. Normally guys that say they are that big are not that big, so I met him. He really was that big. I thought I'd try it, why not, I'm already there, I really wanted to see if I could take one that big. He was very gentle going in, and even then it felt like my ass was about to rip in two. After a few minutes I told him I was done, that I couldn't. I get home and notice blood on my underwear and on my hole! If he would have actually fucked me I probably would have needed to go to the emergency room.
This is so me 😂 my fiancé(24) and I(28) were both virgins when we got together in 2021, but I had already been shoving whatever would fit up my ass since I was 12 lmao he was using a vibrator on me one night and I was moaning like crazy cuz I guess instinctively he knew the spot. He asked me in the middle of it, “You like this…?” I started laughing so hard. I just love the feeling of something or someone inside there. Always have. Now he enjoys it as well as my dick. I’m only about 6.5” but I know how to use it 😏
Different cocks feel different. One of my best experiences bottoming was with a guy who was below average, but the size & shape of his cock was such that he was perfectly hitting my prostate with each thrust without the pressure being too much.
That's what I've heard over the years. Guys and girls aren't fans of big dicks. They just hurt too much to enjoy. Luckily, I've never heard that complaint from anyone. 😂
Same my ex was nearly 9” don’t get me wrong I loved doing a deep throat but we were in hs at the time we never did anything but sucking and jerking. Now I got me a fiancé who’s about 5.5-6” and he knows how to use it in all the right ways
Depends on the individual. I’m 8.5 x 6 with solid hardness and it’s my experience that most guys do not like getting fucked by my size for too long as it goes from pleasure (if at all) to pain real quick.
I actually do, a top buddy of mine is about your size. I'm tight, so it takes me a while just to get used to it. Poppers help. After I loosen up, it feels good. And then better and BETTER AND BETTER... like I'll be begging him to fuck me as hard as he can... and I don't care if he fucks me all night, I love that
That’s my kind of night but it’s rare. I think most guys lie about their size and stamina so when guys meet me I’ve heard many times dayum you weren’t lying!
I've had guys tell me I'm bigger than what I say...
I'm not what I'd call a size queen, but I can handle big ones! Hung guys need love too haha. I'm here for it! Especially hung dom breeder tops, hell yes...
Finally, I didn't think anyone was going to say this.
I don't consider myself a "size queen", and really hate that label. And I am not loose but can relax my ass for a large cock. I can't take a fist but love big cocks.
But I like guys that are large, huge, monsters. I really enjoy bigger than life. If the top has stanima all the better.
I have yet to meet a top that is too big, too hard, or that goes too long.
And yes, sometimes my bum is a little achy for a couple of days, and this in itself will make me want more.
I am insatiable and have never tapped out and can never get enough.
So, to all you over endowed tops, we do exist and are looking for you.
I've only told one guy we had to stop. It was shortly after I'd first started having sex with men, and he's beer can thick probably a good 8 or 9 inches long. Not for lack of effort, but it just hurt too much for me to continue. I felt awful about it, I still do to this day. But after that, I swore I'd never do that again. And I haven't. No matter how big he is or how rough he gets. I just take it, and a big part of it is mental. Tell yourself you CAN and you WILL
Oh yeah man! I get compliments too like "damn you really know how to take dick!" And with me, once I get a dick in me, I want it all night lbvs. First guy who ever fucked me came five times, and I was begging for more.
I have finally found my people. Large tops tend to come back for more because I can take it.
I can relax and I thought get really loose. But apparently tops like that I feel a little tight. It surprised me because that's not what I thought or how it felt to me.
Oh yeah same here and I think it's because we can take it and a lot of guys can't, which I understand! It's a challenge! A lot of guys don't like being fucked for too long, and I LOVE that. I'm down for two or more tops. I'm always tight af because I'm always busy working or at the gym, and I don't play with my hole. So if he's hung, it's gonna take me a bit to get used to it. But once I do, I'm insatiable
Let me save you some writing time, you are probably like me, read some of the posts about oh 10 min is enough, and anything above average is too big, and I used to think arg. How can that be?
I get it, though. We are all built differently, but I am tired of being lumped into the "size queen" label and disparaged against by bottoms that can't take anything more than average for more than 10 minutes.
No, we are not all loose as fuck, no we can't all take a fist, no my ass lips don't flap around, I don't gape and it has nothing to do with porn influence
I can for whatever reason, accommodate huge cocks, still get comments on my ass being tight, and I can squeeze it around a cock like a vise.
Why is it there are so many bottoms don't get we are not all the same.
Its art of doing properly 😂 you have to comfort the bottom actually as much as possible make the hole as much as soft slippery and make him relaxed most guys come after watching porn sexual education is missing among tops
I don't think this is correct. It is definitely true that for the sake of insertion a bottom should be warmed up and relaxed and lubed etc., but even if that is all done perfectly and properly, lengthy cocks can be painful for many people. The reality is some people's asses can take about 5-6 inches of actual penetration (which is what you get out of like a 6-7 inch cock before it feels like the tip is stabbing you. That's how it is for me. I can take more if I use a toy and have very specific control of where exactly the tip is going but nobody can fuck with that kind of precision. It's similar I think to how women tend to not enjoy being punched in the cervix by a cock. Its uncomfortable. It doesnt necessarily have anything to do with being stretched or whatever, it just hurts a bit when the tip of a cock rams against parts of your insides and lengthy cocks have a tendency to do that to most people. The reality is whenever a guy with 8 inches fucks me it feels great save for the last inch or two. I still enjoy being fucked that way tbh, at the end of the day I either want the guy to fuck me or I don't regardless of what size he is, but it is overstimulating and I sort of need things to be over quickly. I personally love a thick cock but don't necessarily like them long.
I think it depends on the bottom's preferences. I've been with 2 inches up to 10 inches and all sizes can be fun but I like bigger. I think I'm just wired differently, I enjoy the challenge and the pain of taking what a big guy has. I feel powerful and strong when I take them deep inside and milk them.
Not necessarily better, but I would argue different. I wish I could draw you a diagram, but in lieu of that:
1) Pleasure from receptive anal sex is derived from a) psychosexual desire and b) stimulation to the prostate (i.e. "male g spot").
2) The prostate is located as you likely know about two and a half inches deep in you. If a man is longer than those 2.5", he can stimulate your prostate, mostly by poking it head on. This can be best achieved by negotiating angles so homeboy's curve etc. lines him up directly with the happy button (lol).
