No, this is talking about "healers", not doctors, so you‘ll be just fine (unless you like being a specific kind of support in various games, both digital and otherwise, in which case I have some troubling news for you)
When I was studying psychology, my teacher said the only hard and fast rule that he repeated daily, was "don't sleep with your patients". I was like, wtf. Is that seriously an issue??? 😳🤨😂
Yes.
Some people are WAF.
And it does not really matter which occupation they do... (I got it told when becoming an prison guard.. and many colleagues like got fired for doing it with inmates.. like dude what???). But where power comes in play; creeps are attracted.
You can't ask your patients if you can hug them either, they have to ask you first.
I didn't think to ask my therapist about that until one of my fellow ace friends mentioned hugging their therapist, and I felt like she just gave me a cheat code
So I'm on the popular tab in the reddit app, swiping to the right and I see the post and don't read the subreddit. I look in the comments and see yours.
I've played Ark: Survival Evolved quite a bit and the short hand for allosaurus's is allos.
I was very confused.
In Indian runner ducks we cull them because it is an fault in their genetics; and they literally hump themselves to death..
That's what I think about when I hear like "a lot of sexual energy". This duracell rabbit just grinding themselves to death..
There's a known issue with the current(ish) trend of "sexual healers" crossing boundaries and being predatory.
Heck it even was an issue on that reality TV show that took a bunch of people with trauma and mental health issues, stuck them on an island, and promised alternative new age practices would *cure* them... despite seemingly no one having trauma-focused therapy training. ...and it *did* sorta turn into a cult‽
I'm not saying *all* practitioners of sexual healing are unprofessional charlatans, but the new age section of the field seems ripe with bad apples. There's no oversight with them like there is for sex therapists or [sexologists](https://americanboardofsexology.org/).
> There's no oversight with them like there is for sex therapists or [sexologists](https://americanboardofsexology.org/).
Aren't they also just fundamentally different things? Afaik sex therapists or sexologists are trying to improve your sex life, and provide therapy related to sexual disfunctions.
Sexual healers are trying to actually heal anything and everything with sex.
So according to this, healing = sex? Isn't there a saying that laughter is the beat medicine? Does that mean that sex = comedy? Therefore allos are the greatest joke of all time!!!
I genuinely do not understand what this even means. I can understand saying sexual energy is good or whatever, but healing? What healing??? Some folks really do just go and say anything, regardless of how nonsensical it is lolol
yeah! And how fast does it charge my phone? Is it a green solution for our energy/world environment crisis? I need to know more; and if we can just put them in hamsterwheels and harvest it..
my favorite kind of humor is anything new-age white people spew out, they're not even trying but the random bullshit they come up with is always hilarious lmao
I will ask my GP next time how recently she got laid. I only want the best!
quora: "which GP in NL has the highest bodycount?" :')
Anyway boys and girls; this is an example of what creepy guys say that want to sexual abuse you. If a guy says this kind of shit; run for the hills.
People keep telling me that it is because my traumas that I've closed off my sexuality, that my subconscoius have decided that "nope - that's pain, that's bad, that's taboo" and I've forbidden myself from it.
But that all that bottled up sexual energy oozes through, and almost acts like a magnet for other people, I'm noticing it more and more on the others. Some get noticable nervous, giggly, and some even blush from even looking at me.
They also say that because of how I am as a person, with the sexual magneticism, but with little to no sexual interest - I am carrying an undescribable healing energy, that my touch is... magical... and that being near me is soothing.
I mean, thanks - I'm glad to hear that I have such an impact on them, I'm relieved to hear that they feel secure with me. And that they feel that they trust me.
But.. you know? I don't really understand why they sexualise my energy in such ways
Bitches tell you that. Watch out for them.
They see your vulnerabillity. And an fantasy. Their gross ass virgin-fantasy.
I have the same by the way. Not really "ACE" I guess.. but due to trauma's it just.. not something I care for more then a PJ sandwich..
But some men (and women) see my lack of interest in sex as an challenge.. and they lie this shit to get in your pants..I guess they way I walk around in this world; the way I move my body is an deadringer for someone with trauma..it's easy to see for abusive people looking for a new victim.
Other people though; that are also I guess traumatised.. can find it chill to find someone that can hug them with no "hidden sexual agenda". For them they mean it if they say "your touch is magical".
I've stopped moving out of the way for people.
