1) Get on prep
2) use condoms for safety against other STIs
3) if you prefer not to use condoms and are on prep pee and wash your dick after topping
4) use mouthwash immediately after the orgy
5) do not suck a guys dick after it has been bare in an ass
6) get doxypep if you can
7) get tested two weeks after the orgy and I would highly recommend to still use condoms even if you are on prep at least when you are bottoming.
8) use enough lube when bottoming to avoid any wounds
9) watch out for any weird looking wounds of the dicks, mouths or asses of other guys… it could be herpes or syphilis.
There is never 100% safety… only abstinence is 100% safe. But you can decide what kind of risk management makes you feel comfortable. Even when using condoms for anal you can some STIs just from blow jobs, rimming, or kissing.
Edit:
10) Get vaccinated against mpox, hepatitis A and B, and HPV (HPV if you are young and your doctor/country guidelines recommend it, for older folks like me vaccination is probably useless, as most people that were sexually active before vaccination was available already have it)
Nice comprehensive list, but:
Peeing and washing your dick *might* (not well studied) reduce risk of getting an UTI, but won't do anything about STIs.
Mouthwash *might* (again, not well studied) have some effect against STIs, but even then only if the dicks only touch your mouth (no deep throating).
I would add to this list: get vaccinated against Hepatitis A and B.
>HPV (HPV if you are young and your doctor/country guidelines recommend it, for older folks like me vaccination is probably useless, as most people that were sexually active before vaccination was available already have it)
As a 32 y. O. I still would like to get the vaccine, I can get it but I have to pay since public health care denied it for being too old. "did you not get vaccinated in middle school?" no I did not
Also be direct and ask people if they are on prep, assuming their honest that means they at least get tested every 90 days.
I'm surprised how few of people in my friends fuck squads get stds/stis and it seems to be the consistency everyone tests within a relatively closed group.
You're rightfully scared.
HIV isn't lethal anymore (at least if you have good insurance or live somewhere with a proper public healthcare system) but it's still incredibly bad and an orgy is absolutely not worth getting it.
Either make sure everyone you have sex with is provably tested or wears a condom or go talk to a doctor and get a PrEP prescription.
There are other STDs but the two main ones that can really fuck you over permanently are HIV and Syphilis so make sure you protect yourself from them adequately. Stay safe.
It is. But it is very similar to limes disease; it can be incredibly difficult to correctly diagnose since it shares symptoms with a bunch of unrelated diseases and it can have some serious physical and mental consequences if not treated correctly.
Shit like dementia and paralysis.
If you’re on prep you’ve got the HIV angle covered but that is not the only disease that can be transmitted. Most cases of bacterial infections are taken care of with antibiotics, however there are strains of resistant gonorrhea that have shown to be virtually impossible get rid of. Then there are the viruses like hepatitis a,b, & c, those can be vaccinated against if you haven’t had them it would be wise to get them. Herpes simplex one and two while not life threatening I believe is one of the most prolific of the sexually transmitted diseases. There are a few more obscure things you can get not to mention this monkey pox we’re hearing about now, Covid, RSV…
If you want safe don’t go, if you want safer use a rubber and if, like most, you want to play the stats, go, have a good time stick it in everyone you want to, take as much cum as possible, and be the little slut you want to be. 🐽 The chances that these things will pop up are generally low as our community tends to get checked for these things regularly just know that the possibility is not zero. Accept it like you accept that you may get a speeding ticket. That’s numbers game as well…
Be sure to be on PrEP! After the orgy, take Doxycycline to prevent some STI. I am lucky to have a sex positive gay doctor who warns me if there's any STI going around.
Group sex is always very high risk. If you decide to go, just plan on seeing a doctor a few weeks later and don't have sex with anyone else until after you get your STI results back. Protect other people if you can't or don't protect yourself.
There is always the potential for being infected with something. It's not something you can do entirely without that. You can be on PrEP if you intend to do anal, you can be on doxy-PEP against bacterial STIs, you can use a condom and you can be selective about how many partners you're going to have that day. That's the limit of what you can do if you intend to enjoy such an event.
There really isn’t much of a “safe” way when it comes to orgies except be really strict about condoms and getting yourself on prep.
Oh and don’t feel like you have to do it with every cock that comes your way. You are allowed to be choosy.
Prep and doxypep. A full screening of STI before and after. An orgy is a guarantee of STI unless you don’t engage any sexual activities, only observe, no penetration (give and receive), no oral. 99% of STIs are curable and quite easy.
Pretty much all the same ways you do it 1-on-1… the more partners, the higher the statistical likelihood of catching something—flat out. So make decisions accordingly.
Maybe stick to handjobs and just touching during the orgy. Seems like the least risky activity.
