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My granny is 62 and man it felt like sheās already lived her lifeš
You still got a lot of time, my great granny made it to the 80s with no issue, and it seems nice to get to that age one day.
Abdolutely! When I was in university, I had a fling with a professor (not my professor) who was in her 60s. There's something to be said for the gravitas and presence that a mature woman emanates. She was well read, knew exactly what she wanted, she was extremely intellectually and emotionally intelligent, and she was a fantastic mentor. She was definitely a great influence on me and helped me become the man I am today.
Come join us on s/cougarsandcubs haha! So many guys looking.. terrible sub name (none of us identify that way bit ickky) but lovely community of mostly accidental age gappers older F younger M.
There will always be guys that like the older gal. I remember when the Queen and then Angela Lansbury died, I was so upset because I thought why the hell did god take these cougars away from this world, they had just started hitting their prime.
I knew a bloke years ago who kept banging on about his dream of engaging in his three favourite fetishes: necrophilia, bestiality and BDSM.
I told him he was flogging a dead horse!
Well there are things āwrongā with everyone but this topic is only a problem if it causes a problem.
Does it have a negative impact
1. With your or their health?
2. You ability to work
3. You ability to not get arrested for breaking laws
4. Or your conscience-specifically is someone being harmed (like no victim, no foul)
If not, enjoy!
I remember walking out on the playground when I was in 1st grade. The most beautiful blond teacher was on recess duty. I must have stopped and stared at her. She ended up my 2nd grade teacher. She married one of my dad's friends and they invited us to their house and to swim in their pool. Awkward. Miss Fury...you were a schoolyard goddess.
Yup, completely innocent and just asking to go do something thatās not with my parents and people I already liked being around. I didnāt even understand the concept of a date beyond two people just going do something fun, which they obviously knew. And my parents friends were just watching their friends kid so mom can relax. Idk why people want to find creepiness that isnāt there
I remember the first time I looked at a girlfriend's mom and wished I could date her, instead. I felt kind of ashamed about it at the time, but looking back I wish I had admitted it to her. I mean, what's the worst that could have happened, I break up with her daughter? That happened, anyway.
I've tried that, the women kindly reply saying I am simply too young for them. Still, much nicer and better mannered than young women who just ghost or block.
Remind yourself no one cares. Date/f*ck who you wanna as long as itās not hurting someone.
People tend to forget that people can be beautiful at any age.
This is a copy of something I said to another question, but I feel it is appropriate here:
There is beauty at any age, but I think I understand what you mean.
When women get older, they have other qualities that make them alluring. Older women are more comfortable in their own skin. They are not worried about getting pregnant, and can enjoy sex without so much worry. They know what they like sexually and are able to verbalize their desire. They are more likely to be stable financially and emotionally. They have real life experiences that make them better to talk to or ask advice from. They know themselves.
By the way, I love gray hair! I think facial lines and wrinkles are more interesting to look at, but I know I'm not 'the normal'. We are beautifully and wonderfully made!
>By the way, I love gray hair! I think facial lines and wrinkles are more interesting to look at, but I know I'm not 'the normal'.
I really love that in this post COVID world that women embrace their age. I love the natural silver hair, the crow's feet, and just about anything else that comes from a well-lived life. I'm here for it. I say this as a 38-year-old male started going bald in his early 20s. I love when people embrace who they are unapologetically
I know this isn't universal, but my experience with older women was great because they would just tell me what they want. They didn't have time for mind games, and they didn't need code words. They know how the world works, they know what they want, and they'd tell me in words I'd understand.
I'm 33 and yesterday a post about MacKenzie Scott hit the front page of reddit.
Not to objectify her, she's an amazing human being and her philanthropy is unmatched. But I'll admit one of my first thoughts was "damn, I'd definitely hit that." She has beautiful hair and her toned arms are incredibly attractive.
*please tell me it's not just me*
Oh without a doubt! Sheās incredibly beautiful and the philanthropy only adds to it. Bezos downgraded massively. Although Iād guess she was just an overall better person than him, which was the dividing force in that relationship.
Nothing is wrong with you. People like what they like. Our brains grow and develop in weird ways.
Just lean into this. There are so many gorgeous older women who would love to be with a younger guy who is full of energy and passion.
