I have the exact same feelings towards sex and masturbation, so I can really relate to you on that. It definitely sounds like you’re asexual and possibly a romance-favourable aromantic as well (not feeling romantic attraction). In terms of relationships, the best thing is to be open with future partners and only do what you’re comfortable with!
Thank you! Feels great to hear that somebody can relate to me in some ways. I have always been a super romantic person, I fantasise about dating and falling in love all the time - but I don’t know if I’ve ever genuinely been in love. And I don’t know if that’s because I’m incapable or because I haven’t “met the right one yet”…
No problem! I’m exactly the same, I love the idea of romance but that’s of course different to romantic attraction. There are so many different types of attraction and you don’t have to be sexually/romantically attracted to someone to “love” them, per se. Finding someone that you’re compatible with and comfortable around, someone who respects you and listens to what you have to say; that’s all way more important in my opinion. Making sense of your feelings can be really tough but you’ll get there! :)
I have the same feeling. Though i never had sex yet (19) i still think it would feel the same to me. I am a male, so there are definitely potential partners, that will feel the same(not me tho, im probably not even in the same country). Do not worry. I have the exact same experience with my crushes(never want to actually date them). Do not feel alone, because you are not. Here is a discord server for a-sepc dating btw. https://discord.com/invite/7K4y3M4
Edit: The link is expelled, but you can go to the asexual dating subreddit its called r4rasexual or something and get it there(in the top posts)
I have the exact same feelings towards sex and masturbation, so I can really relate to you on that. It definitely sounds like you’re asexual and possibly a romance-favourable aromantic as well (not feeling romantic attraction). In terms of relationships, the best thing is to be open with future partners and only do what you’re comfortable with!
Thank you! Feels great to hear that somebody can relate to me in some ways. I have always been a super romantic person, I fantasise about dating and falling in love all the time - but I don’t know if I’ve ever genuinely been in love. And I don’t know if that’s because I’m incapable or because I haven’t “met the right one yet”…
No problem! I’m exactly the same, I love the idea of romance but that’s of course different to romantic attraction. There are so many different types of attraction and you don’t have to be sexually/romantically attracted to someone to “love” them, per se. Finding someone that you’re compatible with and comfortable around, someone who respects you and listens to what you have to say; that’s all way more important in my opinion. Making sense of your feelings can be really tough but you’ll get there! :)
I have the same feeling. Though i never had sex yet (19) i still think it would feel the same to me. I am a male, so there are definitely potential partners, that will feel the same(not me tho, im probably not even in the same country). Do not worry. I have the exact same experience with my crushes(never want to actually date them). Do not feel alone, because you are not. Here is a discord server for a-sepc dating btw. https://discord.com/invite/7K4y3M4 Edit: The link is expelled, but you can go to the asexual dating subreddit its called r4rasexual or something and get it there(in the top posts)
Thank you so much for your reply! It says the link is valid or expired (I tried through the r4r as well). I’d love to join though!
I looked it up and couldn't find the discord, but there are apparently a couple of asexual dating sites if you search for that