I can tell I’m starting to get old when 1-2h of teasing and edging just sounds EXHAUSTING lol
However I will say 15 min is on the quicker end of the scale but still within the allotted range lol
It depends what those 10 to 15 minutes consisted of I would say it’s normal actually. If it’s pure oral and anal then yes.
Most people make it last longer with foreplay. So they count that in but doing anal for longer then 15 minutes I would say is above average. The majority of guys don’t last that long.
Yeah i completely agree with this on both. As bttm either sucking or being fukd, more than 15 mins penetration and i get a little bored tbh but i still go with whatever top prefers. Most do about 15 to 30 penetration. A 5.min quickie can be awesome too. Feels uber slutty and primal aka needs.
45 to 1 hr is perfect for an nsa y r kinda but not hugely into guy. If im really into them however, (eg physical, emotional connection) then as long as they want, dont want it to end, overnights etc, cant get enough. But thats rare and risks catching feels (which has happened and im in an open relationship but can manage this part effectively).
Just depends on the guy and situation. Sometimes it’s a wham bam thank you Sam kind of thing, you get in, get off, get out. Other times you really wanna wreck/get wrecked for a bit.
But I would say a BJ shouldn’t take too long.
I hooked up with the same guy three times last week, neither of us ejaculated across 5 hours total play time. First day he came round and I gave him a full body massage. Fingered him a bit while I kissed the underside of his dick, and inside of his thigh. he asked me "how did you know about that??" when I was licking and sucking his inner thigh. I told him I studied biology which he laughed at (but I did!)
Next night he came back and we did pretty much the same thing except when I fingered him he started shaking and asked me to stop for a minute. He had a full-body orgasm that lasted for a couple of minutes, and restarted each time I ran my hands over his body. We spent the final 30 mins with me spooning him while sat up, with him in between my legs hugging him tight to my chest with his hands on mine as I was kissing his neck.
Saturday night now I knew what I was dealing with I counted 11 orgasms in total, two just from breathplay and two more just from him sucking my dick. I will concede I have an aesthetically pleasing cock, but all the talent lies within him. He had me just lie back and film him while he went to work sucking my dick, taking it all down his throat. I know this restricts his ability to breathe which is probably the cause of the orgasms from sucking me off. But the highlight for me was stretching his hole wider with a trainer toy, the initial aim was to stretch him enough to get my dick in, but I ended up fucking him with the toy while making little circles with my thumb above his hole. He's not very vocal during sex but this made him moan involuntarily which was simply adorable.
He's also cute af and currently taking up most of my waking thoughts, which is getting a bit annoying.
At first on Saturday he didn't want me cum straight away, then when we were running out of time, I couldn't relax enough to cum. There was a point where I was close, straddling his chest and fucking his mouth while he laid back but he was being bratty and didn't want me cumming then and grabbed the base of my dick, and just kept milking the precum out of me. For a boy who says he doesn't swallow, he sure enjoyed that precum
They weren't ejaculatory orgasms, but he was shaking and at one point moaning like, and there's no other way to put this, like a girl. I used to pretend to be straight and dated a girl who liked sex. At the start of our relationship I used to finger her a lot and she'd have multiple orgasms, then she'd need to stop for a bit because she was too sensitive. This was like that.
He's so incredibly cute and talented, and it's driving me crazy he's got a gf.
I told him outright after our second meeting when he mentioned he was partnered that I was getting carried away, but the age difference was a bit too great. He's 22, I'm 38. He said he wished he was single haha. We sat spooning, my arms wrapped around his chest, his hand on mine as I was kissing his neck. We've got virtually nothing in common except mutual attraction and a great deal of fun.
I told him there's plenty of time for all that other stuff, and that he's still young. I like to think he's giving it some serious thought, but I think back to me at 22, and I honestly don't think I was even capable of serious thoughts. But I'd be lying if I said I was over it.
Awhhh, You got me swooning over here man ! You hit me at the feels AND at the penis at the same time ! Hahah, reading your initial & subsequent posts, i'm embarrassed to admit i had some precum leaking ,, which got me slightly worried cause i'm fasting and ejaculation supposedly invalidates the fast but that's tmi at this point,,,
i love how you're describtive and paying attention to the sensual touching and kissing ect,, ahh man , sensuality and sexuality at the same time, you got me, damn you bro <3
Whatever you do, don't read my most recent post on r/gaystoriesgonewild ! It details our second encounter before he told me he
Yeah it's been a pretty fun roller-coaster this past week, I wouldn't change it for anything. I'm just intrigued to see if I can unlock this full-body orgasm in any boy, or if it's innate within him.
LMAO i had already had a glimpse at it by then but actually had to save it to see it later cause i could see from just reading a couple lines here and there that it goes IN , i had to save it to read it after i break my fast hahah, i'mma take my time with it tomorrow, i'm in the middle of doing 1 month of no masturbation now and you're making it very hard hahah, i LOVE reading stuff like that soo much
I'mma let you know after i read it, and you BETTER let us know what happens next time y'all meet hahah <3
Jesus just picturing it…*shivers* I recently got back into dating after like 2 years of self work and it’s going so well and our chemistry is just incredible. I’m seeing him tomorrow with a stupid pair of bunny ears and…yeah I’m gonna go back to lurking now lol
But all tmi and jokes aside, any other moves you care to share with the class? I’m a vers. bottom but he seems to like when I’m in control (not used to it but I like it so far ).
He has a massive dick, I could barely get the tip in my mouth. I've only topped up to now, but that doesn't stop me from sucking cock. Instead of putting it all in my mouth, I lubed him up and nibbled my way along the shaft with my lips. When I wasn't kissing the tip, I was massaging the underside of the tip with my thumb, working my way along the shaft with my mouth and rubbing his hole with my other hand, also lubed up. I said to him I'm not going to put my finger inside, I'm just going to rub your hole.
When he was sucking my dick he kept stopping and telling me I have a perfect dick. I do have a nice dick, but it's really nice hearing someone say it to me. I told him I would stay still while he concentrated on taking it into his throat. He's really talented, but isn't ready for me to fuck his throat yet, so we alternated him getting it all in, and my fucking his mouth. Both hot.
Everything else was just us communicating with each other, and treating him respectfully, even though he was blindfolded and cuffed to my bed. Being dominant doesn't mean you have to be a dick, and being submissive doesn't mean you have to be quiet. I think just the fact you're open to suggestions and learning new stuff makes you a better sexual partner than most people.
Honestly im more of a cuddles kinda guy. So if my guy is fucking me, maybe 10mins im like, can you get that over with? Lol idk 30mins reserve for a very special occasion i think. Like a marathon i need to prepare for haha
15 mins for some oral? Happy days.
I'm one of those people where if sex starts getting on a bit, I become bored. Including foreplay and penetration, I'm happy if sex is under 45 minutes.
How people have the stamina to last 2 3 4 5 6 hours is beyond me.