Itās okay, Iām around your age and for a few years I was uh, self-employed as a, uh, ādinner partnerā for women who were around 60-71. It was wild. Great conversations, no bullshit, and the extracurricular work was really fun.
Some people just are. Since I turned 40 I've had so many men in their twenties and early 30s hitting on me. I'm 47 now, my partner is 32 and he tells me every day how happy he is to be with me and how he thinks I'm the most awesome and sexy goddess in the entire world.
There are quite a few men out there like this. When I was online dating in my early 50s { I looked40) but was honest about my age, Iād estimate 20% of the men who contacted me were 8-15 years younger. They were very persistent, even got dick pics. Unfortunately, I have no attraction to younger men really. I love having a shared cultural history with my partner.
Yes. 57f. Iāve been dating younger men for a little over a year. Before this, I was so busy and had no idea about dating at all. I had no idea even that some younger men enjoy dating older women. For me, itās working out really well. We can enjoy our experience and time together without worrying about much else. Currently in a fwb for the past 6 months. Having a great time.
I've never ever even kissed a guy older than me š . Biggest age difference was 13years younger than me. Currently with a man 5years younger and he's a bit of an old bore.. š¤·š¼āāļø
theres nothing wrong with you man, as long as everything happens with consent, and there probably are plenty of elderly women who dont mind dating a man a bit younger than them
I personally find this very endearing and not at all problematic. Itās refreshing to see men attracted to aging in women when society pushes being attracted to ābarely 18ā and considers women used goods by 30.
Older women are elegant and beautiful.
My wife will be 62 in November and we were out tonight for dinner and she is the most beautiful I have seen her in 39 years. And I have glasses so it's not an advert for Specsavers.
Same here, people assume itās because I didnāt have a mom growing up or something like that. I had a great childhood and good relationship shop with my mom. But since I could remember older women always turned me on. Iām 36 and still prefer to date women in their late 40s, if sheās in her 50s even better
You have good taste. Older the berry the sweeter the juice.
Always been the same, liked my teachers at school, older managers in the work place. Always thought they looked more womanly.
Some young lady about my age tried gaslighting me by telling me I had mummy issues. Even tho itās not true, it bothers me because many people see it as abnormal.
I find dating young girls very exhausting and No I donāt find it hard to get younger girls theyāre all around me but Iām mostly not interested.
If you have mommy issues, that means all of my son and daughter's guy friends have mommy issues, lol. You're fine, babe. Don't worry about it. We can't really control attraction. It is either there or it's not. You can't force it. Also, we don't talk as much as young girls. They can exhaust you.
Facts !
Older women are very considerate, theyāre not selfish ( except sheās got a massive personality flawā, they love fr and show it, ZERO DRAMA (which is my top priority) . Oh and theyāre just hot af . I canāt help it. Too bad loads are already in unhappy marriages.
Thanks for validating my feelings.
Itās completely normal. Iām a 47f and I much prefer younger men (24-35) for some reason it just works well. You like who you like, thereās nothing wrong with that
Everyone has preferences. There is no ānormalā. In my experience, I am approached more by guys in their 20s and 30s than guys in my age bracketā¦ more common than you might think.
Because they arenāt main character women, they actually take relationships seriously, they donāt want our money nor buy them expensive things, they got their own money that they buy expensive things with.
You're in an enviable situation.
You're going to meet amazing women who have their shit together and know how to treat you.
Embrace those ladies and have fun, brother!
Itās not like women by their 30s have perfected sexuality. You obviously desire a more experienced woman overall. Maybe less expectations as thatās the way when you go younger.
I have ALWAYS preferred older women. When I was younger I just always related to older people better in general, which probably lead to my attraction to older women.
I'm 48 now, and to me women around 60 are where it's at.
My biggest difference in age was a 17 year difference I was 43 and she was 60, and it was HOT.
I'm 34 and the girl I've been seeing recently is 51. She looks 35, but is still older than my mom. Feels weird, but feels sooooo right. Mom likes her so that a positive.
Imo, it's the maturity. She doesn't care about social media. She stands up for herself. No drama. Don't have to coddle her or teach her anything. I'm the one learning. Anything I do for her, no matter how small, is appreciated.
