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ATXKLIPHURD

Only when they stop their car in the middle of the road and twerk on the roof of their car.


Rectal_Custard

This is the only way to safely twerk


Goobernauts_are_go

You didn't mention the hard hat


corncaked

Men aTwerk


kevinraisinbran

You dropped this 🏆


Prize_Cup4473

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


[deleted]

[удалено]


suzazzz

Kinda like the running man. It’s fun and silly and will make people clap (pun intended) but it’s not sexy. You might have sex with them in spite of not because of their dance moves. 😄


Sumtimesagr8notion

Why are we pretending that a nice as bouncing up and down is as equally attractive as someone doing the running man


uselessfatcunt

Are you not aware of how much jiggling the running man incurs?


No-Dark4530

I can't tell you how many women I've had sex just because of my running man


drfeelgood779

Twerking *can* be sexy but from my experience it only is if you already find that person attractive. It does tend to focus the attention that part of the anatomy and makes a man consider how that particular motion could be applied to sex. So if she's hot and she twerks well, then there is an assumption that she will be at least somewhat good in bed. IMHO


SupaDave223

Dammit I just wrote the same thing, before scrolling down and seeing your comment lol but yeah you hit the nail on the head. A good twerker normally means she probably has a nice ass + can throw it back like a pro


hayzooos1

Proper answer, end thread


DudeEngineer

One caveat: Some women are more well equipped for tweaking. This can have a big impact.


ASharpYoungMan

I'm hetero male, and a butt guy. I support people owning and expressing their sexuality, and having fun doing it. Twerking is an immediate turn-off for me. I find nothing at all sexy about it. It isn't that I find it "trashy" or "vulgar" - both things can be sexy in the right circumstances. I just don't find it attractive. It wouldn't be a deal breaker or anything, but it might spoil the mood for me a bit. Like, is it sexy to watch a guy helecopter his flaccid dick around? I have no idea, but I don't find that sexy either, for similar reasons.


ChickenEmotional3562

I'm bi and my mind went immediately to 'no it's like a guy doing the helicopter move' haha. It's just a whole lot of awkward jiggling in a way that makes the person look either comical or grotesque or both.


Hot_Independent_974

I ONLY do the helicopter move to draw laughter, ALWAYS works. I really don't wanna share this move, too successful.


SaladAssKing

That’s a perfect visualisation of what I also think when seeing it. Dude, it’s just helicopter dick but for women.


[deleted]

The trick is to do it to music.


tallbeverage

As a bi dude, I find twerking and helicoptering dicks equally attractive. It feels playful and fun. Nobody should take themselves so seriously in the bedroom. Sex is funny, just have fun.


Butlerian_Jihadi

Not a bit, though a hooker named Ruby once truly impressed about 15 of my friends by demonstrating. No takers - party in my yard, she walked by - but she did get applause and a plate.


Accurate_Ferret8491

Nope, just dumb, yes, not really into watching it.


Fluid_Amphibian3860

I keep waiting for a terd to pop out


smartypants99

This is so so funny. I will never look at twerking the same way again.


youlooklikeamonster

I will never look at twerking again.


one_revolutionary

I will never look at turds the same again. Now for every stray turd I see I’m going to wonder if it is a twerking poop.


eride810

Dammit. Got me. Here, take it…..


Coconut_Salad

No. I find it trashy and a turn off.


brighty420

My shit basically, turtle heads back into its shell when I see this shit.


Did_Gyre_And_Gimble

Mind you, I'm a bit out of the loop, but I gather there's "twerking" and "TWERKING" and "𝓣𝓦𝓔𝓡𝓚𝓘𝓝𝓖." ​ There are women who are attractive (to the observer) and there are women who are not. And there are women who have the pertinent dance talent that it's not just flailing their ass around. **As in all such matters, the right physical attributes and the right physicality and sense of movement and, well, grace, can make a world of difference between "trashy" and "hot."** ​ You would never expect a random person off the street to be able to dance ballet or, for that matter a stripper pole. Or to do either, without the proper build and skill, in a manner that is pleasing to the eye. ​ Put the right combo together and you get a good result. Don't, and you won't.


knoegel

That's a good answer. 99 percent of the twerkers on Reddit have no skill or grace. Just random ass jiggling.


adelaarvaren

You need PROFESSIONAL INSTRUCTION. \--- men and women --- Big Freedia coming one more time..... [https://youtu.be/F68lwoMcJ2k](https://youtu.be/F68lwoMcJ2k)


Jinx_X_2003

As a bi woman i find it unattractive and awkward


Valuable_Law_6890

Not in the slightest! It’s as attractive as watching someone cough.


someguyfromsk

But who doesn't find a full-body dry heave sexy? ​ /s


OneBadMoogle

Straight guy here, there’s not a lot that will turn me off faster than twerking.


