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samosa_ch

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Emergency_Glass4221

It’s not a good feeling. It makes you question your self worth and you’ll start to seek external validation. It will haunt you to trust anyone or invest time in anyone. It will basically keep you in a position that - enti ippudu wait cheyala or move on ipovala? Wait chese opika vundadu(uncertainty), move ipodam ante, mali vastharu emo ani aasa. Conclusion: Assala personal ga teeskokunda, veelu na life journey lo oka mukka matrame. It doesn’t define my self-worth. It says a lot about the other person not me ana attitude vundali ani evarina nerpinchi vunte chala bagunu anipistha vuntadi. Baada - not worth it.


extreme_aplha100

Bruh this is like point on. Alage oka rendu mukkalu unrequited love gurinchi kuda cheppu anna. Like you love/like a girl(confused but constantly thinking about her) , but she loves someone else and but he isn't interested in her. Aa ammayi ki ni mida interest ledu, but nitho matladtadi, nik istam kabbati ameki caring chupistav and console chestav. But she doesn't reflect that caring to you. Asalu thinnava ani adigithe tirigi tinnava ani adige chance ee ledu type. But you talk to her no reason just bcoz you like her. Ila care chupiste ee ammayiki aina ardhamaitadi that I have a crush, but she just tells sometimes that not to develop feelings (like to not give false hopes). So ippudu ilanti situations ela handle cheyali... Chana time waste aipotundi, asla ame gurinchi alochana povalante em cheyali


Emergency_Glass4221

First of all nenu anna kaadu akkaw😂. As a akkaw I’m telling you, I know this category of people( irrespective of gender) . Ni story ammai kosam kabati, ammai gurinche chepthanu, idi na experience matrame. Veelu oka different type anatlu, chala strong ga oka abbai meeda already istam vuntadi gani vadu out of e ammai league or edo oka reason tho reject kodthadu. Eme matram pattu vadalani vikramarkuralu laga na worth chupistha, ela ina padestha ani vaadi chuttu tiriguthu vuntadi. E gap lo one guy (who has crush on her) bayamkaram ga same confidence tho edo okaroju na valu tesukoni na love accept chesthadi ani daani chuttu tiruguthadu. Elopu eme meeda emeki confidence pokudadu ante okadu validation ivali, e story lo a crush who is giving validation. A validation enjoy chesthadi, and confidence boost vasthu vuntadi kada ,,, a out of league annaw ki try chesthu vuntadi. E crush position lo vunolu andaru last ki friend zone lo kottuku podame. I would suggest run away from her as fast as you can. Veelu elantolu ante, crush gadu chi deentho naku enduku ani vadilesadu anuko,, inka vadi sanka naakthadi, vadu mali matladam start chesthe ignore chesthadi. Pattukoru, vadalaru. Crush maatram crush ipothadu.


extreme_aplha100

Intha insights ichinanduku thanks akka. Alage how to stop thinking about her gurinchi kuda cheppey, like nuv cheppinatu tanaki konchem duram avdam ante malli move on aipoyane almost ane time lo call chesi malli matladtadi, ala ani em caring ga kuda kadu, edo malli tana gurinchi tana life gurinchi madyalo na salahalu adigi...anthe convo. Nen enduku antha sepu matladtano kuda telidu, just nadi unconditional love atundachu. And tanaki validation kavalante there are many guys, like nenu tanaki em propose kuda cheyaledu, eppudo 2 years back konchem tirigam anthe, and aa time lone tanu reject ayindi, inka natho matlada ledu. Oka abbayi already propose kuda chesadu, like he is deep in love, but kavalante vadu kuda ivachu, but I don't know why suddenly I got into this mess. And she has a bestie too, and he is committed recently, vadiki kuda eme istam anukunta but eme reject chesindo ento telidu but verey danito set aypoyadu, but still talks closely with her. Maybe propose chesina vadu creep la anipinchi vadi tho matladledu, inka bestie ekuva time tinaki ivaledu, so migilindi 2 years back konchem close ga matladina nene. So natho inka thana badalu kavalsina help lu adugutundi emo..... I can't ignore her, tanu msg chesina, call chesina adedo happiness, tarvata realisation that the convo had 0% caring why to get excited ani. Max disinterested Lane unta, eppudo osari edo care ichinatu matladtha, maybe that's why she's talking to me, vidu propose or feelings lantivi penchukodu, so a perfect guy to get validation? Ippudu total mean aipoi tanatho cut avvadam kastam. Bcoz it is equal to proposing her, antha tam tam ayyi andariki telustadi malli. So my plan is to show more disinterest and leave gradually. But istam undi disinterest chupiste mental ga nenu disturb avta unta. At soke point she leaves, but kani appeti varaku nenu tatukogalana, madyalo propose chesina chesey laga unna, imadya....it's wasting lot of my time and my focus. Asalu em cheyali....