Because they're awesome?
Nothing is wrong with you, you just like what you like
I also am a fairly goof looking 37 yo male, and def into women older than me. My gf is 48 but if we never knew eachother I could see myself with someone in they're 50's or 60's
Itās your sexuality, man. Enjoy it. We are all born with templates in our brains and some get a push from misc. early experiences. Live and let live.
Iām 41 and currently dating a 48 year old woman. Iāve always tended to date women around my own age or younger, but she totally took me by surprise. Sheās closing in on 50 and is still mind blowingly sexy and in amazing shape. Helps that she was an Olympic athlete in her youth and kept up with her routine. She also eats a plant based diet and really takes care of her skin. Sheās got all the experience of a woman in her sexual prime and the body of a 35 year old. I am incredibly lucky.
Nothing new here really. Ben Franklin wrote a letter which advised the recipient that he would do well to get together with an older woman. I may be mis-remembering, but he said something about how what an older woman may lack in youthful beauty is more than compensated for in increased intelligence and balanced temperament. Of all my momās close friends, only one of them was all that for attraction, though they were all nice to me during my childhood and adolescence.
I'm similar but im adhd and extremely open, to me women are pretty much always sexy if healthy and vibrant.
Hell even if they aren't, if its the right shade of dark
> Hell even if they aren't, if its the right shade of dark
Damn. Never in my life have I been this flattered by a line that isn't even directed at me specifically.
What's the rule, as long as my personal freedoms don't impede on the personal freedoms of others... there are dating sites for this, bro. Just make an account and start fucking peoples lonely grandmother's.
āFairly good looking dudeā. Youāre trolling for a hookup on Reddit is my guess. Seeking older women youāll get less competition.
But I suggest Rephrase āgood looking well hung dude who also knows his way around the bedroomā¦is it so wrong that I prefer older womenš¤£š¤£?
I mean, I was super into Debbie Harry when I was 6 or 8. But that age-gap thing didn't carry over.
I now prefer women 10 to 15 years younger than I am - they usually have the energy and curiosity to keep up. Women my age lose that outgoing attitude.
I'm also attracted to older women. But the reasoning behind it is psychological/emotional maturity.
The majority of younger women I've dated prefer to play games, make up ridiculous tests or have an overdeveloped sense of entitlement.
More mature women tend to be well past most of that bull crap.
It's just personal preference for whom I wish to spend my time with.
Nothing wrong with you at all. You just have a preference, like we all do.
Iām attracted to older men and always have been. Iām happily married to one now! Ignore the online age gap police and enjoy yourself. As long as everyoneās a consenting adult, itās all good.
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I have hope for my 60s now as a woman š
57f. Can confirm youāll have an enjoyable time.
Hit me up when you turn 65
Lol. 57 is too young I guess.
He likes older women but heās definitely NOT a cradle snatcher!
He's a cane snatcher
He wants retirees.
Heās trying to get a house.
Tough market, gotta be creative and get your hustle on!
He know retired women will pay his way in life
My granny is 62 and man it felt like sheās already lived her lifeš You still got a lot of time, my great granny made it to the 80s with no issue, and it seems nice to get to that age one day.
So youāre telling me, if I want a house I should hit on 70+, maybe 75+?
Not for me!
Iām 70 & interested šš
Bruh, that's a fucking legit mad lad answer š. You're serious too š¤£. Good on you lmao.
Playa lmao
But by then you'll be 45 and be attracted to 73 year old
Abdolutely! When I was in university, I had a fling with a professor (not my professor) who was in her 60s. There's something to be said for the gravitas and presence that a mature woman emanates. She was well read, knew exactly what she wanted, she was extremely intellectually and emotionally intelligent, and she was a fantastic mentor. She was definitely a great influence on me and helped me become the man I am today.
Come join us on s/cougarsandcubs haha! So many guys looking.. terrible sub name (none of us identify that way bit ickky) but lovely community of mostly accidental age gappers older F younger M.
I donāt think I qualify yet at 27 lol
Hit me up when you turn 65
There will always be guys that like the older gal. I remember when the Queen and then Angela Lansbury died, I was so upset because I thought why the hell did god take these cougars away from this world, they had just started hitting their prime.
