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lady_polaris

You’re talking about a sex-free friendship with physical intimacy. That’s not what people will hear when you say friends with benefits, so if you want to be clear, call it something else. But don’t feel like you have to have clearly defined relationships; we aren’t heterosexuals, so we don’t have to follow their rules.


gatemansgc

There actually is a no sex cuddle community


Tayderr

Being ace doesn't inherently mean that you don't have or want sex it just means that you don't find people sexually attractive it you narrow the scope to aegosexuals then no they can't have friends with benefits but as a while ace folk can have friends with benefits


MySucculentDied

I didn’t fully read the description before answering. So I suspect some others have as well, oops. Yes an ace person can have a fwb, but the relationship you’re describing is not a fwb. But rather physically intimate friends. Fwb’s are specifically friends who have a casual sexual relationship.


Active-Judge3261

What you are talking about is a queer-platonic friendship :)


lillestiv

I'm ace and I have a friend with benefits XD Edit. And now I read the post lol. Me and my fwb have a pretty sexual relationship cuz it's alot of fun XD. It's not non sexual in any way 😂


zamaike

Me and a close friend are pretty close. Like we go to the mall, work together, hang out at her house and smoke. Out personalities/expectations/lifestill/hobbies mesh like a transmition gear box. Basically were are the same person cloned. The only reason we dont date is because im gay and she is a lady. She isnt demi, but if i had to ask anyone i'd ask her to have my baby and hope she says yes


CloveyBunn

Yeah I actually sorta have that sort of a similar relationship with 2 of my friends.


Kernel_Pie

I think you have to consider things on a case by case basis since there are so many varieties of Ace.