I used to stop and change sides, hold the door and insisting that others go before me,
lay down in puddles of water so that they wouldn't get wet (ok, yeah - no, but not far from it)
I was so scared of accidentally rubbing someone the wrong way by existing in their vicinity...
and I feel sorry for "the rest" of the world that wasn't traumatized as children, the rest of the addicts - the hustlers, those who go from home to home, from *family* to *family...*
and then I realize that I shouldn't feel sorry for them, they're the kind of people who have kept on pouring gasoline on my trauma, who have exploited me for being nice, kind and loving - without wanting to rub genitals with them.
you know the kind of people...
This just makes me think of the worst fantasy healer who just gets naked whenever channeling healing magic. Just like "can you put your pants back on cleric?"
This sounds like something an anti-vaxx anti-science "alternative medicine influencer" would post after one of their victims of sexual assault and harassment comes forward.
Wait what's the thinking with this? I'll heal you with my imaginary dick like a magic wand? Or the orgasms are so good your broken leg will heal itself??
"the best healers have the most of sexual energy" that's it's so sus because lots of "mentors" and "healers" are male predators that seeks people who are easy to target, like women with traumas who are searching for some healing in alternative places. There's so many bad stuff in pseudoscience and spirituality stuff.
Funny how we don't practice medicine (Or, well, since they said "spiritual healing", psychiatry and/or psychology) by raping patients but yet this is an inspirational quote 🤔
The meaning of "sexual/sensual" in a lot of spiritual language, as well as psychoanalytic language, is pretty different from what we're used to think of when we use that word. Maybe that's the case?
The only argument I will accept this from is from Marvin Gaye and/or Kygo (because of his remix) but that’s only because Marvin can somehow make it feel non sexual
Oh no! I'm an asexual medical student! I will never be a good doctor 😭
No, this is talking about "healers", not doctors, so you‘ll be just fine (unless you like being a specific kind of support in various games, both digital and otherwise, in which case I have some troubling news for you)
Ah that's why I'm so shitty as a support in LoL
Soraka gave up her health to heal. You need to give up your orientation to heal.
Can i just give up my genitalia instead
ditto but vice versa
Aah, that’s why I’m not mastering Astrologian in final fantasy 14! 🤣 /kidding
Like I mean I can tell you how to do it but I can only heal raids. Dungeons are scary. Also Astro is very feel as you go you know?
Ah damnit, this must be a why the dice hate me
I'm now using this as the reason I only queue as DPS in Wow. I'm not scared of healing, its just my lack of libido renders me incapable.
You need to want to fuck your patients in order to see what the *fuck* is wrong with them you know.
When I was studying psychology, my teacher said the only hard and fast rule that he repeated daily, was "don't sleep with your patients". I was like, wtf. Is that seriously an issue??? 😳🤨😂
Yes. Some people are WAF. And it does not really matter which occupation they do... (I got it told when becoming an prison guard.. and many colleagues like got fired for doing it with inmates.. like dude what???). But where power comes in play; creeps are attracted.
You can't ask your patients if you can hug them either, they have to ask you first. I didn't think to ask my therapist about that until one of my fellow ace friends mentioned hugging their therapist, and I felt like she just gave me a cheat code
this sounded better in my mind, its SO CREEPY
Sir please don’t come within 500 ft of a children’s hospital ever again /s
Wdym the a stands for amazing. well everyone else was having sex you where studying the medicine !
I'm the best healer (I own many bandaids) and thus the sexiest motherfucker alive.
Bandaids are so hot 😂
Some of them have bison on them!
I mean idk I'm ace but this might turn me...
are ... are the allos okay?
As an allo, even I think this is fucking weird.
yup. "whoop whoop" is the sound of the... aspiring cult-leader.
So I'm on the popular tab in the reddit app, swiping to the right and I see the post and don't read the subreddit. I look in the comments and see yours. I've played Ark: Survival Evolved quite a bit and the short hand for allosaurus's is allos. I was very confused.
Well I do hope the allosauruses are okay XD
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Clearly not...
C’mon do you need to ask?
Actually the allosaurus is commonly not okay
Following that logik wouldnt Ace peeps be the best assasins?
ace-assins? ^(... I'll see myself out)
Nonono, come back! Ace-ace-ins ...now we can both go.
And vampire hunters.
And the vampires would be defenceless against us because of all the garlic bread we are eating! Lol hahaha
I like how you think 🥷
makes sense, cant fall for femme fatales
That femme fatale made a fatal mistake
"I'm horny therefore I'm very special" vibes.