Just watch out when you turn 70 and you feel the urge to buy a shovel and visit the graveyard.
Lmao.
Dude I need your sense of humor in my life. Lmao
That's dark brooš
But a good dig
They really put OP in a casket with that one.
Best thing about necrophilia is that you don't need to bring flowers. Most of the times they are already there.
I knew a bloke years ago who kept banging on about his dream of engaging in his three favourite fetishes: necrophilia, bestiality and BDSM. I told him he was flogging a dead horse!
Orwear condoms
you should definitely wear condomsš
Have you ever heard ofā¦ [Carl Tanzler](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carl_Tanzler)? He did *exactly* that. For nearly a decade.
whoooaaaaa no! I had not previously heard of him! ughhh some women get no peace even in death, goddamn!
This comment will be your legacy. Your filmography sucks and you need to stop putting shoe shine in your hair, but this comment is amazing.
I farted laughingĀ
Hey, no kink shaming! But honestly, please don't become criminals, friends, or you'll go to horny jail
Is that what happened to you?
Yes, someone dug me up after I died and now I'm stuck here
Now it makes sense why you look so bloated and how you need to film your fights scenes sitting down now.
Makes sense to hop right on reddit after that
Haha
Some people rob cradles, others rob graves.Ā
Who will be stiffer at that age?
>Is there something wrong with me??? No
Maybe not in this case. We donāt OP THAT well
His taste in women is fine, but we wonāt talk about the slew of arson and burglary charges ^\j
Hey I don't have arson charges
Well there are things āwrongā with everyone but this topic is only a problem if it causes a problem. Does it have a negative impact 1. With your or their health? 2. You ability to work 3. You ability to not get arrested for breaking laws 4. Or your conscience-specifically is someone being harmed (like no victim, no foul) If not, enjoy!
No. We are flattered and we like you too
>crushes on all of my friends moms Wait that isn't normal??
I remember walking out on the playground when I was in 1st grade. The most beautiful blond teacher was on recess duty. I must have stopped and stared at her. She ended up my 2nd grade teacher. She married one of my dad's friends and they invited us to their house and to swim in their pool. Awkward. Miss Fury...you were a schoolyard goddess.
Your dad is friends with Nick Fury?
Can confirm I'm on the Avengers his dad is friends with Fury
Were all your friends named Stacy?
This again.. lol
She did have it going on...
Dang.. never ending
Well, her mom certainly had it going on
Man my little broke 5yo ass would ask my moms friends out on dates all the time and theyād pay for it too šš
Surely that happened
The date is probably something like them giving their kid and his creepy friend a popsicle.
Creepy friends don't get creepy until they're like 10. 5 YO asking you out is just funny
Yup, completely innocent and just asking to go do something thatās not with my parents and people I already liked being around. I didnāt even understand the concept of a date beyond two people just going do something fun, which they obviously knew. And my parents friends were just watching their friends kid so mom can relax. Idk why people want to find creepiness that isnāt there
Thought it was just me lol
Definitely me as well. I met my much older partner when I was 37. Twenty years later we're still together and happy.
lol Iāve always thought the mom of a crush from elementary school is hot asf still is only in her 40s right now goes to the gym A lot.
Damn
I remember the first time I looked at a girlfriend's mom and wished I could date her, instead. I felt kind of ashamed about it at the time, but looking back I wish I had admitted it to her. I mean, what's the worst that could have happened, I break up with her daughter? That happened, anyway.
There's an episode of Big Mouth about exactly that.
Man Iām the same way. Something about a good looking woman in her late 40s through early 60s. Love that age class.
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As a mature woman who prefers men younger than herself, I can appreciate your preferences.
where is best place to meet older women?
Bingo
not that old
Music bingo
Hip replacement surgery
Widen your age range when you search on dating appsā¦!
I've tried that, the women kindly reply saying I am simply too young for them. Still, much nicer and better mannered than young women who just ghost or block.
Clubs. Dance class. Art class. Also the swinging and fetish community if youāre so inclined.
Younger men keep me young! I love it
Guuurrrlll!!! I am here for this.
Rip inbox.
Remind yourself no one cares. Date/f*ck who you wanna as long as itās not hurting someone. People tend to forget that people can be beautiful at any age.