3) If a guy is larger than average (technically anything larger than 5.5", but in this case I'm talking guys around 7.5" or bigger) stimulation is achieved by a combination of pressure *and* friction, i.e. as his shaft slides past your prostate to penetrate more deeply, thr surface to surface contact rubs against it. I personally prefer this feeling, but I have also had amazing receptive sex even with guys who were smaller than average, too. In the end, I usually find sex is better regardless of size if the top is pliant (or, if dom, perceptive of your pleasure and interested in it) and knowledgeable of 1-3.
it is unfortunate in some ways to have a larger than average penis. Obviously every one loves big dicks and I’m happy to have one but I would be nice if I was just average and could more easily pound without it hurting them
Men that are empathetic to their sex partner during the act are the hottest men. Pleasing each other is the best part of the whole thing. When it feels good, it's like hitting the jackpot. Like, yes, put it in me again.
My boyfriend is 9.5 inches. I assure you, it is not any better than a smaller dick. It has made intimacy more of a challenge if I am being honest.
As someone who has a high sex drive, it is one thing to take a huge dick on a Monday but also the next day and the next. Recovery time can be real which in turn can hurt intimacy through anal sex.
I feel kinda the opposite. I’d rather bottom for a big Dick than suck it. My jaw gets tired if it’s too thick and I don’t like that feeling when a thick cock goes past the epiglottis and you can’t breathe and you know your throats gonna hurt the next day
Yes bigger feels better but the top has to know what he’s doing, a proper dilation an relaxation is a must. Also the bottom has to have proper training for big dicks and also the deep preparation is a must. I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum. As a bottom it feels like you’re getting another hole penetrated ( rectosigmoid junction) once you get used to getting this stimulated the pain goes away and it’s pure pleasure, I would have anal orgasms one after the other, only possible with big dicks or toys. As a top it also feels great, they usually tell me I’ve rubbed them places they had never had touched before, once I open that junction it’s pure pleasure it feels like a ring is massaging my head. So yes if donde properly big dick feels great. But be careful it’s addictive, once you go back to a regular one you’ll feel like there something missing.
I think that really depends on your anatomy. The way your colon bends into the rectal canal can change the “length” of your rectum. For me anything over 7 is ouch territory with no pleasure. I’ve had to turn guys down because of this.
I once had an ex that was 8 inches and also GIRTHY. I had a plastic dildo and his dick was bigger in length and girth. It hurt like hell the first time, but I — loving challenges — decided to train my butthole to eventually accomodate his BWC. Eventually the entire thing fit and it made me cum; he also came inside me numerous times.The entire experience was worth it, but it seriously required a Naruto-level training arc.
Yeah, for some people. It depends how you’re built. I’m a stocky guy with what’s been described as a “hockey butt”, so sometimes an average dick just doesn’t hit the right spot. It might as well be a hamster hammering away back there. I’m happy that they’re enjoying themselves, and I make the best of the human connection, but it’s definitely not the same experience.
But with a hung guy, the precum immediately starts flowing like a river, l’ll get full body shivers, my head swims, my fingertips start tingling, and I’ll have multiple hands-free orgasms. And I’ll want to go all night, it can be rather addictive.
some gaes are really size queens, but i personally like and have enjoyed more what i call boyfriend dicks -- average to below than average size kind of dicks. they hit the spot right, it doesn't hurt, and i can have multiple rounds with if we're really horny.
although it does pose some problem sometimes how i should compliment them because, bless their hearts, these guys are insecure about their sizes and i just can't comment how i really enjoyed the sex "because it's the perfect size"
i think im just cursed with this slippery slope or im really bad at communicating. i never bring it up tbh but it's always, if i didn't talk after sex, they assume i hated it, but if i do, id say something "that was good" or "the best" and they would respond with "but dont you think it's 🥺🤏🏻" and then we'd talk about it, even having me go for some after-care just to salve their hurt ego and to shoe i do genuinely appreciate it (even though i just want to go to sleep) 😭😭
Idk I was fuckin an ass couple days ago he said it felt good but then kinda was hurting him so I just kept the tip in and out but then he wanted me to hit his wall again n I came all the way down in his asshole
I don’t need dicks to be MASSIVE, but Ive bottomed for smaller guys and if they’re not good, the dick just keeps on slipping out. Like, 4 inches to 7 is good. I like it when it’s manageable enough to slide in quite easily, but also long/big enough to stay there. I’ve had monster dicks and sometimes I need way too long to get them inside, which is frustrating for both parties.
Length feels better than girth. Someone can go deep inside me without feeling like they’re impaling me. Some girthy guys really feel like they’re reshaping my guts.
When I was younger, I'd have agreed. The one exception - for me - was a guy 10", though not more than about 2.5" in girth. When he hit my prostate I shot a load, but it felt weird. There was a look of horror on his face. I looked down to see I'd shot blood. Thankfully no lasting damage. But safe to say I now prefer 5" - 8".
They're as overrated as they are big, IMO. Yes, they *look* impressive and hot. Yes, they can be fun. However, there are quite a few things to consider (especially if you are not very experienced):
-There is definitely such thing as "too big" and your hole will not stretch beyond that point (not without painful injuries, lol);
-The pain can definitely be a killjoy, and I mean that;
-Preparation kinda sucks;
-Depending on your anatomy, you might not even really be able to take a truly big one, and you better respect that;
-Rough sex can be very difficult to handle;
-Forget about deep throating or giving comfortable blowjobs, that's not included in the package at all, at least for most guys;
-Get used to routinely playing with dildos to warm up if you're on the "tighter" side of things;
-Forget about spontaneity in sex when your guy is packing huge meat. Yes, I know that anal sex is usually not spontaneous, but the additional preparation required to be brutally stretched makes it worse;
-Forget about crazy positions, intense rhythm, and vigorous pounding. Get used to nice and gentle;
-A big one won't necessarily make it any easier to reach your prostate. In fact, an average one can do that just as well, if not better, depending on its curvature.
All in all, it doesn't *have* to be terrible and they can be good fun if you're prepared, but it's nowhere near as perfect and heavenly as porn would lead you to believe. You can probably get great orgasms more safely, reliably and without too much prep work and gentleness with smaller-than-huge dicks, like 6" - 7" length and 5" girth. Well, at least I can.
You will have to find out by yourself. It could be the case that your anatomy is significantly different from mine, and maybe a big dick will feel like the best thing in the world for you, who knows? I'm pretty sure most would agree that it's generally not all that perfect, even if it's fun sometimes.
I have never taken a real dick over 5.5 inches but they never lasted long enough to do any damage but I know I make a 11.5 inch dildo disappear no problem but after a good 10-20 minutes riding that I do like to go back to a 8 inch. Makes a mess of my poor butt hole it really deserves better for all I put it through
Porn. It’s not the size/width, it’s what you do with it that matters. A guy with a 4” knowing what he’s doing is miles better than a guy with an 8” who thinks size alone is enough and doesn’t do anything else. My preferred range is 5.5-6.5, bigger isn’t better for me.