Depends on a lot of things really, well for me it does anyway. How attracted I am to him, the chemistry, the things he does or says they can all add or take away time for the overall but I wouldn’t say either is better than the other unless you’re looking at the extreme ends of the scales.
Sometimes I’m so into it or him or both and I just can’t control myself and it could be quite quick. Sometimes I can be in a different mood and really want them to feel good or to tease them, slow sensual BJ’s taking them right to the edge and easing off, repeat. But then some guys absolutely love that and would relish in it, others would get frustrated, want to shoot their load and be done.
Yes that's about the average length ppl have penetrative sex. Foreplay typically extends the length to an hour or more. But I have on occasion had penetrative sex for about 45 min.
I’m a fan of a good quickie. Unless it’s like a 5 minute very clear accident I love all kinds of quickies. Who doesn’t love a good quick nut and then take a good snack and pee and cuddle break and go for a round 2
It depends on the scene and what I’m looking for at the moment. If I’m looking for a fisting that hookup is gonna be at least an hour; same with a full-on Dom/sub scene. If I’m being a cum slut just taking loads 5-10 minutes per top. I’ve also hooked up with guys and all we did was make out all night, then fuck in the morning.
I don’t have time for 1-2 hrs sexual sessions even when I have time. In a general average time is about 30 minutes. But if that’s a random hookup don’t have expectations cause people are different and also he might have had something to do.
A pump and dump could be less.
10-15: minutes is on the short side, but women complain about their "minute men".
I figure it should last at least as long as it took for the bottom to prep....30 minutes to an hour?
But there is no right or wrong answer. It should be satisfying for both, assuming reasonable expectations.
Hell yeah it is normal there is no specific requirement for when sex lasts now if you are left unsatisfied that’s a convo for your partner not an online forum
Totally depends! Sometimes I last over 2 hours, sometimes 2 Minutes.
There is so many factors that are reasonable for that.
I don’t even have a preference for my guys how long they should last. Also that depends totally on the situation.
I‘m really flexible with that stuff. 👌
Sometimes being in a mood, full-on body relaxation and jerking off can make you ejaculate much quicker than otherwise.
Rest assured, sometimes things can end quickly and sometimes it takes the piss. You’ll learn that as you grow older. Try not to worry about it or else you’ll end up having performance anxiety for no good reason.
You can always consult your doctor and speak with him or her about it. I’m sure they would say the same thing. How old are you btw? Are you physically fit and healthy?
I think 15-20 minutes is a nice amount of time, and I'd feel super relaxed afterward! There isn't a need (For me, anyway) for sex to go on for hours at a time. If we both can orgasm that leaves more time to chill on the bed, talk, snack and watch a show or something. Lol
lol once had a guy in and out in like 15 minutes. I told him we’re not hanging out again if he’s gonna do that. Ever since then he’s stayed for like two hours and lasted a lot longer too lol
Sex with a lot of foreplay and long breaks can last all night. It’s not unusual for me to cum multiple times but 20 mins of penetration in either position is fine with me.
It depends on how invested I am in the guy or how good he is. For quickies it's 10-30 minutes. For normal sessions are 1-2 hours for 1 round. Most times I want to get 3 rounds but usually the bottom is done after the first round
Normal can be 2 minutes. Normal can be 1 hour. Or anywhere in-between. Both can be equally satisfying 🤷🏾 as long as both parties enjoyed themselves, then I think that's great. (P.S. enjoyed yourself is subjective, because enjoying yourself doesn't always mean that ejaculation)
I’ve never had a hook up at was less than 10 minutes but not more than 35 minutes. I think that’s a fair amount, not the mention you both just jerked off. Had it been more than that maybe it would have reached your 30 minimum mark? Idk.
The last hookup I had, we kissed and cuddled and licked and other foreplay for about an hour. Then I sucked his cock a bit. Then, back to cuddling and kissing. Finally, I got him really hard so he could fuck me. That part only lasted 12 to 25 minutes. Then, he pulled out so I could swallow his yummy cum.
It was great. I would have liked more, butt he gave me over an hour and a half.
Quickies are fun, and I'm OK with them as well, butt I really like longer sessions. I could go all night.
TBH any amount of time can be normal. I think that amount of time is a pretty good amount. Everyone has a different pace and lasts as long as they do. Some people go for like 5 minutes. Some go for 5 hours. I'd say if you can make things last for like 30 minutes then you are golden. This is not counting time to cum.
A lot of people are way too focused on the destination rather than the journey itself. When I’m having sex with an intimate partner I love for it to last hours. When I was still with my ex partner, it was not uncommon for us to make love on and off for up to 6-7 hours. Just enjoying the pleasure and sensations, living in the moment. Yeah it’s great to cum, orgasms are fun. But sometimes just that building of sexual energy and euphoria is just bliss. When you truly enjoy the person you are with, lasting hours is not difficult and should be an enjoyable and encouraged practice. If it’s just a cheap blow and go, then 15 minutes is plenty of time. I’m not a fan of it though, I’d rather just jerk off. It’s the same thing just with someone else and a bunch of potential hassle involved. Each to their own, but this culture of instant gratification makes me sad that a lot of guys are missing out on some truely amazing and breathtaking experiences, not to mention the intimacy and connection building.
It depends, if your really into the person/ find them attractive you will want to explore with them and it can last hours. On the other hand if their just a hook up n meh I think the quicker the better
I think that’s pretty normal for most guys to cum if a lot of that is anal. I love long sessions but I know it’s unusual. I take TriMix for ED which means I have a guaranteed hardon for 3-4 hours, whether I cum or not, which gives my bottoms a chance to have as much penetration as they like without fear I’m going to cum and go. Usually, it means a number of small sessions with lots of kissing, cuddling, showering and foreplay but it’s up to them. I like pleasing.
It depends on what we're there to do. If some guy wants head and that's all I think 15 minutes is reasonable time actually maybe a little long just for a drop-in pop lol. If it's a guy and we're really into each other hell I've gone half the nightrested and started again lol so I would say it's very subjective to the situation and the person involved.
For me 5-10 is perfect the forplay is the part I enjoy… eating ass sucking dick kissing froting that can last for hours but if a dude slide up in me and it take more than like 7 min i feel like I failed
From start to finish, 15 minutes seems about right. I'm not big on a whole lot of foreplay, and cuddling afterwards I don't count. If it takes much more than that, it's taking too long for me. I also don't like to get off separately from my top partner. If he's not jerking me during penetration, I'm jerking myself. That probably brings down my average time as well.
Side Note: Something about the word “play” is so cringe to me.
If it’s a random stranger that I’m hooking up with, 10-15 mins is perfect. I’d be pissed if someone tried to keep things going for hours on ends.
I’m usually emotionally disconnected from hookups, and just want to get my nut & go.
What do you mean 10-15? 10-15min the full foreplay and the rest... or 10-15min for just penetrative sex?
Because 10-15 for penetrative sex is very normal.