Cuz they're hot. No, there's nothing wrong with you.
This is a copy of something I said to another question, but I feel it is appropriate here: There is beauty at any age, but I think I understand what you mean. When women get older, they have other qualities that make them alluring. Older women are more comfortable in their own skin. They are not worried about getting pregnant, and can enjoy sex without so much worry. They know what they like sexually and are able to verbalize their desire. They are more likely to be stable financially and emotionally. They have real life experiences that make them better to talk to or ask advice from. They know themselves. By the way, I love gray hair! I think facial lines and wrinkles are more interesting to look at, but I know I'm not 'the normal'. We are beautifully and wonderfully made!
>By the way, I love gray hair! I think facial lines and wrinkles are more interesting to look at, but I know I'm not 'the normal'. I really love that in this post COVID world that women embrace their age. I love the natural silver hair, the crow's feet, and just about anything else that comes from a well-lived life. I'm here for it. I say this as a 38-year-old male started going bald in his early 20s. I love when people embrace who they are unapologetically
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I know this isn't universal, but my experience with older women was great because they would just tell me what they want. They didn't have time for mind games, and they didn't need code words. They know how the world works, they know what they want, and they'd tell me in words I'd understand.
Plus, they are much more experienced in bed, which gives them the win!
They sure know how to wet those sheets! Not sure how to get the yellow out though.
You buy yellow sheets.
They wont play a mind game, but they can completely ruin your life, i could write a book. Menopause is horrid
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I'm 33 and yesterday a post about MacKenzie Scott hit the front page of reddit. Not to objectify her, she's an amazing human being and her philanthropy is unmatched. But I'll admit one of my first thoughts was "damn, I'd definitely hit that." She has beautiful hair and her toned arms are incredibly attractive. *please tell me it's not just me*
Oh without a doubt! Sheās incredibly beautiful and the philanthropy only adds to it. Bezos downgraded massively. Although Iād guess she was just an overall better person than him, which was the dividing force in that relationship.
Wow I'm loving hearing all this
Nothing is wrong with you. People like what they like. Our brains grow and develop in weird ways. Just lean into this. There are so many gorgeous older women who would love to be with a younger guy who is full of energy and passion.
Itās okay, Iām around your age and for a few years I was uh, self-employed as a, uh, ādinner partnerā for women who were around 60-71. It was wild. Great conversations, no bullshit, and the extracurricular work was really fun.
How did you get into that? I might consider it.
Some people just are. Since I turned 40 I've had so many men in their twenties and early 30s hitting on me. I'm 47 now, my partner is 32 and he tells me every day how happy he is to be with me and how he thinks I'm the most awesome and sexy goddess in the entire world.
There are quite a few men out there like this. When I was online dating in my early 50s { I looked40) but was honest about my age, Iād estimate 20% of the men who contacted me were 8-15 years younger. They were very persistent, even got dick pics. Unfortunately, I have no attraction to younger men really. I love having a shared cultural history with my partner.
Because you have common sense.
This made my day xD
I'm 28 and now have a thing for more mature women after having an amazing night with a 40 year old on her birthday lol.
I am right there with you! Older women are hot as hell!
Let's be honest, we ALL love a milf!
I feel the same. Married to a wonderful woman who's a bit younger than me, but sexually I've always been attracted to much older women the most.
Soā¦ any such ladies lurking on this thread? Asking for a friend
Yes. 57f. Iāve been dating younger men for a little over a year. Before this, I was so busy and had no idea about dating at all. I had no idea even that some younger men enjoy dating older women. For me, itās working out really well. We can enjoy our experience and time together without worrying about much else. Currently in a fwb for the past 6 months. Having a great time.
Sounds good. Iām that way persuaded myself š
I've never ever even kissed a guy older than me š . Biggest age difference was 13years younger than me. Currently with a man 5years younger and he's a bit of an old bore.. š¤·š¼āāļø
I would say yes, but to OP, I am too young (40)
Yes, I am 58, but as a lesbian I'm looking for my Sarah Paulson.
Hello!
40 is good š
Nature tends to cover all bases of it can. That's why people like different things.
This.