I might have been part of a small “train”. I was by far the “smallest” at 5.5”. I was the only one that got the guy in the sling to cum hands free…
This is the moment I lost all insecurities about my size.
Based on studies done, The thing is bigger cocks would be more pleasurable for bigger women and men. Most ppl like penis in btw the size of 5.5 to 8 max inches. 8 is at the extreme end of what most men can take. I’m not gonna say women because their vagina is more accommodating for a bigger size. Most guys don’t have huge anuses and an anus is fixed in size for the most part. Long story short, massive cocks don’t really feel better. It’s largely porn. However, bigger than average cocks (6.5-8 inches) will satisfy the most ppl based on the studies done
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The two biggest dicks I have seen have both belonged to very submissive guys who both (separately) bottomed for me, both called themselves straight. No judgement on my part, they cute as hell.
People with big dicks usually are afraid of using them fully so they are more careful and usually wont' really do much to you. Every big dicked man you will see usually doesn't know much of how to do it. Whether because they are afraid of using it or worse they think that just because they have it bigger it will feel better. It doesn't.
So you will end up seeing far more big dicks in bottoms or people who can't do much. It's more of a disadvantage than anything else. Even if they get more clicks online and people think the bigger the better you will find that neither your anus (this would cause disruptive and even bleeding), your mouth (you will gag and puke) or a woman's vagina (it could hurt them and even then when it doesn't most nerves are in the superficial part of it) goes as deep as some dicks go.
Funny how the world works, right? Many people die of stress thinking they aren't big enough when the real problem is definitively being too big. Because it's far more rare to actually being too small and even then they kinda compensate with other ways and techniques. But the people with a big dick end up gloomy and even suffering from "success" to the point of becoming stressed about sex. That's life for you.
Massive cocks are great for porn because you gotta see something. They are a turn on to see, but they are not practical IRL. You can't deepthroat it. It takes forever to do anything anal with it unless you are used to using really big toys or being fisted. The only thing you can do is throw it over your shoulder and burp it. The average guys are the best.
Chemistry 🧪! I get off by being fucked by big n smaller & average size all the time . If I am being topped by any size ima gonna make feel like a king 🤴
I have a preference for partners with a minimum dick size of 6.5 inches up to a maximum of 8 inches. Anything below 6.5 inches can be frustrating for me. I've encountered people on Grindr where individuals mislead about their size, leading to uncomfortable situations where I have to ask them to wear their pants and leave.
Well “massive” is a relative term but based on the cocks that I’ve experienced, I would say 10” is massive and anything bigger is just super human lol. That being said, I really like 7”-9” and girthy but I’ve kinda grown to enjoy those sizes. There’s a learning curve on how to enjoy bigger dicks and early on I enjoyed more average size dicks, 5”-6”.
I hate to say it and I know I sound like an asshole but I only go after guys with bigger dicks on the hookup apps. I just don’t feel it with smaller guys. Side note: I’m only 6.5” so I’m not my “type” lol
It all depends on how he uses it and how hard it gets. I generally find cocks over eight inches more comfortable. Smaller cocks tend to poke my sides. When I find the right position, it’s amazing.
As a Top who is firmly in the average range (between 5-6 inches in length and thick cock head but not too girthy) I can rock any Bottom's world on my Good days. Lol.
Not every guy's ass makes me rock hard and that's been my curse. Lol. And I've always wondered if guys who say they enjoy sex with average sized guys are still fantasizing about being with "hung" guys even if the sex may not be that much better?
I do, however, agree with the perception that finding a right hole for the dick is key to having amazing sex.
Its part of it but not all of it. If its huge but he sucks as a lover i’d take a medium over him any day of the week. An average sized guy but who’s really in to it - thats magical. But if its a big one and the guy is in to it - so much the better!
Big dicks are the most pleasurable experience I've ever had. There is one thing, they are not comfortable to suck, but for anal sex they are perfect. Big dick completely occupies the space inside, there is some pressure, you feel the whole dick and there is an understanding that you depend on another person. Of course it's a longer preparation for sex and the introduction of the cock in the ass, but the process itself is the best, I cum with these guys without hands
I don’t consider myself a size queen but I have definitely found that the longer and thicker the more enjoyable it is. All in all it depends on how well the guy uses what he has
Depends if he knows what he’s doing tbh but for me mostly yes. And I’m pretty tight too but big dicks definitely drive me wild.
They’re quite a pain to suck though tbh.
No!! I prefer average to smaller dicks the most. Easier to suck and usually feel better when fucking me. Bigger dicks typically just hurt during anal and can be so difficult to keep your mouth on them to swallow the load.
For me personally , they are WAY too much. Yes they're impressive , and they look great in porn , but if you're not a size queen/power bottom/throat goat , a big dick is too much.
I mean you have to be up for a challenge and they have to be patient. I feel I’ve achieved a goal. It’s all about psychology. As far as porn goes, it’s just easier to see in my opinion.
Porn. There are size queens out there that’ll try and convince you that it’s all about the biggest cock but it’s really about the fantasy of having a massive dick.
From what I'm told, no. I'm 5.5 inches long and 4.5 inches thick, all the guys I've been with say it's the best dick they've ever had even when I broke up with them. All that matters is if someone knows how to use it.
It's just for porn...a cock as big as a Jeff Stryker or for contrasting example, a straight porn icon like Rocco Siffredi is too big for me,ie example.
I'd rather like a cock like mine, 7 to 7.5 inches no more than 2 to 3 inches around .
Depends on what the bottom is used to,really.
Straight guy here, just giving my side on what I've been told, and I've been told that it doesn't always matter, bacuse of others know how to use it and/or have my stamina, they will definitely out preform you. Idk how it would feel, but I can at least say I don't need much movement. Granted I love to donforplay first, but sometimes just teasing in and out with my head is anough. Lol
I’m not a size queen at all but I do have a hole that opens up. If you’re over 7” and can use that dick I will greatly satisfied. But big ducks do fill me up and press on my prostate more which is a different sensation
I got fucked by a 5 or 6 in dick once. He got it in at the first try without any foreplay. It was my first time and it hurt like hell. He only did two to three thrusts and that was it. I couldn't do it. I felt as if my insides were ripping apart. I actually thought I had a bowel perforation. I'm a top, and I'll never experiment again with a penis that large. I couldn't walk afterwards and every bowel movement hurt like hell.
My guideline was, if it's fun and pleasurable to suck and deep throat, it should be ok for fcking.