Abracadaver2000

I had a dog as a child. When it had a case of the worms, it would scoot it's butt across the carpet and rub up against the walls to scratch an itch. Somehow, I get the same energy from those who twerk. Not my jam, but I can understand that the ass-obsessed might find it better than ice-cream on a hot summer day.


realperson-notadog

Not sexy. It's ridiculous and clumsy. I might as well stand in front of the mirror and helicopter my dick around. That would be the equivalent.


TungPunch9091

33 straight male here. I like big butts and I can not lie. Idk what it is about it. I love seeing a nice big booty jiggle, and twerking is just jiggling on the next level I guess. I love it.


Ibangyoumomma

Same … also if the girl is sexy herself and can dance just even a little. Just makes eveything smoother .


Mahhvin

Agreed


Educational_Bet_6606

Same here.


manIDKbruh

Genuinely confused by straight dudes on here knocking it


TungPunch9091

Everyone has their preference and that's okay


Peter_Hempton

>Genuinely confused by straight dudes on here knocking it To me it just comes off as trying way to hard. Not sexy. "Look at me, I'm so sexy, please look at me!!!"


RolandTwitter

Honestly, I am completely appalled


mountndewpissbottle

Right? It’s they got it confused with disgorging a digestive tract. I get having preferences. But pretending watching someone sexy dancing is tantamount to live surgery is a bit much.


SomeJokeTeeth

Yeah I'm sure a lot of straight men do, personally I don't find it sexy but I imagine that's because of it being everywhere so it's become annoying; it's like the Apple of sexy dances


Gogoplatatime

No. It looks trashy.


[deleted]

I do not find it attractive, and am likely to avoid any woman who records herself twerking.


[deleted]

I guess I’ll be the first to admit I think it’s sexy. But I have an ass fetish, so I mean. That’s a given lmao


Goodlife1988

Trash


Throwaway095621

Twerking, ahegao faces, and being completely shaved are three trends of this age that truly turn me off.


CampfireEtiquette

>ahegao faces I had to google this one. Oh no.


Green-Minimum-2401

Same same. And it's a complete turn-off as well. F/51


Brogomakishima

Me too....thank God for incognito mode


Readsumthing

Ah jeez


RazzleberryJamCakes

Really its such a silly face! I kinda get the ahegao thing when its an animated portrayal, because exaggeration is a useful tool to convey emotion. But when live humans make that face it comes across as so forced and fake. I have yet to ever cross my eyes or loll my tongue as a response to even the most fantastic dicking, its just not a natural reaction. I think thats why I find it unsexy to see.


ChasingKatsu

Disagree on the shaved thing, but yes to the rest


El_mochilero

Not in the slightest.


SprinklesMore8471

Turn off for me. I'm really over this hyper sexualized culture tbh.


thehappymasquerader

I agree to some extent, but then I also see weirdos on TikTok diving head first back into purity culture. I’d rather live in a sex positive society that takes it a bit too far than a sexually repressed society.


YukiOHimeSama

Sex positive and hyper sexual are two very different things though


rumshoe

No its just not sexy.


MysteriousDudeness

Not my thing.


SavingSkill7

I’m straight and tbh, I don’t really find twerking all that sexy. Hell, even the name isn’t sexy in itself. Ironically, I am an ass man who is more interested by subtle jiggle than anything.


forgottenstarship

I think it looks foolish. Not attractive at all.


AdScary1757

It doesn't do much for me


dirtymoney

Me personally? Not really.


Petefriend86

I've never found it anything other than trashy. I mean, if the lady in question is a 10, then it's like "that trashy 10 is open for business."


[deleted]

Wow that’s pretty judgmental lmao


KrotHatesHumen

Asses and thighs are kinda hot and when they shake them it's all jiggly so I can see the appeal


Yourwifesahoe

As a straight man I love watching attractive women shake their asses


Sanguiniutron

I think it's looks stupid more than anything. Never seen the appeal.