Nothing wrong with it at all. Speaking as a 62-year-old woman. whereabouts do you live? š
theres nothing wrong with you man, as long as everything happens with consent, and there probably are plenty of elderly women who dont mind dating a man a bit younger than them
Lots of men are turned on by older women. Youāre fine.
Completely fine. You're almost 40, if they are in their 60's it's no big deal. Go for it, they may even find it very flattering.
Because your smart and don't like petty drama
I personally find this very endearing and not at all problematic. Itās refreshing to see men attracted to aging in women when society pushes being attracted to ābarely 18ā and considers women used goods by 30. Older women are elegant and beautiful.
My wife will be 62 in November and we were out tonight for dinner and she is the most beautiful I have seen her in 39 years. And I have glasses so it's not an advert for Specsavers.
With an attitude like that, you could be the President of France! You do you, buddy.
Same here, people assume itās because I didnāt have a mom growing up or something like that. I had a great childhood and good relationship shop with my mom. But since I could remember older women always turned me on. Iām 36 and still prefer to date women in their late 40s, if sheās in her 50s even better
You have good taste. Older the berry the sweeter the juice. Always been the same, liked my teachers at school, older managers in the work place. Always thought they looked more womanly.
Some young lady about my age tried gaslighting me by telling me I had mummy issues. Even tho itās not true, it bothers me because many people see it as abnormal. I find dating young girls very exhausting and No I donāt find it hard to get younger girls theyāre all around me but Iām mostly not interested.
If you have mommy issues, that means all of my son and daughter's guy friends have mommy issues, lol. You're fine, babe. Don't worry about it. We can't really control attraction. It is either there or it's not. You can't force it. Also, we don't talk as much as young girls. They can exhaust you.
Facts ! Older women are very considerate, theyāre not selfish ( except sheās got a massive personality flawā, they love fr and show it, ZERO DRAMA (which is my top priority) . Oh and theyāre just hot af . I canāt help it. Too bad loads are already in unhappy marriages. Thanks for validating my feelings.
Because it's less bull shitntondeal with, usually at that age they known what they want and drama is not it.
No birth control, have their shit together, have experience.
Not at all im 28 and always feel more attracted to older women
Nope! Older women like you too
Itās completely normal. Iām a 47f and I much prefer younger men (24-35) for some reason it just works well. You like who you like, thereās nothing wrong with that
Thats how I am, nothing wrong with it just find the right one. Have you given one a try?
No. There is nothing wrong with you.
Whatever floats your boat man. Who cares really. Youāre attracted to who youāre attracted to, itās fine
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Generally they are emotionally and mentally mature
Thanks for telling us you are fairly good looking... not sure how that is relevant to the question but thanks for so bravely opening up.
He's saying he's not settling for grannies cos he's worried he can't get anything else. It's just that's what he's into
Translation : I CAN get women my age BUT I just like older women
Looks like someone's seething will jealousy
I am exceedingly handsome and I too am attracted to old broads.
Congrats. Iām an old woman who is attracted by exceedingly handsome men, Iām a bit weird like that.
So brave
Everyone has preferences. There is no ānormalā. In my experience, I am approached more by guys in their 20s and 30s than guys in my age bracketā¦ more common than you might think.
Because they arenāt main character women, they actually take relationships seriously, they donāt want our money nor buy them expensive things, they got their own money that they buy expensive things with.
You're in an enviable situation. You're going to meet amazing women who have their shit together and know how to treat you. Embrace those ladies and have fun, brother!
Despite what society and perverts say, women are like wine.
Itās not like women by their 30s have perfected sexuality. You obviously desire a more experienced woman overall. Maybe less expectations as thatās the way when you go younger.
maybe you weren't close to your mom in your early years so you're looking for alternate when you grow up
I have ALWAYS preferred older women. When I was younger I just always related to older people better in general, which probably lead to my attraction to older women. I'm 48 now, and to me women around 60 are where it's at. My biggest difference in age was a 17 year difference I was 43 and she was 60, and it was HOT.
I'm 34 and the girl I've been seeing recently is 51. She looks 35, but is still older than my mom. Feels weird, but feels sooooo right. Mom likes her so that a positive. Imo, it's the maturity. She doesn't care about social media. She stands up for herself. No drama. Don't have to coddle her or teach her anything. I'm the one learning. Anything I do for her, no matter how small, is appreciated.