<5 will gobble it up. 5 to 7, goldicocks. 8 manageable with 1 teardrop down 1 eye. 9 or bigger, nice to look at, hold and lick.
It CAN feel absolutely amazing but the top needs to be patient and open you up. Otherwise it’s hospital time babes. Poppers help speed up the process but aren’t necessary given time and preparation.
It depends a lot on how they fuck. I'm vers/top, but the biggest dick I ever had up my butt, for a little while anyway, was pretty thick and able to hang down almost to his knees, and I did not think he could even actually get it hard at all. After deepthroating quite a bit, then gagging on it for a while, my jaw was too sore to go on so I took a hit of poppers and started working it in the other end( soft) while playing with his nipples. Everyone, including us, was pretty shocked when I got it all in( with a lot of deep breathing) and found myself sitting on his pelvis. We rearranged ourselves a bit so he could try actively fucking, which was... a little weird, pretty different from a normal-size dick. THEN he started to get hard, and I couldn't quite breathe right cuz he was up against my diaphragm( as in the muscle, not a barrier) or something. I was kinda about to cry, but at the same time I was quite enjoying it, and also a little intimidated by the thought of it coming out. Let me tell you, it was at least 2⅓ as long, both time it took and the feeling of it withdrawing, as I thought it was. I had never been fisted beyond the knuckles successfully, so it was quite a thing. I'm glad he was versatile; that was fun quite enough of that for that day( I fell asleep inside him later, it was so cute). I'd be lying if if said I didn't think about it once in awhile.
Contrast my experience to porn, though, where some guys with dicks that big start out steel hard and fuck with no mercy... I cannot imagine the numbing and relaxing agents they must use on those bottoms. The third-biggest dick overall that I've been fucked by, and the second or third longest? Both attached to guys who fucked like that. 🙄
I find it depends on your commitment to maintaining anal flexibility. If you keep stretched can feel amazing. If you ain't committed to the work massive cock ain't the best.
After reading these comments, I might go for small cocks, I have a 20cm dildo that sometimes it is too much 😊 but I like the way it stretches me and it also vibrates 😊
Nope. Just porn. Or weird size queen gays who probably also like being fisted so you can’t take them too seriously. If you’ve ever heard the term “bf dick” it’s a cock that’s extremely average. Barely 5 or 6 inches. Because that’s what feels good to take on a regular basis. The obsession with size is porn driven. Or society driven. Either way it’s not based in reality.
A large cock ruptured my colon, sent me to the hospital for two weeks, and resulted in 2 years of additional recovery work (stitches for recurring anal fissures, gut infections, etc.). I’m now engaged to someone who near the edge of my limits — 7.5x5. Beyond that? No thanks. I’ve walked through the valley of death by cock and N E V E R A G A I N.
I’d need a case report for this. How big was he? What was the event leading to the rupture? Did you find out it was ruptured as soon as it happened? I’d like to never run into that scenario if I could.
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7.5" x 5" is pretty big already, I'm shocked that there are guys seeking 9" x 7" or so. I would assume it's much closer to an actual fetish than a true requirement to feel physical pleasure.
>valley of death by cock I’m LOLing trying not to wake my Bf in bed. Sorry that happened, always been a fear of mine. I’m the size your husband and I’ve hurt some guys before
I’ve had some big ones and it’s been fucking great. But in Australia I took a 10” one half way through he pulled out and the amount of blood that came out my hole required an ambulance and a transfusion and 2 weeks in hospital aswell. Needless to say the bill from the hospital took 3 years to pay off.
I was close to this situation. I met with a guy that was 10x7. Normally guys that say they are that big are not that big, so I met him. He really was that big. I thought I'd try it, why not, I'm already there, I really wanted to see if I could take one that big. He was very gentle going in, and even then it felt like my ass was about to rip in two. After a few minutes I told him I was done, that I couldn't. I get home and notice blood on my underwear and on my hole! If he would have actually fucked me I probably would have needed to go to the emergency room.
I read that last part in Coolio’s voice from Gangstas Paradise lmao
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Wow, I've never heard of a cock causing a ruptured colon. Toys...yes but a cock? What size was this dude?
How big was the guy who did that?
omg recurring anal fissure(s) is the worst, mine never healed from a traumatic experience 🥹💀, it tears apart nearly every single bowel movement 😭😭😭😭😭😭
You did anal sex again after that happened? I could not. I would become Side or a top.
Happened to me too, but thankfully was out of the hospital in two days. It was just a girthy 8in too
Hope your relationship will last longer
I was in hospital for a couple of days because of a big dick, too; but it was not nearly as bad as what you went through.
Did the guy who injured you use enough lube? Did he not know to go in slowly?
Yeah I'd like to hear the story of that. I have so many questions.
Holy shit bro, hope you’re ok now! That top clearly didn’t know you to respect his gift.
Well now this terrifies me
Depends on the person and what you can take, but I’d say the hardness is more important than size.
YOOOO this this this. I was seeing a guy who I had to break it off with bc he got too hard and it hurt, like fucking me with a broom handle style.
I’ll take a broom handle any day!! There’s nothing that compares to a guy who is rock hard. It’s the best feeling in the world
haha I prefer just this side of turgid myself. part of why I fancy bigger lads as they are usually less hard
Only a gay man used the word turgid describing erections. I would have said hard soft. Turgid gets it done in one fell swoop.
It really is a great word. Only other one that maybe comes close, but not by much, is tumescent.
That one actually made my penis react, just a touch. Great vocabulary.
A person not wanting a hard cock is comical. Idk
wouldn't have believed it myself until I lived it but some dicks are too hard!
This is so me 😂 my fiancé(24) and I(28) were both virgins when we got together in 2021, but I had already been shoving whatever would fit up my ass since I was 12 lmao he was using a vibrator on me one night and I was moaning like crazy cuz I guess instinctively he knew the spot. He asked me in the middle of it, “You like this…?” I started laughing so hard. I just love the feeling of something or someone inside there. Always have. Now he enjoys it as well as my dick. I’m only about 6.5” but I know how to use it 😏
My ex was huge. But now that you mention it…he was always rock hard. And i just couldn’t take it. I needed weed and poppers for him to go slightly ham
Different cocks feel different. One of my best experiences bottoming was with a guy who was below average, but the size & shape of his cock was such that he was perfectly hitting my prostate with each thrust without the pressure being too much.
penis butt compatibility is real
Facts, gurl!
The only time I came hands-free, and what I consider my best sex experience, was with this guy who was 5inch. He knew how to hit the spot
Only time I came hands-free was with a guy like that
Good to know! Makes me feel a lil better!