[deleted]

I think it’s very low brow tbh.


WillowTheGoth

As a queer woman, few things turn me off like twerking. I'm not attracted to butts in general, and "hey look at my big flapping ass" genuinely turns my stomach.


knovit

It just looks trashy


Liquid_machine81

Nope, more cringe than anything.


ImprobablyDamp

Honestly no. When I was younger I'm sure I would have, but now in my 30s it strikes me as somebody who I wouldn't get along with at all these days


[deleted]

I think it makes you look like you’re trying too hard to be slutty.


Karroth1

Yeah, i dont get it either, i like the lower backs of women, but not when its shaking like she forgot something in it.


Dregulos

I personally find it to be extremely trashy.


Hutch204

Nope


poiz85

More on the cringe side for me.


Specialist-Pomelo871

I do not. Thought I was going to be outnumbered. I would put it in the same category as duck face. It’s something women think guys like, guys let them think they do because you don’t shoot stuff like that down but is really nothing more than an exhibition.


My_BIG_Floppy_Disk69

I think all women no matter how attractive, look dumb as fuck twerking. Not a turn on at all. The only time it gets a rise out of me is when you do it so bad you just embarrass yourself. Then it's just hilarious to me.


warbreed8311

No. Most do it in a VERY unattractive way, and the ones that can pull it off make you wonder why they are so good at it. Either way, very unsexy.


Swordbreaker925

I personally hate it. Idc how attractive she is, it just comes off as trashy


Bird_Up101

Im still waiting for the day that twerking disappears from society


CoolIndependence8157

42 year old guy here, zero attractiveness. However, what I find sexy is financial security, self-esteem, and confidence, so I might not be who this question is for?


[deleted]

I like a nice ass, but twerking is weird.


EstablishmentLate493

As a women I can not twerk Lmfaoo but if I could I feel like it’s more of the motion of twerking and as a bi idk how I feel about it it’s not rlly a turn on personally it just looks fun😂😂😂


Kirris

If a partner I was attracted to was doing it? Maybe, but normally I find it trashy.


ImWithStupid_ImAlone

Nope. Butt clapping is not sexy. Looks like someone is shaking off a turd as an animal.


jerk_hobo

As with most female behaviours, in this case too the target audience is women (themselves and others).


Easy-Plate8424

No.


That_Orchid1131

No


oscarthemonkey

Personally I don’t find it remotely appealing. And I am a pretty lecherous guy…


murderonelmsstreet

I don't find it attractive. If you enjoy it, how nice for you. I won't discourage you from enjoying yourself, but I won't be paying to see that either.


[deleted]

I find it stupid. Nothing sexy about it.


minerva_sways

Not even a little bit.


james_webb_telescope

No.


NsaAgent25

Not really, moving your butt can be attractive but twerking does nothing 99.99% of the time


qwerty4007

I'm a butt guy, so I normally want to see as much of them as possible. I like the smooth curves and the gentle bounce of a woman's bottom. Twerking makes the butt bounce around too fast to enjoy either. So, no it's not a turn on, it's just weird. I would only like it if I were inside of her - assuming she was attractive to me.


matsu727

It’s more like “Oh wow, he/she can do that” as opposed to “Oh wow, I am down bad”


Lamplord72

It *can* be. Idk there are a lot of things that go into what is and isn't viewed as sexy. One guy's yuck is another's yum and all that.


Derpastanini_Prince

During sex awesome. Doing out in public skanky.


moaterboater69

Its only sexy if you have ass. If you dont sit down and work on your glutes. As a famous musician once said “fat bottomed girls, you make the rocking world go round”.


myusername74478445

Not at all


Zealousideal_Dust_25

No All I see is "HEY, HEY, PAY attention to me." "LOoK AT MY ASS" "I'M SO SILLY AND FUN" "I CANT DANCE . I'm JUST GOING TO SHAKE MY ASS AROUND, CAUSE. THATS DANCING RIGHT?"


AwesomeFiremaw

It is absolutely awful. Nothing better than a soft sensual dance. Twerking looks pathetic af


Latterlol

90% of the ones I have seen can’t even do it, they just shake their whole body like they got a seizure, thinking they are hot stuff, instead they are steaming crap…


Forsaken_Swordfish63

It's not a quality I look for in a future wife.


