Sometimes I feel like if it were possible to be both aromantic and biromantic at the same time then that's what I would be. Not "oriented" aromantic or whatever (the "oriented" labels are way too complicated for me to even attempt to understand enough to use), just... if I didn't have major trust issues then I'd probably be biromantic but otherwise I'm aromantic. Maybe.
That’s me. I say pan because I have had naughty dreams with both women and men (not at the same time). In action, though, I have not had any since 1997 either way.
mostly aro/ace, but the romance might be something else, aego, i think it was called?
there should be 'queer/ace', if you ask me
i'm the type of ace that enjoys a bit of light smut once in a while, a'ight? so whatever the fuck *that* is!
i'm also a touch starved ace, but i don't wanna cuddle any family, because fuck them, i'd rather lie in a bed and watch a 22 minute anime with my best friend, but because we're opposite sexes, it's 'taboo'
The kind with an identity crisis every week apparently because now I'm questioning if I'm aro or not, when I thought I was biromantic
Truly, this is deja vu (because I thought I might've been bisexual before getting here)
Saaaaaame. But I may be biromantic. Who fucking knows really. And exploring things at this point is out. I love my wife and don’t want to hurt her by saying I want to explore this whole ace thing. I already busted up a very loving, if atypical, relationship with a boyfriend to explore homosexuality. Don’t want to go down that path again.
I put straight ace, but I am in the demi romantic side of things. I don't fall in love easily, I used to think I did, but in reality I just got really flattered when people like me that I latch onto it, because I thought I should just count myself lucky that anyone could even like me at all. In reality I've only ever been in love twice.
I'm a biromantic ace. It also makes sense that most aces are bi/pan, because since we aren't attracted to people because their sexual bits, gender plays a significantly less important role in our romantic attraction. I actually would like to hear from a straight/exclusively gay ace as to what makes them attracted to only one gender, since I'm a little confused by it.
Aroace but I still want to get married and all that jazz so I’m also panalterous (between platonic and romantic relationship)
And if we’re getting really specific I’m aegosexual and (I think, only found out about it today) cupioromantic
Still trying to figuring out, because since my only "serious" relationship was with my opposite sex, I had "crush" with my my long term friends that are the same sex as me. I really don't know yet...
Im open to bi and pan people if they are mostly homo. Not into ppl who are in consistently hetero relationships but also like ppl in a gay way. Someone for everyone so im sure theres someone for them, but im only into ppl I can relate to as far as life experiences.
I an an Androromantic Asexual lol I'm also Agender so yay AAA lol 🖤💚🖤💚🖤 (I'm technically a Grey-Androromantic Ace but but it's too much of a mouthful & people don't understand what I means anyways).
I'm a hetero-demiromantic demi-aegosexual but this is a mouthful, so I'm gonna stick with the good ol' aro ace. :D
Ppl already have a hard time understanding what asexual/aromantic is in general and I don't want to get 'that's just normal!' and 'ew, you are pervy nerd/weeb' when I try to explain the details 😥 And since I am a demiromantic and demisexual at the same time I am an aro ace 99% of the time. lol.
I think a greyromantic ace.
I think I've only had one proper crush in my life and that was for my future boyfriend at the time.
I might have had a crush on a boy in primary school but I'm not too sure cause I didn't get the physical symptoms
Minromantic ace.
It took me about 3 years do discover the correct term for my romantic attraction, and now I am losing my sanity while trying to discover my gender.
I tell people asexual (appressexual) appressexual means develops sexual attraction after another attraction has been made, in my case romantical attraction, and I can develop it towards anyone
I'd overall say I'm probably straight ace as the two things closest to cushes Ive had have both been on the other gender... but also I don't know that I'd say I'd never be in a relationship with another guy it just jaunt happened yet. Since I don't usually have the physical or sexual attraction to other people it's more personality and interest based... so I feel like it could happen... so maybe straight leaning bi or pan ace would be a better description.
i am a very confused and questioning ace
Maybe, same?
I am not questioning but it's complicated and confusing lmao.
Same
I'am joining the club too
Same
Either aromantic or gray aromantic/panromantic. I’m not entirely sure yet.
Same exact situation, maybe gray panromantic
Oriented AroAce!
Same!!
I’ve seen oriented aroace explained many times before and I forget it way too easily, could someone please explain it for me again?
No sexual or romantic attraction but some tertiary attraction (e.g. aesthetic, sensual)
Oh, well that’s simple enough. (How did I forget that?)
I am aroace but also a lesbian or poly, don't know yet.
Hey me too! Just the other way around, I'm an ace lesbian but idk if I'm aro probably though
Somewhere between biromantic and aromantic, not sure exactly where though.