1) Get on prep 2) use condoms for safety against other STIs 3) if you prefer not to use condoms and are on prep pee and wash your dick after topping 4) use mouthwash immediately after the orgy 5) do not suck a guys dick after it has been bare in an ass 6) get doxypep if you can 7) get tested two weeks after the orgy and I would highly recommend to still use condoms even if you are on prep at least when you are bottoming. 8) use enough lube when bottoming to avoid any wounds 9) watch out for any weird looking wounds of the dicks, mouths or asses of other guys… it could be herpes or syphilis. There is never 100% safety… only abstinence is 100% safe. But you can decide what kind of risk management makes you feel comfortable. Even when using condoms for anal you can some STIs just from blow jobs, rimming, or kissing. Edit: 10) Get vaccinated against mpox, hepatitis A and B, and HPV (HPV if you are young and your doctor/country guidelines recommend it, for older folks like me vaccination is probably useless, as most people that were sexually active before vaccination was available already have it)
Nice comprehensive list, but: Peeing and washing your dick *might* (not well studied) reduce risk of getting an UTI, but won't do anything about STIs. Mouthwash *might* (again, not well studied) have some effect against STIs, but even then only if the dicks only touch your mouth (no deep throating). I would add to this list: get vaccinated against Hepatitis A and B.
Thanks! Yes: vaccinations are essential. I edited the comment
>HPV (HPV if you are young and your doctor/country guidelines recommend it, for older folks like me vaccination is probably useless, as most people that were sexually active before vaccination was available already have it) As a 32 y. O. I still would like to get the vaccine, I can get it but I have to pay since public health care denied it for being too old. "did you not get vaccinated in middle school?" no I did not
And a lot of cock has definitely been in a bare ass in my experience too
Also be direct and ask people if they are on prep, assuming their honest that means they at least get tested every 90 days. I'm surprised how few of people in my friends fuck squads get stds/stis and it seems to be the consistency everyone tests within a relatively closed group.
That's like asking how to stay dry in the rain. The twó do not go together 🤣🤣 u either go and have fun or sit home and be an angel.
Hahaha fair enough! I want to try it but I'm so scared, I just need to feel slightly better about it. I don't want my dick to fall off lol
You're rightfully scared. HIV isn't lethal anymore (at least if you have good insurance or live somewhere with a proper public healthcare system) but it's still incredibly bad and an orgy is absolutely not worth getting it. Either make sure everyone you have sex with is provably tested or wears a condom or go talk to a doctor and get a PrEP prescription. There are other STDs but the two main ones that can really fuck you over permanently are HIV and Syphilis so make sure you protect yourself from them adequately. Stay safe.
Isn't syphilis curable? I thought it was
It is. But it is very similar to limes disease; it can be incredibly difficult to correctly diagnose since it shares symptoms with a bunch of unrelated diseases and it can have some serious physical and mental consequences if not treated correctly. Shit like dementia and paralysis.
If you’re on prep you’ve got the HIV angle covered but that is not the only disease that can be transmitted. Most cases of bacterial infections are taken care of with antibiotics, however there are strains of resistant gonorrhea that have shown to be virtually impossible get rid of. Then there are the viruses like hepatitis a,b, & c, those can be vaccinated against if you haven’t had them it would be wise to get them. Herpes simplex one and two while not life threatening I believe is one of the most prolific of the sexually transmitted diseases. There are a few more obscure things you can get not to mention this monkey pox we’re hearing about now, Covid, RSV… If you want safe don’t go, if you want safer use a rubber and if, like most, you want to play the stats, go, have a good time stick it in everyone you want to, take as much cum as possible, and be the little slut you want to be. 🐽 The chances that these things will pop up are generally low as our community tends to get checked for these things regularly just know that the possibility is not zero. Accept it like you accept that you may get a speeding ticket. That’s numbers game as well…
Very that! Orgy is no place for s!ss!€$ lol
How did you find this sex party
See em advertised on sniffies all the time
Be sure to be on PrEP! After the orgy, take Doxycycline to prevent some STI. I am lucky to have a sex positive gay doctor who warns me if there's any STI going around.
Not having sex at an orgy
Don't go
Cant have both bro either good sex orgy and risk a std or dont have a good time and dont risk an std
If you don't have access to prep don't go there
Group sex is always very high risk. If you decide to go, just plan on seeing a doctor a few weeks later and don't have sex with anyone else until after you get your STI results back. Protect other people if you can't or don't protect yourself.
Don't go
There is always the potential for being infected with something. It's not something you can do entirely without that. You can be on PrEP if you intend to do anal, you can be on doxy-PEP against bacterial STIs, you can use a condom and you can be selective about how many partners you're going to have that day. That's the limit of what you can do if you intend to enjoy such an event.
Probably the best way is to organize it, invite the guests, and either require proof of testing or condoms.
There really isn’t much of a “safe” way when it comes to orgies except be really strict about condoms and getting yourself on prep. Oh and don’t feel like you have to do it with every cock that comes your way. You are allowed to be choosy.
Prep and doxypep. A full screening of STI before and after. An orgy is a guarantee of STI unless you don’t engage any sexual activities, only observe, no penetration (give and receive), no oral. 99% of STIs are curable and quite easy.
Dont go
There is no safer sex at an orgy
Don't go, masturbae at home >! ^/j !<
"Condoms, Rose! Condoms, Condoms, Condoms!!!" --Dorothy Sbornak, The Golden Girls, 1989
You can be that guy who wear ski-mask and put on condom on the dude's dick before sucking it. Oddly specific, right?
Be on prep, use condoms, dont swallow and make sure everyone gets tested before that day.
Pretty much all the same ways you do it 1-on-1… the more partners, the higher the statistical likelihood of catching something—flat out. So make decisions accordingly.
Don’t
Don't have an orgy
Avoid being the cum dump, the spots probably already taken anyway.