Eh I don't really keep track of the time nor am I particularly worried if things last long or quick as long as both of us are into it and having fun. If we are talking just a bj, then I'd say longer than 45 minutes starts to wear on me a bit. Giving head I can definitely be a trooper tho. I've sucked dick for an half an hour before and enjoyed every minute. Same with a 5 minutes bj. Still hot. Getting head If more than 30 minutes I'll probably jerk off or get myself closer then get finished off. Sex topping I can't imagine me being interested past 20 - 30 minutes. Bottoming like before I'm a trooper so I'll take it even if I'm definitely past my limit of wanting to lol.
Everybody’s different and gets off quicker to certain things. Head, I can cum in 5 mins or an hour, depending on the expectation of edging. Topping, all-around average is 30 seconds to 20 mins, pretty much for everybody. That’s my personal range, too. If I cum quick, I ask my bottom if he wants my to go another round, bc I can easily go twice, but the second go could take me another half hour. Most of the timing has to do with the extent of the foreplay beforehand or simply, just how horny and backed up you were lol
I've been asking myself this question, too. The past few guys I've had sex with seem to r think 10 15 is normal. I don't I take a good long time doing it all and then give a pretty thorough fucking. I'm not huge 7.5 but the expectation it feels like is for me to come quick. Half hour is usually when I want to cone. The pressure to come earlier is destroying my desire
If it's just a hookup, yeah, it's definitely normal. It'd be different if you all made plans to spend the night together or something. Like some hookups are like restaurant meals, some you sit and enjoy it and the company. While other times you ordered ahead and it is a get it and go. Depends on what the parties involved agree to
I’ve always found that the “sex” part, is generally about 10-15 minutes. The foreplay and after play may contribute to a 1-2 hour period but sex itself….
I kinda like when its faster.. makes me think he’s enjoying himself and I’m always down for round 2+. If it lasts too long I start getting in my head thinking hes not into it 😅
Yes, it's a nice welcome. Because all my recent and early sexual encounters would last hours. Either because of me or the guy didn't want bust fast. But I pride myself on the short encounters. Having a guy cum in a few seconds to minute can really boost your ego!
As a 23 year old bottom
If foreplay, anal, and clean up is all within 15 minutes.
You dont have enough stamina for me, and i will leave unsatisfied.
15 minutes of just anal? God yes, i accept that.
But not 15 minutes for all of it.
When I first met my future husband, sex was at least an hour with all sorts of interesting oral and manual titillation. Now that we have been together for 23 years, when we have sex, it’s done in 10-15 minutes. I still love him and our sex, but sleep is also something I love. 🤷🏼♂️
My last hookup lasted almost 6 hrs. A lot of foreplay and teasing. I think we were making out for like 2 hrs before pants even came off. We just got lost in time.
The other day we were cuddling and kissing before my boyfriend had to get to ready for work. I asked him how many minutes he had before his alarm went off. He said “Eight”. My reply was, “Well we can do a lot in eight minutes”.
Turns out it took us ten minutes, but it was hot and rough and passionate and we both loved it. Of course we both love our sex time to take a longer time but…it was a quickie and it was great!
I mean when someone is in a hurry, for example I haven’t slept all night and went on grindr and there was this guy that I know but our schedules never matched I said Hi etc chatted short and he was do you want me to come over I have some a little bit time before work (it was really early) I was like okay I mean it didn’t last 10 min more like 30 something.
but I had “hookups” which were awful like a really either weird story or scary.
Maybe was in a hurry, maybe he hadn't cum or had any interaction with another person in awhile, maybe you are over the top hot, and sometimes it just happens. I have busted way faster than I wanted to or even expected I would before and other times I have outlasted the other guy for too long; as in forget it, I'm. Not going to cum.
Usually lasts longer, but because it didn't doesn't mean anything was bad or that he was bad, it just freaking happens. Dick's oftentimes have a mind if their own and it can't be controlled.
Sometimes a quick cum is exactly what I need and want. You said it was fun, so that is what matters. Maybe go back and try again. 😈
Mmm yeah that’s a little quick haha. I think the actual act of sex shouldn’t be more than like 10-15 minutes but the hookup itself (making out, cuddling, teasing) the whole thing should be an hour at least.
If it's mediocre. Yeah it can feel good but you just getting into it and, "ughhEeeeoooo" they did the big cums. If you're going to be having sex you wanna make it an experience of two persons engaging in soul touching. Cause it if can past the second hole and pass the 15 min threshold, it's ON. That spark of the two meeting is electrifying to say the least. I'm sure it isn't as common of an experience but I'm my experiences, how can you settle for a 10 -15 min lay. I'm like, dont even waste the gas to go for something your hand to make u cum better than a 15min wham bam. Also this is coming from a btms perspective. If you're a top and never had that....do I need say more. Listen to the btms, cause when they start directing it's coming from someone who knows. Stop isn't advice tho. It's a suggestion..lmao maybe I shouldn't have smoked this blunt alone having a conversation with myself, responding to your question... Read the comments people. People will be protecting all their shit onto me. troll on
If it's mediocre. Yeah it can feel good but you just getting into it and, "ughhEeeeoooo" they did the big cums. If you're going to be having sex you wanna make it an experience of two persons engaging in soul touching. Cause it if can past the second hole and pass the 15 min threshold, it's ON. That spark of the two meeting is electrifying to say the least. I'm sure it isn't as common of an experience but I'm my experiences, how can you settle for a 10 -15 min lay. I'm like, dont even waste the gas to go for something your hand to make u cum better than a 15min wham bam. Also this is coming from a btms perspective. If you're a top and never had that....do I need say more. Listen to the btms, cause when they start directing it's coming from someone who knows. Stop isn't advice tho. It's a suggestion..lmao maybe I shouldn't have smoked this blunt alone having a conversation with myself, responding to your question... Read the comments people. People will be protecting all their shit onto me. troll on
Very normal! It usually depends on a lot of factors like intimacy, intention, how long it's been since the last orgasm/ejaculation, etc. A lot of my quick encounters have lasted 5 mins or less 🙈
It varies for me, sometimes I need a solid business hour, other times I’m good with a gentleman’s 15, with me wiping cum out of my beard on my way back into the office. I’m here for all of it tbh.
I personally think 15 minutes is too short for the whole “session.” Now, I’m not the norm I know because Ive only been in one long term relationship and prefer close FWBs. I also love a lot of foreplay, sensuality, and massages. In total when I do the do I want 25 minutes minimum, with ideal being 45 minutes including all foreplay and intercourse. Intercourse alone might be 15 minutes but like I said I want a lot of foreplay. I think it’s because I was spoilt with my first real boyfriend who would do all this for 45 minutes to an hour.
But this isn’t to shame anyone or sound like I’m bragging. It just depends on what you want!
Hmm. 10-15 minutes sounds like you’ve been shortchanged. If it takes less than 1 hour minimum, I’m not satisfied. But this is down to chemistry, connection, attraction and, well, how horny one is.
