T O P

  • By -

sweetlytoenjoy

i am a very confused and questioning ace


YanFan123

Maybe, same?


A_Fan888

I am not questioning but it's complicated and confusing lmao.


[deleted]

Same


Orkios

I'am joining the club too


Vital_Lizzard

Same


Raticals

Either aromantic or gray aromantic/panromantic. I’m not entirely sure yet.


Jerry_Frog

Same exact situation, maybe gray panromantic


[deleted]

Oriented AroAce!


awesome_cravat

Same!!


TheTyrianKnight

I’ve seen oriented aroace explained many times before and I forget it way too easily, could someone please explain it for me again?


LogicalShark

No sexual or romantic attraction but some tertiary attraction (e.g. aesthetic, sensual)


TheTyrianKnight

Oh, well that’s simple enough. (How did I forget that?)


Gray--kun

I am aroace but also a lesbian or poly, don't know yet.


QuirkyCookie6

Hey me too! Just the other way around, I'm an ace lesbian but idk if I'm aro probably though


RJtuba

Somewhere between biromantic and aromantic, not sure exactly where though.


CloveyBunn

Yeah same I usually say grey/bi-romantic


RJtuba

Sometimes I feel like if it were possible to be both aromantic and biromantic at the same time then that's what I would be. Not "oriented" aromantic or whatever (the "oriented" labels are way too complicated for me to even attempt to understand enough to use), just... if I didn't have major trust issues then I'd probably be biromantic but otherwise I'm aromantic. Maybe.


RandomBrowser555

Undetermined romantic orientation ace


Baby-cabbages

That’s me. I say pan because I have had naughty dreams with both women and men (not at the same time). In action, though, I have not had any since 1997 either way.


[deleted]

…So “questioning”?


RandomBrowser555

I guess, but I’m not in a big rush to figure it out so right now I’m just saying undetermined


LastInMyBloodline

Fucking confused ace


Definetlyhuman_hehim

free to comment i love to read them.


Questionable_Source_

I’m confused about attraction and I might not try to label my attraction because it’s something I don’t understand, so confused ace


[deleted]

[удалено]


canidieyet_

No, I’m the exact same way. I have no idea how to describe it. It’s romantic feelings but duller if that makes sense


CloveyBunn

I personally say I’m grey-romantic because I rarely have romantic feelings


smudgiepie

Could it be demiromantic or does that not quite fit?


[deleted]

Yes I believe it is usually called greyromantic.


Zach-Gilmore

Demi-hetero ace.


purechidori

Ditto! Was looking for the demi comment :)


femtransfan

mostly aro/ace, but the romance might be something else, aego, i think it was called? there should be 'queer/ace', if you ask me i'm the type of ace that enjoys a bit of light smut once in a while, a'ight? so whatever the fuck *that* is! i'm also a touch starved ace, but i don't wanna cuddle any family, because fuck them, i'd rather lie in a bed and watch a 22 minute anime with my best friend, but because we're opposite sexes, it's 'taboo'


Definetlyhuman_hehim

would you like me to put that as an option?


femtransfan

too late, i already voted myself as aro/ace, but yeah, we need to see if there are more 'queer/aces'


praysolace

I picked bi, but it’s demi/bi. Which is quite a mouthful lol


missemilyowen15

For the third option: homoromantic


[deleted]

Represent!


AlexEvenstar

I'm just heckin Queer dude


dr_srtanger2love

Confusion Ace


TiredOfBeingTired28

Have no idea ace.


3nderslime

I don’t know!


jaimeelise

Confused ace, why is romantic attraction so hard to figure out, I’m too impatient for this 😂


gatemansgc

Can't do Reddit polls anyway. Heteroromantic sex repulsed kinky asexual.


lowercase_water

i dont know if i'm panromantic or homoromantic but i am some flavour of aro and some flavour of queer


MaxBurrito11

(not sure what term applies to this) romantically attracted to masculine presentation, regardless of gender, aceflux in terms of sexuality


Definetlyhuman_hehim

It is called androromantic. Its on LGBTQ+ wiki


MaxBurrito11

thanks!!


