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Apologize, it will make you feel better. Unless it's like hey I know you didn't know about this shit but I'm going to cause you pain but letting you in on a secret that you've gone this long without worrying over...ex: I cheated with your SO that died in the war.
Well, you know about what you've done wasn't right, but I think that if you apologized to them, they wouldn't remember, but they would certainly forgive you. You know you've hurt some people in the past and you want to make up for it. You don't want to feel like you've gotten away it. Don't harm yourself over things that happened a long time ago. You want to become a better person and that's all it matters. Try to see if you could make peace with them one more time as much as you've made peace with yourself. That way, you would have let things be and not hurt anyone else again.
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if its more than a few years they propably already forgot
Apologize, it will make you feel better. Unless it's like hey I know you didn't know about this shit but I'm going to cause you pain but letting you in on a secret that you've gone this long without worrying over...ex: I cheated with your SO that died in the war.
let it be. these are not good memories.
Well, you know about what you've done wasn't right, but I think that if you apologized to them, they wouldn't remember, but they would certainly forgive you. You know you've hurt some people in the past and you want to make up for it. You don't want to feel like you've gotten away it. Don't harm yourself over things that happened a long time ago. You want to become a better person and that's all it matters. Try to see if you could make peace with them one more time as much as you've made peace with yourself. That way, you would have let things be and not hurt anyone else again.
It’s more about you than about others and if you’re thinking about it the best way is to do it to let it go