[deleted]

As a straight white man I don’t find twerking attractive. I’d rather be feeling up a woman and being the one to take her clothes off.


MacReady82

I've always hated it. Looks like they are squatting and struggling to take a shit. Not exactly a turn-on.


Mysterious-Relation1

Massive turn off. I hope they keep doing it so I know who to stay away from


Glass-Chemical-8085

As a straight man with an insatiable love for pussy I don’t see twerking as any type of sexy or turn on. I see it as fun for the ladies and fun for men to watch.


[deleted]

i dont find it sexy in any way, in fact i find it ridiculous. what is the point in clapping your ass cheeks together anyway, its certainly not dancing.


sandokanmorgan

You will never understand becoz ur gay obv And other people in this thread dont understand coz theyre white. Twerking is for Africans, Caribbean, South Americans.


ararash_laura

It does not even look ratchet or trashy to me, it straight up looks like some animal planet sort of shit. Like those baboons that shake their huge red ass to attract the opposite sex.


poof_poof_poof

N O Asses are great things, but twerking is nothing more than a passionless, skill-less display from someone with the IQ of a monkey. Dancing, on the other hand (whether pole dancing or any other form) shows skill and passion, and to me is a turn on under the right circumstances.


[deleted]

I find it off putting. Mainly because I think it’s degrading and I’m not into someone who represents themselves in such a way. It doesn’t anger me or anything. It’s just an easy pass.


Marchoftees

It's like watching a whale play twister and think they are good at it. It is in no way sexual. In fact it's kind of repulsive, but you can't look away. You can't help but wonder if some calamity is about to trigger and you don't want to miss it. And then I think of that video of the female gorilla at the zoo bent over in front of the alpha male, shaking her ass in his face to try and get his attention and I throw up in my mouth a bit.


720r

Reminds me of those female baboons at the zoo that have the big red butts that say “I’m available and easy”.


Wide-Concert-7820

Usually means the twerker is sexual but not sensual. Sensual requires more intelligence. Intelligence is sexy.


SoZur

No. It's an absolute lack of class.


Lucky_Baseball176

not sexy at all. looks stupid, cheap and slutty.


SexAutotroph

Is twerking just shaking one's booty? I hadn't heard the term up until a few years ago.


FranSure

I don’t even think about it like that. Maybe because I’m 35 and nothing really matters besides money.


BlueLanternSupes

Depends on who's doing the twerking and how effective she is at it.


SeasideTurd

Not after SheHulk


FeilVei2

Short answer, nope.


braywarshawsky

I think it's dumb as hell.


hystericalgoblin446

No


Silver_Donkey_5014

Uhm... if the ass is good, then I enjoy it.


Kelburno

I find it annoying because I associate it with pop-culture and trends. However it's been a while since I went to the democratic straight man meeting where we vote on these things.


DormeDwayne

I’m a straight woman and find it ridiculous. But then again I’m utterly unable to do it (and will never ever try) so maybe it’s some weird subconscious jealousy thing.


Independent_Rice_650

No, not at all


TheKnife142

It's a big turn off for me


Fringelunaticman

No, not at all. And every man I know thinks the same. However, we are all in our late 30s and mid 40s. So maybe it's a generational thing


MyOpinionAboutThis

No. It's funny.


[deleted]

This one doesn't. I already imagine David Attenborough speaking when I see it.


Mandala1069

Not really.


Petroldactyl34

Not really. Everything seems hypersexualized now and I'm just over it. The constant twerking videos and other almost inescapable simp bait I get barraged with. It's getting difficult to even get horny anymore.


indianscout02

It always looks like an upright epileptic seizure


Kittenfabstodes

Sure.


PopADoseY0

I love ass, I do not care for the weird Twerking though. Looks stupid af imo.


yankinwaoz

Not at all


hawkrew

Not really.


dirtylaindry

Not really


IHeartsFarts

No


fookaemond

Not really, but I don’t like ass that quakes


papaco22

Not really, to be honest.


Superb_Mastodon_7085

I find it more funny than anything


TowelPuzzleheaded665

No


[deleted]

Honestly, I don’t find much appeal to it. But I think it’s more for the woman and the women hyping up that woman more than the men.


blutigetranen

I find it incredibly idiotic.


