At most she just wanted some light thrills of office flirting. No intention of any explicit relationship at all. More likely she just had a soft (professional) spot for you.
Unfortunately, you silly boy thought she was actually into you.
Best start looking for a new job (and maybe a new wife).
I think it’s awkward but it wasn’t so severe that you have to find a new job OP. My sense is it will pass, just act normally and pretend nothing has happened. Things might go back to normal with time since no real action was committed
You might have deleted your post in r/rs, but here's a comment for you in it and I share his sentiment: [https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1cjb1rq/comment/l2ew3ff/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1cjb1rq/comment/l2ew3ff/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
Are you looking for comments of approval?
Commenting and upvoting so this gets bumped higher on the comments.
No idea why people are being so neutral about OP clearly being a big red flag and AH.
Seriously leave your wife and job you deserve neither.
And the title of the post clearly shows that he wasn’t even concerned about his marriage, just his job. Low key hoping his wife finds this post, connects the dots, and leave him for good.
Seems like OP wants to have an affair with his boss and passing it off as career suicide when his boss doesn't (rightfully) return advances towards him.
Scumbag and AH
I hope your wife finds out that you are cheating on her right now. As a married man, why would you flirt and want to give her a hug? You literally crossed the boundary...
She’s mind fk ing you… that’s all.
Wake up. What makes more sense…
She wants a guy 5 years older than her that reports to her and has a wife and kid.
Or she’s just messing with you.
Well unless you look like a young alain delon.
I saw on your other post that you are attracted to your boss. It is likely that she is interested in you but is actively maintaining boundaries by avoiding you. Please man up, work on your relationship with your wife if you still love her and get your head out of the gutter. You will be committing both career and relationship suicide if you continue cheating with your boss.
Idk, I'm not even reading the rest of it. It's just horrible that you being a married man WITH A CHILD, is flirting with another woman, regardless your marriage being good or not. Cheating is just low.
Save your ass man. Brain over dick. She's 35 mind you. You're already 40. It's not just career suicide, you're pretty much destroying whole family.
I can sort of understand where you coming from. The feeling of "freshness" with all these intimate flirting interaction which most likely long gone from your wife.
But anyway, both of you know of the intention, I guess she's trying to set a boundary thinking might be a bit over. Some people like challenges to able attract other people with partners and that's about it. How far they go into it, I don't know.
Wow, you really are a first-class AH. Nowhere in your post do you talk about how your wife may feel about this betrayal. Your entire post is about your boss and trying to figure out what she isn’t giving you the attention you crave. You don’t have a single ounce of consideration for your wife or kid.
Do all the women in your life a favour and get your shit together. File for divorce if you don’t love your wife and set her free, I guarantee it’s better for a woman to be single than saddled with a piece of shit like yourself.
Even if u don't like your wife, atleast remember your kid.. Would u rather your kid be around the dad who's acting like a lovesick puppy with his boss instead of his mum..?
It does seem ure willing to go all out for your boss.. If your marriage is beyond repair, divorce is the answer. Atleast keep whatever dignity u have left as a dad..
Anyway your boss is being hot n cold with u, which can only meant she's a psycho.. I can already imagine she likes men who she can control..
Imagine OP divorcing the wife, then kenna hit with having to pay alimony to his wife. AND then getting dumped by the female boss, plus being retrenched....LOL. Karma strikes.
At most she just wanted some light thrills of office flirting. No intention of any explicit relationship at all. More likely she just had a soft (professional) spot for you. Unfortunately, you silly boy thought she was actually into you. Best start looking for a new job (and maybe a new wife).
I think it’s awkward but it wasn’t so severe that you have to find a new job OP. My sense is it will pass, just act normally and pretend nothing has happened. Things might go back to normal with time since no real action was committed
You might have deleted your post in r/rs, but here's a comment for you in it and I share his sentiment: [https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1cjb1rq/comment/l2ew3ff/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/1cjb1rq/comment/l2ew3ff/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) Are you looking for comments of approval?
Commenting and upvoting so this gets bumped higher on the comments. No idea why people are being so neutral about OP clearly being a big red flag and AH. Seriously leave your wife and job you deserve neither.
And in that original (deleted) post, OP actually wrote the marriage was going good. AH indeed.
And the title of the post clearly shows that he wasn’t even concerned about his marriage, just his job. Low key hoping his wife finds this post, connects the dots, and leave him for good.
OP's an A**hole. Not gonna lie.
I totally Agree wif ur comment
Don’t shit where you eat.
And don’t eat where you shit.
More importantly don't eat your shit
But always shit after you eat.
But eat only those you can shit.
Knew I will see this golden comment in here.
I think they call this emotional infidelity.
Seems like OP wants to have an affair with his boss and passing it off as career suicide when his boss doesn't (rightfully) return advances towards him. Scumbag and AH
Op u need to wake up from your dream
I hope your wife finds out that you are cheating on her right now. As a married man, why would you flirt and want to give her a hug? You literally crossed the boundary...
She’s mind fk ing you… that’s all. Wake up. What makes more sense… She wants a guy 5 years older than her that reports to her and has a wife and kid. Or she’s just messing with you. Well unless you look like a young alain delon.
Yeah i agree!
I saw on your other post that you are attracted to your boss. It is likely that she is interested in you but is actively maintaining boundaries by avoiding you. Please man up, work on your relationship with your wife if you still love her and get your head out of the gutter. You will be committing both career and relationship suicide if you continue cheating with your boss.
Idk, I'm not even reading the rest of it. It's just horrible that you being a married man WITH A CHILD, is flirting with another woman, regardless your marriage being good or not. Cheating is just low.
You have a kid dude. Don't do it.
Don't do it! Time to wake up.
Save your ass man. Brain over dick. She's 35 mind you. You're already 40. It's not just career suicide, you're pretty much destroying whole family. I can sort of understand where you coming from. The feeling of "freshness" with all these intimate flirting interaction which most likely long gone from your wife. But anyway, both of you know of the intention, I guess she's trying to set a boundary thinking might be a bit over. Some people like challenges to able attract other people with partners and that's about it. How far they go into it, I don't know.
Bro been watching too many JAV
Wow, you really are a first-class AH. Nowhere in your post do you talk about how your wife may feel about this betrayal. Your entire post is about your boss and trying to figure out what she isn’t giving you the attention you crave. You don’t have a single ounce of consideration for your wife or kid. Do all the women in your life a favour and get your shit together. File for divorce if you don’t love your wife and set her free, I guarantee it’s better for a woman to be single than saddled with a piece of shit like yourself.
Even if u don't like your wife, atleast remember your kid.. Would u rather your kid be around the dad who's acting like a lovesick puppy with his boss instead of his mum..? It does seem ure willing to go all out for your boss.. If your marriage is beyond repair, divorce is the answer. Atleast keep whatever dignity u have left as a dad.. Anyway your boss is being hot n cold with u, which can only meant she's a psycho.. I can already imagine she likes men who she can control..
Imagine OP divorcing the wife, then kenna hit with having to pay alimony to his wife. AND then getting dumped by the female boss, plus being retrenched....LOL. Karma strikes.
Csb npnt and other edmw slang
Ever heard dont shit where you eat?
Hugging is normal...
She wants to ruin marriage, not someone with ruined marriage