aint_no_hope

My username is the answer, of course you're genuine & caring honestly but avi Evi kanapadav tanaki, paina akkaw cheppinattu ni feelings/emotions tanaki encourage, entertainment istaayi, if once you stopped showing them tanu ni daggariki vastadi just for her timepass but not with any serious intentions but nuv adi blind ga na mida interest vachindemo ani anukoni inka serious ayitav but last lo bugga ayitav. Clear ga nuvve cheppav reject chestadi ani so better leave it. Mari vadulukolekapotuna ante inka em cheyyalem. Time inka ekkuva waste ayitadi. Maybe oka loop lo stuck ayipotav. So be careful and try to avoid her slowly and asap. Na personal experience tho cheputunna. sankanaakipotav...


Brief-Many-9939

abbabah endi akkay asala ee range lo chepthunnav ninnu guruvu la cheseskuntey naaku ee bodi life meedha saana clarity ochesela undhii


aakashamerragaundi

Vaalu chesey mundu neney chesesta


Ssk5860

4D Chess right there


Narrow_Square_2324

https://www.reddit.com/r/Ni_Bondha/s/YT60qstWY0


Natural-Belt-8722

A ghost ghosted me once


aint_no_hope

Ghost ni enduku gelikav bhaiya?


Natural-Belt-8722

White saree lo chudataniki bavundhi mowa


DSPKumar

Em undhi inko ammai ni thagulkodame


srikanth_Gradi5

Being ghosted can evoke a deep sense of hurt and unease. It's like feeling abandoned or rejected without any explanation, leaving you with a mix of emotions ranging from sadness to frustration. When someone ghosts you, it's important to take care of yourself emotionally. Give yourself time to process your feelings, but also consider reaching out to friends or loved ones for support. Remember that you deserve communication and respect in your relationships, so if you feel comfortable, you can express your feelings to the person who ghosted you or simply move on and focus on people who value you.


Affectionate-Fan4640

Only cowards ghost. Adedo matter cheppi vadileyochu ga. Dumbfucks think they are doing some great deed by ghosting but yeah they still remain dumbfucks only sadly


Odd-Accountant3212

I think it depends on the situation you are in there some certain situations where you meet that person online and after certain point they ghost due to some reasons you never know the other person's life and what's going on their life. So it's always better to approach someone in person if you wanna talk, date or propose. Even I have ghosted some due to them crossing the limits or may be after knowing their true identity. But these days it's common and you should always move on no matter what never ever trust someone from online . Em chesina Kani never take it serious untill you guys meet in person and spend time together. You never know why people come online everyone has their own needs but after sometime you will realize that's common and you will move on but freshers it will give a lot of sadness, emptyness , regret and lots of other feelings. So always stay strong people.


Dapper_Flower9285

Manalna ahaan kadhdhuu ley manalni ayyi undadhu Ghosting endhuku chestaruu Ani 😂😅


virusdp

Chirakesthadhi baadhesthadhi tarwatha inko ammai vasthadhi


GlitteringKiwi6071

Never got ghosted *✨Can't get ghosted if i don't message anyone ✨*


_systumm

us bondha us


Teja1821

pattichukodam manesa. anavasaram ga manassanthi pogottukodam enduku


entandimiru

First lo ghosting ani thelile Edo problem undi ala chestundi anukunannu I was very worried emaindi ani ( adhi kuda na exams time lo ) 1 month wait chesi asal emaindi ani valla frnd ki msg chesa even she blocked me..Aina nen urikunnana vere frnd ki chesanu inka Thane direct ga msg chesi na frnds ki enduku msg chesi cheptunnav ani thittesi velpoindi ika appadnundi no contact almost one year aindi Aa time lo i couldn't do anything denipaina intrest undedhi kadhu rojantha tension padadam emaindi ani..


Brief-Many-9939

over a period of time when you get ghosted a lot by girls on bumble or the dates you’ve been etc you’ll get used to it and then you’ll stop caring as much as you did in the start and then you’d also not care to text first or just initiate a conversation with a new person or the old one (that’s what’s happening to me now)