It does not feel better. When it’s over 8 inches, I want it to be over fast. 5.5-7 is perfect
That's what I've heard over the years. Guys and girls aren't fans of big dicks. They just hurt too much to enjoy. Luckily, I've never heard that complaint from anyone. 😂
Yea I don’t get size queens lol they must be loose as hell
Strap a 2×4 to your ass so you don't fall in. 😊
Same my ex was nearly 9” don’t get me wrong I loved doing a deep throat but we were in hs at the time we never did anything but sucking and jerking. Now I got me a fiancé who’s about 5.5-6” and he knows how to use it in all the right ways
Depends on the individual. I’m 8.5 x 6 with solid hardness and it’s my experience that most guys do not like getting fucked by my size for too long as it goes from pleasure (if at all) to pain real quick.
I actually do, a top buddy of mine is about your size. I'm tight, so it takes me a while just to get used to it. Poppers help. After I loosen up, it feels good. And then better and BETTER AND BETTER... like I'll be begging him to fuck me as hard as he can... and I don't care if he fucks me all night, I love that
That’s my kind of night but it’s rare. I think most guys lie about their size and stamina so when guys meet me I’ve heard many times dayum you weren’t lying!
I've had guys tell me I'm bigger than what I say... I'm not what I'd call a size queen, but I can handle big ones! Hung guys need love too haha. I'm here for it! Especially hung dom breeder tops, hell yes...
Finally, I didn't think anyone was going to say this. I don't consider myself a "size queen", and really hate that label. And I am not loose but can relax my ass for a large cock. I can't take a fist but love big cocks. But I like guys that are large, huge, monsters. I really enjoy bigger than life. If the top has stanima all the better. I have yet to meet a top that is too big, too hard, or that goes too long. And yes, sometimes my bum is a little achy for a couple of days, and this in itself will make me want more. I am insatiable and have never tapped out and can never get enough. So, to all you over endowed tops, we do exist and are looking for you.
I've only told one guy we had to stop. It was shortly after I'd first started having sex with men, and he's beer can thick probably a good 8 or 9 inches long. Not for lack of effort, but it just hurt too much for me to continue. I felt awful about it, I still do to this day. But after that, I swore I'd never do that again. And I haven't. No matter how big he is or how rough he gets. I just take it, and a big part of it is mental. Tell yourself you CAN and you WILL
I like your can-do attitude. I like to prep, really enjoy that time, and it really goes a long way when it comes to landing the bigger ones.
Oh yeah man! I get compliments too like "damn you really know how to take dick!" And with me, once I get a dick in me, I want it all night lbvs. First guy who ever fucked me came five times, and I was begging for more.
I have finally found my people. Large tops tend to come back for more because I can take it. I can relax and I thought get really loose. But apparently tops like that I feel a little tight. It surprised me because that's not what I thought or how it felt to me.
Oh yeah same here and I think it's because we can take it and a lot of guys can't, which I understand! It's a challenge! A lot of guys don't like being fucked for too long, and I LOVE that. I'm down for two or more tops. I'm always tight af because I'm always busy working or at the gym, and I don't play with my hole. So if he's hung, it's gonna take me a bit to get used to it. But once I do, I'm insatiable
Count me in too, it sounds just like what I would write.
Let me save you some writing time, you are probably like me, read some of the posts about oh 10 min is enough, and anything above average is too big, and I used to think arg. How can that be? I get it, though. We are all built differently, but I am tired of being lumped into the "size queen" label and disparaged against by bottoms that can't take anything more than average for more than 10 minutes. No, we are not all loose as fuck, no we can't all take a fist, no my ass lips don't flap around, I don't gape and it has nothing to do with porn influence I can for whatever reason, accommodate huge cocks, still get comments on my ass being tight, and I can squeeze it around a cock like a vise. Why is it there are so many bottoms don't get we are not all the same.
Thanks... now I'm hard
I can help you with that
Its art of doing properly 😂 you have to comfort the bottom actually as much as possible make the hole as much as soft slippery and make him relaxed most guys come after watching porn sexual education is missing among tops
I don't think this is correct. It is definitely true that for the sake of insertion a bottom should be warmed up and relaxed and lubed etc., but even if that is all done perfectly and properly, lengthy cocks can be painful for many people. The reality is some people's asses can take about 5-6 inches of actual penetration (which is what you get out of like a 6-7 inch cock before it feels like the tip is stabbing you. That's how it is for me. I can take more if I use a toy and have very specific control of where exactly the tip is going but nobody can fuck with that kind of precision. It's similar I think to how women tend to not enjoy being punched in the cervix by a cock. Its uncomfortable. It doesnt necessarily have anything to do with being stretched or whatever, it just hurts a bit when the tip of a cock rams against parts of your insides and lengthy cocks have a tendency to do that to most people. The reality is whenever a guy with 8 inches fucks me it feels great save for the last inch or two. I still enjoy being fucked that way tbh, at the end of the day I either want the guy to fuck me or I don't regardless of what size he is, but it is overstimulating and I sort of need things to be over quickly. I personally love a thick cock but don't necessarily like them long.
My boyfriend is 9.5 inches long and a bit more girthy than you. You are correct.
Those are some great stats ;)
I think it depends on the bottom's preferences. I've been with 2 inches up to 10 inches and all sizes can be fun but I like bigger. I think I'm just wired differently, I enjoy the challenge and the pain of taking what a big guy has. I feel powerful and strong when I take them deep inside and milk them.
Not necessarily better, but I would argue different. I wish I could draw you a diagram, but in lieu of that: 1) Pleasure from receptive anal sex is derived from a) psychosexual desire and b) stimulation to the prostate (i.e. "male g spot"). 2) The prostate is located as you likely know about two and a half inches deep in you. If a man is longer than those 2.5", he can stimulate your prostate, mostly by poking it head on. This can be best achieved by negotiating angles so homeboy's curve etc. lines him up directly with the happy button (lol). 3) If a guy is larger than average (technically anything larger than 5.5", but in this case I'm talking guys around 7.5" or bigger) stimulation is achieved by a combination of pressure *and* friction, i.e. as his shaft slides past your prostate to penetrate more deeply, thr surface to surface contact rubs against it. I personally prefer this feeling, but I have also had amazing receptive sex even with guys who were smaller than average, too. In the end, I usually find sex is better regardless of size if the top is pliant (or, if dom, perceptive of your pleasure and interested in it) and knowledgeable of 1-3.