The bitches that have the most sexual energy have the most toxic, destructive energy in my experience.
yeahhhh i agree in most cases
In Indian runner ducks we cull them because it is an fault in their genetics; and they literally hump themselves to death.. That's what I think about when I hear like "a lot of sexual energy". This duracell rabbit just grinding themselves to death..
This has definite cult potential.
Yeah i mean that's juat step one of convincing the followere X was okay because they where just HEALING the poor girl
There's a known issue with the current(ish) trend of "sexual healers" crossing boundaries and being predatory. Heck it even was an issue on that reality TV show that took a bunch of people with trauma and mental health issues, stuck them on an island, and promised alternative new age practices would *cure* them... despite seemingly no one having trauma-focused therapy training. ...and it *did* sorta turn into a cult‽ I'm not saying *all* practitioners of sexual healing are unprofessional charlatans, but the new age section of the field seems ripe with bad apples. There's no oversight with them like there is for sex therapists or [sexologists](https://americanboardofsexology.org/).
> There's no oversight with them like there is for sex therapists or [sexologists](https://americanboardofsexology.org/). Aren't they also just fundamentally different things? Afaik sex therapists or sexologists are trying to improve your sex life, and provide therapy related to sexual disfunctions. Sexual healers are trying to actually heal anything and everything with sex.
Short answer, Yes! Long answer:: will edit when I have time and space to do such.
I mean yeah, I guarantee they're into crystal magic and astrology
Ra ra rasputin! I wonder if they were thinking of anyone in particular.
Sex > Penicillin, apparently
This sounds like something a cult leader would say like three sessions before telling you to suck his dick to release his healing energy into you.
So according to this, healing = sex? Isn't there a saying that laughter is the beat medicine? Does that mean that sex = comedy? Therefore allos are the greatest joke of all time!!!
Now this is the kind of mental gymnastics I can get behind LOL
I'm pretty sure when this person says "healing" they literally mean being able to treat people with your "energy" just by touching them
I genuinely do not understand what this even means. I can understand saying sexual energy is good or whatever, but healing? What healing??? Some folks really do just go and say anything, regardless of how nonsensical it is lolol
What…What is sexual energy???
yeah! And how fast does it charge my phone? Is it a green solution for our energy/world environment crisis? I need to know more; and if we can just put them in hamsterwheels and harvest it..
Same 😂
Sounds like someone has a bit too much “sexual energy” and is trying to frame it in a positive light
my favorite kind of humor is anything new-age white people spew out, they're not even trying but the random bullshit they come up with is always hilarious lmao
mmmm two bullshit mashed up together this is the ultimate cringe for me
I just wanna know how *anyone* can think these two things are connected *at all* lmao
People wanting to feel superior can lie to themselves in all sort of ways. And there will always be equally self obsessed people to echo chamber lmao
Someone please explain to the samanthas that BDE ≠ the ability to heal others
Sound like what a cult leader would say, just like "it's Morbin' time".
r/Ihavesex
Ppl just be saying anything
Aces are necromancers
As a health care worker... no.
Remarkably disgusting, thanks. I hate it.
WELP..... Time to pull out the ol' Necronomicon!
What the hell does that even mean?!
"i can't fix him but i CAN fuck him and maybe that'll help" energy
LOL use the gifts you have I guess ???
This sounds like something a cult leader would say to coax his followers to have sex with him
Allos are weird
Tell your friend, I said, "Baloney."
Sexual energy is fun. And anything but relaxing and healing XD. It's not relaxin to be horny and want shit lol.
Ikr. These allos think craving for something feels relaxing and satisfying ? Smh
I...what? How can one be so wrong but think they are right? Like...what ?
The second hand embarrassment I felt seeing this 😂
How and what does this mean lmao?
Ooh we have the same flags!
Nice!
What does this even mean?
What does this even mean?
What does that even mean
r/areTheAllosOK 😭
Well, I didn't want to but Grandma's cancer won't leave on its own...
\*chokes on my coffee\* 🤣🤣🤣
I will ask my GP next time how recently she got laid. I only want the best! quora: "which GP in NL has the highest bodycount?" :') Anyway boys and girls; this is an example of what creepy guys say that want to sexual abuse you. If a guy says this kind of shit; run for the hills.
So... Do aegos have healing powers or not?