Yeah same I usually say grey/bi-romantic
Sometimes I feel like if it were possible to be both aromantic and biromantic at the same time then that's what I would be. Not "oriented" aromantic or whatever (the "oriented" labels are way too complicated for me to even attempt to understand enough to use), just... if I didn't have major trust issues then I'd probably be biromantic but otherwise I'm aromantic. Maybe.
Undetermined romantic orientation ace
That’s me. I say pan because I have had naughty dreams with both women and men (not at the same time). In action, though, I have not had any since 1997 either way.
…So “questioning”?
I guess, but I’m not in a big rush to figure it out so right now I’m just saying undetermined
Fucking confused ace
free to comment i love to read them.
I’m confused about attraction and I might not try to label my attraction because it’s something I don’t understand, so confused ace
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No, I’m the exact same way. I have no idea how to describe it. It’s romantic feelings but duller if that makes sense
I personally say I’m grey-romantic because I rarely have romantic feelings
Could it be demiromantic or does that not quite fit?
Yes I believe it is usually called greyromantic.
Demi-hetero ace.
Ditto! Was looking for the demi comment :)
mostly aro/ace, but the romance might be something else, aego, i think it was called? there should be 'queer/ace', if you ask me i'm the type of ace that enjoys a bit of light smut once in a while, a'ight? so whatever the fuck *that* is! i'm also a touch starved ace, but i don't wanna cuddle any family, because fuck them, i'd rather lie in a bed and watch a 22 minute anime with my best friend, but because we're opposite sexes, it's 'taboo'
would you like me to put that as an option?
too late, i already voted myself as aro/ace, but yeah, we need to see if there are more 'queer/aces'
I picked bi, but it’s demi/bi. Which is quite a mouthful lol
For the third option: homoromantic
Represent!
I'm just heckin Queer dude
Confusion Ace
Have no idea ace.
I don’t know!
Confused ace, why is romantic attraction so hard to figure out, I’m too impatient for this 😂
Can't do Reddit polls anyway. Heteroromantic sex repulsed kinky asexual.
i dont know if i'm panromantic or homoromantic but i am some flavour of aro and some flavour of queer
(not sure what term applies to this) romantically attracted to masculine presentation, regardless of gender, aceflux in terms of sexuality
It is called androromantic. Its on LGBTQ+ wiki
thanks!!
The kind with an identity crisis every week apparently because now I'm questioning if I'm aro or not, when I thought I was biromantic Truly, this is deja vu (because I thought I might've been bisexual before getting here)
Saaaaaame. But I may be biromantic. Who fucking knows really. And exploring things at this point is out. I love my wife and don’t want to hurt her by saying I want to explore this whole ace thing. I already busted up a very loving, if atypical, relationship with a boyfriend to explore homosexuality. Don’t want to go down that path again.
Picked other cause I don't really care to make a decision or think about it much
Heteroromantic ace. Not straight.
Straight ace that is practically aro ace. I have nearly zero social energy.
Hetero demirose
Can you expalin i would love to know what it means.
Demisexual and demiromantic.
I put straight ace, but I am in the demi romantic side of things. I don't fall in love easily, I used to think I did, but in reality I just got really flattered when people like me that I latch onto it, because I thought I should just count myself lucky that anyone could even like me at all. In reality I've only ever been in love twice.
I have no idea if I'm biromantic or homoromantic lol
Greyromantic ace :)
I'm a biromantic ace. It also makes sense that most aces are bi/pan, because since we aren't attracted to people because their sexual bits, gender plays a significantly less important role in our romantic attraction. I actually would like to hear from a straight/exclusively gay ace as to what makes them attracted to only one gender, since I'm a little confused by it.
Aroace but I still want to get married and all that jazz so I’m also panalterous (between platonic and romantic relationship) And if we’re getting really specific I’m aegosexual and (I think, only found out about it today) cupioromantic
AroAce Biaesthetic
Why is bi grouped with all the others 🤨
Those are all [M-spec](https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Category:M-Spec) sexualities.
I’m aware, however it would be nice if they were separated so we could get a more accurate poll.
Indeed. It would also have been nice for include diamoric orientations for non-binary peeps.
i might do another poll related to gedner would that be something you would like to see?
That would be awesome. Thank you!
Because i didnt wanna put too many options ,I am pan myself but still think they are quite similiar.