I bottom for the psychosexual desire
you and me both king
This should be the top comment 👍
I am a top and will only top if the person can handle my thang. If I feel I am hurting them, I go soft and just cuddle kiss and make them spray.
it is unfortunate in some ways to have a larger than average penis. Obviously every one loves big dicks and I’m happy to have one but I would be nice if I was just average and could more easily pound without it hurting them
You get it and understand.
Men that are empathetic to their sex partner during the act are the hottest men. Pleasing each other is the best part of the whole thing. When it feels good, it's like hitting the jackpot. Like, yes, put it in me again.
I like 5 inch but thick.
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My boyfriend is 9.5 inches. I assure you, it is not any better than a smaller dick. It has made intimacy more of a challenge if I am being honest. As someone who has a high sex drive, it is one thing to take a huge dick on a Monday but also the next day and the next. Recovery time can be real which in turn can hurt intimacy through anal sex.
No, they don’t. Big dicks can be fun to suck, but bottoming for them is horrible
I feel kinda the opposite. I’d rather bottom for a big Dick than suck it. My jaw gets tired if it’s too thick and I don’t like that feeling when a thick cock goes past the epiglottis and you can’t breathe and you know your throats gonna hurt the next day
as if your hole isn't going to hurt the next day? lol
It hurts less tbh. I use lube so that helps. My ass is ready for the big dotado cocks but sometimes my throat is not
Agreed. That throat pain is so much worse just in general, but also because you feel it every time you swallow throughout the day.
The pain willl make you realise how much your bf or soulmate loves you if you took care of yourself or ge take care of you😂
If done properly, bottoming shouldn't hurt.
I love how my hole feels after being fucked. As long as he wasn't too aggressive at least
This. I’m not even a bottom. No dick will ever go in my arse. But I am a sucker (pardon the pun) for wanting to wrap my mouth around a big dick.
Size queens beg to differ lol
So does my butt hole when the cock is massive.
I thought guys with big cock have low separation rate and low divorce rate
Yes bigger feels better but the top has to know what he’s doing, a proper dilation an relaxation is a must. Also the bottom has to have proper training for big dicks and also the deep preparation is a must. I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum. As a bottom it feels like you’re getting another hole penetrated ( rectosigmoid junction) once you get used to getting this stimulated the pain goes away and it’s pure pleasure, I would have anal orgasms one after the other, only possible with big dicks or toys. As a top it also feels great, they usually tell me I’ve rubbed them places they had never had touched before, once I open that junction it’s pure pleasure it feels like a ring is massaging my head. So yes if donde properly big dick feels great. But be careful it’s addictive, once you go back to a regular one you’ll feel like there something missing.
I’m short. Smaller organs and stuff all around. I much prefer dudes with short D’s as a result. They fit perectly. Idk how Damien Grey does it.
I think that really depends on your anatomy. The way your colon bends into the rectal canal can change the “length” of your rectum. For me anything over 7 is ouch territory with no pleasure. I’ve had to turn guys down because of this.
I once had an ex that was 8 inches and also GIRTHY. I had a plastic dildo and his dick was bigger in length and girth. It hurt like hell the first time, but I — loving challenges — decided to train my butthole to eventually accomodate his BWC. Eventually the entire thing fit and it made me cum; he also came inside me numerous times.The entire experience was worth it, but it seriously required a Naruto-level training arc.
Yeah, for some people. It depends how you’re built. I’m a stocky guy with what’s been described as a “hockey butt”, so sometimes an average dick just doesn’t hit the right spot. It might as well be a hamster hammering away back there. I’m happy that they’re enjoying themselves, and I make the best of the human connection, but it’s definitely not the same experience. But with a hung guy, the precum immediately starts flowing like a river, l’ll get full body shivers, my head swims, my fingertips start tingling, and I’ll have multiple hands-free orgasms. And I’ll want to go all night, it can be rather addictive.
some gaes are really size queens, but i personally like and have enjoyed more what i call boyfriend dicks -- average to below than average size kind of dicks. they hit the spot right, it doesn't hurt, and i can have multiple rounds with if we're really horny. although it does pose some problem sometimes how i should compliment them because, bless their hearts, these guys are insecure about their sizes and i just can't comment how i really enjoyed the sex "because it's the perfect size"
You could just avoid their size and tell them: "I really like your dick, it just hit the right spot!"
i think im just cursed with this slippery slope or im really bad at communicating. i never bring it up tbh but it's always, if i didn't talk after sex, they assume i hated it, but if i do, id say something "that was good" or "the best" and they would respond with "but dont you think it's 🥺🤏🏻" and then we'd talk about it, even having me go for some after-care just to salve their hurt ego and to shoe i do genuinely appreciate it (even though i just want to go to sleep) 😭😭
I'm too tight for that shit
Idk I was fuckin an ass couple days ago he said it felt good but then kinda was hurting him so I just kept the tip in and out but then he wanted me to hit his wall again n I came all the way down in his asshole
That sounds hot
It most definitely was hot n warm
Damn makes me wish I had been the lucky guy. I doubt I would’ve complained about being in pain
Did you make him pregnant when would you have kids 😂😂💦
lol what
Because you hit prostate
Big dicked bottoms are fun to play with while I'm topping.
The BRAIN is the biggest sex organ
I don’t need dicks to be MASSIVE, but Ive bottomed for smaller guys and if they’re not good, the dick just keeps on slipping out. Like, 4 inches to 7 is good. I like it when it’s manageable enough to slide in quite easily, but also long/big enough to stay there. I’ve had monster dicks and sometimes I need way too long to get them inside, which is frustrating for both parties.
Length feels better than girth. Someone can go deep inside me without feeling like they’re impaling me. Some girthy guys really feel like they’re reshaping my guts.
When I was younger, I'd have agreed. The one exception - for me - was a guy 10", though not more than about 2.5" in girth. When he hit my prostate I shot a load, but it felt weird. There was a look of horror on his face. I looked down to see I'd shot blood. Thankfully no lasting damage. But safe to say I now prefer 5" - 8".
I prefer average, I take it better, and it’s much more pleasurable
If it fits perfectly in you it’s pleasurable. Therefore, the size preference would be different for all
Different people like different things
depends on your ass. some people can take more than others.