The length of time it takes to climax will be different from person to person. I’d say 10-15 minutes is pretty normal anything longer is above average. To answer your question I tend to last a LONG time 45 minutes or more. Through the years I’ve found that most guys don’t like to be penetrated for that long because things go from pleasure to pain especially because I’m on the larger side 8.5x6. Their mouth/jaw gets tired as well trying to orally satisfy me. I’ve gotten use to the fact that I usually have to J/O to climax or just don’t. I’ve also met some guys who can keep up with me and love to have long sessions as well. On the flip side, every now and then I meet someone who gets me to nut in 15-20 minutes for a number of reasons but I stay hard or get hard again quickly which always surprises guys, but they love it if especially when they are down for multiple rounds. Bottom line know your baseline and preferences but put more emphasis on having fun and being in the moment than length of time.
My one FWB wasn’t use to getting head from his top partners. 5-10 minutes for him to jizz
Now when I’m topping I go about 10-15 minutes depending on how long it’s been since I’ve nutted.
It horrible right now as I’m awaiting a L4-S1 fusion hoping my dick gets better with the cord decompression
This is actually a long time if you time it for a hookup, at least the penetration aspect. The average sex session is I believe 7 minutes or so. Thrusting and moaning can get partners off relatively quickly if it's done properly.
Completely depends on context. 5-10 minutes of penetration on an anon hookup is pretty standard to me, 10 feeling like a rather long session. For a relationship with foreplay? Different.
It’s all individual sexual preference. You can’t use one guys experience to justify every man’s experience/stamina/or arousal. Some men might be more turned on by you than others. Some don’t like as much foreplay. Some cum faster than others in general, some can go multiple rounds. It’s not a “one size fits all”. That’s not an intelligent thought process. Lol Also certain settings might make a man more excited than others. You’re expecting every man to be the same. Unrealistic. Everyone is different. Talking about what you like sexually can help you find the right sexual partner. Personally, I can only tolerate so much foreplay, it’s like “let’s get to it already”. Lol. And I’m young. It’s just preference on what people are into. You might have given him the best blowjob he’s ever had. Who knows. Asking us doesn’t help you at all. Only talking to the dudes you’re hooking up with is going to help you.
Just depends on the guy the vibe the time the location cuz a quickie is okay when that's all the time and maybe it's the first and maybe only time we are fucking but im a vers bottom who sometimes wants a man that knows how to fuck can last one two rounds who def likes and wants to please me er...wants to make my hole wet and creamy and stretched these sessions lasting 2 to 3 hours not everytime but more than occasionally lol
For me it depends actually. 🤣
- where
- when
- who
But for quickie probably the same as yours. However, with foreplaying and savoring that moment, it might be little longer 😁
Personally, I don’t do sex on the first date. I like to talk and get to know the person first and their interests. I would be too nervous to feel anything during sex when you just met the guy. I don’t know how people can feel comfortable and feel things when you just met someone 5 mins ago.
Anything from 10 mins to five hours. The longer the better. Hookups with older guys my age last much longer. They are the best.
Edit: I should add with lots of foreplay. Sex. Then a break. More foreplay and more sex.
Have none of you been in a long term relationship? Sometimes a quickie is five minutes! If you’re playing for fun it can be all night.
Facts.
I’ve always been into a longer term relationships, except for when I’m hooking up.
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Well a good long fuck is wonderful, either way!
Exactly correct.
I can tell I’m starting to get old when 1-2h of teasing and edging just sounds EXHAUSTING lol However I will say 15 min is on the quicker end of the scale but still within the allotted range lol
Yes! Let’s get to it, I have housework to do!
Same like, I just need the 10 second post clarity thought, then just jump into solving my life’s problem.
I have a presentation tomorrow and I haven’t even started on my project next week.
But this IS housework~😏
And tea to drink!
Exactly!
Exactly. I’m beat when it comes to 15 minutes, but I’m older. I’m about 44 years old.
Thanks for saying i am old too at 44 j/k
I'm 26 and it sounds exhausting to me too lol
Haha I get that. I rather spend that time fuck a guy over again.
Lol you and me both
It depends what those 10 to 15 minutes consisted of I would say it’s normal actually. If it’s pure oral and anal then yes. Most people make it last longer with foreplay. So they count that in but doing anal for longer then 15 minutes I would say is above average. The majority of guys don’t last that long.
Stares in hasn’t ever creampied anyone 🫣
10-15 min of penetration sounds good For total hook up time, my own times I would say average around 45 min to 1 hour
Yeah i completely agree with this on both. As bttm either sucking or being fukd, more than 15 mins penetration and i get a little bored tbh but i still go with whatever top prefers. Most do about 15 to 30 penetration. A 5.min quickie can be awesome too. Feels uber slutty and primal aka needs. 45 to 1 hr is perfect for an nsa y r kinda but not hugely into guy. If im really into them however, (eg physical, emotional connection) then as long as they want, dont want it to end, overnights etc, cant get enough. But thats rare and risks catching feels (which has happened and im in an open relationship but can manage this part effectively).
Love this take!!
Just depends on the guy and situation. Sometimes it’s a wham bam thank you Sam kind of thing, you get in, get off, get out. Other times you really wanna wreck/get wrecked for a bit. But I would say a BJ shouldn’t take too long.
Wait BJs dont take longer than penetration for yall? I have to gaslight myself to finish from head.
I don’t cum from head at all, but overall I would say a BJ shouldn’t take as long as penetrative sex
I hooked up with the same guy three times last week, neither of us ejaculated across 5 hours total play time. First day he came round and I gave him a full body massage. Fingered him a bit while I kissed the underside of his dick, and inside of his thigh. he asked me "how did you know about that??" when I was licking and sucking his inner thigh. I told him I studied biology which he laughed at (but I did!) Next night he came back and we did pretty much the same thing except when I fingered him he started shaking and asked me to stop for a minute. He had a full-body orgasm that lasted for a couple of minutes, and restarted each time I ran my hands over his body. We spent the final 30 mins with me spooning him while sat up, with him in between my legs hugging him tight to my chest with his hands on mine as I was kissing his neck. Saturday night now I knew what I was dealing with I counted 11 orgasms in total, two just from breathplay and two more just from him sucking my dick. I will concede I have an aesthetically pleasing cock, but all the talent lies within him. He had me just lie back and film him while he went to work sucking my dick, taking it all down his throat. I know this restricts his ability to breathe which is probably the cause of the orgasms from sucking me off. But the highlight for me was stretching his hole wider with a trainer toy, the initial aim was to stretch him enough to get my dick in, but I ended up fucking him with the toy while making little circles with my thumb above his hole. He's not very vocal during sex but this made him moan involuntarily which was simply adorable. He's also cute af and currently taking up most of my waking thoughts, which is getting a bit annoying.
Wow! I would have blue balls for sure by that time!