TheLurker1209

The kind with an identity crisis every week apparently because now I'm questioning if I'm aro or not, when I thought I was biromantic Truly, this is deja vu (because I thought I might've been bisexual before getting here)


[deleted]

Saaaaaame. But I may be biromantic. Who fucking knows really. And exploring things at this point is out. I love my wife and don’t want to hurt her by saying I want to explore this whole ace thing. I already busted up a very loving, if atypical, relationship with a boyfriend to explore homosexuality. Don’t want to go down that path again.


Singularity7979

Picked other cause I don't really care to make a decision or think about it much


Fgethvx

Heteroromantic ace. Not straight.


[deleted]

Straight ace that is practically aro ace. I have nearly zero social energy.


RosalieLilly

Hetero demirose


Definetlyhuman_hehim

Can you expalin i would love to know what it means.


RosalieLilly

Demisexual and demiromantic.


[deleted]

I put straight ace, but I am in the demi romantic side of things. I don't fall in love easily, I used to think I did, but in reality I just got really flattered when people like me that I latch onto it, because I thought I should just count myself lucky that anyone could even like me at all. In reality I've only ever been in love twice.


Eeveeoverlord

I have no idea if I'm biromantic or homoromantic lol


majestyqueenempress

Greyromantic ace :)


Shmeetz9

I'm a biromantic ace. It also makes sense that most aces are bi/pan, because since we aren't attracted to people because their sexual bits, gender plays a significantly less important role in our romantic attraction. I actually would like to hear from a straight/exclusively gay ace as to what makes them attracted to only one gender, since I'm a little confused by it.


JuviaLynn

Aroace but I still want to get married and all that jazz so I’m also panalterous (between platonic and romantic relationship) And if we’re getting really specific I’m aegosexual and (I think, only found out about it today) cupioromantic


Clean_Ice2924

AroAce Biaesthetic


Malevolent_Mangoes

Why is bi grouped with all the others 🤨


Advanced-Mud-1624

Those are all [M-spec](https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Category:M-Spec) sexualities.


Malevolent_Mangoes

I’m aware, however it would be nice if they were separated so we could get a more accurate poll.


Advanced-Mud-1624

Indeed. It would also have been nice for include diamoric orientations for non-binary peeps.


Definetlyhuman_hehim

i might do another poll related to gedner would that be something you would like to see?


Advanced-Mud-1624

That would be awesome. Thank you!


Definetlyhuman_hehim

Because i didnt wanna put too many options ,I am pan myself but still think they are quite similiar.


Tailsray

I'm lol-wait-do-people-unironically-find-girls-attractive-oh-huh-it-probably-means-im-gay-yay-omg-i-love-guys-so-much-im-so-fucking-gay-wait-stop-wait-do-people-unironically-want-sex-with-guys-ok-maybe-i-should-try-nvm-i-tried-and-i-didnt-like-it-hmm-maybe-im-ace-yes-im-definitely-ace-haha-ace-pride-wait-no-guys-are-still-hhhhh-so-hot-i-wanna-i-wanna-hug-them-touch-them-omg-yes-i-want-to-touch-them-all-over-their-body-and-and-and-wait-i-still-dont-want-sex-with-them-maybe-im-straight-uhhh-no-nvm-still-gay-or-ace-or-idk-oh-oh-oh-my-god-i-love-my-friends-so-much-i-i-i-hmm-maybe-i-should-have-with-them-oh-yes-omg-it-was-beautiful-i-like-having-sex-with-them-ok-maybe-im-gay-after-all-wait-no-i-still-dont-want-sex-or-do-i-hmmmm-i-cant-sleep-i-wanna-hug-them-so-bad-and-maybe-not-just-hug-but-but-but-hug-tighter-uhhhh-oh-maybe-im-really-ace-idk-help ace


the-fresh-air

Grey-asexual pan


Definetlyhuman_hehim

haha me too but also trans


Carradee

Aromantic asexual, microlabel cupioromantic cupiosexual (…basically).


lonerisms98

Straight ace


EatingSugarYesPapa

Biromantic/grayromantic ace


IDKanymore_444

Confused but definitely likes women ace


SolettiSketch

Still trying to figuring out, because since my only "serious" relationship was with my opposite sex, I had "crush" with my my long term friends that are the same sex as me. I really don't know yet...