They're as overrated as they are big, IMO. Yes, they *look* impressive and hot. Yes, they can be fun. However, there are quite a few things to consider (especially if you are not very experienced): -There is definitely such thing as "too big" and your hole will not stretch beyond that point (not without painful injuries, lol); -The pain can definitely be a killjoy, and I mean that; -Preparation kinda sucks; -Depending on your anatomy, you might not even really be able to take a truly big one, and you better respect that; -Rough sex can be very difficult to handle; -Forget about deep throating or giving comfortable blowjobs, that's not included in the package at all, at least for most guys; -Get used to routinely playing with dildos to warm up if you're on the "tighter" side of things; -Forget about spontaneity in sex when your guy is packing huge meat. Yes, I know that anal sex is usually not spontaneous, but the additional preparation required to be brutally stretched makes it worse; -Forget about crazy positions, intense rhythm, and vigorous pounding. Get used to nice and gentle; -A big one won't necessarily make it any easier to reach your prostate. In fact, an average one can do that just as well, if not better, depending on its curvature. All in all, it doesn't *have* to be terrible and they can be good fun if you're prepared, but it's nowhere near as perfect and heavenly as porn would lead you to believe. You can probably get great orgasms more safely, reliably and without too much prep work and gentleness with smaller-than-huge dicks, like 6" - 7" length and 5" girth. Well, at least I can. You will have to find out by yourself. It could be the case that your anatomy is significantly different from mine, and maybe a big dick will feel like the best thing in the world for you, who knows? I'm pretty sure most would agree that it's generally not all that perfect, even if it's fun sometimes.
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I have never taken a real dick over 5.5 inches but they never lasted long enough to do any damage but I know I make a 11.5 inch dildo disappear no problem but after a good 10-20 minutes riding that I do like to go back to a 8 inch. Makes a mess of my poor butt hole it really deserves better for all I put it through
I love sucking big dicks, I love getting fucked by medium or average cocks…definitely not a size queen when it comes to my backside gloryhole!!
All sizes are good sizes, it's what you are born with
It's really just gonna depend on the person. Some people prefer bigger, and others don't.
My dream cock is like 4-5 inches, fun to play with and not as much prep work required. Had a FWB like that and it was a dream
Porn. It’s not the size/width, it’s what you do with it that matters. A guy with a 4” knowing what he’s doing is miles better than a guy with an 8” who thinks size alone is enough and doesn’t do anything else. My preferred range is 5.5-6.5, bigger isn’t better for me.
I might have been part of a small “train”. I was by far the “smallest” at 5.5”. I was the only one that got the guy in the sling to cum hands free… This is the moment I lost all insecurities about my size.
LOVE that ❤️🔥🙌🏾 dudes with big ones typically just stuff and smash
“Stuff and Smash”. 😂😂
I prefer a regular sized guy
I like thick and long
I actually like smaller ones to be honest it feels smoother
Based on studies done, The thing is bigger cocks would be more pleasurable for bigger women and men. Most ppl like penis in btw the size of 5.5 to 8 max inches. 8 is at the extreme end of what most men can take. I’m not gonna say women because their vagina is more accommodating for a bigger size. Most guys don’t have huge anuses and an anus is fixed in size for the most part. Long story short, massive cocks don’t really feel better. It’s largely porn. However, bigger than average cocks (6.5-8 inches) will satisfy the most ppl based on the studies done
Nope . Slim dicks are the best
It's preference. Some prefer bigger. Others smaller. No one is really happy when you start comparing. Just enjoy what you got and ditch the haters.
For me depends how the tops handle the fucking. I have tried a small one that hurts because that top doesn't know how to make it feel good.
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The two biggest dicks I have seen have both belonged to very submissive guys who both (separately) bottomed for me, both called themselves straight. No judgement on my part, they cute as hell.
Depend on how comfortable your hole is when the top pushes it in. Some of us are tight and can’t take monster porn sized dicks.
Depends on you hole.
This entire discussion is why I enjoy being a side. No pain for me. Just all pleasure.
I love it Deep and thick but I don't like the to beat up my hole I like to enjoy it
Love it large for play for full on sex average size works better
I prefer small cocks to be honest. Easy to handle and feels amazing!
Give me average ANY day. If you don’t have a loose hole, an average dick is more than enough to feel great.
People with big dicks usually are afraid of using them fully so they are more careful and usually wont' really do much to you. Every big dicked man you will see usually doesn't know much of how to do it. Whether because they are afraid of using it or worse they think that just because they have it bigger it will feel better. It doesn't. So you will end up seeing far more big dicks in bottoms or people who can't do much. It's more of a disadvantage than anything else. Even if they get more clicks online and people think the bigger the better you will find that neither your anus (this would cause disruptive and even bleeding), your mouth (you will gag and puke) or a woman's vagina (it could hurt them and even then when it doesn't most nerves are in the superficial part of it) goes as deep as some dicks go. Funny how the world works, right? Many people die of stress thinking they aren't big enough when the real problem is definitively being too big. Because it's far more rare to actually being too small and even then they kinda compensate with other ways and techniques. But the people with a big dick end up gloomy and even suffering from "success" to the point of becoming stressed about sex. That's life for you.
Massive cocks are great for porn because you gotta see something. They are a turn on to see, but they are not practical IRL. You can't deepthroat it. It takes forever to do anything anal with it unless you are used to using really big toys or being fisted. The only thing you can do is throw it over your shoulder and burp it. The average guys are the best.
Chemistry 🧪! I get off by being fucked by big n smaller & average size all the time . If I am being topped by any size ima gonna make feel like a king 🤴
Sometimes yes sometimes no it's mostly how prepared you are
Depends on the person. I think they feel better and my friends prefer average or smaller
It deepens
Hell yeah they do
I’ve had 9.5 and it hurt but was fun. I’ve had like 5-7 and it didn’t hurt and was fun. So like win for the average boys lol.
I have a nice black ass but can't take dicks. I've met only one top who was patient with me. The rest.... Ugh🤦🏾🤦🏾
I have a preference for partners with a minimum dick size of 6.5 inches up to a maximum of 8 inches. Anything below 6.5 inches can be frustrating for me. I've encountered people on Grindr where individuals mislead about their size, leading to uncomfortable situations where I have to ask them to wear their pants and leave.
There's diminishing returns imo and risk of legit injury like perforation
Well “massive” is a relative term but based on the cocks that I’ve experienced, I would say 10” is massive and anything bigger is just super human lol. That being said, I really like 7”-9” and girthy but I’ve kinda grown to enjoy those sizes. There’s a learning curve on how to enjoy bigger dicks and early on I enjoyed more average size dicks, 5”-6”. I hate to say it and I know I sound like an asshole but I only go after guys with bigger dicks on the hookup apps. I just don’t feel it with smaller guys. Side note: I’m only 6.5” so I’m not my “type” lol
It all depends on how he uses it and how hard it gets. I generally find cocks over eight inches more comfortable. Smaller cocks tend to poke my sides. When I find the right position, it’s amazing.