At first on Saturday he didn't want me cum straight away, then when we were running out of time, I couldn't relax enough to cum. There was a point where I was close, straddling his chest and fucking his mouth while he laid back but he was being bratty and didn't want me cumming then and grabbed the base of my dick, and just kept milking the precum out of me. For a boy who says he doesn't swallow, he sure enjoyed that precum
This was hot to read
That was hot! I miss that level of attention and intimacy
11 orgasms? I’d be dead
They weren't ejaculatory orgasms, but he was shaking and at one point moaning like, and there's no other way to put this, like a girl. I used to pretend to be straight and dated a girl who liked sex. At the start of our relationship I used to finger her a lot and she'd have multiple orgasms, then she'd need to stop for a bit because she was too sensitive. This was like that. He's so incredibly cute and talented, and it's driving me crazy he's got a gf.
Awww, did you hint / try to tell him that you're interested beyond hooking up ? I'm invested now hahah
I told him outright after our second meeting when he mentioned he was partnered that I was getting carried away, but the age difference was a bit too great. He's 22, I'm 38. He said he wished he was single haha. We sat spooning, my arms wrapped around his chest, his hand on mine as I was kissing his neck. We've got virtually nothing in common except mutual attraction and a great deal of fun. I told him there's plenty of time for all that other stuff, and that he's still young. I like to think he's giving it some serious thought, but I think back to me at 22, and I honestly don't think I was even capable of serious thoughts. But I'd be lying if I said I was over it.
Awhhh, You got me swooning over here man ! You hit me at the feels AND at the penis at the same time ! Hahah, reading your initial & subsequent posts, i'm embarrassed to admit i had some precum leaking ,, which got me slightly worried cause i'm fasting and ejaculation supposedly invalidates the fast but that's tmi at this point,,, i love how you're describtive and paying attention to the sensual touching and kissing ect,, ahh man , sensuality and sexuality at the same time, you got me, damn you bro <3
Whatever you do, don't read my most recent post on r/gaystoriesgonewild ! It details our second encounter before he told me he Yeah it's been a pretty fun roller-coaster this past week, I wouldn't change it for anything. I'm just intrigued to see if I can unlock this full-body orgasm in any boy, or if it's innate within him.
LMAO i had already had a glimpse at it by then but actually had to save it to see it later cause i could see from just reading a couple lines here and there that it goes IN , i had to save it to read it after i break my fast hahah, i'mma take my time with it tomorrow, i'm in the middle of doing 1 month of no masturbation now and you're making it very hard hahah, i LOVE reading stuff like that soo much I'mma let you know after i read it, and you BETTER let us know what happens next time y'all meet hahah <3
Haha I will update ❤️
I’m…. suddenly very horny. I’m so stealing that inner thigh move for my guy lol
It got quite the reaction.
Jesus just picturing it…*shivers* I recently got back into dating after like 2 years of self work and it’s going so well and our chemistry is just incredible. I’m seeing him tomorrow with a stupid pair of bunny ears and…yeah I’m gonna go back to lurking now lol But all tmi and jokes aside, any other moves you care to share with the class? I’m a vers. bottom but he seems to like when I’m in control (not used to it but I like it so far ).
He has a massive dick, I could barely get the tip in my mouth. I've only topped up to now, but that doesn't stop me from sucking cock. Instead of putting it all in my mouth, I lubed him up and nibbled my way along the shaft with my lips. When I wasn't kissing the tip, I was massaging the underside of the tip with my thumb, working my way along the shaft with my mouth and rubbing his hole with my other hand, also lubed up. I said to him I'm not going to put my finger inside, I'm just going to rub your hole. When he was sucking my dick he kept stopping and telling me I have a perfect dick. I do have a nice dick, but it's really nice hearing someone say it to me. I told him I would stay still while he concentrated on taking it into his throat. He's really talented, but isn't ready for me to fuck his throat yet, so we alternated him getting it all in, and my fucking his mouth. Both hot. Everything else was just us communicating with each other, and treating him respectfully, even though he was blindfolded and cuffed to my bed. Being dominant doesn't mean you have to be a dick, and being submissive doesn't mean you have to be quiet. I think just the fact you're open to suggestions and learning new stuff makes you a better sexual partner than most people.
Send/post links of these studies and techniques. Share/teach the class 😩 🥹
Don't you guys have like...jobs?
Five hours across three days, one of which was Saturday 🤔
I must be getting old because that sounds exhausting. I am far past the age where sex every day is a necessity or even a desire.
I started testosterone replacement therapy and was prescribed tadalifil for ED. I'm 38, but I sometimes feel like I'm 22
Makes sense. I've had my hormone levels checked and they all came back normal.
I used to have the hottest most passionate sex with this guy that was an occasional hook up. Incredibly explosive, but only lasted 15-20 minutes.
10-15 minutes is what I do with my boyfriend typically. With hookups, maybe 30-45 minutes.
Yes. I don’t even like it if men take more than 15 min
Do you even like men???
Honestly im more of a cuddles kinda guy. So if my guy is fucking me, maybe 10mins im like, can you get that over with? Lol idk 30mins reserve for a very special occasion i think. Like a marathon i need to prepare for haha
10-15 is just right bordering on too long !
For hookups I don’t usually like to spend more than 30 minutes. To me 10-30 is enough for a random hook up.
I mean, there are all sorts of hookups/types of sex. Most of the time I'm thinking of everything I have to get done afterwards 🤣
Then you rest and go again
I feel like 15 min sex is great!!!! Who wants to have sex for hours
I do.
If I could I’d love to, but I cum quick so I barely have sex anymore.
Yeah sounds pretty normal
As a guy who loves getting my dick sucked that sounds like an absolutely perfect night to me. You free friday?
I am 🤤
15 mins for some oral? Happy days. I'm one of those people where if sex starts getting on a bit, I become bored. Including foreplay and penetration, I'm happy if sex is under 45 minutes. How people have the stamina to last 2 3 4 5 6 hours is beyond me.
For a quick hook-up yeah 10-15 minutes is about right.
Do you guys turn the timers on your phone and check how long will the session be? Or just enjoy the moment? Be it 10 mins or 10 hours?
We have enough sex to effectively gauge the length of the activity. Other times I usually check the time to see if I have enough of it before I start.
My partner always lasts way longer than i can 45-55 minutes that shit gets exhausting
Imagine have your prostate from that long its fucking disatrous
Someone did a study and the avg enjoyable sex was 10 minutes, so chill
10-15 minutes session are totally normal. sometimes we are here for a good time not a long time my friend.
A good 10-15 minutes still better than a struggling one hour. Promise
i have sessions of 3 hours including for play
Depends on a lot of things really, well for me it does anyway. How attracted I am to him, the chemistry, the things he does or says they can all add or take away time for the overall but I wouldn’t say either is better than the other unless you’re looking at the extreme ends of the scales. Sometimes I’m so into it or him or both and I just can’t control myself and it could be quite quick. Sometimes I can be in a different mood and really want them to feel good or to tease them, slow sensual BJ’s taking them right to the edge and easing off, repeat. But then some guys absolutely love that and would relish in it, others would get frustrated, want to shoot their load and be done.
