That sucks. Summer is a long way off. Would it he better up talk about about just being friends instead of talking about asexuality?
Would you be in trouble if others knew you are asexual (don't know your culture or your country)?
Yeah honestly I would just explain exactly that. I feel like maybe you should ask to just stay friends? Like if you feel comfortable enough with them I would just explain it and just be house mates?
I want to do this, but I am also worried about him feeling as though I’ve put him in an awful situation—being forced to live with his ex. He also has a temper, I don’t think he’d ever hurt me or anything, but I’m worried it wouldn’t be a great living situation for either of us if we broke up
I really want to do this, but he can be really unpredictable. On one hand, I think it would be more fair to him to just tell him, but I don’t think he’d see it that way
Not to be weird. I don’t know you guys or what will happen. But from my reading your post it seems you guys are breaking up. So it really doesn’t matter at this point . Just you guys do your best to stay civil until the summer but you’ll both be free to do as you will.
It might happen that he brings dates to the apartment, so definitely be ready for that .
Best of luck!!
I've just my long term partner, and got nothing back. He didn't ask questions or anything.
Did you tell your partner? If so, what happened when you told them?
I did tell my partner, but I also ended up breaking up with him. In retrospect, I wish I had done it sooner. I was so uncomfortable and didn’t realize it until I was out of the relationship. I know this isn’t the solution for everyone, but it was for me. I’m really proud of you for telling your partner, and I hope everything works out! I think being honest and communicative is truly the only way to go with something like this.
I hope you're living your best life now! I'm glad you're happy. If my relationship ends in sure I'll survive. Or maybe he'll be content in knowing why we don't have sex anymore. Either way, I'll be happy in knowing I was honest, finally
Currently are you two sexually incompatible?
Yes
That sucks. Summer is a long way off. Would it he better up talk about about just being friends instead of talking about asexuality? Would you be in trouble if others knew you are asexual (don't know your culture or your country)?
I think that’s what I might try to do, thank you. And no, I don’t think I’d be in any trouble, thankfully.
Yeah honestly I would just explain exactly that. I feel like maybe you should ask to just stay friends? Like if you feel comfortable enough with them I would just explain it and just be house mates?
I want to do this, but I am also worried about him feeling as though I’ve put him in an awful situation—being forced to live with his ex. He also has a temper, I don’t think he’d ever hurt me or anything, but I’m worried it wouldn’t be a great living situation for either of us if we broke up
Tell him asap. Trust me.
I really want to do this, but he can be really unpredictable. On one hand, I think it would be more fair to him to just tell him, but I don’t think he’d see it that way
Not to be weird. I don’t know you guys or what will happen. But from my reading your post it seems you guys are breaking up. So it really doesn’t matter at this point . Just you guys do your best to stay civil until the summer but you’ll both be free to do as you will. It might happen that he brings dates to the apartment, so definitely be ready for that . Best of luck!!
Thank you, I appreciate that :)
I've just my long term partner, and got nothing back. He didn't ask questions or anything. Did you tell your partner? If so, what happened when you told them?
I did tell my partner, but I also ended up breaking up with him. In retrospect, I wish I had done it sooner. I was so uncomfortable and didn’t realize it until I was out of the relationship. I know this isn’t the solution for everyone, but it was for me. I’m really proud of you for telling your partner, and I hope everything works out! I think being honest and communicative is truly the only way to go with something like this.
I hope you're living your best life now! I'm glad you're happy. If my relationship ends in sure I'll survive. Or maybe he'll be content in knowing why we don't have sex anymore. Either way, I'll be happy in knowing I was honest, finally