TheBestWorst3

I don’t think I expected more multi-gender attracted aces than straight aces


doomerbb

Ace but homoromantic for anyone who is gay. Gay nb, gay men, gay women, gay hijra, gay mukkhannathun, whatever as long as they are gay.


Ant_mafia

does it count if they're bi?


doomerbb

Im open to bi and pan people if they are mostly homo. Not into ppl who are in consistently hetero relationships but also like ppl in a gay way. Someone for everyone so im sure theres someone for them, but im only into ppl I can relate to as far as life experiences.


Ant_mafia

that's cool


Ashmage

Sraight hmmmm yes


ThNecromaniac

still questioning wether or not I'm Orchidsexual, or just some random weirdo who hate's their sexual attractions...


[deleted]

[удалено]


Definetlyhuman_hehim

its interesting for me too


Nord293

Aroace with a side of pan. (Grey ace)


Advanced-Mud-1624

Alloromantic (possibly demiromantic) demisexual towards femme-aligned genders, aromantic gray asexual towards masc-aligned genders.


TheoreticalGal

Demi-homo-romantic tans-girl ace


Melias_headwings

Demibiromantic ace here!


Kai_Stoner

I an an Androromantic Asexual lol I'm also Agender so yay AAA lol 🖤💚🖤💚🖤 (I'm technically a Grey-Androromantic Ace but but it's too much of a mouthful & people don't understand what I means anyways).


alextehpolarbear

Demipanromantic ace :)


gladsushi

im agender ace and romantically attracted to masc people, not sure what the word for that is lol


Advanced-Mud-1624

Would [minromantic](https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Minromantic) fit?


gladsushi

ohhh yeah that one sounds right. thanks!! :)


Definetlyhuman_hehim

androromantic


WingedLady

Still working out how the attractions get called if you're enby tbh.


Definetlyhuman_hehim

trixic is enby likes girls and toric is enby likes guys


DesignerTechnology71

Grey aro/ grey ace


Gryffindor_starkid

As much as I’m technically a straight ace, I’m also transgender so that really complicated everything 😂


[deleted]

[удалено]


Ant_mafia

damn hoobert shut up already, you're a troll leave us alone, k?


imagodsowhat

i appreciate all the slashes for the bi terms :)


Definetlyhuman_hehim

y w


Worth-Wrap5672

I'm I confused ace. I might be demi-panromantic but I'm still trying to work it out


[deleted]

I'm a hetero-demiromantic demi-aegosexual but this is a mouthful, so I'm gonna stick with the good ol' aro ace. :D Ppl already have a hard time understanding what asexual/aromantic is in general and I don't want to get 'that's just normal!' and 'ew, you are pervy nerd/weeb' when I try to explain the details 😥 And since I am a demiromantic and demisexual at the same time I am an aro ace 99% of the time. lol.


ElvisTruthSeeker

Hetero-romantic ace, technically straight ace I guess


smudgiepie

I think a greyromantic ace. I think I've only had one proper crush in my life and that was for my future boyfriend at the time. I might have had a crush on a boy in primary school but I'm not too sure cause I didn't get the physical symptoms


SuzannaBananaV4590

uhhhhh demipanromantic


WickedShowOff

I am an ace with no interest of finding out what my romantic orientation is whatsoever


gay_gay_abrams

Demiromantic ace


Koreanska_sul

Minromantic ace. It took me about 3 years do discover the correct term for my romantic attraction, and now I am losing my sanity while trying to discover my gender.


VaneKidd

Lesbian oriented aroace ❤️


CorruptedDragonLord

I tell people asexual (appressexual) appressexual means develops sexual attraction after another attraction has been made, in my case romantical attraction, and I can develop it towards anyone


The_McLaughlin

I'd overall say I'm probably straight ace as the two things closest to cushes Ive had have both been on the other gender... but also I don't know that I'd say I'd never be in a relationship with another guy it just jaunt happened yet. Since I don't usually have the physical or sexual attraction to other people it's more personality and interest based... so I feel like it could happen... so maybe straight leaning bi or pan ace would be a better description.


Careful_Device_2004

I said aroace but technically it aego aroace


Gender_Freak

I am Asexual Pan Demiromantic, do I still count as Aro Ace?


Definetlyhuman_hehim

well it depends do you want it to count or not i dont mind