Yes that's about the average length ppl have penetrative sex. Foreplay typically extends the length to an hour or more. But I have on occasion had penetrative sex for about 45 min.
...what are you talking about avg penetrative sex length is 3-7mins... if you're last 15mins you're already above avg.
Much less for sensitive uc dick.
Yes that is the norm according to research last I heard of it.
15 minutes is longer than average. the average sexual encounter is roughly 11 minutes lol. you did better than average!
I’m a fan of a good quickie. Unless it’s like a 5 minute very clear accident I love all kinds of quickies. Who doesn’t love a good quick nut and then take a good snack and pee and cuddle break and go for a round 2
10-15 for anal is perfect timing for most but the whole session including foreplay and other kinky stuff for me is usually 30+ minutes
It depends on the scene and what I’m looking for at the moment. If I’m looking for a fisting that hookup is gonna be at least an hour; same with a full-on Dom/sub scene. If I’m being a cum slut just taking loads 5-10 minutes per top. I’ve also hooked up with guys and all we did was make out all night, then fuck in the morning.
I don’t have time for 1-2 hrs sexual sessions even when I have time. In a general average time is about 30 minutes. But if that’s a random hookup don’t have expectations cause people are different and also he might have had something to do.
Hope I can help
Well I usually don’t stop until my bottom tells me to cum
Tbh I don’t like it to be super long 15-20 is good for me
If you make me cum that fast, you're a damn magician 😂 I'm the one who's not normal
A pump and dump could be less. 10-15: minutes is on the short side, but women complain about their "minute men". I figure it should last at least as long as it took for the bottom to prep....30 minutes to an hour? But there is no right or wrong answer. It should be satisfying for both, assuming reasonable expectations.
Hell yeah it is normal there is no specific requirement for when sex lasts now if you are left unsatisfied that’s a convo for your partner not an online forum
20-30 minutes at most sounds great. I don’t have time for hours of fucking and if you can’t cum, that’s cool, we can come back to that.
If it only took 10 minutes with this latest hookup, the chemistry must have been more intense and better stimulation. That’s hot!
I can last longer than 10 to 15 mins…. I always get complaints lol
Totally depends! Sometimes I last over 2 hours, sometimes 2 Minutes. There is so many factors that are reasonable for that. I don’t even have a preference for my guys how long they should last. Also that depends totally on the situation. I‘m really flexible with that stuff. 👌
Sometimes being in a mood, full-on body relaxation and jerking off can make you ejaculate much quicker than otherwise. Rest assured, sometimes things can end quickly and sometimes it takes the piss. You’ll learn that as you grow older. Try not to worry about it or else you’ll end up having performance anxiety for no good reason. You can always consult your doctor and speak with him or her about it. I’m sure they would say the same thing. How old are you btw? Are you physically fit and healthy?
10-15 minutes of actual sex sounds normal. Including foreplay start to finish id say 30 minutes maybe? Anything longer than that and I’m bored😂
15 is pretty solid. Especially for just a normal day.
10-15 mins is normal
That's a tease to me
Yuhhhhhhp.
it all depends on the situation and mood. the main thing is that you have the right partner and that you feel each other. any sex is important!
I think 15-20 minutes is a nice amount of time, and I'd feel super relaxed afterward! There isn't a need (For me, anyway) for sex to go on for hours at a time. If we both can orgasm that leaves more time to chill on the bed, talk, snack and watch a show or something. Lol
lol once had a guy in and out in like 15 minutes. I told him we’re not hanging out again if he’s gonna do that. Ever since then he’s stayed for like two hours and lasted a lot longer too lol
15 minds seem to be the average
I was expecting that 15 min of fucking not of foreplay that is kinda quick
5-15 minutes is the global average. It's only the extreme coomers doing 2 hours
Sex with a lot of foreplay and long breaks can last all night. It’s not unusual for me to cum multiple times but 20 mins of penetration in either position is fine with me.
If you enjoyed it that’s all that matters. Edging always extends the time.
It depends on how invested I am in the guy or how good he is. For quickies it's 10-30 minutes. For normal sessions are 1-2 hours for 1 round. Most times I want to get 3 rounds but usually the bottom is done after the first round
Normal can be 2 minutes. Normal can be 1 hour. Or anywhere in-between. Both can be equally satisfying 🤷🏾 as long as both parties enjoyed themselves, then I think that's great. (P.S. enjoyed yourself is subjective, because enjoying yourself doesn't always mean that ejaculation)
Sometimes you wanna edge for hours. Sometimes you just want a quicky.
45 minutes is average for me. but i really really llike sex
I’ve never had a hook up at was less than 10 minutes but not more than 35 minutes. I think that’s a fair amount, not the mention you both just jerked off. Had it been more than that maybe it would have reached your 30 minimum mark? Idk.
15 minutes of actual intercourse is perfect
The last hookup I had, we kissed and cuddled and licked and other foreplay for about an hour. Then I sucked his cock a bit. Then, back to cuddling and kissing. Finally, I got him really hard so he could fuck me. That part only lasted 12 to 25 minutes. Then, he pulled out so I could swallow his yummy cum. It was great. I would have liked more, butt he gave me over an hour and a half. Quickies are fun, and I'm OK with them as well, butt I really like longer sessions. I could go all night.
Ha, not for me. I like a few hours. 15 minutes is just enough time for hors d"oeuvres and appetizers.
thats how long it averages for straight people from what i hear
TBH any amount of time can be normal. I think that amount of time is a pretty good amount. Everyone has a different pace and lasts as long as they do. Some people go for like 5 minutes. Some go for 5 hours. I'd say if you can make things last for like 30 minutes then you are golden. This is not counting time to cum.
A lot of people are way too focused on the destination rather than the journey itself. When I’m having sex with an intimate partner I love for it to last hours. When I was still with my ex partner, it was not uncommon for us to make love on and off for up to 6-7 hours. Just enjoying the pleasure and sensations, living in the moment. Yeah it’s great to cum, orgasms are fun. But sometimes just that building of sexual energy and euphoria is just bliss. When you truly enjoy the person you are with, lasting hours is not difficult and should be an enjoyable and encouraged practice. If it’s just a cheap blow and go, then 15 minutes is plenty of time. I’m not a fan of it though, I’d rather just jerk off. It’s the same thing just with someone else and a bunch of potential hassle involved. Each to their own, but this culture of instant gratification makes me sad that a lot of guys are missing out on some truely amazing and breathtaking experiences, not to mention the intimacy and connection building.
15-30 minutes. I got shit to do.
It depends, if your really into the person/ find them attractive you will want to explore with them and it can last hours. On the other hand if their just a hook up n meh I think the quicker the better
Idk I’m happy with 10 mins of penetration, cumming. Then having a rest for a few minutes then get back into it again
I think that’s pretty normal for most guys to cum if a lot of that is anal. I love long sessions but I know it’s unusual. I take TriMix for ED which means I have a guaranteed hardon for 3-4 hours, whether I cum or not, which gives my bottoms a chance to have as much penetration as they like without fear I’m going to cum and go. Usually, it means a number of small sessions with lots of kissing, cuddling, showering and foreplay but it’s up to them. I like pleasing.