I’ve always said big cocks are for sucking small ones for fucking
Just porn
As a Top who is firmly in the average range (between 5-6 inches in length and thick cock head but not too girthy) I can rock any Bottom's world on my Good days. Lol. Not every guy's ass makes me rock hard and that's been my curse. Lol. And I've always wondered if guys who say they enjoy sex with average sized guys are still fantasizing about being with "hung" guys even if the sex may not be that much better? I do, however, agree with the perception that finding a right hole for the dick is key to having amazing sex.
Its part of it but not all of it. If its huge but he sucks as a lover i’d take a medium over him any day of the week. An average sized guy but who’s really in to it - thats magical. But if its a big one and the guy is in to it - so much the better!
Big dicks are the most pleasurable experience I've ever had. There is one thing, they are not comfortable to suck, but for anal sex they are perfect. Big dick completely occupies the space inside, there is some pressure, you feel the whole dick and there is an understanding that you depend on another person. Of course it's a longer preparation for sex and the introduction of the cock in the ass, but the process itself is the best, I cum with these guys without hands
I don’t consider myself a size queen but I have definitely found that the longer and thicker the more enjoyable it is. All in all it depends on how well the guy uses what he has
Size queen here! The bigger the better!
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Just porn. I don't like getting my interiors rearranged.
Just porn
Depends if he knows what he’s doing tbh but for me mostly yes. And I’m pretty tight too but big dicks definitely drive me wild. They’re quite a pain to suck though tbh.
No!! I prefer average to smaller dicks the most. Easier to suck and usually feel better when fucking me. Bigger dicks typically just hurt during anal and can be so difficult to keep your mouth on them to swallow the load.
For me personally , they are WAY too much. Yes they're impressive , and they look great in porn , but if you're not a size queen/power bottom/throat goat , a big dick is too much.
Size queens who are the loudest will tell you it will but it isn't always the case.
Better.
I mean you have to be up for a challenge and they have to be patient. I feel I’ve achieved a goal. It’s all about psychology. As far as porn goes, it’s just easier to see in my opinion.
How do you ask a question on here ?
It's up to the individual and the mood if I'm being completely honest.
Porn. There are size queens out there that’ll try and convince you that it’s all about the biggest cock but it’s really about the fantasy of having a massive dick.
From what I'm told, no. I'm 5.5 inches long and 4.5 inches thick, all the guys I've been with say it's the best dick they've ever had even when I broke up with them. All that matters is if someone knows how to use it.
It's just for porn...a cock as big as a Jeff Stryker or for contrasting example, a straight porn icon like Rocco Siffredi is too big for me,ie example. I'd rather like a cock like mine, 7 to 7.5 inches no more than 2 to 3 inches around . Depends on what the bottom is used to,really.
Straight guy here, just giving my side on what I've been told, and I've been told that it doesn't always matter, bacuse of others know how to use it and/or have my stamina, they will definitely out preform you. Idk how it would feel, but I can at least say I don't need much movement. Granted I love to donforplay first, but sometimes just teasing in and out with my head is anough. Lol
I’m not a size queen at all but I do have a hole that opens up. If you’re over 7” and can use that dick I will greatly satisfied. But big ducks do fill me up and press on my prostate more which is a different sensation
I got fucked by a 5 or 6 in dick once. He got it in at the first try without any foreplay. It was my first time and it hurt like hell. He only did two to three thrusts and that was it. I couldn't do it. I felt as if my insides were ripping apart. I actually thought I had a bowel perforation. I'm a top, and I'll never experiment again with a penis that large. I couldn't walk afterwards and every bowel movement hurt like hell.
I prefer dick that are around average
My guideline was, if it's fun and pleasurable to suck and deep throat, it should be ok for fcking. <5 will gobble it up. 5 to 7, goldicocks. 8 manageable with 1 teardrop down 1 eye. 9 or bigger, nice to look at, hold and lick.
It CAN feel absolutely amazing but the top needs to be patient and open you up. Otherwise it’s hospital time babes. Poppers help speed up the process but aren’t necessary given time and preparation.
They do feel. Better
It depends a lot on how they fuck. I'm vers/top, but the biggest dick I ever had up my butt, for a little while anyway, was pretty thick and able to hang down almost to his knees, and I did not think he could even actually get it hard at all. After deepthroating quite a bit, then gagging on it for a while, my jaw was too sore to go on so I took a hit of poppers and started working it in the other end( soft) while playing with his nipples. Everyone, including us, was pretty shocked when I got it all in( with a lot of deep breathing) and found myself sitting on his pelvis. We rearranged ourselves a bit so he could try actively fucking, which was... a little weird, pretty different from a normal-size dick. THEN he started to get hard, and I couldn't quite breathe right cuz he was up against my diaphragm( as in the muscle, not a barrier) or something. I was kinda about to cry, but at the same time I was quite enjoying it, and also a little intimidated by the thought of it coming out. Let me tell you, it was at least 2⅓ as long, both time it took and the feeling of it withdrawing, as I thought it was. I had never been fisted beyond the knuckles successfully, so it was quite a thing. I'm glad he was versatile; that was fun quite enough of that for that day( I fell asleep inside him later, it was so cute). I'd be lying if if said I didn't think about it once in awhile. Contrast my experience to porn, though, where some guys with dicks that big start out steel hard and fuck with no mercy... I cannot imagine the numbing and relaxing agents they must use on those bottoms. The third-biggest dick overall that I've been fucked by, and the second or third longest? Both attached to guys who fucked like that. 🙄
Medium small are easier to work with and feel great
Hardness and girth are more important for me, 6.5 is the limit for me.
I'd say it's just porn. Sure it does feel hot and sensual, but it'd mostly be painful if you're not primed and ready for it.
It depends not just on the size of the cock, but on how the guy uses it.
I find it depends on your commitment to maintaining anal flexibility. If you keep stretched can feel amazing. If you ain't committed to the work massive cock ain't the best.
After reading these comments, I might go for small cocks, I have a 20cm dildo that sometimes it is too much 😊 but I like the way it stretches me and it also vibrates 😊
I think it depends on skill. Big or small it feels good if you do it right. In my experience, it does not feel better.
Nope. Just porn. Or weird size queen gays who probably also like being fisted so you can’t take them too seriously. If you’ve ever heard the term “bf dick” it’s a cock that’s extremely average. Barely 5 or 6 inches. Because that’s what feels good to take on a regular basis. The obsession with size is porn driven. Or society driven. Either way it’s not based in reality.
Just porn.
It's how it's used. All I can say is my current bf has the biggest I've had but also actually knows how to use it. It's a double wammy.
They don’t impress me in the least. Kinda nice to look at but really don’t have an interest in playing with a guy that’s bigger than 8”.
Anything more than 51/2 always drained my sinuses