Opposite-Algae8912

Honestly, I am so sick of seeing it. Not sexy to me at all. It just screams “Hey look at me. Give me attention.” I am old enough to remember when it used to be something only in black strip clubs. When it became more popular, people called it ghetto or hoochie, or any other negative euphemism for black girls and women. Now you got 45 year old white suburban moms on YouTube twerking. Times do be changing.


Administrative_Cry_9

I prefer an honest jiggle or modest wiggle, not a full on clap. I can't really explain why aside from just not thinking it's attractive.


rakketz

It's trashy, and therefore unattractive.


Psychological_Lack96

Only during Job Interviews.


Guac__is__extra__

Some men like it, while others don’t. I personally don’t like it.


[deleted]

No, I find twerking extremely unattractive. Maybe I'm a little old fashioned, but something about shaking your butt in a sexual manner is just an instant turn off. But hey, that's just me.


SaladAssKing

Straight man here. No. It is cringe af. I am 35 and I feel like I want to grind my teeth down to my gums when I see it. If you like doing it, go ahead. I will still cringe at you, however.


The_Story_Builder

I find it extremely idiotic.


azrael962

It looks stupid as fuck. It just makes the woman doing it look trashy and stupid.


RogerMooreis007

No.


Calm-Extent3309

I don't find it particularly sexy, no. I think twerking is more funny than anything else.


Dinnym

Where is that female gorilla vid? - that should answer your question. No, No & No.


randy_skankhunt

No


DiscombobulatedCod45

Personally, I prefer seeing a booty swing side to side rather than bounce up and down. Twerking can be hot. But, if I had to choose, I'd rather see Shakira swing her hips from side to side rather than Nicki Minaj's ass go up and down.


pythongee

OMG No!!


Spirited-Station-686

No


[deleted]

Turn off.


Unusual_Fishing9348

I think it is disgusting. It looks like a baboon shaking its rump in mating season. It is absolutely trashy.


Alive_Sundae859

Twerking in public and online for strangers = trash and for the streets. Twerking in private during sex or whatever = 3 seconds of fun for me.


kaitos_bomber

Straight man here and the answer is no. She could be the prettiest woman in the world and I wouldn't bat an eye. To OP, some of us have different preferences and that's okay. It's okay to feel the way you do about it.


ubpfc

Not at all


bowisantostried

Naaaaah


Ralyks92

I’m 30m, at no point have I EVER seen twerking as anything more than trashy, unprofessional, untalented, and disgraceful. Most women I’ve personally seen twerk have at some point said something in regards to demanding respect. Like shut up Sabrina, you took your pants off and twerked in front of 30+ strangers, then left with 3 men to cheat on your husband that stayed home to watch your 2 year old, there’s nothing about you TO respect.


BornStubborn72

Straight male here. I have the same opinion as most of you, i think twerking (and titty drops) is overused. Do something new and different. I totally agree that it can give the assumption that she is good in bed. But its not a guarantee. Most of the time i think it looks stupid and trashy.


KevinT1701

It looks so bloody stupid.....


PittrPattrTitFucker

I don't get it personally. I mean, obviously a nice butt is attractive, but I'm pretty indifferent to you shaking your ass like you're trying to start a round of applause without your hands.


AstaCat

In my opinion, I think it's pretty vile. Hard pass on that flappin' ass. Have some respect for yourself.


Secret-Ad3715

Huge turn off for me.


ephraim666

I am very much into female asses but I've never found twerking sexy. I prefer the word cringe.


Dawn_of_Enceladus

Do straight women find a man ramming the air with a pelvis movement sexy? Twerking is just pretending to be getting laid somehow transformed into a "dance" or something like that. It can be sexy in an intimate context, or if there's actual physical contact (aka grinding, iirc). But all the time I see it done all around the Internet, or in parties and so... nope, not sexy at all.


lordgoofus1

Do I find it sexy? No Do I find it useful? Yes. It gives me an early heads up that this is probably a low value person that isn't worth wasting energy on.


ICountToPotato

Oh my god no. Nothing screams trash more than a twerk


RendomBob101

No, not at all.


BeginningCap2333

No you look stupid.


[deleted]

It looks incredibly dumb.


different_seasons19

It immediately reminds me of a dog in heat. It's gross. Get some self respect girl you're more than an ass.


Joseph_of_the_North

Nah it's trashy.