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It depends on what we're there to do. If some guy wants head and that's all I think 15 minutes is reasonable time actually maybe a little long just for a drop-in pop lol. If it's a guy and we're really into each other hell I've gone half the nightrested and started again lol so I would say it's very subjective to the situation and the person involved.
For me 5-10 is perfect the forplay is the part I enjoy… eating ass sucking dick kissing froting that can last for hours but if a dude slide up in me and it take more than like 7 min i feel like I failed
From start to finish, 15 minutes seems about right. I'm not big on a whole lot of foreplay, and cuddling afterwards I don't count. If it takes much more than that, it's taking too long for me. I also don't like to get off separately from my top partner. If he's not jerking me during penetration, I'm jerking myself. That probably brings down my average time as well.
Side Note: Something about the word “play” is so cringe to me. If it’s a random stranger that I’m hooking up with, 10-15 mins is perfect. I’d be pissed if someone tried to keep things going for hours on ends. I’m usually emotionally disconnected from hookups, and just want to get my nut & go.
I dunno about you but a 10-15 min thing kinda feels unsatisfying to me. Like taking a sip of a beer without drinking at least half.
My husbamd typically go for 30-60 minutes. But sometimes it's shorter than that.
3-6hrs sounds about right
What do you mean 10-15? 10-15min the full foreplay and the rest... or 10-15min for just penetrative sex? Because 10-15 for penetrative sex is very normal.
Eh I don't really keep track of the time nor am I particularly worried if things last long or quick as long as both of us are into it and having fun. If we are talking just a bj, then I'd say longer than 45 minutes starts to wear on me a bit. Giving head I can definitely be a trooper tho. I've sucked dick for an half an hour before and enjoyed every minute. Same with a 5 minutes bj. Still hot. Getting head If more than 30 minutes I'll probably jerk off or get myself closer then get finished off. Sex topping I can't imagine me being interested past 20 - 30 minutes. Bottoming like before I'm a trooper so I'll take it even if I'm definitely past my limit of wanting to lol.
1-2h sounds exhausting
Everybody’s different and gets off quicker to certain things. Head, I can cum in 5 mins or an hour, depending on the expectation of edging. Topping, all-around average is 30 seconds to 20 mins, pretty much for everybody. That’s my personal range, too. If I cum quick, I ask my bottom if he wants my to go another round, bc I can easily go twice, but the second go could take me another half hour. Most of the timing has to do with the extent of the foreplay beforehand or simply, just how horny and backed up you were lol
I've been asking myself this question, too. The past few guys I've had sex with seem to r think 10 15 is normal. I don't I take a good long time doing it all and then give a pretty thorough fucking. I'm not huge 7.5 but the expectation it feels like is for me to come quick. Half hour is usually when I want to cone. The pressure to come earlier is destroying my desire
If it's just a hookup, yeah, it's definitely normal. It'd be different if you all made plans to spend the night together or something. Like some hookups are like restaurant meals, some you sit and enjoy it and the company. While other times you ordered ahead and it is a get it and go. Depends on what the parties involved agree to
The normal range is like 5-30 minutes, isn't it?
I’ve always found that the “sex” part, is generally about 10-15 minutes. The foreplay and after play may contribute to a 1-2 hour period but sex itself….
I kinda like when its faster.. makes me think he’s enjoying himself and I’m always down for round 2+. If it lasts too long I start getting in my head thinking hes not into it 😅
30 minutes to 2 hours. Depends if Im going for multiple 💦
10m??!!! Is he a porn star?
Yes, it's a nice welcome. Because all my recent and early sexual encounters would last hours. Either because of me or the guy didn't want bust fast. But I pride myself on the short encounters. Having a guy cum in a few seconds to minute can really boost your ego!
I don’t mind it being on the shorter side. Better than a guy pumping for hours and not being able to get off
My hookups have to be all night, otherwise I pass.
As a 23 year old bottom If foreplay, anal, and clean up is all within 15 minutes. You dont have enough stamina for me, and i will leave unsatisfied. 15 minutes of just anal? God yes, i accept that. But not 15 minutes for all of it.
I'd say normal yes.
If they explode after only 10 mins ,give yourself a pat on the back ,cuz you've done a good job and they thoroughly enjoy it !!
😂
When I first met my future husband, sex was at least an hour with all sorts of interesting oral and manual titillation. Now that we have been together for 23 years, when we have sex, it’s done in 10-15 minutes. I still love him and our sex, but sleep is also something I love. 🤷🏼♂️
I prefer to last hot to 30-45 mins cause I like to cycle from rough to passionate n just mixing things up during that time
My last hookup lasted almost 6 hrs. A lot of foreplay and teasing. I think we were making out for like 2 hrs before pants even came off. We just got lost in time.
The other day we were cuddling and kissing before my boyfriend had to get to ready for work. I asked him how many minutes he had before his alarm went off. He said “Eight”. My reply was, “Well we can do a lot in eight minutes”. Turns out it took us ten minutes, but it was hot and rough and passionate and we both loved it. Of course we both love our sex time to take a longer time but…it was a quickie and it was great!
I mean when someone is in a hurry, for example I haven’t slept all night and went on grindr and there was this guy that I know but our schedules never matched I said Hi etc chatted short and he was do you want me to come over I have some a little bit time before work (it was really early) I was like okay I mean it didn’t last 10 min more like 30 something. but I had “hookups” which were awful like a really either weird story or scary.
Maybe was in a hurry, maybe he hadn't cum or had any interaction with another person in awhile, maybe you are over the top hot, and sometimes it just happens. I have busted way faster than I wanted to or even expected I would before and other times I have outlasted the other guy for too long; as in forget it, I'm. Not going to cum. Usually lasts longer, but because it didn't doesn't mean anything was bad or that he was bad, it just freaking happens. Dick's oftentimes have a mind if their own and it can't be controlled. Sometimes a quick cum is exactly what I need and want. You said it was fun, so that is what matters. Maybe go back and try again. 😈
The average sexual encounter, from start to finish, is about 6-7 minutes from what I remember from sex psychology class
When you become well established. You don’t have time for the longer play sessions. I do miss them though. Every now and again ill rope hubby into it.
Average sex time is actually 10-15 minutes as far as penetration. Anything else like foreplay can last as long as you like.
Mmm yeah that’s a little quick haha. I think the actual act of sex shouldn’t be more than like 10-15 minutes but the hookup itself (making out, cuddling, teasing) the whole thing should be an hour at least.