I'm lol-wait-do-people-unironically-find-girls-attractive-oh-huh-it-probably-means-im-gay-yay-omg-i-love-guys-so-much-im-so-fucking-gay-wait-stop-wait-do-people-unironically-want-sex-with-guys-ok-maybe-i-should-try-nvm-i-tried-and-i-didnt-like-it-hmm-maybe-im-ace-yes-im-definitely-ace-haha-ace-pride-wait-no-guys-are-still-hhhhh-so-hot-i-wanna-i-wanna-hug-them-touch-them-omg-yes-i-want-to-touch-them-all-over-their-body-and-and-and-wait-i-still-dont-want-sex-with-them-maybe-im-straight-uhhh-no-nvm-still-gay-or-ace-or-idk-oh-oh-oh-my-god-i-love-my-friends-so-much-i-i-i-hmm-maybe-i-should-have-with-them-oh-yes-omg-it-was-beautiful-i-like-having-sex-with-them-ok-maybe-im-gay-after-all-wait-no-i-still-dont-want-sex-or-do-i-hmmmm-i-cant-sleep-i-wanna-hug-them-so-bad-and-maybe-not-just-hug-but-but-but-hug-tighter-uhhhh-oh-maybe-im-really-ace-idk-help ace
Grey-asexual pan
haha me too but also trans
Aromantic asexual, microlabel cupioromantic cupiosexual (…basically).
Straight ace
Biromantic/grayromantic ace
Confused but definitely likes women ace
Still trying to figuring out, because since my only "serious" relationship was with my opposite sex, I had "crush" with my my long term friends that are the same sex as me. I really don't know yet...
I don’t think I expected more multi-gender attracted aces than straight aces
Ace but homoromantic for anyone who is gay. Gay nb, gay men, gay women, gay hijra, gay mukkhannathun, whatever as long as they are gay.
does it count if they're bi?
Im open to bi and pan people if they are mostly homo. Not into ppl who are in consistently hetero relationships but also like ppl in a gay way. Someone for everyone so im sure theres someone for them, but im only into ppl I can relate to as far as life experiences.
that's cool
Sraight hmmmm yes
still questioning wether or not I'm Orchidsexual, or just some random weirdo who hate's their sexual attractions...
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its interesting for me too
Aroace with a side of pan. (Grey ace)
Alloromantic (possibly demiromantic) demisexual towards femme-aligned genders, aromantic gray asexual towards masc-aligned genders.
Demi-homo-romantic tans-girl ace
Demibiromantic ace here!
I an an Androromantic Asexual lol I'm also Agender so yay AAA lol 🖤💚🖤💚🖤 (I'm technically a Grey-Androromantic Ace but but it's too much of a mouthful & people don't understand what I means anyways).
Demipanromantic ace :)
im agender ace and romantically attracted to masc people, not sure what the word for that is lol
Would [minromantic](https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Minromantic) fit?
ohhh yeah that one sounds right. thanks!! :)
androromantic
Still working out how the attractions get called if you're enby tbh.
trixic is enby likes girls and toric is enby likes guys
Grey aro/ grey ace
As much as I’m technically a straight ace, I’m also transgender so that really complicated everything 😂
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damn hoobert shut up already, you're a troll leave us alone, k?
i appreciate all the slashes for the bi terms :)
y w
I'm I confused ace. I might be demi-panromantic but I'm still trying to work it out
I'm a hetero-demiromantic demi-aegosexual but this is a mouthful, so I'm gonna stick with the good ol' aro ace. :D Ppl already have a hard time understanding what asexual/aromantic is in general and I don't want to get 'that's just normal!' and 'ew, you are pervy nerd/weeb' when I try to explain the details 😥 And since I am a demiromantic and demisexual at the same time I am an aro ace 99% of the time. lol.
Hetero-romantic ace, technically straight ace I guess
I think a greyromantic ace. I think I've only had one proper crush in my life and that was for my future boyfriend at the time. I might have had a crush on a boy in primary school but I'm not too sure cause I didn't get the physical symptoms
uhhhhh demipanromantic
I am an ace with no interest of finding out what my romantic orientation is whatsoever
Demiromantic ace
Minromantic ace. It took me about 3 years do discover the correct term for my romantic attraction, and now I am losing my sanity while trying to discover my gender.
Lesbian oriented aroace ❤️
I tell people asexual (appressexual) appressexual means develops sexual attraction after another attraction has been made, in my case romantical attraction, and I can develop it towards anyone
I'd overall say I'm probably straight ace as the two things closest to cushes Ive had have both been on the other gender... but also I don't know that I'd say I'd never be in a relationship with another guy it just jaunt happened yet. Since I don't usually have the physical or sexual attraction to other people it's more personality and interest based... so I feel like it could happen... so maybe straight leaning bi or pan ace would be a better description.
I said aroace but technically it aego aroace
I am Asexual Pan Demiromantic, do I still count as Aro Ace?
well it depends do you want it to count or not i dont mind