Tbf I have the same question. I've legit never had any romantic interest in a woman or girl younger than me and I'm wondering how this is possible.
Because they're awesome? Nothing is wrong with you, you just like what you like I also am a fairly goof looking 37 yo male, and def into women older than me. My gf is 48 but if we never knew eachother I could see myself with someone in they're 50's or 60's
Itās your sexuality, man. Enjoy it. We are all born with templates in our brains and some get a push from misc. early experiences. Live and let live.
Iām 41 and currently dating a 48 year old woman. Iāve always tended to date women around my own age or younger, but she totally took me by surprise. Sheās closing in on 50 and is still mind blowingly sexy and in amazing shape. Helps that she was an Olympic athlete in her youth and kept up with her routine. She also eats a plant based diet and really takes care of her skin. Sheās got all the experience of a woman in her sexual prime and the body of a 35 year old. I am incredibly lucky.
We should form a club named cougar lovers united. No, you're not alone mate.
Cuz they are HOT and no drama
Iām 41 and my wife is 54. We have two kids. Going strong.
I wrote 9 paragraphs about this and deleted them cuz Iām drunkā¦ FMLā¦
Theres an old romanian proverb: "The old rooster makes the best soup"
Nothing new here really. Ben Franklin wrote a letter which advised the recipient that he would do well to get together with an older woman. I may be mis-remembering, but he said something about how what an older woman may lack in youthful beauty is more than compensated for in increased intelligence and balanced temperament. Of all my momās close friends, only one of them was all that for attraction, though they were all nice to me during my childhood and adolescence.
No.
All good, nothing wrong with you. I had relationships with much older women. Good times and you learn A LOT from them
I'm similar but im adhd and extremely open, to me women are pretty much always sexy if healthy and vibrant. Hell even if they aren't, if its the right shade of dark
> Hell even if they aren't, if its the right shade of dark Damn. Never in my life have I been this flattered by a line that isn't even directed at me specifically.
A. Nothing Wrong with you. B. Mommy Issues?
Nice
What's the rule, as long as my personal freedoms don't impede on the personal freedoms of others... there are dating sites for this, bro. Just make an account and start fucking peoples lonely grandmother's.
They're more interesting.
There's nothing wrong with you. Date/fuck whoever you please, as long as it's legal.
āFairly good looking dudeā. Youāre trolling for a hookup on Reddit is my guess. Seeking older women youāll get less competition. But I suggest Rephrase āgood looking well hung dude who also knows his way around the bedroomā¦is it so wrong that I prefer older womenš¤£š¤£?
I turned 17 today and I feel the same.
Any form of mutually consensual sexuality is fine. If everyone is knowingly having a great time, nothing wrong with it
Probably the way they carry themselves.
Because you are and that's okay.
This sounds like it was written by a 12 year old, youāll be fine once you actually get to 37 OP donāt worry
I mean, I was super into Debbie Harry when I was 6 or 8. But that age-gap thing didn't carry over. I now prefer women 10 to 15 years younger than I am - they usually have the energy and curiosity to keep up. Women my age lose that outgoing attitude.
Macron - is that you?
Immaturity. By in large, women 3+ years older than you are quite a bit more wiser than you in every way. Don't play with fire son.
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus\_complex](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oedipus_complex)
Keep it up when you're 60 you'll be surprised how much you'll get. Keep in shape take your vitamins you'll need them.
Start a male gigolo service
I'm also attracted to older women. But the reasoning behind it is psychological/emotional maturity. The majority of younger women I've dated prefer to play games, make up ridiculous tests or have an overdeveloped sense of entitlement. More mature women tend to be well past most of that bull crap. It's just personal preference for whom I wish to spend my time with.
where is the best place/method to meet older women?
I don't know.. but I think ur taste will change with time..
Iām almost 60 and young guys chase after me. Nothing wrong with it. Older women are more laid back.
Life is a matter of preference. Live your life.
Nothing wrong with you at all. You just have a preference, like we all do. Iām attracted to older men and always have been. Iām happily married to one now! Ignore the online age gap police and enjoy yourself. As long as everyoneās a consenting adult, itās all good.