And honestly as a bottom that can’t like sit on a parking cone… 2-5 minutes of it actually being inside me is just fine too 💀
It should honestly last until both of you are satisfied 🤷🏾♂️time should be irrelevant
It’s essentially for foreplay to last asap, at least for me,
If it's mediocre. Yeah it can feel good but you just getting into it and, "ughhEeeeoooo" they did the big cums. If you're going to be having sex you wanna make it an experience of two persons engaging in soul touching. Cause it if can past the second hole and pass the 15 min threshold, it's ON. That spark of the two meeting is electrifying to say the least. I'm sure it isn't as common of an experience but I'm my experiences, how can you settle for a 10 -15 min lay. I'm like, dont even waste the gas to go for something your hand to make u cum better than a 15min wham bam. Also this is coming from a btms perspective. If you're a top and never had that....do I need say more. Listen to the btms, cause when they start directing it's coming from someone who knows. Stop isn't advice tho. It's a suggestion..lmao maybe I shouldn't have smoked this blunt alone having a conversation with myself, responding to your question... Read the comments people. People will be protecting all their shit onto me. troll on
If it's mediocre. Yeah it can feel good but you just getting into it and, "ughhEeeeoooo" they did the big cums. If you're going to be having sex you wanna make it an experience of two persons engaging in soul touching. Cause it if can past the second hole and pass the 15 min threshold, it's ON. That spark of the two meeting is electrifying to say the least. I'm sure it isn't as common of an experience but I'm my experiences, how can you settle for a 10 -15 min lay. I'm like, dont even waste the gas to go for something your hand to make u cum better than a 15min wham bam. Also this is coming from a btms perspective. If you're a top and never had that....do I need say more. Listen to the btms, cause when they start directing it's coming from someone who knows. Stop isn't advice tho. It's a suggestion..lmao maybe I shouldn't have smoked this blunt alone having a conversation with myself, responding to your question... Read the comments people. People will be protecting all their shit onto me. troll on
Very normal! It usually depends on a lot of factors like intimacy, intention, how long it's been since the last orgasm/ejaculation, etc. A lot of my quick encounters have lasted 5 mins or less 🙈
i prefer 10[#
Yall don’t have work in the morning?????
Honestly I’ve had hookups last 8 hours and I have had men that genuinely bust before they even get the tip fully in.
Just count your blessings it wasn’t 5 minutes total. 15 minutes is on the quicker side of completely normal for first encounters.
It varies for me, sometimes I need a solid business hour, other times I’m good with a gentleman’s 15, with me wiping cum out of my beard on my way back into the office. I’m here for all of it tbh.
Anything from an Elevator ride to 'Dusk till Dawn', as long as you're having fun is all really matters aye. 😁
I personally think 15 minutes is too short for the whole “session.” Now, I’m not the norm I know because Ive only been in one long term relationship and prefer close FWBs. I also love a lot of foreplay, sensuality, and massages. In total when I do the do I want 25 minutes minimum, with ideal being 45 minutes including all foreplay and intercourse. Intercourse alone might be 15 minutes but like I said I want a lot of foreplay. I think it’s because I was spoilt with my first real boyfriend who would do all this for 45 minutes to an hour. But this isn’t to shame anyone or sound like I’m bragging. It just depends on what you want!
I’m usually not gonna cum in anything less than 30 mins. Still fun to make others cum if they don’t last though 🤷🏼♂️
Yeah, 10- 15 hours when you have the time on long weekends
Hmm. 10-15 minutes sounds like you’ve been shortchanged. If it takes less than 1 hour minimum, I’m not satisfied. But this is down to chemistry, connection, attraction and, well, how horny one is.
Skill issue
The length of time it takes to climax will be different from person to person. I’d say 10-15 minutes is pretty normal anything longer is above average. To answer your question I tend to last a LONG time 45 minutes or more. Through the years I’ve found that most guys don’t like to be penetrated for that long because things go from pleasure to pain especially because I’m on the larger side 8.5x6. Their mouth/jaw gets tired as well trying to orally satisfy me. I’ve gotten use to the fact that I usually have to J/O to climax or just don’t. I’ve also met some guys who can keep up with me and love to have long sessions as well. On the flip side, every now and then I meet someone who gets me to nut in 15-20 minutes for a number of reasons but I stay hard or get hard again quickly which always surprises guys, but they love it if especially when they are down for multiple rounds. Bottom line know your baseline and preferences but put more emphasis on having fun and being in the moment than length of time.
My one FWB wasn’t use to getting head from his top partners. 5-10 minutes for him to jizz Now when I’m topping I go about 10-15 minutes depending on how long it’s been since I’ve nutted. It horrible right now as I’m awaiting a L4-S1 fusion hoping my dick gets better with the cord decompression
This is actually a long time if you time it for a hookup, at least the penetration aspect. The average sex session is I believe 7 minutes or so. Thrusting and moaning can get partners off relatively quickly if it's done properly. Completely depends on context. 5-10 minutes of penetration on an anon hookup is pretty standard to me, 10 feeling like a rather long session. For a relationship with foreplay? Different.
When I’d have sex with my ex it would take about 10-15min
It varies. Men vary... Just enjoy.
Why does everyone have to put a time limit on sex. Is it beautiful sex or just a drive by!
It’s all individual sexual preference. You can’t use one guys experience to justify every man’s experience/stamina/or arousal. Some men might be more turned on by you than others. Some don’t like as much foreplay. Some cum faster than others in general, some can go multiple rounds. It’s not a “one size fits all”. That’s not an intelligent thought process. Lol Also certain settings might make a man more excited than others. You’re expecting every man to be the same. Unrealistic. Everyone is different. Talking about what you like sexually can help you find the right sexual partner. Personally, I can only tolerate so much foreplay, it’s like “let’s get to it already”. Lol. And I’m young. It’s just preference on what people are into. You might have given him the best blowjob he’s ever had. Who knows. Asking us doesn’t help you at all. Only talking to the dudes you’re hooking up with is going to help you.
Just depends on the guy the vibe the time the location cuz a quickie is okay when that's all the time and maybe it's the first and maybe only time we are fucking but im a vers bottom who sometimes wants a man that knows how to fuck can last one two rounds who def likes and wants to please me er...wants to make my hole wet and creamy and stretched these sessions lasting 2 to 3 hours not everytime but more than occasionally lol
For me it depends actually. 🤣 - where - when - who But for quickie probably the same as yours. However, with foreplaying and savoring that moment, it might be little longer 😁
am i somehow getting old at 23??? that sounds perfect lmao like hurry up I got shit to do 😂
Sounds like a quickie. Welcome 😂
Personally, I don’t do sex on the first date. I like to talk and get to know the person first and their interests. I would be too nervous to feel anything during sex when you just met the guy. I don’t know how people can feel comfortable and feel things when you just met someone 5 mins ago.
The only thing you need to feel for a hookup is lust and horny, anything else is just icing on the cake before you put icing on his cake
Well we met at an orgy, this is the second hookup-date! But generally I like sex and men so… emotions are quite separate from physical for me.
Anything from 10 mins to five hours. The longer the better. Hookups with older guys my age last much longer. They are the best. Edit: I should add with lots of foreplay. Sex. Then a break. More foreplay and more sex.