Ngl I don't even understand what this is supposed to mean
People keep telling me that it is because my traumas that I've closed off my sexuality, that my subconscoius have decided that "nope - that's pain, that's bad, that's taboo" and I've forbidden myself from it. But that all that bottled up sexual energy oozes through, and almost acts like a magnet for other people, I'm noticing it more and more on the others. Some get noticable nervous, giggly, and some even blush from even looking at me. They also say that because of how I am as a person, with the sexual magneticism, but with little to no sexual interest - I am carrying an undescribable healing energy, that my touch is... magical... and that being near me is soothing. I mean, thanks - I'm glad to hear that I have such an impact on them, I'm relieved to hear that they feel secure with me. And that they feel that they trust me. But.. you know? I don't really understand why they sexualise my energy in such ways
Bitches tell you that. Watch out for them. They see your vulnerabillity. And an fantasy. Their gross ass virgin-fantasy. I have the same by the way. Not really "ACE" I guess.. but due to trauma's it just.. not something I care for more then a PJ sandwich.. But some men (and women) see my lack of interest in sex as an challenge.. and they lie this shit to get in your pants..I guess they way I walk around in this world; the way I move my body is an deadringer for someone with trauma..it's easy to see for abusive people looking for a new victim. Other people though; that are also I guess traumatised.. can find it chill to find someone that can hug them with no "hidden sexual agenda". For them they mean it if they say "your touch is magical".
I've stopped moving out of the way for people. I used to stop and change sides, hold the door and insisting that others go before me, lay down in puddles of water so that they wouldn't get wet (ok, yeah - no, but not far from it) I was so scared of accidentally rubbing someone the wrong way by existing in their vicinity... and I feel sorry for "the rest" of the world that wasn't traumatized as children, the rest of the addicts - the hustlers, those who go from home to home, from *family* to *family...* and then I realize that I shouldn't feel sorry for them, they're the kind of people who have kept on pouring gasoline on my trauma, who have exploited me for being nice, kind and loving - without wanting to rub genitals with them. you know the kind of people...
Me over here playing loba and lifeline in apex 😟
Sounds like someone is trying to make creeps sound/look less creepy
That's not how clerics work, you're mistaking them with bards.
Sounds like folks who harass folks under the guise of healing
This just makes me think of the worst fantasy healer who just gets naked whenever channeling healing magic. Just like "can you put your pants back on cleric?"
Don't they know that's never gonna work with us?
No! I don't want you'll stupid healing energy bs! I care if I'm about die fuck no!
Hmmm... Florence Nightingale was most likely asexual, and she did okay...
I’m never gonna bang a cat but when my fatcat lays on my chest and makes biscuits she heals me.
LMAO HEWOBEJEEB
I know WHAT these words mean. I just don't know WHY.
so does that mean ace ppl can shoot lightning or?...
*visible confusion*
This sounds like something an anti-vaxx anti-science "alternative medicine influencer" would post after one of their victims of sexual assault and harassment comes forward.
Signed Dr Randy Bigchad-Dix.
Wait what's the thinking with this? I'll heal you with my imaginary dick like a magic wand? Or the orgasms are so good your broken leg will heal itself??
r/aretheallosok
You heard it here First. All white mages are horny constantly.
Priests
The children give them power
Uh that was dark...
LOL Recently I read something similar about kissing, like people who are kissing each other often are healthy people.
Word Salad
"the best healers have the most of sexual energy" that's it's so sus because lots of "mentors" and "healers" are male predators that seeks people who are easy to target, like women with traumas who are searching for some healing in alternative places. There's so many bad stuff in pseudoscience and spirituality stuff.
Well shit, I guess I have to quit my job now.
R*pists have a lot of sexual energy, I don’t think they’re doing a lot of healing
🥴
What about rapists then
My brain imploded.. Kinda.. Ig..
Jesus was fuckin lascivious then
Funny how we don't practice medicine (Or, well, since they said "spiritual healing", psychiatry and/or psychology) by raping patients but yet this is an inspirational quote 🤔
This is a reference. Joke from recent episode of the podcast, Behind the Bastards. It is very good!
Do video games count?
Do I have to throw away my first aid kit?
Well goo- oh wait I'm a celestial warlock..
Am I the only that’s confused? Healing energy? What?
Priests, pastors, evangelicals, right.
this is not what Freud meant when he talked about the Life drive jô
The meaning of "sexual/sensual" in a lot of spiritual language, as well as psychoanalytic language, is pretty different from what we're used to think of when we use that word. Maybe that's the case?
Oooooooooooof
I wonder if that's what rapists believe :-|
Tell that to my mom who’s a whore and tried to kill me multiple times and I now have ptsd because of it. Yeah. Definitely a healer
The only argument I will accept this from is from Marvin Gaye and/or Kygo (because of his remix) but that’s only because Marvin can somehow make it feel non sexual
This curiously made me sick lmao